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Giving Thanks
Diabetes in Children
Crafting with Leaves
Useful Information for the Next Generation of Jewish Families
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ABOUT OUR CHI LDRE N NOVEMBER 2014
First breath. First smile. First steps.
Treasured moments begin here.
The MotherBaby Center at Chilton Medical Center.
Whether you are planning to start a family or adding to one, Chilton Medical Center invites you to
begin this exciting journey with us. Our MotherBaby Center encourages moms-to-be to personalize
their birthing experience in a way that makes it memorable for the entire family. We offer private
rooms with personalized visiting hours, hydrotherapy for labor, a celebratory gourmet dinner and
a Moms spa. For special care, theres a Level II Nursery with board certied neonatologists and
pediatricians available 24/7. And with caring nurses, expert medical staff, and our seamless
connection to Morristown Medical Center, its no wonder why so many women choose to have
their babies here with us, close to home.
For more information about parent education classes, please call 973-831-5475.
For a referral to a Chilton Obstetrician
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November 2014
Useful, Current, Accurate Information for Jewish Families
All the Worlds a Stage. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 6
Giving your children a love for the theater arts
Treasures from the Trees . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 8
Using leaves to make crafts and for activities
Generation G. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 10
Hitting the zoos with grandpa
Achieving Calm Parenting . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 11
The simple and not-so-simple path
Winter Traveling with the Family. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 12
Tips to making the getaway easier
Thanksgiving? Shabbat? . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 13
When the world learns about the weekly meal ritual
November is Diabetes Awareness Month. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 14
Expert doctor gives a primer on the condition
Getting Respect from Children . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 16
How to be the authority figure in your home
Simchas . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17
Life cycle events that celebrate our children
Special Needs . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 18
Big Apple Circles holds autism-friendly show
bergenPAC Performing Arts School unveils special needs program
Thanksgiving Sweets . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 20
Desserts that cap off the family feast
Top Choices . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 21
Great picks for November
Calendar . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 22
Fun things to do in November
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hree mothers. There was mine, of course.
And then there were Tinas and Scotts.
Tinas mother, affectionately and respectfully re-
ferred to by me as Mrs. Fineberg well into my adult years,
came into my life early on, when I frst visited Tina for lunch
during the school day. Tina lived a block away from our el-
ementary school and with permission we were allowed to
go home for lunch. Since my house was much farther away,
Tinas house was a cool invite. I not only got to go out of the
school building, but I also got to trade my bagged cold lunch
of a soggy tuna sandwich for Mrs. Finebergs hot spaghetti
and cheese.
My friendship with Tina deepened through the years. So
did my friendship with Mrs. Fineberg.
Sometimes I would call Tina. If Mrs. Fineberg answered
the phone before Tina could pick up the extension in her bed-
room, I would wind up in a deep and long conversation with
Mrs. Fineberg much to Tinas chagrin.
On other occasions, when I visited Tina and her mother
was home and available, I would sit in the living room and
talk, and talk and talk to Mrs. Fineberg again, much to Ti-
nas chagrin.
Mrs. Fineberg was warm, funny, open, nonjudgmental
and she was not my mother. So when I would speak to Mrs.
Fineberg, I could get a mothers perspective without the oth-
er mother part.
Scotts mother, whom I called by her shortened name,
Lynn, for Carolyn, was geographically closer to me. Scott
lived down the block from us and we too became friends in
school. In high school, I used to go down the block and visit
with Scott, hang out in his downstairs rec room, which I re-
member was decorated with a geometrically patterned funky
carpet.
As my friendship with Scott deepened, so too did my
friendship with Lynn.
I remember sitting in her kitchen, decorated with a wet-
look foral design (very chic back in the day), talking to her
about any and everything.
Lynn was warm, funny, open, nonjudgmental, and again
not my mother. So, like with Mrs. Fineberg, when I would
speak to Lynn, I could get a mothers perspective without the
other mother part.
Both women were also new world and American-born,
in sharp contrast to my Polish-born mother, whose life was
shaped by her past in Europe and experience during the
Shoah.
