Monica (Ecuador/USA)

Assalamu Aleykum!

I was born in a Catholic family in Ecuador. My family

was never very religious. I mean, they didn't go to
church or things like that, except for my grandma whom
I loved very much. However, they sent me to a Catholic
high school. There, I learned about the religion and I
also learned about the spiritual side of life. Years later, I
had the opportunity to go to a college in the U.S. Over
there, there were a good number of muslims studying. I
didn't know anything at all about Islam at first.
Sometimes I saw them performing prayers. I had never
seen a prayer like that. I thought it was very peaceful,
and they seemed to have so much faith while doing it.
This is the first thing that attracted me to Islam.
Actually, it wasn't until I was about to come back home,
when I was finishing school, that I decided to learn more
about this religion. I always liked to learn about other
beliefs and cultures. But this was time that I especially
felt unsatisfied about Catholicism. Then, I tried to
contact some people at the masjid. Finally, they led me
to a sister who was teaching classes for converts at the
mosque. I started attending these classes, and after a few
months I decided that Islam was the religion for me.
Islam, in contrast to Catholicism, seemed very pure. I
mean, like it had very little influence from people. It
 seemed perfect. It was hard to find anything I could
disagree with. Its hard for me to express the difference I
felt between these two religions...I also feel that with
Islam I'm sort of more guided, either by the Quran or
the hadiths. Whereas, when I was Catholic, it was kind
of like I had to figure out what to do in certain situation.
People might think that Islam is strict, but I think thats
the way its meant to be. I mean, I feel in this way God
tells us very clearly what he expects. And you don't have
to just wonder in the world looking for the truth, or the
real happiness, or things like that.

Islam hasn't been easy, I have to admit. For those

coming from other religions, and for muslims too, I'd
like to say that its very important to respect others, and
to learn to listen to them. One of the problems with
Islam has been that muslims have been so closed to other
people, that they cant get to know us or the religion. I
also think that muslims should be more open to converts,
and more respectful to them. I myself felt sometimes
rejected by both groups, the muslims and my old
catholic friends. I've met other converts, and often they
seem like they have more faith than a muslim-born
person. So, I think they deserve some credit for that. It's
very unfair to treat them as if they were not real
muslims.

Well, thats about it. I hope Im not missing anything. Of

course there are many things Id like to say. But its
getting too long.