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While it has been reported that alternative health techniques have been quite effective in stress management,
the studies are yet at an experimental stage. Hence, the authors do not warrant the performance, effectiveness
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We all have the capacity to access a very different state of being. That state is called, presence, being in the now,
in the moment. When you access this state it can instantly seem as if our problems disappear. That is because
many of the issues we experience in our lives are due to the influence of events from our past and the impact
they have on our thought processes, often keeping us looked inside of our head, thinking. When you stop living
in your head and instead become present in the now, you can feel very alive and vibrant. When you are highly
present in the now, you are free in that moment from your past and future. You can experience bliss.
Inner RePatterning - A New Approach to Creating Health and Healing
This program uses at its core, a technique called Inner RePatterning. Inner RePatterning is a technique I
developed with my colleague June K Spencer to help people become more present. It also helps people release
their emotional traumas and discomfort, often in a very gentle way. Why did I develop this approach? After
having worked with thousands of people over the years it became very apparent to me that some peoples
issues were incredibly difficult to clear using conventional approaches. Also, something which was succinctly
stated by a colleague of mine is, when you look for a problem, you will always find more. Inner RePatterning
was developed to address this, to find a faster approach that did not require analysis or understanding of
the problem; instead it focuses on activating the mind/bodys natural healing mechanism. After all, does
it not make sense that with something as sophisticated as the mind/ body system there would be an inbuilt
mechanism to allow healing! We have all seen it in action. For example, when we cut ourselves, for most people
the body instantly begins a repair process. Emotional healing is no different, why should it be!
When the heart beats with a coherent rhythm it sends a vibration/ signal to every part of the mind/body system pulling them all into a coherent state. It pulls the mind into coherence. So you dont have to try to think
less or stop the internal chatter, when you go into coherence, the mind becomes quiet and still. You automatically think less!
Equally, when you go into coherence, signals are sent from the heart to every organ, every part of the mind/
body system, pulling them into coherence by a mechanism known as entrainment. Entrainment is a natural
phenomenon. Entrainment can be observed when you place two pendulum clocks in the same room. If initially the pendulums are swinging at different rates, it doesnt take long for them to fall into synchronisation with
each other. The heart sends out a signal that effectively retunes the body to the vibration or frequency of health.
Equally this happens in the mind/body system. The organs and brain entrain with the heart.
Understanding coherence and presence is the key to health and well-being. When we access the state of coherence and presence we trigger a natural inbuilt self-healing mechanism, one that is blocked when we are
focussed on our problems. When we focus on our problems we access to some degree the fight, flight or freeze
response. In this state the mind/ body perceives itself to be under threat. Feeling under threat is not the optimum state for releasing trauma and reprogramming your mind/ body. The state of coherence and balance
unblocks us. It unlocks the door to releasing our emotional baggage and as it releases, it opens the door to
health, both emotional and physical.
One of the beautiful things about accessing this state is that it should not require effort. The more effort you
put in, the more locked out you become. This is about allowing yourself to flow with the moment, letting go of
your resistance. The more you resist, the more your problems persist. Resistance is the fuel, the coal that keeps
the fire stoked.
The child who developed a need to be perfect or a dislike of making mistakes might also find themselves
procrastinating. Their need to be perfect might however come at cost causing great stress.
Although I have used the above as a typical example of the survival mechanism and its impact on the development of personality, effectively all traumas can have an impact especially if they occur in the first seven years of
your life. Traumas are not only the huge emotional events that happen to us, they can be simple things such as
criticism. In this case the criticism could be classed as a mini trauma. Mini traumas can have impact especially
if they occur repeatedly.
Repeat Patterns We Run Through Our Life
If you look at the example I gave about the child and criticism, you can see how from that simple causation the
person may have many further traumatic events happen, thus reinforcing the trauma. Now that the child is
sensitive to criticism, they may perceive many things as being criticism even if the person delivering it has no
intention of doing so.
Back to my original question, what can cause us to live in our heads rather than experiencing life? Unresolved
trauma can certainly cause this to happen. For example, someone who is labelled as anxious, typically lives
within their mind running thought processes such as, What if this happens?, what if that doesnt work or goes
wrong?. As a consequence of these thoughts they feel fearful. This behaviour is caused because at some point
they have experienced trauma and it hasnt been released from their mind/ Body system. The impact of this
is that the person becomes programmed by a past event in their life and their current actions are automated.
When the trauma is released from the mind/body system, the person comes more into the present time, into
the now. As they do that they also come more into balance and coherence.
Inner RePatterning is a technique that can help you become more present in the moment. As it does that it
helps you release the traumas and baggage from the past, often in a very gentle way.
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Example
You can find an electronic form for Your Internal Voice on Page 23
Notes
Whatever you focus on you get more of, so look at what you have just written down, is that something you
want to have more of in your life? Of course you might choose to use Inner RePatterning to free yourself from
these thoughts. We can become addicted to our way of thinking. Inner RePatterning can free you from the
addiction:-)
It is time to make a choice and decide whether you want to stay the same or whether you want to release
this?
Your Miracle
If you woke up tomorrow morning and a miracle had happened clearing out all your problems what would
you be experiencing? Write it down.
It is good to begin to focus on the things that we want in life and move beyond what we currently think is
possible. This exercise is reconnecting you to focus on what you really want in your life.
