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Guide to proper eye contact.

What to do when she catches your eye
Or when she passes you
Or when she looks at you
Or when you do something stupid
Or when you just want to say hi, and get to know her

INTRODUCTION

People see everything which is within their focus of the eye. You see everything you see. Sounds stupid,
but you see more than you see. Its that way: You can see you computers monitor very clearly because
your attention is on the monitor. Now it is not only the monitor you see? You see all the surroundings
too. Maybe there are speakers, a keyboard a mouse, whatever. You see that stuff though you do not
concentrate on it. You do not need to shift you attention to see it, you see it by just looking at the
monitor but you consider it not interesting, because it is not moving or has no boobs. This has partly to
do with Awareness Radius. So if you want to inform yourself about Awareness Radius, do that it will
enhance you game a lot!
Okay, so imagine a girl in a bar. She is sitting there chatting with her friend in a semi-interesting
conversation. If the conversation was really interesting her AR would be only on herself and her friend,
but as it is only semi-interesting she realizes all her surroundings, though she consciously is not giving
them any attention. Now a real AFC comes in. He moves and therefore she unconsciously checks him
out. She doesnt even know that she is doing that, she keeps on talking to her friend. As it is an AFC she
will not move hear head or eyes an inch. A second person comes in, he has a good BL and one might
consider him immediately as an HSE person. This time her unconscious mind wakes up her conscious
mind and tells to look into the direction of that handsome stranger and check him out whether he is
material for sex or not. One might say he has charisma, but broken down charisma is just a mixture of
BL, AR, social skills and a good InnerGame. Nothing special, anyone can get that. So this post is about
the EC Element of such a charismatic person. It would be best to inform yourself about BL and AR
because these two elements help you with your EC and vice versa. It is not obligatory, but you might
want to do that.
This Technique is split in two parts, the Beginners Editions and the Mastery Edition. Everybody should
do the Beginners Edition. Its not complicated and broken down in 10 simple rules which you MUST
follow. Usually I hate to say that something is a must because it contradicts the idea of calibrating and
being in the moment. But about everybody has deep wired anchors on his EC and it needs some force to
break these. One of these anchors is that you look away once the EC of a HB9 touches your eyes. So
please please follow the instructions until you know what you are doing and how you are doing it.

The Beginners Edition

The Rules:
This is for sets that you havent approached yet
1.You start looking into her eyes at a distance of 10 meters. If you start looking at her before you reach
that distance she might consider you a staring AFC, which is not good for your calibration.
2.Look at that what you like. There is absolutely nothing wrong with looking at a person you find
attractive. You dont have to excuse yourself for doing so. Just look, and even if she asks why you are
looking at her, a simple I do find you attractive is enough. It takes balls to say that, but it really is that
way. She will actually like you even more for looking at her when you do not need an excuse for
looking at her.
3.Just look into one eye. This way you eliminate any fidgety movements with your eyes which would
make you look nervous. You want to have a steady, calm and relaxed EC. Stop looking at her boobs or
butt. Just concentrate on the eye. It doesnt matter which eye, but you should never change during one
EC. You might change if she looks away, but I wouldnt do that either. It makes you look nervous.
Some people say that the left eye is connected with the emotional side of her body, whether you believe
it or not you might want to do that. Better safe than sorry. Dont mess around with AFC techniques like
looking at the point between her eyes and crap like that. Just look right into one eye. You are the man,
leader of the tribe. Her ass is your property and you are allowed to look at her.
4.Do not whatever happens look away. Just stay there. If people walk between the two of you or if
you walk and things break your EC, keep on looking as if you still could see her. Most of the times she
will look away in the beginning but you look as long as it takes for her to look away.
5.Stick with your first choice. No switching. Not even if she is fucking ugly and next to her is a HB10.
You decide once and stick with your choice until your choice looks away. Only if she looks away first
you are allowed to change the person.
6.You might want to approach her when she walks past you. There is a point about one or one and a half
meters in front of you. If a girl is behind this point she is more likely to continue walking then to stop
and talk to you. So you do have to approach her before she reaches that point. If you, forever what
reasons dont approach her you may turn your head 20s, which is not much. But trust me 20 are
enough. Look up rule 8 concerning such situations.
7.If she looks away and you consider her as attractive you just leave your eyes where they are. When
you start with this technique only a few will look again. Later its about 80% of them. After the second
look it is time to approach, after that her attraction decreases every second.
8.Whatever you do, she does it first. With the exception of the escalation which would be an approach.
If you do not approach her then the rule of energy comes into action. The rule of energy is that you use
less energy than she does, for whatever you do. You blink less, move your hands less and slower, etc. If

