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After an introduction round we looked together at We discussed 5 topics; the website, the skills
the goals of the SISTER’S PROJECT. We came of sisters, our own place, publicity and useful
to the conclusion that although the project started projects. Every topic ended with action points, to
with only four sisters the last months, it’s a which you can give your support as well.
project which belongs to all of us!
So to every sister who likes to make a change to See below and if you see something you like,
those around her and those in need. The goal of the email us on info@sistersproject.co.uk!
website and the Sisterhood Meetings is to come
together as sisters with a focus on the concerns of
sisters in Birmingham and focus on building up a
caring and supportive sisterhood network in our
local area.
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The website
The website (www.sistersproject.co.uk) has two purposes;
1 - Be a place where sisters feel comfortable to go to when they are in need of anything/have
certain issues.
2 - Be a platform for sisters who want to contribute anything (skills) to the Ummah & to support
each other in Birmingham.
To do website:
1 - Put a list online of (useful) forth coming events in Birmingham which sisters can visit.
2 - Start a blog/column with different articles/ topics which different sisters can compile by
contributing a text (focus on different sisters’ issues and advices).
- http://www.hhugs.org.uk/ (serves the needs of families of victims of British anti terror act, are im-
mediately in need of any funds, donations). Urgent: as the HHUGS families are in need, it might be an
idea to organize a fundraiser together.
- http://www.cageprisoners.com/ (the organizations for Muslim captives around the world)
Dear sister,
Please look again at the action points above and see what you
would like to do.
Poem:
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Go to: http://www.sistersproject.co.uk/?menu=join_us
to fill in the skills form.
Or if you know someone who might need some help, or you
need help yourself, contact us at info@sistersproject.co.uk.
We will try to connect you with the right person from our
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database.
Dilemma:
Pain & Pleasure
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verything in this world is a mixture of pain and That is what the world, the dunya is: a mask. As soon
pleasure. Nothing is pure. If it was total plea- as you pick up that layer you see how frail she is.
sure it was Paradise and it was total pain it was You can taste the enjoyment, but the real thing is in
Hellfire. Paradise. Even if there’s enjoyment in this world, it’s
only temporary. In this world, you can’t eat or drink
Think about your experiences in Paradise, in Jannah.. unlimited, in Jannah you could drink your whole river
a combination of excitement, fun, pleasure, tranquil- if you want to.
lity and peace. A combination of psychical and
psychological happiness. Is there anybody that never ever in their life felt the
And think about eternity... pain of fire? Almost every single one of us has ever
imagine you ask whatever you want and whatever burnt herself. As if a reminder to all of us, Allah [swt]
wishes you have will be fulfilled. You’re going to enjoy makes us taste a fragrance of it.
it for all of your life; it makes the enjoyment of this How many reminders do we need until we start using
world seem pale, doesn’t it? So dear sister, let’s get our time wisely? Thinking our chance in this world will
back to our senses and wake up. soon be gone and we will be in our graves with our
If you look in Jannah you will see pleasure and a good deeds as our one and only companion?
great Kingdom. In this world we experience pain, our
hearts are being broken, we are hurt, our bodies suf- The time is now to make our pain in this world trans-
fer from illnesses, our patience is being tested and our form into pleasure in the next. To not let our problems
minds get exhausted. We wear the make-up of wives, take us down, but transform them into energy and
mothers, daughters and sisters, but our souls know willpower by helping each other and performing good
we do not belong here. And time is ticking away for our deeds. And thus, pave a way for yourself to that Great
end to come in this world and to make the transition Kingdom where no pain, no loneliness and no broken
to the next. hearts exist. No one else can do it for you, but you.
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Muslims
And
Depression By: Umm Sebastian
O
ne in four people will expe- weapon to fight negative thoughts * Sleep – getting adequate rest is
rience some kind of men- and feelings; dua. Just asking Allah vital to help us cope with lifes trials.
tal health problem in the to help us is a reminder that this life Sleeping on your right hand side,
course of a year. The most com- is transitional and temporary. as recommended by the prophet
mon being depression and anxiety. Other means are: (saws) has been scientifically
Muslims are not exempt from these proven to aid relaxation thus
statistics although many cases go *Awareness – just being aware of achieving a better night’s sleep.
unreported. This may be due to a issues like mental health will make
number of factors, such as cultural you better equipped to see when * Integration – this is very im-
pressures, immigration status and you or someone you know needs portant but sometimes difficult for
fear of discrimination to name a support. Some signs of depression sisters to do, especially if they
few. In these cases it falls upon the can include: have recently converted and may
community to help. - insomnia not know any sisters. We should
- anxiety not be shy in approaching each
As Muslims we believe that Allah - no self interest other, smiling can be the easiest
(swt) never puts a burden on us - constantly crying way to start a conversation, as is
greater than we can bear. Some- - reduced appetite/over eating giving salam. Mixing with other
times when faced with difficulties - panic attacks Muslim women who are pious and
or trauma this is easy to forget. - reduced personal hygiene virtuous benefits us and can only
Sisters need to be there to remind - small tasks seem overwhelming increase our reward and enrich our
one another. - everyday tasks seen pointless understanding of Islam. Meeting
in a regular basis or even simpler
I was once told by a dear sister that * Dhikr – Remembering Allah with things like sending texts, emails or
women need to say at least twen- everything that we do. letters are ways of letting others
ty five thousand words a day, just Seeking Allah’s help with prayer and know you care which can really lift
to feel satisfied. There are many patience. Allah will reward us someone’s mood.
