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Peer pressure are also one of the causes of bully .

Peer pressure is pressure from others to conform to the behaviors, attitudes and personal
habits of a group or clique. Sometimes kids within a clique will pressure other kids to participate in bullying. Typically, when kids cave in under
peer pressure it is because they want to be liked or fit in. They fear that if they dont go along with the group or clique, then other kids might
make fun of them. So bullying sometimes is an act of self-preservation. Kids are afraid if they dont exclude others, participate in gossip, spread
rumors and make fun of others, then they too will be ostracized or tormented by bullies.Additionally, some kids accept the idea that "everyones
doing it" and often mistakenly feel less responsibility for bullying when it is done as a group. With this type of pack mentality, kids often leave
their better judgment and common sense behind. As a result, they dont feel as much remorse as they would otherwise.
Family habit are the causes of bullying . In Malaysia the parents always allow their child to watch violence movie that sometimes can
influence them . This has become a habit in every family at Malaysia . There are also a family that love to watch World Wrestling Federation
(WWF) with their family as their family time .Researchers point to the WWF as alorification of bullies in the name of entertainment and point out
that high rate of domestic violence means that many going people growing up expecting that violence is an acceptable way to get what they
want .

First and foremost,the causes of bully is the bullies cannot control their emotion within themselves,Often,when people get frustrated and
angry,they cannot usually stop themselves from doing things that will hurt others.Based on fact,when teenagers do not have ability to control
their emotions,small annoyances can provoke them and cause them to severely overreact.For example,a child may be innocently walking down
the hall and accidently bump into a bully.Even though the child apologizes,the bully may lose his temper and at the drop of hat,slamming the
victim toward the wall.In certain time,when bullies are in worse state,they unconsciously persist their actions without thinking the victim`s feeling
and condition.Thus,many victims get depressed and some of them are try to commit suicide because of dispirit and fear.Statistic from The
National Alliance on Mental Health shows that about 80 % of youth that commits suicide have depressive symptoms from
bullying.Therefore,bullying cases should no be underestimated since it can lead towards death.We as society must alert and concerned by
spreading widely our love and care so that the bullies and victims would think twice before taking a solemn actions.
Moreover,the bullies are lack of support from the people around them.They are lack of support especially from their parents since parents in
this modernization eras engrossed themselves with their careers more than spending time with children.Sometimes,they always came home
late that make the interactions between parents and children diminished which lead to dysfunctional families.Several parents tend to be at their
working place doing jobs than having leisure holidays with their family.Hence,this make the children do not get enough solicitude and if this
condition extended over a long period,the bond between them might be tearing apart one day.Plus,not only parents but teachers also played an
important roles in these cases.Few teachers do not concern about the bully cases which can lead towards the arising of the bullying cases in
schools.Thereby,everyone should take drastic actions by giving enough supports to the teenagers and children before this situation became
uncontrolled and ruined the whole nine yards.

In conclusion, bullying is a socially unacceptable behavior caused by both social rejection and various underlying drivers. The main risk
factors include personality, psychosocial factors such as social rejection, struggle for power, cannot regulate their emotion, and poor parenting.
Despite all these risk factors, the effects of bullying outweigh the benefits of bullying. However, it is important to understand that bullying is a
deviance that can be controlled and eliminated. It is also important to understand that the statistics provided above may not be reliable because
there are cases in which bullying incidences are not reported or under reported. Kids without stress may respond to those who are vulnerable
or different not by bullying but with kindness. So parents and teachers need to be aware of bullying, and monitor the attitude of children in their
care accordingly. If adults address their real problems, children will open their minds to parents and teachers, and the causes of bullying will be
gradually eliminated.

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