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DIARIES
How to find your fit in fashion
& accelerate your career
By Dione Bledsoe
Nothing beats a good fit. It just feels right. When placed properly, people thrive, impacting their
team, company and the industry as a whole. Sound lofty?
The power of a proper fit illustrates why a candidate thrives in one environment and struggles in
another. The fit is a good match for a companys culture, team dynamics, candidates personality,
purpose, skills and natural abilities. A successful placement is about more than matching a resume
to a job description. I acknowledge the invaluable chemistry between candidate, company and team.
Finding talent is the easy part, something that every recruiter should be able to identify. Most of my
time is spent focusing on fit.
When partnering with HR professionals and hiring managers I help them understand what they
need and want from their future team member, leader and employee. This is not always easy. Often
times we have one of two views; a highly conceptual notion of who this person is and how they will
add value to the company or a detailed list of skills and qualifications. Neither is wrong but both
are incomplete. In addition to a list of qualifications and desired skills I believe in understanding
a brands heritage, company culture, team dynamics, consumer, and aesthetic. Finding the fit all
begins with understanding and discernment. Part of my job is to help HR and hiring managers
develop a comprehensive picture of the person that will be most successful in their given role and
ultimately contribute to the success of the company.
As an industry leader, executive, or CEO what are your goals and ambitions for your company or
brand? Im guessing you have a list of outcome focused goals. What about human capital? Who in
your company is thriving and who is struggling? Who is missing? As we begin to look at our list of
goals the answers are found in the people, the employees. What could your company accomplish if
each team member was maximizing their potential and thriving?
Why does the Fit exist? I believe that when people are in the right environment (for them) they will
naturally impact their team members, company and the industry at large in a positive way. They will
be loyal, content and they will thrive.
I help hiring managers and human resource professionals take a holistic approach to determining
who they need to attract, both qualitative and quantitative aspects. I encourage candidates to
develop a sense of self awareness, know their purpose, strengths and to actively pursue personal
growth.
Here are some questions to get you thinking
What are your goals and ambitions for your company / brand?
What types of people do you need to attract to your company to be more successful?
So while Im not able to directly assist you allow me to offer a strategic approach to landing your
first job. This one goes out to the newbies.
SELECT A MARKET SEGMENT
Choose your market segment and choose
wisely. Want to work in Fashion? Dont apply
at Columbia Sportswear. Your first employer
can pigeon hole your resume into the types
of companies who will even consider your
candidacy for future employment. And the
next, and so on. Its a domino effect. We
humans like to put people into boxes. I know
you think youll be able to make the jump from
The North Face to Nordstrom, and maybe
you will but it wont be easy. Why make life
hard? Hiring managers like to see a theme of
companies within a specific market segment.
Down the road, consistency adds value to
your resume and recruiters will be calling.
Maybe me.
Popular market segments include, Active
or Athletic Apparel, Outdoor, Action Sports,
Contemporary, Denim, Fashion, Intimates or
Ready-to-Wear.
IDENTIFY
Identify 10-20 companies youd like to work
for keeping in mind the market segment per
the former. What not to do: apply with any
company who has a job posted on the internet.
Sure, I know what youre thinking, you need a
job. Its tempting, I get it. A word to remember,
equanimity. Slow is smooth, smooth is fast.
Target only those companies you truly want to
work for and eventually youll find a way in.
Promise. Remember, your first and second job
has the propensity to dictate your career path
so choose wisely.
I always feel a little guilty when a recent grad, resume in attachment lands
in my inbox. I wish I could help you with your job search, I really do but Im
probably not the best resource at least in this stage of your career. You
see, my clients engage with The Fit to fill senior level positions and above.
This could mean anything from Sr. Designer to SVP of Merchandising. An
assistant design or buyer position is a rare find on this recruiters list of
Career Opportunities. The problem is I really love entry level candidates.
Whats not to love? The creative enthusiasm, unlimited possibilities, hope
and willingness to work hard and learn frequently is paralleled only to the
joy of finding a perfect pair of jeans. Maybe. Maybe not. But the limitless
hope and opportunity remains. Ive made my point.
NETWORK
Lets pretend for a self-indulgent moment that
one of your well identified companies has a
job opportunity immediately available. Great!
Apply online, get the job and live happily ever
after. Back to reality. Thats often not the case.
The companies you want to work for may not
The timeline of finding a job can vary depending on a number of factors. Its best to blend
your efforts. Combine the direct, targeted approach with joining appropriate LinkedIn
groups and leverage your network. Dont compromise on the direction of your career.
Finding the right fit may take some time but we promise it will be worth the investment.
Self-Awareness
Part 1: To Talent
Self awareness goes a long way. Whether you are casually observing the job market, open
to learning about potential opportunities or an active job seeker, its always in your best
interest to maintain a high level of self-awareness. By knowing yourself, your strengths
and values you will inevitably save yourself a lot of time, energy and potential pain during
the job search process.
So how do we get there? Awareness to ownership to empowerment doesnt typically
happen overnight. But theres no time like the present. Increasing self-awareness should
be viewed with a sense of urgency.
Final thoughts
Its all a matter of personal preference. There is no right or wrong answer.
As an industry professional, its your job to know yourself. As a recruiter, its my job to
know which companies will align with who you are. More on that in part 2.
If you know who you are and whats important to you, youre more likely to identify the right
companies that are a fit for your strengths, culture and passion. Youll be more fulfilled and
thrive. Ultimately, isnt that what we all want?
So whats next? You know the answers to our questions. How about some life level
application?
In part 1 we asked a series of questions. Now that you know the answers
lets move from self-awareness to life level application. What shall we do
with this information? In Part 2 we will offer up some suggestions on how
to use this information to identify and discern potential companies for
which you may choose to pursue.
1. STRENGTHS
What are your top 5 strengths?
Are you utilizing at least 3 of your top strengths in your
current role? Which aspects of your role most fulfill you?
If youre not utilizing at least some of your top strengths in
your job, chances are you are not happy. Identifying a role
that taps your strengths is key to finding the right fit.
*did I overuse the word strength? Yeah, probably but I do
what I want.
2. CULTURE
This one might be a little bit tricky. Talk to someone inside
the company or a past employee. Ideally more than one
individual. Also, consider your source. What type of culture
does your source value? Are they soured or drinking the
Kool-Aid? Your best bet? Talk to a recruiter who has an
inside perspective of what its really like to work at dozens
of companies in the industry. I might know one
3. TRAINING
What am I talking about?
