My Levels of Motivation Crisostomo, Judy Ann, Pili March 21, 2015
Summary There are seven levels of human
motivation: level 1 survival, level 2 relationship, level 3 self-esteem, level 4 transformation, level 5 internal cohesion, level 6 making a difference and level 7 service. In each of these levels, there is a particular need that we strive to achieve, which then determine how we operate. Levels 1 to 3 are concerned with the needs of our ego. Level 4 is about personal transformation. Levels 5 to 7 is concerned about our sense of purpose and working on it. In everything that we do, satisfying our needs becomes our motivation.
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MY LEVELS OF MOTIVATION
I act with motivation at different levels. My
decisions are grounded on satisfying my needs at a particular level. The table below shows based on which levels do I function and based on which level do I primarily operate. A discussion also follows on what characteristics I possess that supports how I act motivated at different levels. Table 1 My Levels of Motivation LEVEL S
Level 1: A Characteristic in this Level that
Explains My Results Frugal- One of the many reasons that I chose to leave home and work abroad is financial gain. I need it because I cant always be dependent to my parents for me to survive. Finally earning and living on my own, proper allocation of money is a challenge especially that I am also sending money back home and I am saving too. I just realize that people earning abroad have always the tendency to spend more than we should. Maybe because we are overwhelmed by the amount that we get, leaving us confident that we have much money to spend. Good thing I was raised to not live in luxury. So while I am here, I
buy everything that I need and some
things that I really want. While I strive to be frugal, I make sure that I have all that I will be needing and I dont deprive myself of things that will make me happy, never excessive though. Efforts to satisfy my physiologic needs really matter to me. Level 2: A Characteristic in this Level that Explains My Results Understanding- All individuals are different and the differences can affect relationships. I know people would not like to be around me if I am such an inconsiderate or intolerant person. For example in any discussion at work, I always listen to others ideas or opinions, consider them and think about their value. I recognize the fact that there could be ideas that are better than mine and these can actually be more appropriate. I know how human reaction works, when we are not heard and considered because someone seem to be has high regard of his own ideas, we feel unvalued, sometimes even offended. This can never foster a good working relationship then. Another example, if I found someone has done something wrong, I dont allow myself to recklessly overreact. I will figure out first what had really happened and if reasonable, I will try to understand. I believe that when we are not that hard on others we get more chances of building good relationships and maintaining them. Level 3: A Characteristic in this Level that Explains My Results Self-assured- I remember what I have said before, that theres nothing wrong about feeling good about our own selves, that actually we should. Working, it gives me a sense of satisfaction when I am able to finish a task, especially when I am finally able to see the fruits of my labor. Its like everything paid off, time and effort. It is even more satisfying when the one that I had accomplished is actually a difficult one. It becomes satisfying also when I am appreciated by others. For me, being
explicitly recognized for what I have done
or for what I do is a validation from others. And truly, it feels good. Its really nice when people appreciate my work, my contribution, my service and my efforts. It makes me feel desirable and valuable. I believe everyone harbors recognition at some points of our lives and I must admit sometimes I do work for it. But then if no one recognizes, its fine. Recognition is just a bonus. Because after all, I know who I am, what I did, and what can I do. Level 4: A Characteristic in this Level that Explains My Results Self-aware- I move about knowing what are my strengths and weaknesses. Many are painfully aware of weaknesses that hold them back. Yet, surprisingly, they are unaware of their many strengths. We need to know ourselves and what we can do and recognize that they are all important to make a difference in relation to our personal growth and success. It is only when we become aware of them that we can begin to work around and make the most of them. In the same way, we need to be aware of our weaknesses, because it is only then that we can work on them, do something about them which consequently will make us better. When I know I am good about something, I am really motivated to do it because I know it will really be fulfilling. Level 5: A Characteristic in this Level that Explains My Results Committed- I know what I want to happen in my life and I strive to stay committed to it through my actions and decisions. Like what I have shared previously, I have been to a dilemma and what helped me is keeping true to what I am passionate about, that at the end of the day I was motivated to pursue a career that I wanted since the beginning, a career that will allow me to touch other peoples lives. Also, I find a sense of purpose in serving my family especially my parents. Especially these days that I am capable, all I really want is to let them live a life that they really deserve, and they deserve only the best. More than the material things though, I want to make them realize that they raised a good woman. And so, making these happen drives me through life. This is my primary mode of motivation especially that this is encompassing of the many things that I want. My commitment to my sense of purpose guides me in every
decision that I am making and every action
that I am taking. It is when I consider this that I take a journey towards the kind of life that I want to live. Level 6: A Characteristic in this Level that Explains My Results Hardworking- They said if we are not willing to roll up our sleeves and dig in, the likelihood of us actually making a difference cannot be that big. The message is simple, we cannot achieve something if we will not work on it. Every plan or goal that goes beautifully in our mind will not be significant if we dont put them in action. I remember back then, yes I wanted to be productive and help my family, but there was really a period of time then that I was not that eager to seek a good job. It is only when I was able to remind and convince myself about what I truly want to happen in my life that I became very motivated to find a job. Another thing, I recognize that it is truly a struggle to work abroad and as a nurse, but this is all part of the career path that I chose. After all, it is through this, that I know I will be able to directly make a difference in the lives of the people, of my patients in particular. Level 7: A Characteristic in this Level that Explains My Results Compassionate- Since then, I already have a soft heart to those I realize are really in need. I remember when I was in high school, I gave a pitiful old man a gift on a new years day. I always got to see him somewhere around the terminal where I get on a vehicle going home. This is a simple act of kind service to others that I did and I wont forget. And when I became a nurse, I always get struck by certain patients. Consequently, I try harder to give the best care I can give and I mean doing the best that I can do. Im not only concerned about the routine checking of vital signs, administering medications and other routine activities but I am also concerned about making them feel a little better, making them comfortable, and things like that. Sometimes I would think that I am overly affected, but I come to realize that I am just being a compassionate nurse serving my patients who truly deserve such kind of care.