sisters who have no one to talk greatly if we persevere trough
to. They may not have a family, or times of hardship. Ultimately we need to strengthen
unsupportive one, they may be “Those who patiently persevere the ties between sisters in Islam,
lonely and isolated. It is hard to will truly receive a reward with- loving each other for the sake of
combat low feelings and whispers out measure” (Qur’an 39:10) Allah. If we all strive to do this,
from the shaytaan if you feel as if sisters would always have
you are alone. * Observe Sunnah and nafl fasts someone to turn to when they feel
The Ummah has such a great husband permitting. helpless. For Allah (swt) says:
responsibility to ensure that all Fasting helps us to remember “The believers are but a single
Muslims are valued and cared Allah throughout the day and brotherhood…”( Qur’an 49:10)
for. We have the most powerful strengthens our faith.
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Do you want to share your story, article or tips? Then email us at: newsletter@sistersproject.co.uk
THE
SMILEY
SISTERS
MINI
PROJECT
By: Umm Sebastian
I
used to live in Reading and when I just converted to Islam I was so excited that I wanted to
let all the Muslim women out there know I had accepted Islam. I said salam to every sister
I saw but was very disheartened by the response, or lack of one.
Since moving to Birmingham where there are, Alhamdulilah, thousands of Muslims the
problem is no better and you could argue worse. I am planning insha’Allah to convince the
sisters to smile more and spread salam.
“When a greeting is offered to you, meet it with a greeting still more curteous or at least of
equal courtesy” (Qur’an 4:86)
I have written a rhyme, and I will be ‘attempting’ insha’Allah to make key rings with this rhyme
on to give to the sisters to hand out to the Muslim community in Birmingham (or anywhere).
Do you want to help out with this project email to: info@sistersproject.co.uk
Do you want to share and get support for your own idea/mini project?
Then email us at: newsletter@sistersproject.co.uk
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He said, “Of course.” She said, “Do
you not feel ashamed to prostrate
yourself to a piece of wood that
grew in the ground and was carved
by the slave of Banu so-and-so?”
Abu Talhah was stubborn, and
hinted to her of an expen-
sive dowry and luxurious life-
style, but she persisted in her
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Project to T
here are significant numbers of Muslims
in the UK who have special needs. And
while many have access to the national
curriculum, very few have access to any sort of
Islamic education.
SUPPORT:
Baseera is the UK’s first institute dedicated to the
Islamic education and well being of Muslims with
special needs. We recognise that people with special
needs play an integral role in society.
BASEERA
The Prophet’s (peace be upon him) companion
Abdullah Ibn Umm Maktum (may Allah be pleased
with him) is a famous example of how the Prophet
educated, nurtured, and elevated a Muslim who was
born blind. The Prophet sought Abdullah’s council,
appointed him to many important tasks, and gave
him a high rank among his companions. Abdullah
Ibn Umm Maktum was partially responsible for
calling people to prayer in Medina, and was
appointed the leader of Medina during the Prophet’s
absence on more than ten occasions.
Our Aims
* To establish and maintain a national network
of specially trained teachers and volunteers to
support Muslims who suffer from blindness and
other special needs.
HOW
support each other for women in Birming- of sisters, to provide for each others’ needs.
ham. Using our compassion, our openness and
all our personal skills, we can build a group to Sisterhood Meeting
help each other in our daily lives and make a If you would like to attend the next sisterhood
TO
change in our area. meeting sign up at:
http://www.sistersproject.co.uk/?menu=events
If you would like to be part of this, go to
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JOIN
If you have any questions or if you know any If you would like to contribute to the next
sisters or projects in need of support, don’t edition of the newsletter, send your idea on a
hesitate to email to: info@sistersproject.co.uk topic, motivational story, dilemma, interesting
project or activity or any other beneficial updates
on sisterhood in Birmingham to:
newsletter@sistersproject.co.uk.
hour
hour you can plan ahead each week. An hour
that will make you feel good inside. Because
you see the effect it brings about. An hour of
a week
reward. But.. where to start?
project
www.onehouraweekproject.co.uk
The Muslim Diary contains a practical list on which you can mark the acts of worship
and good deeds you did that day. The list is a selection of the most recommended
acts of ‘ibadah [worship] in a schedule with all week days. All the deeds are being
explained in an easy but powerful way through Qur’anic verses and Ahadith.
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www.themuslimdiary.com