Leadership training
Mentorship programs
Seminars or shows. For example, I worked with a
candidate who valued the opportunity to attend materials
shows where she could learn about the latest and greatest
available raw materials and technology.
know who they are. They know who they are. Depending
on the market segment and product you can get a basic
sense. Trend driven companies like Forever 21 will have
a more intense vibe because their product and styles
are constantly changing to keep up with a trend driven
consumer. Makes sense right?
5. ADVANCEMENT OPPORTUNITY
How is the company structured? Are they a flat or vertical
organization? This is another appropriate question to ask
HR. You can find out if theres room for advancement by
asking indirectly. Heres how:
Whats the reporting structure?
When was the last time an employee was promoted?
Whats the average tenure?
Final Thoughts
Did I leave you with more questions than when we started? Are you
more confused now? Its not easy to navigate the industry, identify those
companies which we feel not only connected to but can also thrive in
their company culture and work environment.
If I know whats important to you, I can quickly give you a handful of
companies that you should consider pursuing. I can also tell you which
ones you will likely be unhappy with.
So what do you think? What matters most to you?
LinkedIn Groupie
How many LinkedIn groups are you a
member of? Two, five, 10? Did you know
that you can belong to as many as 50
LinkedIn groups? True story, LinkedIn
allows each user to join up to 50 groups of
their own choosing. You may be wondering,
why on earth would I want to belong to so
many groups? Spoiler alert, Ill tell you why
joining as many LinkedIn groups as you are
able may actually help you find a job that
is not posted on any job board including
LinkedIn. Im not saying that if you join
a lot of groups youll get a job but your
chances of being contacted by recruiters
and hiring managers will exponentially
increase. Heres why. When sourcing a
search for potential candidates I run an
advanced search for specific titles coupled
with a target company. First, let me back up
and define the term source. Souring talent
is recruiter jargon for identifying talent, or
mining names. This is often done through
a company database as well as LinkedIn.
Before a recruiter can contact a prospective
candidate we have to know who you are;
including your name, title and current
employer. At The Fit we source both our
database as well as our LinkedIn network.
Back to the sourcing process. Once Ive
identified a specific candidate Id like to
contact on LinkedIn I look for one of three
ways to contact you directly. The first is
your current employer. If its a well known
established company I can often email
directly if I know your companys email
format. For example, Dione@findthefit.net.
Easy, right? If I dont know the format Ill
check to see if we share a group. If we do,
then I can email you through LinkedIn via
the shared group. Lastly, if neither of the
former apply then I will consider sending
you what LinkedIn refers to as an inMail.
If you own a paid account, which most
recruiters do, you can opt to inMail anyone
on LinkedIn which sounds super convenient
and effective. A few things about inMails.
BROAD FOCUS
Womens Wear Daily (58,939 members)
Fashion & Lifestyle Industry Professionals Worldwide
(156,777 members)
Luxury & Lifestyle Professionals (139,343 members)
The Business of Fashion (22,841 members)
Apparel & Accessory Jobs (43,052 members)
Retail Industry Professionals Group (325,554 members)
JOB FUNCTION
Ecommerce and Online Marketing Experts (51,222
members)
Gerber Technology CAD Solutions (1,378 members)
Retail Management (113,372 members)
Textile Designers (19,087 members)
All Retail Executive Network (53,156 members)
MARKET SEGMENT
Premium Denim Jeans (2,237 members)
Intimate Apparel Professionals (3,547 members)
Footwear Industry (20,465 members)
Luxury Handbags (4,432 members)
Sports Industry Network (138,502 members)
Outdoor Sporting Goods Connection (15,718 members)
SoCal Action Sports Connection (5,832 members)
Cataloging Achievements.
Industry Faux Pas or
Prudent Planning?
Last week a headline in Womens Wear Daily by Sharon Edelson caught my eye, Joseph
Boitano to Exit Saks Fifth Avenue. As in the Joseph Boitano, SVP and GMM of the Designer and
Contemporary business? Why would he abandon his rather coveted post after a 14 year tenure?
Then I remembered, Marigay McKee, former Chief Merchant at Harrods, recently assumed the
President post in December. Could it be new leadership? As I quickly scanned the article citing
the reason for Josephs departure his response was quite contrary to my own assumption. In fact,
he made a point of stating just the opposite, he said his decision to leave Saks had not a thing to
do with the companys new management. While Im certainly not questioning the authenticity of his
statement, the article got me thinking.
As a recruiter one of the first questions I ask a candidate who is actively looking to make a change,
is why. Why do you want to leave your current employer? Not always, but often times the answer
goes something like this, well they (the company) hired this new manager and you fill in the
blank. What is it about new leadership that causes so many to look elsewhere? This cycle appears
consistent across the board without prejudice of level or function within companies both large and
small.
At the risk of over simplifying this rather complicated issue one supposition can be reduced to a
common theme. People work for people. This assumption maintains truth on both sides of the hiring
coin. I recently spoke with a candidate who left her job in New York for a company in Wisconsin.
Its safe to say that Wisconsin was not at the top of her list of destination cities. Nor was the role
an exceedingly great one in terms of advancement or compensation. So why did she make the
change? A former boss that she thoroughly enjoyed working with took a job with the same company
and given the chance to work together again, this candidate accepted the job. On the flip side, Ive
had hiring managers request that I contact candidates they have previously worked well with in the
past. The rationale behind both is simple, working with someone you know and work well with is a
known entity. You know what to expect in terms of leadership style, skill set and personality. But its
more than that.
We spend so much time at our jobs; often more hours are spent with our team, managers and coworkers than with our significant others, friends and families. The people we work with can have a
major influence on our happiness, success and drive to excel. Have you ever worked with someone
who you just clicked with? Someone who motivated, encouraged or inspired you? This type of
working relationship creates synergy; an intangible element of our working environment exclusive
of compensation and even the larger company culture. Its priceless.
Am I saying that we should allow others to determine our futures? No, but when we find someone
who we work well with, it certainly makes life on the job a more fulfilling place.
What do you say?
Whats the value of a synergistic working relationship?
Would you leave your current role to work with a former (beloved) boss?
What lengths would you go to recruit a former co-worker who you knew was a great team member?
The Layoff
Talent is not
Enough
There are hundreds of articles online offering advice and tips on how to
market oneself. Ive read a few, some have value, others I might categorize
as obvious fluff. I wasnt sure what to expect from DWayne Edwards
presentation on the subject at the Athletic Outdoor Young Professionals
(AOYP) Winter Professional Development Event. Name sound familiar?
