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UCLA won ten national championships while I was the basketball coach, and Mr.
Lawrence Scheidler played a role in all of them. How big a role did he play? Let
me tell you a story and then you can decide for yourself.
Mr. Scheidler was a math teacher back at Martinsville High School in Indiana
when I was a sophomore. Occasionally he discussed topics other that
mathematics. One day in March he instructed the class to write a paper defining
success. Mr. Scheidler wanted to get us thinking about the concept of success
and whether it just meant getting rich or famous or beating somebody in a ball
game.
Well, this got me thinking hard about the subject, and I continued thinking about it
for a long time after I completed Mr. Scheidler's homework assignment. In fact, I
reflected on it for decades.
Later, when I entered the teaching and coaching profession after graduating from
Purdue, the question continued to intrigue me because I found myself a little bit
disillusioned with what seemed to be expected from youngsters under my
supervision in classrooms.
Are You a Failure if You Do Your Best?
Parents wanted their children in my English classes at South Bend Central to
receive an A or a B even though many were not capable of earning that. The
parents judged an A or B as success and anything else as failure.
Keep in mind that most of us are about average, and C is an average grade. For
parents to think their youngster, a child who might have only average ability in
English, had failed with an average grade after performing to the best of his or
her ability seemed unfair to me.
Apparently the grade of C was all right for their neighbor's child but not for their
own. It brought to mind Mr. Scheidler's assignment: what exactly is success (and
failure)?
Did You Really Win if You Gave a Second-Rate Effort?
I didn't like these parents' way of measuring success and failure because it was
unfair. I felt a child who worked very hard, tried his or her very best, and received
a C grade had a higher level of personal success than a more gifted youngster
who got a B but didn't put forth a full effort.
I began searching for some way that would not only make me a better teacher
but give the youngsters under my supervision something to aspire to that was
more productive, more fair, and more rewarding.
"Always try to be the very best that you can be. Learn from
others, yes. But don't just try to be better than they are. You
have no control over that. Instead try, and try very hard, to be
the best that you can be. That you have control over. Maybe
you'll be better than someone else and maybe you won't.
That part of it will take care of itself."
Those were strong words. I remembered them in trying to give my students
something to which they could aspire other than just a higher mark.
I also wanted something more productive and rewarding for the athletes I was
coaching in football, tennis, basketball, and baseball. I didn't want points to be
the final measurement of their achievement or success.
It seemed to me that it was possible to win and be outscored, or to lose even
when you outscored an opponent. I thought so then and I still do.
fame, or fortune. They are all by-products of success rather than success itself,
indicators that you perhaps succeeded in the more important contest.
We are not the same in all these things, but we are all the
same in having the opportunity to make the most of what we
have, whatever our situation.
The ultimate challenge for you is to make the attempt to
improve fully and be your best in the existing conditions.
I wanted to get this idea across to the youngsters I was teaching. I wanted them
to know that making the very most of what you have is success and that it is
something you control. I wanted the athletes I was coaching to understand this
as well.
Finding the answers: The Pyramid
Pyramid of Success.
I decided that the individual blocks of the Pyramid would consist of those
personal qualities necessary for achieving success according to my definitions:
peace of mind that is the direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your
best to become the best you are capable of becoming.
faith
fighting spirit
patience
competitive integrity
greatness
resourcefulness poise
confidence reliability
adaptability
skill
condition
team spirit
honesty
ambition
self control
alertness
Industriousness friendship
initiative
intentness
sincerity
loyalty
cooperation enthusiasm