she walks past you stick with a maximum head turning of 20s. If she turns her head more than that you
might turn it as well. If she opens your body towards you, you might go for that as well. And if that is
the case you really should consider to approach her as she is definitely into you.
9.Have a self confident BL and look like a HSE guy. Chest to the front, shoulders leaning slightly
backwards, and just relax. Let go of every AA and just look and feel comfortable with that. You are not
needy as your EC is not sexual. Just have an EC that tells her that you might be interested in her
personality. This is important only for beginners. In the mastery you will definitely look sexual
sometimes.
10.Do not the f*ck look away! JUST DONT! Consider it a game. You look away - you loose. You wait
for her to look away you win and get the girl if you approach her at some point. If you look away first,
you may never ever look again. The game is lost. If you decide to look again the only outcome would be
that you look away again before she does. You lowered your Value in looking away first. So keep
yourself a small amount of dignity and do not look again. You might want to punish yourself if you look
away before she does. Tell yourself what a looser you are. It was just a few seconds of looking at
something and you fucked up. Next time you will not trust me.
I do not care if you like this rules or if you understand them. Just follow them. These rules apply to
everything that has eyes, girls, one eyed pirates and even cats. I one found myself gaming a dog with
EC. You will know after a few days or weeks in which cases you are allowed not to stick with the rule.
If you are still insecure whether you should stick with the rule or not then you should definitely stick
with the rule. In 97% of all situations in which EC occurs following these rules is the best way to go for.
An additional hint:
A few people are so nervous that they have small movements in their eyes. Ask your wing to help you to
fix that if you suffer from that. Look directly in one eye of the wing and have the wing tell you if your
eyes move nervously in some kind of way. If the do, have the wing hit your arms in unpredictable
amounts of time and try to have your eye contact steady and calm. You should eliminate any fidgety
movements. One other thing that might work never fieldtested because I never had that problem, but I
trained my look once this way: Stay in front of a mirror look in one eye and start moving in front of the
mirror without looking away from the one eye. You will see if you shake you head that your eyeball
somehow is fixed and your head moves around it funny stuff. You might also walk past the mirror
and check if you can hold your EC while walking.
What the ? is EC good for?
Imagine an AFC. Shy, living within his own world of sorrow. An HB9 comes along and he looks
directly at her butt or boobs or if he has an rAFC kind of day, the eyes. HB9 will immediately
recognize it as she has sensors for that. She will look at him. Our Mr. AFC will feel so sorry for himself,
for the space he takes up right now and tries to disappear by melting and merging with the surroundings.
Now from the girls perspective:
You had a nice day, shopping with the girls, bought a new pair of boots, and you just think about what
movie with Jonny Depp you will watch that night. You suddenly realize that a being is looking at your
secondary sexual organs (aka. boobs) and you look at him and make him feel sorry for himself. Its an
easy exercise as you do it a few times a day.