It should. Edwards is the former Footwear Design Director of Nikes
JORDAN Brand. He ought to know a thing or two on how to effectively
market yourself in a highly competitive footwear design industry. Edwards
is the founder of the first academy in the US dedicated to Footwear Design,
PENSOLE Footwear Design Academy.
To say the least his tips were refreshingly honest, direct and attendees
were glued to the presentation; furious note taking ensued. Edwards offers
a rare inside look at what to do and not do to land the job.
RESUME TIPS
DE: How does a resume tell a story? List your interests.
This is the only chance I have to get to know you as
a person. What are you hobbies? How do you spend
your free time?
List jobs that may not directly relate to the footwear
industry. Most resume coaches will tell you to take any
indirect experience off your resume as its considered
irrelevant. Edwards disagrees recalling one candidate who
listed Park Worker under employment experience. As it
turns out this individual mowed lawns as a part time job. If
this girl was willing to put on a jumpsuit and mow lawns she
is demonstrating willingness and work ethic, he explains.
DE: Theres no need for an objective, cover letter or
listing references on your resume. References are
a waste of time. Ive never called a reference. Who
is going to list a reference who will say something
negative? Edwards argues. Makes sense, right?
PORTFOLIO TIPS
You spend a lot of time on your portfolio but dont expect
hiring managers to reciprocate. Edwards explains that you
have less than 20 seconds to impress before being tossed
in the not interested pile.
DE: At Nike we would receive a huge stack of portfolios.
I turn 3-4 pages to the left and right; about 15 seconds
PHONE INTERVIEWS
DE: Im looking for different things at each stage of the
(interview) process. Aside from personality screening,
Im fact checking everything you said on your resume.
If you list a specific program on your areas of expertise
make sure youve got the experience to back it up
verbally.
IN PERSON INTERVIEWS
DE: Im looking for body language and how you
articulate your answers. I always have other people
Include
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4.
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8.
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the following:
Design Brief
Branding
Research
Ideation early concepts, visual storytelling
Prototyping
Solutions
Materials
Color
3D Modeling
Rendering by hand & computer
Final show me the finale, the beauty shot
Tech Packs
Packaging
Private Equity.
Corporate Leadership
Alternative?
For some middle management and senior executives private equity
has become a term that makes many a stomach turn and produces the
occasional eye roll. The unsettling threat of potential job loss, fear of
change and an unwelcome shift in company culture.
Sure, private equity firms can add value by buying a tired brand that needs
revitalization. While private equity firms are widely acknowledged as data
and financial wizards many firms are realizing they need more fashion
industry expertise on their teams. As a result many firms are hiring industry
executives to deepen their knowledge and leverage their influence. Doesnt
it seem more reasonable to accept the suggestions of one who has lived
in the trenches?
Could this mean there is a new pocket of job opportunities for senior
executives? Im always eager to see where said leaders will land once
departing their prestigious posts. Last week, Ron Frasch, former president
and CMO of Saks Fifth Avenue, was named an operating partner at private
equity firm Castanea Partners, which owns Donald J Pliner. One might
consider if the grass is actually greener (no compensation pun intended).
What if youre not in line for the CEO throne? Maybe you have no such
aspirations? Could this be the new corporate leadership alternative? What
splendors can a shift in perspective lend a seasoned executive? Well,
probably plenty. I often hear many executives express the desire to provide
a more strategic view point and have the power to truly affect change at a
high level without the politics of a corporate culture. A role with a private
equity firm can often fulfill a desire to steer significant change and make an
impact on long term success for a brand without the quarterly pressures of
Wall Street. Theres opportunity to mend management problems or brand
positioning. Feeling creative?
2014 predictions indicate no signs of slowing the private equity buying
binge. As the industry continues to undergo major shifts in technology
and eCommerce the demand for more new jobs within firms is likely to
increase.
If you dont want to trade one brand or retailer for another, consider the
private equity route. If you do, call me.
Consider Mentorship
Who among us has not benefited from a teacher, mentor or
wisdom from a friend?
Throughout most of my career Ive been fortunate enough
to have some pretty spectacular mentors whom I admired
and respected both within the fashion industry as well
as civic leaders. Ive sought their wisdom during difficult
decisions, feedback on projects and big ideas.
There are plenty of reasons as to why one should consider
serving as a mentor. Helping someone else has plenty
of value in itself. Obviously. Its the right thing to do?
Absolutely. So why dont more people volunteer their time
to help others grow and develop professionally?
Have I convinced you yet? Ready to gain all the benefits of being a mentor
but arent sure how to begin? Heres one idea.
Sign up to be a mentor with the Two Ten Footwear Foundation via Women
in the Footwear Industry (WIFI).
The commitment is minimal and the rewards abundant.
21 hours over a 12 month period. Thats less than 2 hours per month!
This includes:
3 hours: Preparation
12 hours: Talking / Meeting
6 hours: Reflecting
Centered
Leadership
Whats all this talk about Centered
Leadership? This concept is based on
having a well of physical, intellectual,
emotional and spiritual strength that drives
personal achievement and also inspires
others. It focuses on helping women
maximize their potential in leadership.
Being that I am biased to the female
gender, naturally Im intrigued.
The 2014 Outdoor Industry Womens
Coalition (OIWC) theme focuses on
Centered Leadership.
In support of
this model theyve offered a series
of educational events that feature an
executive from the outdoor industry who
shares their perspective on one essential
leadership skill that can give attendees
success in the outdoor industries and grow
their career.
Last night the OIWC clan gathered at the
Portland REI eager to hear guest speaker,
Adrienne Moser, VP of Global Product
Integration at Columbia Sportswear. Ive
heard Adrienne speak a number of times
before and she never disappoints. Her
authenticity, humility and sense of humor is
always well received.
right opportunity.
inclusion
and
build
Will Private
Equity Get You a
Promotion?
Its happening again.
A few weeks ago I mused on the current trend of senior
executives transitioning from traditional corporate
leadership positions to private equity roles.
Glen Senk, former CEO of David Yurman and Urban
Outfitters has linked with private equity firm Berkshire
Partners to form Front Row Partners, serving as chairman
and CEO which plans to build a portfolio of companies
in the retail and consumer sectors, Womens Wear Daily
reported.
So here we are again. What kind of impact will this shift in
leadership perspective have on the industry? How will it
shape brands, innovation and design?