Little did I know that what I had, in addition to my moth-
er, whom I loved very dearly to whom I was very close, were
two bonus mothers.
When I think about my bonus mothers I feel lucky. Lucky,
that in addition to my mother, I had the input and infuence
of these wonderful women, of blessed memory.
Whats more, it makes sense that they were my bonus
mothers because I still share a deep friendship with both
Tina and Scott and feel in some ways that they are like a sis-
ter and brother to me.
Of course, with my own children, I would love to be an
uber-mother, both original and bonus version, but I know
thats not possible.
I know that it takes a village.
Cheers,
musings from the editor
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Simchas
Birth
MICHAEL KOSTANTINOS
JACOBS
Michael Kostantinos Jacobs, son
of Joshua and Kathy Jacobs of
Hillsborough, and sister of Sophia,
was born on September 13, 2014.
He weighed 6 pounds 4 ounces, and
was 18 1/2 inches long. Michael
is the grandson of Ellen and Marc
Jacobs of Fair Lawn and Helen and
Ted Siliverdis of Raritan; nephew of
Jerry Siliverdis of Point Pleasant,
and Rachel (Jacobs) and Philip
Blumenthal of Springeld, Va., and
cousin of Seth and Maya Blumenthal.
Bnai mitzvah
ALYSSA ADLER
Alyssa Adler, daughter of Stacy
and Jonathan Adler of Haworth,
celebrated becoming a bat mitzvah
on October 18 at Temple Beth El of
Northern Valley in Closter.
MAX ALBUM
Max Album, son of Kelly and Michael
Album of Tenay, celebrated becom-
ing a bar mitzvah on October 25 at
Temple Sinai of Bergen County in
Tenay.
ROBERT BAKAL
Robert Bakal, son of Miriam and
Todd Bakal of Upper Saddle River,
celebrated becoming a bar mitzvah
on October 25 at Temple Israel
and Jewish Community Center in
Ridgewood.
ROBERT BENVENISTI
Robert Benvenisti, son of Dawn
and Steven Benvenisti of Upper
Saddle River and brother of Laura,
celebrated becoming a bar mitzvah
on October 18 at Temple Beth Or in
Washington Township.
DANA BIRKE
Dana Birke, daughter of Sharon and
Steven Birke of Closter, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on October
11 at Temple Beth El of Northern
Valley in Closter.
SARAH BROWN
Sarah Brown, daughter of Laura
and Douglas Brown of Tenay, and
sister of David and Richard, cel-
ebrated becoming a bat mitzvah
on September 6 at Temple Sinai of
Bergen County in Tenay. As a mitz-
vah project, she helped deliver for
Pascack Valley Meals on Wheels and
prepared additional treats for the
recipients.
AJ CHRISTIAN
AJ Christian, son of Pam Christian
of Ridgewood, twin brother of
Michael, and brother of Jessica,
celebrated becoming a bar mitzvah
on September 13 at Temple Beth
Rishon in Wyckoff.
MICHAEL CHRISTIAN
Michael Christian, son of Pam
Christian of Ridgewood, twin brother
of AJ, and brother of Jessica, cel-
ebrated becoming a bar mitzvah
on September 13 at Temple Beth
Rishon in Wyckoff.
JAKE COSGROVE
Jake Cosgrove, son of Beth Lerner
and George Cosgrove of River Vale,
celebrated becoming a bar mitzvah
on October 25 at Temple Beth El of
Northern Valley in Closter.
PEYTON DABBY
Peyton Dabby, daughter of Shari and
Jordan Dabby of Tenay, and sister
of Wyatt and Eli, celebrated becom-
ing a bat mitzvah on September 13
at Temple Sinai of Bergen County
in Tenay. As a mitzvah project, she
raised funds to buy fun band aids
for children undergoing treatment
at Englewood Hospital & Medical
Center.