Inner RePatterning - Clearing Your Blocks to Bliss
It is time to learn how to use Inner RePatterning. Read the Quick Guide to Inner RePatterning, listen to the
Live Session Audios; check the transcripts eBooks until you feel you understand the process. When you do,
you can use the My Journey pages to record the problems you use Inner RePatterning to release and the
results you achieve.
Sharing Bliss Exercise
Another way to use Inner RePatterning is by tapping along with the audios of the, Live sessions. To do this,
get yourself into a quiet environment where you will not be disturbed. The time required is marked next to
whichever Live Session audio you choose to use for this exercise. Allow, 5 minutes extra to give yourself time
to prepare for your session and also for time to relax after it.
Instructions
1. Put your attention on how you know you are not experiencing bliss right now, for example you may have
images or memories in your mind, physical feelings, thoughts, sensations etc. There is no need to go into these
things just observe or be aware of them.
2. Then ask yourself, What do I need to notice to let me know that I no longer have that problem? Write this
in the relevant section in the, My Journey section of this book.
3. Then put your problem out of your mind, start the audio and listen to the session. Tap along with the person
in the session as if you are them.
When the session is completed, go back on check on your problem does it seem the same?
Does it seem different? Look at what you needed to notice to let you know you have a result?
One of the easiest ways you can do this is to just take a walk
into the countryside. Notice the colors of the vegetation
around you. Notice the shapes; be present with the experience without thought, just awareness. You can often amplify
the sensory experience by reaching out and touching some of
what you see around you.
We dont all have time to go for a walk. So if you dont then you
might choose to be with nature in a different way. If you have
a garden, you can just sit there. Notice the sound of the birds;
let your awareness rest on it for a few moments. you might
just choose to get a nice soft blanket or duvet out, put it on
the ground, bring pillows and lie down and do, nothing other
than observe. You might just observe the sky. You might just
observe a flower. Keep it simple. This is about slowing down.
Learning to be in the moment. Soften the focus of your eyes
whilst you do this. You can also choose to access the Inner
RePatterning Safe Place to enhance the experience.
The next time you are outside, by yourself take a moment to put yourself into the Inner RePatterning safe
place and imagine the rays of the sun are following into you through the crown chakra and feeding your body
with energy. Clearing out any negativity and replacing it with the light. By these thoughts you are setting an
intention for this to happen, intentions do not need to be in words, they can be in thoughts and images.
If you cant see the sun in the sky it isnt a problem :-) it is there and its rays are streaming through the
clouds. So, all you have to do is imagine what is already happening so that you feel its benefits and take
conscious control of the moment. Remember every cloud has a silver lining.
People often talk about rain being a problem, bad weather, but what if it doesnt have to be! What if you can
think about it in a different? What if the next time it rains, you go out in the rain, access the Inner RePatterning Safe Place and look up allow the water droplets to touch you face. Experience the sensation of the water
as it streams down over your skin.
If you live by the sea or near a river you can get comfortable go into peripheral vision and breathe visualize
and feel the current/waves washing away negative energy and toxins. Water is a great healer. It is estimated
that we are made up of approximately 70% water; figures vary depending on what source of information you
use. Our body resonates with the sound of water.
Exercise
You can find an electronic version for your records on page 24.
What is your ideal way of reconnecting with nature? Write it down.
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How often can you do this? When are you going to do this? Make a commitment so that you have a plan in
place. Remember when you start your 40 day plan it is OK to mix and match your Creating Blissful moments.
Choose the moments that work for you in that moment. Vary what you do as it adds to the fun of the experience.
For the next 40 days, follow the instructions in the Dairy pages, these can be found in the Diary Ebook
which can be filled in using Adobe Acrobat or printad out and filled with pen and ink. These are set to guide
you through the program. Use a page for each day. Follow the exercises suggested on the page. Use the Bliss
Faces to monitor your journey.
Now compare your current evaluation to where you started the program.
The Journey to Bliss Continues
It is important to continue to build into your life moments that create bliss and joy. Life is for living. Although
from time to time we may have challenges, this about making your life an adventure.
Whatever you focus on you get more of, so look at what you have just written down, is that
something you want to have more of in your life? Of course you might choose to use Inner
RePatterning to free yourself from these thoughts. We can become addicted to our way of
thinking. Inner RePatterning can free you from the addiction:-)
It is time to make a choice and decide whether you want to stay the same or whether you
want to release this?
Exercise
What is your ideal way of reconnecting with nature? Write it down.
How often can you do this? When are you going to do this? Make a commitment so that you have a
plan in place. Remember when you start your 40 day plan it is OK to mix and match your Creating
Blissful moments. Choose the moments that work for you in that moment. Vary what you do as it
adds to the fun of the experience.
Stefan Bajic
Stefan Bajic has an Bachelor of Art Degree in Visual Communication, MCSD
(Member of the Chartered Society of Designers) 1995, was course leader in multimedia production
at a number of higher education institutions for 12 years and is a creative director working in
highlighting mental health issues through video production and international video conferencing for
E-health Internationl.
He is also an EFT and Inner RePatterning practitioner. He has trained in Human Assemblage Point
Therapy and Scenar frequency applications and has extensive knowledge and experience of cutting
edge therapy approaches.