2014 predictions indicate no signs of slowing the private
equity buying binge. As the industry continues to undergo
major shifts in technology and eCommerce the demand for
more new jobs within firms is likely to increase. Considering
the new possibilities from the investment perspective how
enticing will these new career opportunities become for the
senior executive who is truly ready to make a change?
How many companies exist without presidents, CMOs and
C-Suite positions alike? With top level positions vacated a
new crop of leaders will likely rise to take their place. As
industry veterans swallow up investment roles does this
mean an increased number of career opportunities for the
next generation of leadership? Or maybe it means nothing.
Why Do
Companies
Conceal Culture
From Talent?
What would happen if companies spent a fraction of
the energy used developing consumer facing brand
culture on communicating their company culture to
potential talent? Earlier this week I mused on the
growing trend of millennials taking a more strategic
approach to finding a proper fit within the industry.
Millennials are certainly not the only demographic
who desires a companys transparency concerning
culture.
If industry leadership truly believes that talent is
driving their success why is there not more dedication
to communicating a companys culture? There has
been improvement over the years. Most career pages
offer at least a paragraph or two highlighting company
history, facilities and at least a keyhole view of their
personality. Sometimes these summaries feel more
like advertorials than an autobiography.
What if there was more? Ive yet to meet an
HR professional who wasnt able to quickly and
effectively communicate with some enthusiasm the
climate of their culture. Honestly share the type of
candidates who are typically successful and why
people like to work with their team. Why then, is
this valuable information left to talent acquisition
and HR to communicate on an individual basis? The
overwhelming majority of industry talent is curious.
Tell us about your corporate vibe, work-life balance,
leadership training, career opportunities both laterally
and advancement. Transparency goes a long way in
building trust with potential talent as well as preventing
future misfits. Tell us about your challenges. Why
wouldnt someone be successful with your company?
Is the fear that being more specific will scare off talent?
Maybe it shouldnt be. Maybe we should stop being so
apologetic, attempting to appeal to the masses and
directly target the types of talent we really want. Isnt
this the strategy most brands use when marketing to
their consumers? Why is it any different with talent?
If brands communicated their internal culture from a
human perspective with a certain level of substance
and detail would you be more or less likely to make an
informed decision before wasting both parties time?
How many hours would this save both sides of the
interview desk, ultimately impacting the bottom line
while preserving a companys reputation?
I realize Im asking a lot of questions here while not
offering nearly as many, if any solutions. While I have
a few thoughts on the subject Ill save those for next
time. One thing is clear, is not on the decline anytime
soon. What we do with that insight is the real question.
#StandOut
Here are a few simple tools you can use every day.
INSTAGRAM
Since we live in a visual industry, photos are not only appropriate, theyre essential.
Did you just get a new sample that looks promising? Snap a quick photo then upload to
Instagram. Include a clever caption. Maybe you focus on a product detail or target customer.
Mention the brand using the handle or hashtag. For example @CharlesDavidCA or
#CharlesDavidCA
You can also target potential customers who may have an interest in your product by way of
mention, via handle or hashtag.
Mentions create brand awareness for the product line, customers and you.
Id recommending using additional hashtags with keywords that relate to the product or
caption. Instagram is easily searchable via hashtags and youre likely to receive likes from
users who are not your followers, resulting in more reach and ultimately gain the attention of
potential future lines or customers. By promoting others, you promote yourself.
TWITTER
Twitter is one of the fastest ways to spread your brand message and create product awareness.
When you upload a photo from Instagram you can also share it to Twitter. Theres a two-fer!
Just leave an appointment with a retailer or wholesale account? Why not tweet it and mention
the store or company? Include a photo of the retail space or product.
ENGAGING IN SOCIAL MEDIA TO LEVERAGE YOUR PERSONAL BRAND
In a sea of independent shoe reps how can you stand out in the crowd?
Stand for something. What can you bring to the industry that no one else can? Simply,
have a unique point of view. Do you have a distinct selling philosophy? Exceptional
customer service that goes above and beyond? Focus in a specific market niche?
Communicate your brand. Again. And again.
Social Media is a free and easy way to effectively leverage your personal brand, the lines
you rep and connect with new customers.
Follow others reps on twitter, customers and the lines your rep. Id also recommend following
a few industry news accounts to stay current on trends. Remember to retweet a post you like,
find value in or simply want to promote. The less its about you, the more its about you.
LINKEDIN
Be sure to join several relevant LinkedIn groups. Consider posting inspirational quotes, links
to industry news and of course, new product. Sharing an update to your profile and posting in
LinkedIn groups will increase your visibility. Your profile should be up to date, include a photo
and clearly communicate who you are and what you do. This is a great place to include your
selling philosophy or whatever makes you unique.
By now you might be wondering, how much time will this require? Less than 30 minutes a
day. The key to leveraging your personal brand is a clear, unique message. Communicate
consistently through social media channels while focusing on others.
How many other reps are engaging in social media to leverage their personal brand?
Maybe youll be the first. #StandOut
No Response
Ever been on a date, thought you had a connection then never heard from them again? You texted, you
called, you Facebook stalked, you waited. Nothing. Maybe you spent the next few days recanting the event
considering possible scenarios that lead to a lack of interest from the other party. Was it something I said?
Maybe I shouldnt have ordered the garlic chicken? While it could be any reason within the clockwork orange
that is your imagination its likely something less dramatic. Regardless of the real reason it never feels good.
Would you just rather have them tell you the truth? Maybe not the whole truth but something along the lines of,
look Im just not interested.
Somewhere along the way this lack of communication has become the standard. The status quo no response
has permeated the hiring process. How many times have you applied for a job online and never received a
response? Worse yet, interviewed over the phone, sent a thank you and received no response. Worst of all, met
with a potential employer in person only to never hear from them again. You thought the interview went really
well. They even said they would contact you with next steps.
Sadly, this is not an uncommon story. Oh if I had a penny. Has it always been this way? No. Seven years ago
I applied for a job and received a letter in the mail from the company thanking me for my interest, praising my
qualifications but politely declining their interest. Clearly this was a standard letter but still, it felt good and it
brought closure. Did I mention I received a letter? In the mail? Not an email. A letter on actual letterhead.
Why is the no-response a common practice today? Theres no simple answer. In this recruiters humble opinion
its partly due to the shift in electronic candidate applicant tracking systems. This is when you apply online for a
job and your resume descends into the black hole. But what about when you actually speak to another human?