GEORGIA ROSE DANZGER
Georgia Rose Danzger, daughter of
Sharon and Neil Danzger of Tenay,
and sister of Ben, Adam, and Daniel,
celebrated becoming a bat mitzvah
on October 11 at Temple Emanu-El
of Closter. She attends the Solomon
Schechter Day School of Bergen
County.
JAKE GARBAR
Jake Garbar, son of Desiree of
Allendale, and Marc (Robyn) of
Ramsey, celebrated becoming a bar
mitzvah on October 18 at Temple
Emanuel of the Pascack Valley in
Woodcliff Lake.
SAMANTHA GARSON
Samantha Garson, daughter of
Stacey and James Garson of Tenay
and sister of Marshall, Tyler, and
Dylan, celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on September 20 at Temple
Sinai of Bergen County in Tenay.
As a mitzvah project, she volun-
teered at the Bergen Family Center
and the Animal Rescue Fund of the
Hamptons.
LUCAS GOLDMAN
Lucas Goldman, son of Shari and
Jeffrey Goldman of Tenay, and
brother of Nicole and Kelsey, cel-
ebrated becoming a bar mitzvah
on October 11 at Temple Sinai of
Bergen County in Tenay. As a bar
mitzvah project, he volunteered with
Challenger basketball and soccer
programs for special needs children.
NEVIN GULER
Nevin Guler, daughter of Helen and
Aydin Guler of Westwood and sister
of Ilay, celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on October 25 at Temple
Beth Or in Washington Township.
AIDAN HARMER
Aidan Harmer, son of Lea and Brian
Harmer of Hawthorne and brother
of Jayson, 10, and Logan, 7, cel-
ebrated becoming a bar mitzvah on
September 13 at Barnert Temple in
Franklin Lakes.
TALYA KNOPF
Talya Knopf, daughter of Rachelle
and Andrew Knopf of Woodcliff
Lake and sister of Aaron, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on October
25 at Temple Emanuel of the
Pascack Valley in Woodcliff Lake.
MAYA KOMINSKY
Maya Kominsky, daughter of Edna
and Adam Kominsky of Tenay
and sister of Matthew, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on October
18 at Temple Sinai of Bergen County
in Tenay.
ALLISON KRAMER
Allison Celia Kramer, daughter of
Rachel and Marc Kramer and sister
of Jacob, celebrated becoming a bat
mitzvah on October 25 at Temple
Beth Sholom in Fair Lawn. Her
grandparents are Vivian and David
Kramer and Bronya and Arkadi
Tauber. Helen Blatstein and Sara and
Joseph Tauber are her great- grand-
parents.
BENJAMIN MARINACCIO
Benjamin Marinaccio, son of Dina
Marinaccio of Closter, celebrated
becoming a bar mitzvah on October
25 at Temple Beth El of Northern
Valley in Closter.
JACK NAIDRICH
Jack Naidrich, son of Shari and
Steven Naidrich of Tenay and
brother of Danielle and Lauren,
celebrated becoming a bar mitzvah
on October 25 at Temple Sinai of
Bergen County in Tenay. As a mitz-
vah project, he organized a clean-
up day of a portion of the Tenakill
Brook.
NOAH RANDMAN
Noah Randman, son of Elyssa
and Gary Randman of Fair Lawn
and brother of Joshua, celebrated
becoming a bar mitzvah on October
25 at the Fair Lawn Jewish Center/
Congregation Bnai Israel.
SABRINA SADLER
Sabrina Sadler, daughter of Stacey
and Michael Sadler of Tenay,
and sister of Gabrielle, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on October
18 at Temple Sinai of Bergen County
in Tenay. As a mitzvah project, she
is raising awareness for Parkinsons
disease.
JULIA SCHWARTZ
Julia Schwartz, daughter of Lauren
and Jamie Schwartz of Woodcliff
Lake and sister of Matthew, cel-
ebrated becoming a bat mitzvah on
September 20 at Temple Beth Or in
Washington Township.