The AFC will look away and the HB will win this game. Her confidence will increase for a few seconds.
This guy felt sorry for himself, for looking at you sexually. As a girl you will never fuck someone who
feels sorry for his penis and his hormones that make him look at you. Not gonna happen.
The moment I look at a girl I will run through the same process every time: Depending on what Im
doing and how attractive she is I will give her a certain amount of my awareness. Usually I keep enough
awareness to do whatever I am doing and give the rest of it to her until she hooks. Some will look at you
not even recognizing that they look at you, most women will look at you as they realize that an HQ guy
looks at them. The best thing to happen is a long look (which tells me she is confident and attracted) and
then a look downward (AI) with a huuuge smile (IOI). Sometimes you feel like Superman, looking an
women and see them melting. If you take the M3 Model into consideration you usually are in A2 or
sometimes C1 after a good EC. So you save a lot of boring talking and have a nice vibe going on with a
good and dominant EC.
Its a game will you win?
At first you wont be able to hold the EC for a long time. The higher her HB rating the shorter your look
will be. There is an urge from within that makes you look away. This is your social conditioning fucking
around with you. The 10 rules from above are obligatory until you break this social conditioning. Dont
be afraid and just look at her. There is no exception from the rule until you master looking at an HB9
and she looks away first on a consistent basis.
Consider this experiment a game. Imagine you are in second grade (at least in Germany we played it)
and you play this silly game: Who blinks first looses, or who looks away first looses. Just that this game
is a bit more serious. If you look away first you fuck up. You put yourself below her in the social
ranking. And believe it or not you are no sexual material if you are below her in the sexual ranking or
at least not the first choice sexual material. When I was a kid I wanted the world to be fair and have
everyone on one stage of the social ranking. This will never happen. A person you meet will always be
above or below you in the social ranking. The social ranking is created by everyone for himself in his or
her own head. A good EC will push you above the person you meet every time you meet someone.
Being at the top of the social ranking will make you exclusive sexual material. The alpha ape has the
first choice when it comes to copulation.
Maybe it occurred to you that you met someone and you decided on his first impression that he or she is
so high in the social ranking it would be hard to reach his / her status. At some point you saw him fail at
something or just being in a really bad mood and being a LSE person. In this case your first impression
was wrong and you will put him down in the ranking. In most cases the first impression is right. So the
first impression is really important and how good to know that you can improve it with your EC.
Negs will help you improve your status in the ranking, which is the error in Mystery Game as you
consider yourself of somehow kind of lower value than the girl because you need negs. Only a person
that has to show DHV and has to neg is of LV. If you dont show it the girl that you are a LV person,
she will just have to go with the fact that you are a HQ person. This is party used in the EC as you look
at her like a HQ guy.
Whatever: If you look away you loose. No way back. Your ass now belongs to her. She can give you
orders as you are below her in the social ranking. And why? Because you couldnt hold the EC for
another second. You are a slave because of looking away a second to soon. So you might want to punish
yourself for looking away first. Tell yourself that you lost and that your ass belongs to that random girl
that you dont even know. She might be a LSE girl and now she has the right to give you orders. So
never look away first. You clearly do not want an LSE person pushing you around we had that in that
3 year relationship a few months ago.

You should look slightly interested. Be careful not to look horny or needy. You do not go for any sexual
looks (not yet), just look interested. Like whats up? or Im slightly interested what might be behind
this interesting shape of a girl.
Do it 24/7. Whenever and wherever you are. One of the reasons why it works so good for me is because
I do it wherever I am, to whoever is in range. Like I said before, 50 year old ladies might be attracted
too, but I wont close them. Usually I just do it on employees in shop that I get stuff cheaper. Sometime
I just have a nice day and want to give out compliments to random persons later more on that
compliment stuff.
What if..?
I look away before she does. Get lost. No chance in getting in there again. You will loose again. Just
go for another set and try it again, this one is messed up.
She looks away upward Not attracted. If she gives you the rolling eyes you know that your frame just
sucked and she considered herself to be too valuable to jump into you eye game hoop or to
subordinate. Fix your BL and go on with EC training.
She looks away sideward She is not so sure. Most of the times she did not realize you were looking at
her at all or she just pretends that she did not. Sometimes she is a bit attracted in these cases she will
look again and the you will have a definite answer on the second look. The look to the side is like
leaving this stupid game without deciding which rank you are.
She looks away downward This is an IOI, youre in the game. She subordinated. Now you have to
decide whether you approach or not. She will look usually twice or more if she looked down. After the
second look your value and her attraction will drop every second. So after the second look is you last
good chance for an approach. If you do not approach you are just a horny guy that does not have the
balls to talk to women. She will know that.
Wherever she looks, smiling is always an IOI. Sometimes she will open her BL which is also an IOI.
Opening BL is: uncrossing arms and legs, or moving the front of her body towards you. If she stops
doing whatever she was doing the moment you started catching her EC then this is also an IOI. The
longer she looks the more she is interested and if an IOI follows the more she is into you. Some more
hints:
DO NOT LOOK AWAY. Im telling you this because this is the vital part in this technique. You look
away first you loose.
If she wont look away:a) Mystery Style 1: Tongue out and huge eyes. This will get her laughing.
b) Mystery Style 2: Fuck Finger. You might really want to smile if you do that. She should by no means
consider this an offence but as a funny way of dealing with her persistent look. This is a very hard neg
so careful with that, some girls might get really pissed off and kick your family jewels.
c) SOI. This is Mastery Edition Stuff
d) Go over to her, without looking away. If you manage it without hitting other people in the bar its a
great DHV. Ill give you a hint on that in the Mastery Edition. When you stay in front of her just say:
Hi or some funny line like Okay, I gotta leave at 9pm. You should consider looking away until then
because I can spend the whole night doing that. Or very funny:

PUA: Look away. With a played serious face. She will of course not look away and tell you so:
HB: No.
PUA: I never look away first, so you will have to.
HB: I wont either.
Now give her a few seconds and then start with a nice NLP routine:
PUA: I read just a day ago that the human brain emits hormones that make you fall in love with
someone (point with your fingertips at yourself) after having an intense eye contact for more than 30
seconds.
(Its partly true, I think the amount of time is longer. But it works. After 5 minutes of good EC within a
chat you either get a good rapport or a sexual vibe) In our situation here she will in most cases risk to
fall in love with you and just look at your eyes. If she really wont stop go for kino escalation, start
tickling her or get in for the KC as she is really into you.
Watch your BL and thoughts. As your thoughts are partly represented by your BL, and you do not want
to look horny or shy or LSE when performing the EC. Just be self-confident.
If you start this experiment some women might walk past you, not moving her head but it is perfectly
clear that she noticed you. This women will look straight forward to an imaginary point some 10 meters
before them and look as if they tell themselves: Do not look, do not look, do not look. I always started
laughing when I saw one of them. The fact that the desperately tried to convince themselves not to look
is just to funny. Sometimes they risk a last look when they walk past you, which is even more funny.
In areas with high traffic it is very difficult to hold EC. You need a very good frame to draw looks to
yourself, or just be peakcocked. Try walking slower then anybody else, this will help you.
EC works with guys too. Try not to look sexual or aggressive or the guy might use some unwanted kino
escalation on you.
Possible Opener
hi
PUA: thank you
HB: What for? PUA: Sometimes you wake up and whatever you do everything goes wrong. *And
then a person looks at you* and >you feel some kind of warmth in yourself<. And >just feel happy<. So,
thank you for saving my day.
(there is a slight NLP command in it. I marked it with >this< so pronounce this slightly different and
more dominant than the rest of the sentence. *This* is the pacing part which leads her into a very, very
small trance. If you do not know what the heck I am talking about just leave the symbols away.)
After the Approach:
Always look into one eye. Never switch sides. It is best you decide for one eye for all girls. Then you
dont even switch between dates. Which helps to keep up the anchors you created (see Mastery Edition).
Try to blink less than she does. In general moving less and using less energy then she and everybody
else in the room makes you the leader of the group.

Look a long time in her eyes, if you start this it might get pretty uncomfortable sometimes, but keep
looking for a few more seconds even if you feel like looking away. Please look away a few times. A
conversation without blinking and looking away is just paradox and does not look natural.

Mastery Edition
When am I ready to start the Mastery Edition?
You already read and understood the Beginners Edition and applied the rules for at least 4 weeks in the
field.
you can hold the EC of a HB9 without looking away first.
You feel ready for new material on EC
If you can answer these questions with yes you may continue reading. It does not make any sense to read
further otherwise. You can do it but it wont help you for your EC. It may occur that you calibrate wrong
if you read the following information too soon.
So Welcome to the Mastery Edition. This is the real shit.
Why is there a second part?
Your EC is one of the top non-verbal forms of communication. What we did up to now is tell the target
that we are interested into her. Now there is a bit more in good EC than that. We may also create
Attraction and Rapport by communicating on deeper levels. Im going to explain you how to do that.
Awareness Radius and Trance
If you did not yet read anything about AR (Awareness Radius, a Technique used and discovered by
Killswitch) I recommend that you do so. It will help you a lot with this. I once met a PUA who made AR
Fucking just with EC and completely destroyed someones AR. I think he called it AR Blasting. Kind of
the interruption Handshake, but the trance is not that deep.
Okay, looking at her will put her into some kind of trance. You should calibrate that way that she looks
as long and as interested as possible. Some girls will continue looking at you without knowing why.
They are just fascinated by your EC
So always look in one eye and stay completely calm and relaxed. No nervous movements as they
destroy the trance. If you look at her eye try to concentrate only on her eyes and face not the
surroundings. This is very effective to create a vibe.
In some Hollywood Movies there are these love at the first sight scenes. A man looks directly into the
womans eye and there is this vibe between them. Imagine you could do that on purpose and soon you
will. The most effective way is to mirror her vibe and then create a new vibe and take her there. If she is
laughing with her friends then look at her as if you were happy too and that you take part in her
happyness. And from there you can create a unique vibe between you and her and take her to an EC
where she forgets why she laughs but just realizes that she is really happy and looking at you. If you
want her to be attracted than showing her by EC that you attracted should be enough. For rapport use the
Oh my god you are so hilarious, even after all these years of knowing you. And for sexual vibes the
bedroom look. If done right she will mirror you and go into the same emotion.
A small breakdown of the Steps:
Awareness Radius

