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M K , M I S S I O N A R Y A N D T H I R D - C U L T U R E A D V O C A T E
2015
MI C H L E S N E W S
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Be shepherds of Gods flock that is under your care, watching over them not because you
must, but because you are willing, as God wants you to be. I Peter 5:2
PERMISSION TO DOUBT
Faith is not an inherited conviction. Not all MKs are saved. Not all MKs
believe that God is real. Not all MKs view their parents faith in a positive
light. God is not a transferable commodity. Yet the pressure on MKs to not
only believe, but be exemplary in their faith is rampant. What unfair
pressure we put on souls whose perception of God has been complicated
by a ministry-saturated worldview.
Permission to doubt is more than mere processing-spaceits the gift of
honest grappling toward eternal outcomes. Parents need to extend it.
Communities need to extend it. Churches need to extend it. Adults and
peers need to celebrate it as part of Gods working in the lives of MKs.
I N C A S E YO U
MISSE D TH E SE !
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FIVE PERMISSIONS
MISSIONARIES NEED
Pressures that harm them.
Children will fail. Theyll do stupid things, theyll forget instructions and
theyll disobey rules. They need to know that mistakes and bad behavior
are not unforgivable flaws.
If were not careful with our words, we heap a spiritual burden on six-year
olds whose lives are already complicated by cross-cultural living, frequent
transitions and successive losses. The liberating balm of permission to fail
for young people who are often overly self-blaming cannot be overstated.
PERMISSION TO GRIEVE
Its no secret that the heaviest burden many MKs bear is the number
of goodbyes theyre forced to say in their early years. The mission field
is a transient place where someone is always leaving. The repeated
departures create an expectation of loss that colors both their entry
into new relationships and the nature of the friendships they form.
Until missionary parents and the missionary community as a whole
give permission to missionaries children to express and work through
their griefas ugly as it may get we will continue to see hearts
hardened toward God (on whom many blame their losses) and adult
MKs still crippled by their goodbyes in later seasons of their lives.
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