MOLLY SHULTZ
Molly Shultz, daughter of Jennifer
and Ronald Shultz of Tenay, and
sister of Sarah and Ruby, celebrated
becoming a bat mitzvah on October
11 at Temple Sinai of Bergen County
in Tenay. As a mitzvah project, she
worked on Tenay Skate Night to
support the Todd Ouida Childrens
Foundation and the Tenay
Education Fund.
JAYME SILVER
Jayme Ilana Silver, daughter of Leslie
and Michael Silver of Woodcliff
Lake and brother of Jack, 10, cel-
ebrated becoming a bat mitzvah on
October 18 at Temple Emanuel of
the Pascack Valley in Woodcliff Lake.
Her grandparents are Dr. Richard
and Fran Winters of Paramus, and
Dr. Scott and Cathy Silver of Naples,
Fla. Her great-grandparents are Dr.
Selma and the late Stanley Mitchel of
Paramus.
JESSICA SONKIN
Jessica Sonkin, daughter of Lisa and
Scott Sonkin of West New York and
sister of Brooke, celebrated becom-
ing a bat mitzvah on September 13
at Temple Sinai of Bergen County in
Tenay.
JULIA TAUB
Julia Taub, daughter of Shelley
and Ira Taub of Alpine and sister of
Sydney and Alex, celebrated becom-
ing a bat mitzvah on September 27
at Temple Sinai of Bergen County
in Tenay. She has been volunteer-
ing at the Bergen Family Center in
Englewood as part of her mitzvah
project.
BENJAMIN ZATZ
Benjamin Zatz, son of Katherine and
David Zatz of Teaneck and brother
of Zoe, celebrated becoming a bar
mitzvah on October 18 at Temple
Emeth in Teaneck.
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Big Apple Circus
Adapts Show for Audience
on the Autism Spectrum
HE I DI MA E B RAT T
T
o be so close to the extraordinary
action under the Big Top is one of
the selling points of the popular
Big Apple Circus, now playing at Lincoln
Center in Manhattan. To learn that the
non-proft organization founded in 1977
has a portfolio of do-good programs
such as Care Clown, the original hospi-
tal clowning program, is another selling
point.
Add another white feather to their
clown cap.
For the frst time this year, Big Apple
Circus is working with autism spectrum
disorder experts to adapt its latest show,
Metamorphosis, for families with mem-
bers on the autism spectrum. The au-
tism adapted show is scheduled for Nov.
18 at 6:30 p.m. (An earlier show took
place on Oct. 24.)
We really wanted to create a show
that could be enjoyed by all members
of the family and for them to come to-
gether as a family, says Dina Paul-Parks,
vice president of community programs
for Big Apple Circus.
Working closely with the Autism
Speaks and TDF Autism Theatre Initia-
tive, the show has been adapted, but will
include the same world-class artistry that
makes the Big Apple Circus what it is.
For instance, the adapted show will
have a shorter running time, 75-minutes
with no intermission, as opposed to two
hours with a 15-minute intermission.
Also, the lighting and sound will be ad-
justed to prevent extremes. The house
lights will be half up and there will be no
strobes or loud noises. There will also
be pictorial social narratives to help the
audience.
There will also be calming centers
away from the ring where children can
have quiet time if needed. The calming
centers will be equipped with fdgets
and manipulatives and beanbag chairs
for relaxation. And the staff, including
ushers, will be trained to become famil-
iar with the needs of the population.
Tickets for the autism-adapted show
are 50 percent of regular prices. To pur-
chase tickets online, http://tinyurl.com/
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Big Apple Circus also runs several
other community programs, including
Circus of the Senses, which provides
free performances to children with hear-
ing and vision impairments and other
disabilities along with their teachers,
families and caregivers. This produc-
tion uses American Sign Language in-
terpreters; live play-by-play audio via
wireless headsets; Braille and large-print
progrms and post-show touch sessions
with the artists.
In addition, its Vaudeville Caravan
brings classical circus to the elderly liv-
ing in residential care facilities. And its
Circus After School works in partner-
ship with schools and community-based
agencies, teaching circus arts to at-risk
children.
Heidi Mae Bratt is the editor of About Our
Children.
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