Well, thats just bad form. Are we too busy to send a simple email thanking someone for their time with a polite
thanks-but-no-thanks? Its difficult to tell someone no. Rather than simply closing the loop we use avoidance to
assuage the uncomfortable. Its not right, no one likes it but its reality.
Fortunately as a recruiter I almost never experience this. Feedback from hiring managers overflows with the
good, the bad and the ugly. Could it be because they dont have to deliver it personally and its up to me to relay
the news?
How do you handle the rejection or lack thereof? Give it a week, maybe two at the most. If you still havent heard
back move on and let it go. The mental energy spent trying to figure out why will only consume you, preventing
forward momentum. Do not take it personal. More often than not, it just wasnt a fit.
Thank You
Remember when your mother always reminded you to say thank you? What do you say?
she prompted. While most are quick to offer the verbal gratitude for even the smallest
gestures a proper thank you in professional settings have become confusing. When do
you send a thank you? Is email appropriate or do I need to send a handwritten note? What
should I say?
While there are hundreds of blogs that will offer up free advice on how to navigate the
thank you landscape I propose that you not only consider the how but the equally important
why. First the basics.
PHONE INTERVIEW
An email thank you is appropriate. If you dont have their email address send it to the
person who arranged the interview.
Thank them for their time.
Outline the top 2-3 reasons why you are interested in the job. You can weave in how
your qualifications are a strong match for the role but make sure to highlight something
about the company and include a personal touch. Its likely that the person with whom you
interviewed would be your manager. What did you like about them. Make it about more
about them and less about you.
Keep it short and to the point. Do you like reading novels in email format? The longer the
note the less likely someone will actually read it.
IN-PERSON INTERVIEW
Send a hand written note. I know, youre probably already groaning. The hand written
thank you is actually easier than the email and the response is tenfold. No more than 2-3
sentences including the obvious thanks for spending their time with you. Heres where you
can get more creative and personal. What kind of personal connection do you have to the
brand or product? What did you love about the culture? Note something memorable from
your visit. Avoid reiterating how perfect you are for the job. That part ended when you left
the building.
WHY GO TO ALL THIS TROUBLE?
Especially considering many companies do not properly disposition candidates, engaging
in the no-response trend. Thank you notes are meaningful and always well received. I
love when I open my mailbox and find a hand written addressed envelope. It makes me
feel appreciated and I almost never forget the candidates and clients who send them. For
these people I would happily go the extra mile. Hiring managers are no different. This
industry is about relationships. You never know where someone might end up. Wouldnt
you rather leave a lasting favorable impression? Even if you dont get the job, a thank you
note will set you apart from the impersonal hiring process that our culture has sunken into.
Isnt it the right thing to do?
So what can Sally do the next time she receives a cold call?
Politely ask the recruiter to pause. Explain that you are in the middle of something and cannot talk. Provide them with
a personal email address and ask them to send you an overview of the opportunity. Its okay to ask for the location. For
most this is a critical factor in determining interest level. Why waste time scheduling and conducting a call if relocation is
not feasible. Not all recruiters will tell you who the hiring company is but its okay to ask.
Thank them for their call. Tell them that if youre interested youll respond with a few days and times that youre available
to schedule a call to learn more. Most recruiters will respect your request and be thrilled to email you alternatively.
That wasnt so bad was it? Now its your turn to weigh in. How do you handle cold calls? Would you rather have a call
or an email?
Its less common today to see a resume with more than 5 years of tenure in one place.
Clearly there are exceptions to this rule. Im aware of a handful of candidates who have
more than 20 years with the same company. More with less than two years of experience
within each role. Overall the industry average is around 3-4 years at one company.
Why do we change jobs ever few years? Do we become bored, unchallenged, frustrated
or simply looking for a better fit? There are many valid reasons for desiring change. We
talk about most of them on this blog. The larger question is are we moving blindly through
our career or do we have a strategic plan? Ive spoken with several candidates who when
accepting a role quietly and personally commit to x number of years before considering a
change. Others who have a larger goal in mind and each position is a carefully planned
step in their career. Still others who have stumbled upon an opportunity that was simply
too good to resist.
Theres nothing wrong with change. While most of us resist the things that make us
uncomfortable, change is in many ways healthy. It causes us to grow. But again, theres
something to be said for the power of staying power. When I see a resume with 5-10 years
of tenure within the same company, I know I have found someone who is loyal, dedicated
and committed. Hiring managers never question whether this individual will jump ship
after a few seasons or wait it out until a better deals comes knocking. Theyve got grit,
endurance and the stomach to weather the storm through re-orgs, management changes
and their fellow coworkers moving on. These individuals should be greatly appreciated
and valued in their company. They carry an immense amount of institutional knowledge
that can be passed on to incoming talent.
Is tenure something you should pursue at all costs? Certainly not. If you were in an
unhealthy relationship would your closest friends advise you to stick around? On the flip
side nobody and no company is perfect. How will you decide when its time for your next
move?
When I landed my first real job at a fashion modeling agency as a booking agent I never considered how
accepting this role would limit or advance future opportunities. Now more than a decade later one of
the least enjoyable aspects of my position is informing candidates that their background is not a fit for a
specific opportunity.
Recently I had a conversation with a womens apparel designer whos focus was more fashion driven.
Her desire was to make the transition into activewear. I couldnt resist warning her of the implications
this move would have on her future career opportunities. Neither bad nor good this move would have
consequences open to the interpretation of ones desired outcome.
Last month we looked at a few ways to determine your ideal company culture and launch a strategic
approach to your job search. This conversation prompted me to drill down further into the strategic
approach for achieving your career goals. Lets get into it.
Todays market is becoming more specialized. Declaring transferable skill set as an asset is committing
interview suicide. Whats worse is wasting your valuable time pursuing roles that may not be perceived as
Aesthetic: This one is more subjective. This is where our egos can get bruised. Lets say youre
working for a large retailer within fashion. Fashion can mean a lot of different things. Is a company in
the luxury space targeting candidates in fast fashion? While thats a more obvious example, think like
the hiring company. Do they see themselves and your current employer as equals? This premise isnt
exclusive to fashion. The snob factor rings true within the outdoor industry. If one brand is seen as
an innovation giant with superior quality, its less likely that they will pursue talent from a mid-market
brand.
Does this mean that once youre on a path its impossible to make the jump? Absolutely not. It is
however the path of least resistance. Whats more important is that it begs the question, where do you
want to be?