When looking at her try to create a vacuum around you and her. As if the world just disappears and only
you and she still exist. It works depending on the girl. Sometimes it doesnt work at all, but if it works
she will freak out in a positive way. Her friends sometimes will not even notice that you are looking at
each other and if they do they will be attracted too. Guys usually underestimate the power of my EC
and do not consider me a danger their girl. Girls know exactly what is going on. It happens quite often
that friends of my target are attracted too and tell my target that I am looking at her. Gaming the obstacle
is unnecessary as she will be attracted too, even if you do not look at her. The Obstacle will immediately
recognize the vibe between you and the target and will stop any CB behaviour.
The SOI
In the Mastery Edition the EC is an SOI. You show her immediately that you find her interesting and
even sexy. In Mastery you can have a sexual EC at once. You will know from calibration which EC-vibe
is the right one for you target. Consider your look as an unique compliment. It is only for her and you
give it away for free. You do not want to get somewhere with a compliment never! If you think you
can lay her because of a compliment you will never lay her. If you just give it away because you are a
happy person chances are good that you will get laid. She will think your EC it is an unique compliment
that you give away to special girls like once a month or so. There are some nights on which I give away
100 of them just to calibrate my EC. So it is not so unique after all. Try looking at her very relaxed and
in an attracted way. You do not wait for an answer you do not want her to smile, give you an AI or
have her approach you. You just do not expect that but if she does so you have to react on it. And
whatever reaction she gives you you should never be surprised! If you are surprised because she gives
you an AI then she will know that you are not an HSE person and you get AIs very seldom. However
she reacts you will have to deal with it like a player.

BL
If you happen to walk while you catch someones EC there is a nice technique to show her good DHV.
You need some understanding in AR to do that. So you walk somewhere and you see a girl. You look at
her, the two of you have EC and you continue walking in the same speed you did before. If you walk at
the same speed this wont break the small trance between the two of you. How can you manage not to
run into something? The trick is that your active AR is on her, your passive AR is on the surroundings.
Though you look at her and notice her 100% your unconscious scans the surroundings for dangers like
cliffs and other stuff which might harm you. You still see the rest of the world it is just not in your active
AR. And if you can see it you should use 1% of your AR to walk in these surroundings. I do not even
break EC if something breaks the EC for a short amount of time, and if she still looks after a short
interruption you will know that she is really attracted. Imagine a slowly passing car breaks the EC you
have with the girl. It breaks the EC for half a second and if you look at her as if the car wasnt there you
sometimes can manage to keep the vibe.
If you put you AR on you and her only, everybody else will notice that you are not actively aware of
them and take care that they dont bump into you. It might be useful to have a manner of walking that
makes you secure if someone bumps into you. You shouldnt trip over when having EC DLV And
DLVs are not cute as movies want to make us believe, they are nerdy and wont get us laid.
If you do not walk then you should also continue doing whatever you were doing. Again, with the same
speed you used before having EC. If you drink out of a glass most girls will look away I do not know
what the secret is behind this but somehow it is not appropriate to look at someone drinking out of a

