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A Typology of Facework
Behaviors in Conflicts with
Best Friends and Relative Strangers
FACE-NEGOTIATION THEORY
There are a number of theories and models explaining face and facework (e.g.,
Brown & Levinson, 1978,1987; Cupach & Metts, 1994; Lim & Bowers, 1991; Rogan &
Hammer, 1994). Previous models have several limitations that make them
inappropriate for the study of facework in conflict First, several models (e.g., Brown
& Levinson, 1987; Lim & Bowers, 1991) focus on general facework behaviors,
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especially as they relate to request situations. They have not been specifically applied
to conflict.
More importantly, these models do not include the locus of face (the degree of
concern for self- and other-face) in the model. The locus of face is the starting point for
understanding face and facework as it determines an individual's interest and the
direction of subsequent messages (Rogan & Hammer, 1994; Ting-Toomey & Kurogi,
1998). The locus of face is important for conflict because both self- and other-concerns
are relevant as individuals negotiate a solution to a problematic issue.
Finally, while certain models (e.g., Rogan and Hammer) do include locus of face,
these models focus on face acts without examining the content or substance of the
messages. For example, Rogan and Hammer's model can be used to identify whether
a message attacks other-face, but does not identify what is the end goal of the message
(e.g., win the conflict). Conflict messages have simultaneous substantive and identity
(i.e., face) aspects (Wilmot & Hocker, 2001; Ting-Toomey & Oetzel, in press).
In the current study, we utilize face-negotiation theory as it addresses locus of face
and substantive issues during conflict Face-negotiation theory provides the
conceptual linkage between cultural variability (e.g., individualism-collectivism),
conflict styles, and facework behaviors using the concept of face. The basic
assumptions of face-negotiation theory are summarized as follows: (a) people in all
cultures try to maintain and negotiate face in all communication situations; (b) the
concept of face becomes especially problematic in uncertainty situations (such as
embarrassment situations and conflict situations) when the situated identities of the
communicators are called into question; and (c) the cultural variability dimension of
individualism-collectivism, in conjunction with other individual, relational (e.g.,
ingroup-outgroup), and situational variables, influence the use of various facework
and conflict strategies inintergroup and interpersonal encounters. Additionally, Ting-
Toomey and Kurogi (1998) argue that facework competence is a critical aspect of
conflict management
actions taken to deal with the face-wants of one and/or the other" (Lim, 1994, p. 211).
During conflict, facework has a variety of functions. Facework is employed to resolve
a conflict, exacerbate a conflict, avoid a conflict, threaten or challenge another
person's position, protect a person's image, etc. These functions are part of the process
of maintaining and upholding face.
A closely related concept to facework is conflict style. There are numerous
approaches for explaining conflict styles, but the primary approach is the five-style
model based on two dimensions (Blake & Mouton, 1964; Rahim, 1983,1992; Thomas &
Kilmann, 1974). For example, Rahim (1983, 1992) based his classification of conflict
styles on the two conceptual dimensions of concern for self and concern for others.
Rahim's classification is frequently used in testing face-negotiation theory because of
its consistency with self- and other-face. The first dimension illustrates the degree
(high or low) to which people seek to satisfy their own interests. The second dimension
represents the degree (high or low) to which individuals desire to incorporate others'
interests. The two dimensions combine for five styles of handling interpersonal
conflict integrating (high self and other), compromising (middle on both dimensions),
dominating (high self and low other), obliging (low self and high other), and avoiding
(low on both dimensions).
Other research on conflict strategies (specific tactics used during conflicts)
provides a similar approach toward conflict For example, Sillars (1980) identified
three categories of conflict tactics: integrative, distributive, and passive-indirect.
Similarly, Ting-Toomey (1983) identified integrative, distributive, and descriptive
(neutral) tactics. Integrative tactics are consistent with the integrating and
compromising styles. Distributive tactics are consistent with the dominating style.
Passive-indirect tactics are consistent with the avoiding and obliging styles.
Conflict styles and tactics are reflective of self-, other-, and mutual-face. Ting-
Toomey et al. (1991) found that the dominating style is reflective of self-face, the
avoiding and obliging styles are reflective of other-face, and the compromising and
integrating styles are reflective of mutual-face. However, facework is not equivalent
to conflict styles. In addition to reflecting face concerns, conflict management styles
can include a variety of facework behaviors. For example, the integrating conflict style
reflects a need for solution closure in conflict and involves both parties working
together to substantively resolve the issue (Rahim, 1983). Facework behaviors that are
consistent with the integrating style may include (but are not limited to) listening to the
other person, respecting the feelings of the other, and asserting personal viewpoints.
research question:
RQ1: What are the categories of facework behaviors during conflicts with
best friends and relative strangers?
