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Recently, a client (well call him Nick) came to me confused about his sexual
orientation, and he wanted help clarifying. He professed to have chronic erotic and
romantic feelings for both genders since adolescence but had only dated and been
sexual with women. Nick was in the midst of exploring a new relationship with a
woman but found himself torn between his unexamined feelings toward men
questioning if he was truly gay.
He discussed how interactions with friends and acquaintances further polarized his
feelings. Some gay men doled out judgments that he was using bisexuality as a way
to avoid the social ramifications that exist in our homophobic culture toward being
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According to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force, bisexuality is described as
the capacity for emotional, romantic, and/or physical attraction to more than one
gender and a bisexual orientation speaks to the potential for, but not a
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To counter many of the objections people can receive because of their bisexual
orientation, American psychiatrist and sex researcher Fritz Klein has said,
bisexuality is not disguised homosexuality, nor is it disguised heterosexuality. It is
another way of sexual expression.
This also means that bisexuality is not necessarily a transitional pathway from
heterosexuality to homosexuality. Bisexuality is a distinct orientation in its own
right. It can, however, be a transitional pathway for a small segment of gay
individuals who are grappling with and coming to terms with understanding their
sexual orientation and identity. Heres an article that showcases the developmental
stages an individual can often go through when formulating a bisexual identity.
3 Bisexual Statistics
In 2011, the Williams Institute at the University of California School of Law
published a research brief that included estimates of the numbers of LGBT
individuals in the United States after conducting a study and comparing it with
other international surveys. Some of the results include:
1. 3.5% of adults (9 million people) in the U.S. identify as LGBT.
2. Bisexuals represent 1.8% of this population.
3. What percent of women are bisexual? Studies have shown about 8%.
While these numbers do not include adolescents or individuals who are not out, the
findings are nonetheless fascinating and show contrasts of the various studies that
have been conducted around the world with various categories discussed. The Pew
Research Center, HealthResearchFunding.org, and The Advocate are a few other
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For fun, however, you may want to take these quizzes as an opportunity to explore
any thoughts, feelings, or triggers that arise for you from taking the assessments,
and then speak to a trained professional to help you make sense of whats
emerged. Gurl.com, MyDailyMoment.com, and PinkNews.co.uk are a few sites that
contain such quizzes.
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Becoming mindful of these ignorant thought traps and confronting and countering
them with truths can liberate you to move beyond these roadblocks and toward
your journey of self-realization. There are a plethora of myths about bisexuality.
GLAAD.org has an article that discusses a variety of these myths and their
associated facts that debunk them, including bisexuality is a phase, all women are
bisexual, and you cant be bisexual unless youve been with both genders.
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Bisexual Awareness Week is held every September and is a great way to meet welcoming people.
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