glass. If you use a straw a sexual vibe will start. Straw oral fixation, you know what I am talking
about
Your facial expression should not change at all at first. If you want to mirror her mood then do that
before she catches EC. The moment you have EC do not change your mood and if you want to then do it
slowly. You will calibrate this and know exactly what to do in the right moment. Mirroring her BL is
very effective too, but again only before she catches your EC, not during EC. The best BL is a relaxed,
calm mood, moving slowly just being happy and relaxed. Maybe a bit playful. If you have this mood
24/7 you will be prepared for every EC. Do not cross arms or legs at any time. You are an openhearted
person that talks to everyone. If you happen create a very deep trance you BL doesnt matter at all as she
wont notice your BL. But usually it takes a good BL to make her interested in you in the first place.
What is likely to happen
In most cases she will look twice. Some women look only once and some will watch you the whole
evening catching your EC.
The EC look is a direct opener as there is the SOI at the beginning of communication. The usual direct
opener is:
Hey, I like your face, I want to talk to you.
Hey, you are pretty, I want to talk to you.
I like this special aura around you, I want to talk to you.
Its always the same: (insert SOI here), (tell her that you want to talk to her / get to know
her) Same structure. The EC does the same, only that it doesnt say a specific SOI. It just says , I
want to talk to you. What is will the girl put in. So she will choose the SOI of her choice which is
always the best you can get. If she likes her hair she will think that your direct opener is: Hey I like
your hair, I need to talk to you. If she likes her vibe she will think: Hey I like your vibe, I need to talk
to you. She will always choose automatically the best you can get anyways. Thats because people
think of themselves most of the times the best. If you have a super LSE person and your EC is not warm
and friendly and giving her an SOI than she will think that you want to harm her.
Next thing important to realize is that after giving her the SOI it is her turn to earn your approach. If she
does not give you an IOI and you do not feel like approaching her, then just dont approach. She has to
earn being approached and talking to the handsome guy that you are.
If she earns it you will go over and do a direct or situational opener ONLY! Indirect Openers will throw
you out of the set immediately. If you have the balls to give her an SOI with EC you should also have
them to start a normal conversation with her without using indirect Openers. Juggler game will help you
here. Most of the time the universal opener (hi) will do it. Sometimes you might want to use a
situational opener: Hey, this band rocks, doesnt it? (again very important with this opener you do not
care if she answers.) If she is standing there alone and is not extremely LSE a simple hi will be
perfect. If she is LSE or there are a few CBs around her you might go with a situational opener into the
group. What will happen is that the group will think you do a usual situational opener and you just
socialize with them. Your target will exactly know what you are doing as you had this unique EC with
her and she will love it. For two reasons:
1. you keep the secret between the two of you and do not compromise her for looking at you.
2. you give her a bit space to see your social skills first. Sometimes she will approach you while you are
talking to the obstacles. Just because she is so attracted to you that she cant stand not talking to you.
And her friends can not argue with you being approached by her, or can they?
In which direction she looks away when breaking your EC will not be important any more. Of course
the same rules apply as in the beginners edition, but you will know by now when she is attracted even if
she looks away upwards. On some days I do have an awful amount of girls looking down very fast

without smiling. Exactly the same way a horny AFC looks down the moment an HB9 sees him looking
at her. These girls just subordinate to me and are no material for approaching. They are to shy to show
you attraction so you know that you deserve better. My look became a good selection algorithm to find
out which girls I like and which are not worth the energy of approaching. Sometimes you meet an HSE
woman that wont break EC and even send you an SOI! Please keep your frame and do not look away. If
it comes to approaching, I have to admit that I approach only these that sent me an SOI or IOI. They
have to earn talking to me I am the price
DHV
The direct opener has some pure DHV in it. It is, done right, the only DHV you will need during the Set.
Mystery Method (with the indirect opener) needs negs and DHV routines to show DHV. The direct
opener just needs balls and thats your DHV. Walking up to a woman an tell her: Hey, I really like your
curly hair, its sexy. Makes you the best sexual material she will probably find that night or even that
month! The EC is nonverbal of course but as I said it works the same way the direct opener does even
concerning DHV. 90% of the communication is non-verbal communication so she will understand
your SOI. But you have to keep in mind that you create a frame when opening direct. And you have to
keep that frame during the whole approach. No switching to lame AFC game or indirect game. Stick
with Juggler game, Gunwitch or some other direct material. When you do direct openers the right way
you will hook with the first sentence you just have to. If you do EC right you will hook within the
quarter of a second. EC is a direct opener and can hook even if it is non-verbal. And it is the same as
with the verbal direct opener: you do not hook with the words but with the vibe that come with it. And
you do not hook with your eyes but with the vibe that comes with them. The colour of your eyes does
not matter. I myself do have some pretty uninteresting brown with green. Compared to the Icy blue eyes
of my brother mine are really lame. But my brother has not the skills to use his eyes the way I do and so
mine are more succesfull.
Most important thing is to be not outcome dependent, which means you do never expect her to give you
IOIs and kino and whatsoever by delivering her the SOI. She will be more likely to do so if you just act
like that. You presence and personality has to say: I dont need your answer; I just want to give you a
compliment because I feel like that. This way you will hook with either the EC or another SOI opener
like: I really like your curly hair. It is very sexy. If she answers it is her own fault as she now is in the
claws of an extremely high skilled PUA (this would be you).
If you mastered that point we can go to the second most important: You have to deal with every answer
you get. If you get none perfect, this is just what you expected! If you get an AI or IOI perfect! This
is just what you expected. If she tells you to piss off perfect! It was your intention to have her say that.
Just game on. This is so powerful because it will destroy her power of her reaction. If you make her
believe that you knew what is coming and you even made her act the exact way that she did she will
think that you have incredible social skills. (DHV) And now she will be attracted because you knew how
she would react, even if she told you to piss off.
Be self-confident and on your own when you deliver an opener verbal or nonverbal. You have to take
100% responsibility for the opener and what happens after that. Actually its 200% because the girl likes
to give you her 100% as well. So the moment you decide to approach you know that you are on your
own. Your buddies back there can not help you any more. You will go through this on your own and you
will do it. The girl will realize that and will take it as a DHV. And you also have to know that what you

