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Table of Contents
The Magic of Everyday Moments™ 1
What It’s Like for You 3
Running Errands 4
Getting Dressed 6
Reading Your Baby’s Cues 9
What to Expect 10 & 12
What You Can Do 11 & 13
What Your Baby Needs Most 15
getting dressed
what he likes.
• Make getting dressed part of a game. He will be more attentive (and less
wiggly!) when you make it fun.
• Be silly. Try putting a sock on his hand or a pant leg on his arm. Laugh
Helping your child be part of the dressing routine not with him and say, “Oops! That’s not right. Where does it go?”
For toddlers, emotions still win ■ Play back and forth games to help her understand and practice
over self-control. This can make turn-taking.
sharing very hard. Your child may ■ Make sure your child has lots of opportunities to play with other
Mine! understand “no” but her mind still children. Be their guide in learning to share. Developing this
says “yes” as she grabs a toy from skill takes time and practice.
another child. ·
Your toddler may be experiencing ■ Expand his words and phrases into a sentence: “Me down” be-
a “vocabulary explosion.” He’s comes “You want to get down.”
Chatter-box learning new words every day and ■ Play games with words. Try replacing a word in a familiar song:
may combine two or more in a “Row, row, row your car.”
phrase. He may want to practice
talking…a lot!
Your toddler may have more tan- ■ Continue to label his emotions to help him feel in control and to
trums. He may get frustrated when let him know you understand.
Let off he can’t do something he wants by
some steam. himself.
■ Help him slow down or take a break when you see signs that he
is getting frustrated or overwhelmed.
Your toddler will love music, danc- ■ Make music a part of your day in ways you and your child enjoy.
ing, singing, clapping, and other You can even dance on the way to the bath or sing in the car as
Let the rhythm games. Sharing music is a you do your errands. Don’t worry about your voice—children
Music Play great way to bond with and teach don’t judge!
Your toddler learns by imitating ■ Be aware of your own actions and words. Let him see you helping
you and others she sees, especially others, being kind, or staying calm when faced with a challenge.
Monkey-see,
other children.
Monkey-do ■ Provide opportunities for him to see other kids practicing good
habits like buckling up and eating healthy foods.
to
Your toddler is getting better at ■ Provide toys that challenge her but that she can master. If
I can solve problem-solving. She may try sev- they’re too easy she’ll get bored, and her learning will be limited.
what
that! eral times to figure out how to work ■ Coach your child – but don’t do it all for her. Provide just enough
a toy or puzzle. help to allow her to solve the problem.
Your child is beginning to under- ■ Show that you appreciate his compassion: “That hug sure makes
stand that others have feelings, me feel better.”
I feel your too. He may pat your back, or even ■ Label your own feelings: “I’m sad because I bumped and hurt my
pain. comfort another child. toe.”
What Your Baby Needs Most
We know that you want to do your best to nurture your baby’s
healthy development. We also know that many parents are over-
whelmed by busy days, and the thought of adding extra activities
to boost their child’s development may simply be too much.
We hope this booklet has shown you that the magic of parenting
is not in any toy you buy or in the latest product claiming to make
your baby smarter. The magic is in your everyday interactions
that help your child build the crucial capabilities — such as
confidence, curiosity, cooperation, and communication — needed
for lifelong learning and success.
Remember, everyday moments
are rich bonding and learning
opportunities. Enjoy the magic of
these moments with your child.
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