Perceived value: Do you have all of the experience required for this role or do you fall somewhere in the
middle. Your hiring company will likely use this logic to justify a fair offer.
Nearly all potential employers understand that candidates desire an increase in compensation for making
the change. By simply informing them honestly of what you are currently earning allows your hiring
manager to begin to build what they believe to be a fair and attractive compensation package. Youre
actually not answering the question, but rather responding with another question. Now the responsibility
falls onto the hiring manger to speak first as to what they are thinking. The danger of blurting out what
you think you want initially is that a number that is either too low or too high may take you out of the game
prematurely or leave money on the table. Neither of which is desirable.
Emotional: You have a number in mind of what you are hoping to achieve. Why? Is this a purely
emotionally driven determination that has led you to an arbitrary figure? Rather than basing it on Im
worth it, look to other factors that will validate your case. Why do you want this job? Is it about achieving a
significantly higher compensation or is about something else that carries currency? Better culture, career
opportunity, brand, product, etc.
Are some of you cringing at the thought of not coming right out with what it is you actually want? What
will happen if I dont ask for enough? The art of compensation conversations, notice I didnt use the
word negotiation, is just that, a conversation. Often its a learning conversation wherein the objective is
a discovery of information.
Risk: Are you leaving a job with security? Are you moving your family across the country?
Market value: Is your desired compensation in line with current market value and geographic location?
Once youve considered all of the factors weighed on both sides you can begin to develop an intelligent
rationale as to how you have arrived at your target number. Being clear, concise and honest about the
why will likely get you a lot closer to your desired compensation as opposed to coming in hot with a
number straight out of the gate. By doing so, youll likely back your hiring company into a corner from
which there is little room for discussion. Not to mention damaging rapport.
Building a case for an offer is not a game, its an open and honest conversation involving both sides of
the interview desk.
the industry to focus on the right fit, or is it better to get experience anywhere possible.
For this individual, gaining design experience in a range of womens apparel categories
was critical. How does one know which companies are more likely to offer specialized vs.
diverse experience? While cultural fit carries immense currency, achieving their desired
career goals weighed heavily in the decision making process.
When I landed my first real job at a Fashion Modeling agency as a booking agent I never
considered how accepting this role would limit or advance future opportunities. Finding
the right combination of career opportunities, cultural fit and brand association are critical.
Todays young talent seems to get it, considering all factors.
So, youre not a recent college grad, a millennial or just starting out. So what? How does
this affect you? The bigger question is how will companies respond to the increasing
demand for a well-defined company culture?
Heres To
The Crazy Ones
Has anyone else been feeling a little crazy lately? Im not
talking about our overloaded work schedules. Im pointing
to that underlying sense of doubt, questioning oneself.
Why am I doing this? Is this plan really going to work?
Last Friday evening around 7pm I was planted firmly in
front of my laptop deeply engaged in self-doubt when a
close friend and industry pro who I thoroughly respect
and admire sent me a youtube link to The Crazy Ones.
Over the past few weeks I have been planning a number
of new initiatives for The Fit. Not with the intention of
financial growth, although should that produce additional
revenue Im certainly not opposed. Rather with the
purpose of developing a deeper connection to the people
who represent our industry. Unconventional and counter
intuitive, these plans would soon become action without
little sense as to whether or not such ideas would be
well received, let alone successful. Nevertheless, I felt
compelled to take the chance. Inspiration can come from
many sources, but this one minute clip took the cake. It
reminded me that its okay for all of us to be different. To
want to change things. To at least attempt to overcome the
status quo.
search community for an unconventional approach, I have always held the belief that our profession could
be changed for the good. Providing insight, making connections, offering advice and genuinely partnering
with both sides of the interview desk should be part of the daily toil. That standard. Not the exception. But
what if there was more?
People are paramount. Fit is a necessity, not an optional side dish.
As we move into our next phase Ill likely watch the video a few more times to remind myself that its okay
to be crazy. Sometimes.
We recently made a tough decision to politely decline partnering with a well-known activewear brand on
a few searches. Actually, it really wasnt a difficult decision at all.
I had heard from a number of industry connections over the last year that the culture was challenging.
Thats putting it lightly. Demanding pace, micromanaging, a revolving door of employees. Despite the
rumors, I took the call to learn more directly from the source. I was curious, what was their perception
of their culture?
I always ask new clients if there are any rumors about their company or any negative perceptions in
the market. To my surprise they were very well aware of their company reputation. HR shared with me
most of what I had heard from candidates. She added of course some of the benefits of working for this
brand, which while were not without merit carried more weight in terms of office aesthetics. Surprisingly
unapologetic with little desire for improvement in the future health of their company culture. I wondered,
why would someone want to work for your company? So, I decided to ask her directly. Her answer
was simple, yet telling. It went something like this, we have a great product, brand and loyal consumer
following.
Engagement. You want to feel like youre part of something as opposed to just a number.
In general, smaller to medium sized companies are a bit cozier with less red tape which typically promotes engagement.
If youre set on a corporate structure refer to Work-life balance and leverage your network to gather the information you
need to make an informed decision. Another resource to consider is glassdoor.com. Sometimes youll find interesting
comments from past employees that will offer insight. It may not confirm that the company promotes employee
engagement but it will be obvious if they do not.
This one is easy. Do they align with your personal beliefs, hobbies or lifestyle?
By now, you might have 10-30 companies on your list. Now comes the easy part. Use the advanced search on LinkedIn.
Type in the company name and title of the person who you would potentially report to. For example: If youre a Director
of Product Development, you would likely report to a VP. Repeat this step to determine your best HR or Talent Acquisition
contact. For large companies, Director of Talent of Acquisition. In smaller or medium sized brands, HR director is more
likely to be your point person. Once you have a complete list of names and titles to corresponding companies you can
contact them directly either via email or through LinkedIn.
Which companies in your market segment are publicly acknowledged for donating to charity? Aside from great product,
which brands appear to be more mission driven? Obvious examples are: Keen, REI, TOMS, Wild Fang, etc.
Introduce yourself, express your interest in the brand and why. This is a great opportunity to include some of the reasons
you were drawn to this company and why youre reaching out. Include your resume. A paragraph maximum will suffice.
Dont write an essay on your career history and why youre awesome. Keep it brief and to the point.
You just made a strategic contact with a company you would be truly interested in working for. When the timing and
opportunity is right your chances of being contacted for a role that aligns with you is significantly greater. Without the
guesswork.
Upward mobility. Opportunity for promotions. Youre looking for a career track.
