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A traditional Russian wedding lasts for at least two days and some weddings last as long as a week.
Throughout the celebration there is dancing, singing, long toasts, and a lot of food and drinks. The
best man and maid of honor are called witnesses, svideteli in Russian. The ceremony and the ring
exchange takes place on the first day of the wedding. Russian weddings have adopted some of
western traditions, including bridesmaids and others.
Crowning
Crowning during the Wedding of Tsar Nicholas II and Tsarina Alexandra
Procession during Tsar Alexander III and Tsarina Maria Feodorovna's wedding
In the Eastern Orthodox Church Holy Matrimony is considered a Sacred Mystery (sacrament), and the
sign of the marriage is not the exchange of rings (that takes place at the betrothal) but rather the
placing of crowns on the heads of the bride and groom. For this reason the ceremony of the wedding
is referred to as the Crowning.
The priest leads the couple into the center of the church where they come to stand on a piece of new,
rose colored fabric, symbolizing their entry into a new life. The bride and groom each publicly
professes that they are marrying of their own free will and that they have not promised themselves to
another.
Then after an ektenia and several longer prayers the priest places crowns on the heads of the bride
and the groom. These are usually held over their heads by members of the wedding party. Then follow
readings from the Epistle and Gospel, ektenias, brief prayers and the sharing of a "common cup" of
wine by the bride and groom.
Then a procession takes place during which the priest wraps his epitrachelion (stole) around the joined
hands of the bride and groom and leads them (followed by their attendants who are holding the
crowns) three times around an analogion on which the Gospel Book has been placed. This procession
symbolizes the pilgrimage of their wedded life together.
It used to be the custom that the bride and groom would wear their wedding crowns for eight days, but
now the removal of the crowns is customarily done at the end of the service. The priest says
benedictions for the bride and groom and then the dismissal takes place.
Civil ceremony
Following the traditional ceremony, the couple must have a civil ceremony called rospis v zagse. This
ceremony takes place at the department of public services, formally known as ZAGS. At ZAGS the
couple is greeted by family members with bread and salt. The ceremony ranges from 15 to 30 minutes
and during this time the rings are exchanged and the couple is pronounced husband and wife.
During the civil ceremony, the parents offer the married couple two crystal glasses, which they are
asked to break. The more shards of glass they create, the greater the number of years of happiness
they will spend together.
It is also customary for the married couple to release either balloons or, better, two white doves to
symbolize their love and partnership which is written in the sky for all to see. And the bride also
releases another balloon with her maiden name written on it, as she embarks on her new life.
Tour of the city
Following the civil ceremony, the newlyweds and their witnesses, travel around the city in a limousine
and view many historical sites. Sometimes very close friends join as well. This presents the primary
opportunity for the majority of the wedding photographs that are taken at varying historical places
around the town or city.
Reception
After touring the city for several hours, the couple meets the guests for the reception.
The first toast is made to the newlyweds and after the first shot, the guests begin to shout Gorko,
Gorko, Gorko,. Gorko means bitter. At this point the couple must kiss for a long time to take out the
bitter taste of the vodka.
The second toast is made to the parents.
The new couple dances the first dance of the night.
As the night continues the guests dance, sing, play games, and make toasts.
For the next several days, the family continues to eat, drink, and celebrate.
It is traditional to have an entertainer, in Russian Tamada, who organises games, the disco, and
ensures the guests get to know each other and are looked after.