do is unique. You are a very special person for her because there are not many guys that hit on her in the
same way you do. AFCs open like that: Hey you are pretty Id like to talk to you. His
subcommunication will say: I only give you this compliment to get laid, and I am a member of the male
species and therefore I am attracted by your boobs and butt. Not uniquely your boobs and butt but these
bodyparts in general. I will accept sexual contact with you as you have these bodyparts. Not so good
every guy can do that on every girl. The PUA will open with the exact same words but with a different
subcommunication: Hey I noticed that you have this very special butt and I as a single and individual
person I find it very attractive how your pants shape this wonderful piece of your body. The PUA will
make clear that only he can give her such a compliment, he is not exchangeable with any other guy in
the room. His compliment was special and unique and so she will know that you are an unique person.
The same rules apply to the EC opener. She will know that your EC is a unique one.
Isolation. The secret of the direct opener is isolation. The moment you approach her you isolate her and
you from the rest of the room. Just by giving her the unique compliment. You tell her: You and me, we
are very special in this very moment. There is something between us that the others do not know. And
this isolates her. Even if her friends stand right next to her or even if there are 25 thousand other guys at
the concert. Its more of a psychic isolation. And you might want to venue change very soon with her to
give her the physical isolation she needs.
The Bedroom look
The secret weapon to get her in a sexual vibe. Just start looking very sexual and create a sexual tension.
As if you are in bed with her and the two of you are just about to drop pants. Before doing so it might be
useful to create an easy-going mood. Banter a lot and be playful and then start the sexual vibe. When
done right she will mirror you and go into that vibe. If she mirrors the other emotions you had before she
is very likely to mirror the sexual vibe too.
What to Talk About
It doesnt matter. The subcommunication with your BL is much more important than verbal
communication. Create vibes and support them with your verbal communication.
Im going to break down the concept first:
You go up to a girl and say: Hey, isnt this band awesome?
A) The pure words are completely senseless. It is just letters next to each other.
B) In a concrete situation it makes sense. Lets say you are in a pub and there is a band playing some
music. And you walk up to a girl and say these words. The pure words will tell her that you want
information on if she thinks whether the band is awesome or not. The sentence is a question and if she is
in a good mood she will provide you the information.
C) If you subcommunicate that you do not want an answer but just say Hey, isnt this band awesome?
because you actually want to say This band is awesome. It has a completely different meaning. Now
the sentence isnt a question any more though it has a question mark. Now it depends on the woman
what will happen. If she gives you an answer she jumps into a hoop that you didnt even open up. She
subordinates and can approach you this way. If she doesnt say anything she is not likely to be attracted
to you.
D) You have EC with her and subcommunicate Hey you are kind of cute, I think it could be nice to talk
to you. And then you walk over and say the exact same words. Then the words are completely
unimportant as she will know that they are an excuse for you and her to talk to each other. You say:
Hey, isnt this band awesome? and if she understands that you use this verbal excuse to make the non-