Work-life balance.
You want to feel like youre part of something as opposed to just a number.
Once you have a firm grasp on whats important you can begin to narrow down your list of potential future employers.
Maybe its a combination. Even better. The more specific you can be about your desired culture and goals, the easier the
process will become when determining fit.
A companys culture typically represents the people, systems, beliefs and scope of the overall organization. So where do
you go from here? If youre ready to develop a strategic search plan continue here for step by step instructions.
OUT
Objective
Including an objective became pass when Saved By the Bell started
airing reruns. Its over.
Essay Style
Resumes are not minor cogitations. Clear, concise statements read well
and without the text feeling overwhelming. Break up your points with the
bullet style of your choice.
References
We dont recommend including an additional page of references. When
the time comes, you can simply provide your potential employer with one if
its requested. References available upon request can go away altogether.
Its stating the obvious. As opposed to not being available?
Imagery
Debatable as to whether or not this was ever acceptable. Graphics, lots
of color, photos, charts, etc. have no place on your resume. Communicate
your experience the old fashioned way, through writing. Refer to Links.
Cover Letter
The controversy continues as to whether or not a cover letter is still
necessary. My perspective on the cover letter is that if your resume is
well written a cover letter is redundant and frankly, an extra document to
read. Not time well spent. Most cover letters say the same thing. If theyre
clever enough to have some substance they wont sway my opinion of
a candidates qualifications or fit for a specific position. One thing is for
certain; if you opt for a cover letter it should be a separate document. Not
combined with your resume.
CONSIDER THIS
Where did the additional money or responsibility you would get come from? Was your next raise or
promotion just given early? Will you be limited in the future? Will you have to threaten to quit in order to
get your next raise? Might a cheaper replacement be sought out?
Youve demonstrated your unhappiness or lack of blind loyalty, and will be perceived as having committed
blackmail to gain a raise. You wont ever be considered a team player again. Many employers will hold a
grudge at the next review period, and you may be placed at the top of the next reduction-in-force hit list.
Apart from a short-term, band-aid treatment, nothing will change within the company. After the dust settles
from this upheaval, youll be in the same old rut. A rule of thumb is that more than 80% of those who
accept counteroffers leave, or are terminated, within six to 12 months. And half of those who accept
counteroffers re-initiate their job searches within 90 days.
Finally, when you make your decision, look at your current job and the new position as if you were
unemployed. Which opportunity holds the most real potential? Probably the new one or you wouldnt have
accepted it in the first place.
TOP 10 REASONS NOT TO ACCEPT A COUNTER OFFER
1. After resigning, you have made your employer aware that you were looking
and unhappy. Your loyalty will now be in question.
2. When promotion/raise time comes around, your employer will remember
who is loyal and who is not.
3. When making difficult decisions about cut-backs, the company may begin
with those that are deemed less loyal.
4. Accepting a Counter-Offer is an insult to your intelligence and a blow to
your personal pride, to simply be bought at the last minute.
5. Where was the extra money for a counter-offer at during your last
performance review? Most companies have strict wage/salary guidelines and
may be simply giving your next raise early or buying time to hire someone in
your place.
6. The same circumstances that now cause you to consider making a change
almost always reoccur within the next 6-12 months.
7. Statistics show that if you accept a counter-offer, the probability of voluntarily
leaving in 6 months or being let go within 1 year are extremely high.
8. Once the word gets out, the relationship you now enjoy with co-workers
will never be the same. You lose personal satisfaction of the peer group
acceptance.
9. What type of company do you want to work for if you have to threaten to
resign before they give you what you are worth?
10. Accepting counter-offers after already accepting another position burns
bridges with other companies, your recruiter, and ultimately shows all 3
parties that you can be bought.
Need more evidence? Do your own homework: google counteroffers and see
what you find.
Sounds straightforward right? Take advantage of this unique opportunity with a winning
strategy.
Is Your Process
Design Driven?
The most common challenge Senior Design
Executives report is finding designer leaders
who are strong conceptually with hands on
garment construction experience. It seems
that the candidate pool of designers with
said experience is becoming shallower all
the time. And Im not talking about small
start up brands who simply want to keep
costs down by doing more with less. These
complaints stem from well known, beloved
brands with sizable head counts and major
market presence.
Maybe youre wondering, if companies
will employ three jobs (designer, product
developer, technical designer) instead of
one, why does this skill set matter? Why
not utilize three jobs so that each individual
can focus exclusively on their specific role
or as Nike puts it stay in your lane. Simply
put, the more control over the design
process the higher the quality and attention
to detail; usually. Companies who are
producing product thats highly regarded
in the marketplace are typically design
driven. Meaning their designers know how
to sketch, make changes to pattern and
fit, create a tech pack and communicate
changes to factories. They might even
know how to sew. Imagine that.
This doesnt mean that the designer is
executing all functions at once but it
does mean that the designer has enough
institutional knowledge and hands on
experience to drive the process and
maintain a high level of design integrity. The
initial concept doesnt get lost in fit sessions
or costing. In the design driven process
the product developer, patternmaker, etc.
assume a more supporting role as opposed
to having three chefs planning the menu.
Everyone acknowledges that companies
Maybe you consider starting your career at a company that will train at every stage in the
process. It may not seem as glamorous but the payoff is bigger. Are you a designer with
this skill set? Good news for you, there are some incredible career opportunities available.
1. HAVE YOU WORKED WITH THIS CLIENT BEFORE? HOW LONG HAVE YOU WORKED TOGETHER?
This will give you a sense of how well they know their client. Id recommend asking this one first as it will add some color
to the questions to follow. If a recruiter has worked with a client a long time chances are they have a strong sense of what
the client needs in terms of both skill set and cultural fit.
2. WHY IS THE JOB AVAILABLE?
The answer youre looking for is either a) recent promotion or b) new position. This means the company promotes
from within or they are growing and can add new hires. Either way its a good sign. If the position is available because
someone left the company or was let go, you need to do some more digging. This isnt a red flag but gather as much
insight as you can.
Remember, there are some questions your recruiter may not be able to answer. Distribution channels and five year
marketing strategies might be more appropriate for hiring managers. But dont be afraid to ask. You might be surprised
at how much some of us actually know.
Choose Ye Internship
Wisely.