The range of facework behaviors likely has underlying dimensions that group
particular behaviors together. Specifically, these types are likely reflective of the three
loci of faceother, mutual, and selfand three broad types of conflict styles
avoiding, integrating, and dominating. The loci of face and types of conflict styles are
related in that Ting-Toomey et al (1991) found that other-face correlated positively
with avoiding conflict styles, mutual-face correlated positively with integrating
conflict styles, and self-face correlated positively with dominating conflict styles.
Further, previous researchers (e.g., Sillars, 1980; Ting-Toomey & Kurogi, 1998) have
utilized these dimensions to organize a variety of conflict behaviors. Despite the fact
that this research has not examined facework directly, we project that the range of
facework behaviors will cluster along similar dimensions and thus we posit the first
hypothesis:
some empirical work. However, one critique of the model is that is represents a
Western bias. Ting-Toomey (1988) explained that avoiding and obliging conflict styles
are seen by many Asian cultures as effective and appropriate given that these styles are
used to maintain relational harmony.
Research on communication competence and conflict has not examined face-
negotiation behaviors specifically. Examining the ratings of the facework categories
will also help to support the validity of the typology by demonstrating that it includes
a variety of appropriate and effective behaviors. Thus it is important to explore the
ratings of competence for a variety of facework behaviors and a second research
question is posed:
RQ2: What are the ratings of effectiveness and appropriateness for the
categories of facework behaviors?
METHODS
The research questions and hypotheses were addressed in two phases. First, open-
ended questionnaires on face-negotiation during conflicts were collected. The
responses to the open-ended questions were sorted, a typology was created, and steps
were taken to validate the categories. Second, prototypes of the categories were
utilized to rate the appropriateness and effectiveness associated with each category.
Phase I
Participants. The participants in the first phase were 237 undergraduate students
at a large university in the southwestern United States and 49 undergraduate students
at a large university in Japan. The participants were recruited via classes and given
extra credit for their participation. In the U.S. sample, there were 140 males and 97
females with an average age of 20.75 (SD = 4.88). In the Japanese sample, there were
19 males and 30 females with an average age of 20.0 (SD = 1.26).
Procedures. A questionnaire was utilized to provide an in-depth investigation of
the manner in which individuals negotiate face during conflicts with best friends and
relative strangers. The questionnaires asked the respondents to describe a recent
conflict situation with a stranger (n = 140) or a best friend (n = 146). There were three
parts to the questionnaire. In part one, the respondents were asked to provide
background information about the conflict including who was involved, when and
where the conflict happened, and whose fault was the conflict In part two, the
respondents were asked about the manner in which they managed face during the
conflict In part three, demographic information was requested (see Appendix for the
questionnaire).
The questionnaire was translated into Japanese and backtranslated to insure
equivalency and provided to the Japanese respondents. The students were given the
questionnaires and were asked to fill out the forms for extra credit The questionnaire
took approximately 30 minutes to complete. After collecting the questionnaires, all the
Japanese questionnaires were translated into English by one of the current researchers
and checked for accuracy by a second researcher.
After collecting and translating the Japanese responses, 18% of the questionnaires
were selected to create the typology. We made this decision because we deemed the
(33%), strangers in public settings (e.g., disagreement at a movie) (19%), and co-
workers (11 % ). The participants reported that the other party was responsible for three
out of four conflicts. In the other 25% of the reported conflicts, the participants were
responsible for the conflict For the best friends, conflicts were with close friends (77% )
and relational partners (23%). The participants reported that the responsible party for
these conflicts included self (39%), the other party (45%), both parties (9%), or a third
party (6%).
The participants also reported on a range of intensity of stranger and best friend
conflicts. We determined the intensity of conflict by the language given by the
participants. For example, low intensity conflicts included "a minor difference of
opinion," "it was a simple miscommunication," and "a small conflict" High intensity
conflicts included "she was very mad," "it got out of hand and we almost ended a three
year relationship," and "he is always disturbing me." The range of conflicts in the
questionnaires helps to insure that the typology is inclusive of a variety of facework
behaviors and can generalize to numerous conflict situations.
We examined questions four through twelve to complete the typology (see
Appendix). We utilized nine questions to create the typology because the variety of
questions helped us to be inclusive of the variety of facework behaviors. The questions
reflect a variety of potential uses and perspectives for facework via contrasting
questions. For example, we asked participants to describe how they and their conflict
partners managed face. If we only asked how the participants manage face, the
responses may have reflected a self-serving bias. The range of questions about face
allows the typology to be inclusive of self-, other-, and mutual-face.