verbal direct opener (your EC) clear to her. She might even answer with something that is not related to
your question, like Whats your name. You didnt want to have an answer anyways you just wanted
a chat, and here you got it.
In a dialogue you use different stages of this communication. Sometimes B, sometime D, and sometimes
something between those two stages. (The first stage is never used. Communication is based on
meaning. No sense communication is no communication is no communication at all) If you have a vibe
going on you may use D. If your vibe starts to decrease you need B to gather information, deepen the
information on the topic and then create a vibe again. E.g.:
PUA: Do you have siblings?
HB: yes.
PUA: Older or younger? Brother or sister?
HB: An older sister.
PUA: Do you have a close connection to her?
HB: no not really we see each other about every three months.
PUA: Same with my younger brother. But even if we see us every three months there is some kind of
connection between us. Do you look up to your sister? I just ask because my brother always kinda
looked up to me. There were times when we hated each other and started beating up each other.
Throwing mean words at each other and stuff, but even then he looked up to me. Whenever I changed
my taste of music, he did. I changed my hairstyle or style to dress, so did he. And sometimes I changed
my hairstyle within a period when we didnt see each other for months and when we got together
again he changed his hairstyle to the one I had. How is that with you sister?
While talking this stuff you create a vibe. Talking about things you love or persons you love will create
the right vibe. Your EC will make sure that she mirrors the vibe because the EC is the transmitter for
vibes. If you want sexual vibe you want to talk about more sexual stuff.
Timewindows
There is the idea of windows that open up during a communication. The EC usually opens up the
window for an approach. If she has EC with you for the second time the time window for the approach
is still open but will close soon. If you do not approach after the second EC, her attraction will decrease
by every second. You can calibrate on these windows and you will exactly know when a window is
open and when it is closed. There are also windows for kissCloses and #C and fC. There are windows
for about everything but it might be useful to calibrate at least on these for escalation. Most of these
windows open only once during a conversation. Sometimes you will be able to open them again, but it is
hard work. So use the first chance to enter the window when it is open. Second chances are for losers.
With the EC you can open windows very fast. Sometimes you open windows without even knowing
how you did it. I do that a lot. I stand a lot in front of girls and know that the window is open and I do
not know how I did it within this short amount of time. I missed a few dozen kissCloses just because I
was so shocked how fast I got there.
Anchoring with your EC
A small bonus: This can be combined with AR Fucking.
People create anchors all the time. To create a good anchor you need a unique action (which can be
kinaesthetic, audible, visual or even smell or taste) and a unique experience (an emotion or image or
sound or taste or whatever you want to anchor). Anchoring is actually just connecting thoughts in your
brain. Like the Pavlov dog: Pavlov rang a bell (unique action) every time the dog saw food (the visual
food, the smell of the food and the taste of the food are the unique experiences). After a bit of training

and doing that unique action again and again, always combined with the unique experience the dog
anchored ringing a bell with the image, smell and taste of the food. Later on the dog didnt need to the
foods image, smell or taste to experience the same emotions he did while eating. He created saliva just
by hearing a bell. We will do something similar. Our unique experience is a good emotion that she has.
On every high of her emotions you can use a very special EC (this is the unique action). So whenever
she feels good you give her a special look. After 5 times you can give her the look and she will have
good emotions. You can anchor attraction, rapport emotions or a sexual vibe.
Best thing is that you can do this technique while other people are present. They will not see what you
are doing. It probably works best on persons that have a primary visual kind of learning and anchoring
things.
This technique took me half a year to calibrate it this way. It is my top weapon of mass seductio. It
works everywhere and on everyone. It is a very friendly tool of seduction and makes your approach look
very natural. I have tons of girls telling me that I am so natural and fun to talk to, not like the other idiots
that approach them. I hope you have fun with this technique. It is the second edition of this post and the
gap between beginners and mastery edition got quite big. I thought about an advanced edition but I think
youll manage it. Perhaps I will give you an Advanced Edition in time. The Mastery Edition works best
combined with direct game, Juggler technique or Gunwitch Method. It is also very useful to read
something about NLP and Awareness Radius this increase the power of your EC a lot. Reading about
Gunwitch Method will help you with sexual EC.