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Healthy
Relationship
Is About:
TEEN DATING
ABUSE
AND
Honesty
.
Treating each
other with
respect
*
Domestic violence occurs in approximately 3040% of gay and lesbian relationships.3
*
Battering is the leading cause
of injury to women--more than motor vehicle
crashes, rapes or muggings combined
Shared decisions
.
Open communication
Changing your
mind
..
Saying no to
anything
Feeling safe
Having other
friends
Being yourself
.
Being safe
1Love
2Teenage
3
http://www.rainbowdomesticviolence.itgo.com
YOU...
have the power to help a friend
*Share expenses
*Spend time with other people
*Be treated with respect
Peer Pressure
Threatening to
expose someones
weakness or spread
rumors *telling
malicious lies about
an individual to
peer group
Isolation/ Exclusion
Controlling what another
does, who she/he sees,
and talks to, what she/he
reads, where she/he goes
* limiting outside involvement * using jealousy to
justify actions.
Anger/Emotional
Abuse
Putting her/him down *
making her/him feel bad
about her or himself *
name calling * Making
her/him think she/hes
crazy * playing mind
games * humiliating
one another *
making her/him
Using Social Status
feel guilty
Treating a partner like a
TEEN
POWER
&
CONTROL
WHEEL
Sexual Coercion
Manipulating or making
threats to get sex * getting her
pregnant * threatening to take
the children away * getting
someone drunk or drugged to
have sex
Threats
Making and /or
carrying out threats to
do something to hurt
another * threatening to
leave, to commit suicide, to report her/him
to the police * making
her/him drop charges *
making her/him do
illegal things.
Intimidation
Making someone afraid by using
looks, actions, gestures * smashing things * destroying property
* abusing pets * displaying
weapons
Minimize/ Deny/
Blame
Making light of the abuse
and not taking concerns
about it seriously * saying
the abuse didnt happen
* shifting the responsibility for abusive behavior *
saying she/he caused it
*Defend yourself
ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR IS A CAUSE OF UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS. UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS DONT FEEL GOOD BECAUSE IT IS ALL ABOUT ONE PERSON