Every unique way of negotiating face appearing in the responses of the sampled
questionnaires was transferred to index cards. The unit of analysis was the facework
behavior. A total of 230 unique responses were discovered. The decision to include only
18% of the questionnaires was reinforced by the fact that the responses from further
questionnaires simply repeated the unique responses. Thus the pool of unique
responses was saturated.
Creation of the typology. To create and validate the typology, three steps were
carried out First, three of the current researchers divided the cards equally and sorted
the cards based on between-item similarity. Each response was placed into only one
category with other similar responses. After independently sorting the cards, the three
researchers collaboratively combined their categories into one large set This
combination was accomplished by having each person describe their categories and
two sheets of paper. There were 29 females and 17 males in the U. S. sample with an
average age of 25.33 (SD = 7Ai). The Japanese sample consisted of 23 females and 7
males with an approximate average age of 21 (all were juniors, but age was not directly
requested of the participants). The participants were required to sort the statements
based on between-item similarity or commonality. No indication was given as to the
number of categories that should have been used. The participants were asked to sort
each response into only one category and use each response only once. Further, they
were instructed that a category must have at least two responses and that each
category needed to be unique from other categories.
Phase II
Participants. In this phase, ratings of appropriateness and effectiveness were
conducted. The purpose of this step was to provide preliminary, descriptive data of the
competence associated with each category. There were 61 from a large university in
the southwestern U.S. and 95 students from a large university in Japan. In the U.S.
sample, there were 36 males and 25 females, and the average age was 26.64 (SD = 8.58).
The Japanese sample consisted of 29 males and 66 females with an approximate
average age of 20.5 (all were sophomores or juniors, but age was not directly requested
of the participants).
Procedures. The respondents were asked to rate the three prototypes of each
category. The ratings were completed in relation to either a conflict with a best friend
(n = 85; Japan = 49, U.S. = 36) or a relative stranger (n = 71; Japan = 46; U.S. = 25).
Appropriateness and effectiveness were explained to the respondents as two different
goals. Appropriateness was defined as "the ability to maintain the relationship with
the other person," whereas effectiveness was defined as "the ability to get what you
want from the conflict" The definition of appropriateness provided to the
participants varies slightly from the conventional definition (i.e., proper behavior).
We utilized the revised definition to reflect a relational goal. This definition is relevant
given the focus on substantive and relational goals during conflict and the positive
relationship between proper behavior and relational maintenance (Cupach & Canary,
1997).
The ratings were completed on two seven point semantic differential scales for
each behavior: effectiveness/appropriateness (+3) to ineffective/inappropriate (-3).
The use of single items to measure effectiveness and appropriateness has precedence.
RESULTS
Phase I Typology and Validations Procedures
Initial typology. After the initial sort by the researchers, 30 categories were created.
At a subsequent meeting, the same researchers tried to insure that the 30 categories
were unique. Each category was reviewed in detail for uniqueness. After the review,
20 categories remained. At a final meeting, the researchers reviewed each response in
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each category. Some overlaps were discovered, resulting in combined categories. This
process was completed twice to insure that each response fit only one category and that
the categories were unique. The final result of this stage was a typology with 16
categories.
Reliability of coding. The judges had an agreement of .96 (kappa = .96) (American)
and .62 (kappa = .60) (Japanese) with the original category scheme in the coding of the
prototypes. Based on the high level of disagreement from one of the judges, the
researchers closely examined the examples for sources of difficulties. A total of nine
changes were made in the phrasing of examples to clarify the meanings. Two more
judges (one American and one Japanese) were asked to complete the same task of
assigning the new examples to a single category. The judges had an agreement of .96
(kappa = .96) (European American) and .73 (kappa = .71) 0apanese). Further
inspection of the categories and examples revealed two areas of difficulty. First, the
judges were confusing the categories of playing cool and ignoring the conflict. Playing
cool consisted of responses in which individuals acted like their feelings were not hurt,
while ignoring the conflict consisted of responses where individuals acted like a
conflict did not exist Based on the confusion of the judges and the overlap in the
categories, these two categories were combined into one unique category, pretend.
Second, the category of regret was confusing to the judges. This category was not
reflective of a face move during interpersonal conflict, but rather was an internalized
emotion and thus was removed from the typology. The result was 14 categories (see
Table 1 for the categories). When the new typology was considered the judges
demonstrated agreement of .98 (kappa = .97) and .86 (kappa = .85) demonstrating that
the typology of behaviors facilitates reliable coding of responses. However, the
typology's representational validity has yet to be determined.