Before Cal State Fullerton would issue my diploma I had to complete an internship. Like any student with two
part time jobs and a full course load this feat seemed rather unappealing and next to impossible. As a Journalism
major I was expected to complete this requirement somewhere like the OC Register or some other respectable
organization with journalistic integrity. The thought of writing for a newspaper sounded worse than not graduating
at all, a mind numbing, soul suffocating experience that I could not bear. Since there were no fashion journalism
internships available (that would satisfy graduation requirements) in Orange County I chose the only Fashion
Industry internship was seemed acceptable; a modeling agency. I like to think that had I chosen to follow the path
of lemmings on staff at the Daily Titan I would not be where I am today. No better, no worse, I just wouldnt have
found my passion and purpose.
We all have to start somewhere and sometimes that means putting in your time as an intern before proving
yourself worthy of a higher rank. Theres no shame in it. Take Tom Ford for example. After graduating from
Parsons, the former YSL and Gucci visionary interned in Chloes press office. Or Sylvia Plath (my favorite author).
In 1953, Plath interned at Mademoiselle, an experience which she fictionalized in her novel The Bell Jar. At 16,
Stella McCartney took an apprenticeship with Christian LaCroix.
Internships can dramatically impact your future career. Choosing an internship thats right for you is decision I
dont recommend taking lightly nor procrastinating, such as my 23 year old mind instructed.
CONSIDER YOUR FUTURE.
Five years from now is your internship the type of place where you would like to be employed? Look at your
internship as a first job. Choose your market segment and choose wisely. Want to work in Fashion? Dont apply at
Columbia Sportswear. Your first employer or internship can pigeon hole your resume into the types of companies
who will even consider your candidacy for future employment. And the next, and so on. Its a domino effect.
WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS?
Beyond the name on your resume and school credit what other benefits does this internship offer? Whats in it
for you? Can you utilize their network and contacts to find a full time job following the completion of a successful
internship? Is there an opportunity to have your work published? If you select a smaller to medium sized company
youll likely have an opportunity to take on larger projects that can be included on your resume to enhance your
experience.
PAID VS. UNPAID
The great debate, should interns be paid? While you can find internships that offer compensation most will not.
Consider Lauren Indvik, co-editor-in-chief of Fashionista who fondly remembers her internship at Vogue as worth
every sacrifice. Should you dismiss these golden opportunities? It depends on what youre looking to achieve.
Remember, you can get a summer job at Dairy Queen. Can you get the experience you need serving Dilly Bars?
You decide.
When choosing an internship, choose wisely. Just like a job search its better to be strategic and wait for the right
fit as opposed to checking the box.
Maybe I have an abnormal sense of humor but when I read this article on the top 15 words hiring managers never want
to see on your resume, I had a good, long laugh. According to the article more than 2200 hiring managers compiled a
list of 15 words they consider to be among the worst terms to have on your resume. The complaint stemmed from the
lack of substance that say nothing of your experience, achievements and personal successes. So why do we use these
generic words on our resume? They seem like a good idea at the time and theyre probably even true. But, Im going to
take it one step further and argue that there may also be some unintentional, undeserving negative meanings attached
to the overuse of these generic phrases.
The next time you update your resume consider a hiring mangers translation of the most annoying key words.
BEST OF BREED
Not to be confused with Best in Breed. Woof. Woof.
GO-GETTER
That guy from Extreme Makeover Home Edition.
THINK OUTSIDE OF THE BOX
Exempt from the rules.
SYNERGY
Cannot work independently.
GO-TO PERSON
Drama queen.
THOUGHT LEADERSHIP
Big ego.
VALUE ADD
Are we selling Happy Meals?
RESULTS-DRIVEN
Look at me. Look at me.
TEAM PLAYER
Does not play nice in the sandbox.
BOTTOM-LINE
Doesnt care about the people only numbers.
HARD WORKER
As opposed to lazy?
STRATEGIC THINKER
Cannot be bothered with menial tasks such as email or
meeting invites.
DYNAMIC
Multiple personalities.
SELF-MOTIVATED
Does not require adult supervision.
DETAIL-ORIENTED
Cannot see the big picture.
Interview Prep.
Step. By. Step.
GENERAL QUESTIONS AND PREPARATION ITEMS
1. The job of the first interview is to build value in yourself
and build rapport. Provide examples of your current and
past experience, your expertise, knowledge of the industry
and connect with on a personal level.
2. Why do you want this job? Prepare this answer ahead of
time. Focus on the positives that x company and this role
has to offer as opposed to saying anything negative about
your current employer. Examples might be the growth
opportunities, company culture, etc.
3. Relocation (if applicable): x company is aware that the
opportunity, compensation and logistics have to be right
for you to make a move. If it comes up, stay focused on
the positive. Stay away from saying things that would
lead them to believe you truly would not relocate if all the
elements aligned. They are unlikely to take you seriously
as a candidate. You dont want to cut yourself short in the
process.
4. Compensation: I doubt that compensation will be
discussed on a first interview. However, if asked what you
are looking for in compensation here is the proper way to
answer.
Lunchtime Therapy
for under $20
Work can get crazy busy. Sometimes just crazy. How do we
maintain our sanity during challenging seasons? Well, by
skipping out on work occasionally. You heard me. Taking
an occasional break from the work day to do something
other than that which is listed on your task list is immensely
beneficial to gaining perspective and emotional wellbeing.
About 6 months ago I started meeting with one of my besties
once a month for lunch. Although both of our schedules
are packed we mutually agreed that our relationship was
valuable and worthy of time set aside for us to connect
face to face. No matter how massive my work load is on
the day of our lunch dates I never cancel or reschedule. I
know that the work will always be there. Relationships are
more important.
We have no set agenda; were not networking or discussing
professional plans. We just talk. About everything. Theres
nothing like having an authentic conversation with a true
friend. Were talking serious therapy for less than $20.
Who can beat that?
Afterwards I always feel refreshed with a new perspective.
Suddenly the worries or challenges of the day seem to
shrink. Our meetings give provide me with a routine escape
that I can look forward to and count on. People talk about
taking vacations to obtain this sense of relief but I would
argue that quality time with a good friend can do just the
same.
Worried about how youll pull off a mid-day office escape?
For starters block it out on your calendar. That way your
coworkers wont be wondering where youre at or go looking
for you. Most companies are flexible with start times and
lunch breaks. If youre worried about making up the time
maybe you come in an hour early or stay an hour late one
day. Im willing to bet that your boss wont mind you taking
an extra hour once a month as long as your work gets
done. People work out and go to doctors appointments
over lunch. Why not have a meaningful conversation with
a friend?