II. MY EVOLUTIONARY COMMITMENTS
Share the results of your Part 1 with three or four other people who know you well to see if they agree with you and if necessary adjust your results in Part 1. Then state in this paragraph the importance of having commitments you want to make to yourself with regards to your future evolution. Level 1- I will continue being a wise and practical spender. Being wise and practical, to simply reiterate, does not mean depriving myself of the things I need. I will work hard and earn what I deserve. When the need arises, I will not doubt on using what I have worked for just to satisfy it. It is one way of proving that I work to live and never the other way around. I will also provide myself privilege of temperate self-gratification. Depending on an achievement I have, I will reward myself with things I truly deserve. This is an opportunity to experience a little luxury in a world of practicality. All these things will make me feel that working is not all about demanding to give out service alone. It is always best to see the positive side of working being able to earn and afford the things we werent able to before. Level 2- I will see through the possibility of forging connections with various kinds of people and groups. I will seek answers to questions I shall bravely ask. I will the art of interpersonal communication. Commitment to relationship allows me to be prepared to adjust to new connections. We all live in a world of linkages. In one way or another, we all affect each other. It is then imperative to learn how to deal with various people. Be it that we start loving or hating, it is best to know which bar keeps us from the standard of propriety we personally adhere to and the society accepts as well. Without being committed to relationships, we may fail at a certain stage in our life. It is because the primary fuel that drives each of us is also one another. Thus goes the saying, no man is an island. Level 3- I will constantly keep myself reminded of the many reasons why I should be happy about the life that I have. Despite hardships in living, I will see through all positivity and just simply dust-off any dust of doubt on my ability to handle difficult situations. This will enable me to continuously trust in my independence as an individual. Independence drives the
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body and spirit towards many horizons. My
failures will not cast a shadow on my road ahead. Commitment to self-esteem keeps us human erring yet resilient. 4- I will continue to accept honest and objective criticisms from many people. Listening well to other people will help me move forward. Instead of being passive towards what other people say about me, I will treat each seriously. Despite that, I will still maintain self-trust one that makes me discern and be firm on my choice and be little affected of others, especially if their judgments are crossing the bar of propriety and reasonableness. 5- I will hold stronger to my vision. I will ensure that every single effort I make each day contributes to me getting to the place I want to be. If I adhere to this, I will gather solid fruits of labor and never installment prices reaped by those who do not really know what they want in life. 6- I will instill to myself a deeper value as regards perseverance and diligence. I will keep my standards and continually strive to exceed expectations. Through this, I can assure myself that I am always at my best. I cannot make a real difference if my own feelings towards myself are filled with doubts simply because I am sure I have not really given my all. 7- I will seek for more opportunities to serve. In a world where it is very possible to live in an entirely isolated space, I will defy boundaries and start being a more active member of the community where I belong. I will defy passivity and cling to responsibility and accountability. These will make me realize the value of living not just for self but also for others. III.
MY LEARNINGS ABOUT MYSELF
It is good to know that I have a full grasp of my
needs as a person, and at different levels I find a motivation to satisfy them. I come to understand more my thoughts and behaviors, that they are in fact considerate of identified needs. I realized then that when I feel unmotivated, I just need to think that while I am not working on something that I need to do, I have a need that is not being met. And at the end of the day, unmet needs can cause me problems. Self-motivation is important to push me to achieve my goals and to help me work on personal development. It is also good to know that at this point of my life, I am already striving to satisfy my higher needs to feel more fulfilled.