Representational validity. To address the representational validity, the
participants' responses were summarized as a frequency matrix reflecting how often
each example statement was paired with all other statements. These data were
submitted to cluster analysis in which hierarchical clusters were generated on the basis
of average linkage. Determination of the most probable solution (i.e., the number of
clusters) is highly subjective (Aldenderfer & Blashfield, 1984). One approach is to use
the vertical icicle (Williams, 1992), which presents a series of stages successively
reclustering the cases into typically smaller and more homogeneous groups. At stage
14 (chosen because of the 14 categories), there were 13 unique clusters and one item
Consider the otherTake into consideration the other person's feelings to show respect, ( = 28)
11. I tried not to hurt the other person.
16. I listened to the other person to show respect.
31. I took into consideration the other person sfeelings.
Defend selfDefend one's side without giving in; generally in the response to a perceived attack, (n = 34)
9. I was firm in my demands and didn't give in.
15. I defended my position.
39. I wouldn't admit I was wrong, instead I insisted I was right.
Express feelingsExpress how one is feeling without defending or attacking the other, ( = 28)
5. I expressed what I wanted to say.
20. I told her exactly what I thought.
36. I explained how I was feeling.
Give /-Accommodate the other person and let them win. ( = 7)
2. I backed down to solve the problem.
25. I agreed with the other person to end the conflict.
30. I accepted whatever the other person said.
Involve a third partyInvolving an outside person to help to resolve the issue, ( = 2)
3. I wanted to talk with the other person through an outside party.
23. I wanted to take our problems to our boss so that he/she could solve it.
35. I wanted a mediator to be involved.
Passive aggrm/onAttackingtheotherthrough subtle means. Not outwardly abusive, but the result is similar.
(n = 10)
6. I gave the person wrong information so he/she gets into trouble.
22. I tried to make the other person feel guilty.
33. I said bad things about the person behind his/her back.
Prefew</--Pretending that there is no conflict or that you are not upset or hurt by what has happened. (=11)
12. I tried to fake that I wasn't upset.
17. I ignored the conflict and behaved as if nothing happened.
32. I pretended not to be hurt.
Private discussion-Avoid talking about the problem in public. ( = 4)
14. I waited until we were by ourselves to talk about the problem.
28. I didn't argue with the other person in public.
38. I tried not to discuss it in front of others.
Remain Calm-Attempting to stay calm and unemotional. ( = 17)
4. I tried to remain calm.
24. I tried not to get angry.
37. I didn't get emotional.
Talk about the problemDirectly discuss the issues of the conflict with the other person. The focus is to
resolve the problem. ( = 29)
8. I talked things out one at a time and listened to what the other was saying to resolve our conflict.
21. I talked thoroughly with the other person about the trouble to find a solution.
42. I worked with the other person to find a mutually acceptable solution.
10
26
29 Aggression (10,26,29,33,6,22)
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33
6
22 _J
23 Involve 3rd Party (23,35,3)
35
3
12
3- Pretend (12,32)
32
24 Remaii Calm (24,37,4)
37
4
3-
2 Give In (2,30,25)
30
25
18
40 Avoid (18,40,1,17)
1
17
28 Private Discussion (28, 38.14
38
14
8
21
42
13
27
3- Talk About Problem (8,21,4$
Compromise (13,27,34)
34
16 Consider Other (16,31)
31
11
7 Apologize (7,41, 19)
41
19
5 Expression (5,36,20)
36
20
9 Defenc Self (9,39,15)
39
15
_J
(e.g., aggression, avoiding, private discussion, and remain calm), the overall ratings
were related positively (average r = .50).
TABLE 2
Means and Standard Deviations for Appropriateness/Effectiveness Ratings
Overall Best Friend Stranger
App Eff App Eff App Eff
AGG -1.85(1.16) -0.88(1.41) -1.82(1.24) -0.89(1.42) -1.89(1.06) -0.86(1.41)
APO 1.06(1.17) 0.99(1.25) 1.26(1.06) 1.22(1.19) 0.82(1.26) 0.72(1.26)
AV -0.42(1.04) -0.10(1.23) -0.54(0.98) -0.15(1.28) -0.28(1.09) -0.05(1.17)
COMP 1.01(1.04) 1.06(1.06) 1.08(1.06) 1.13(1.12) 0.92(1.00) 0.97(0.98)
CO 1.89(1.15) 1.93(1.21) 1.99(1.05) 1.79(1.24) 1.77(1.26) 1.67(1.19)
DS -0.22(1.15) 0.27(1.02) -0.18(1.12) 0.21(1.28) -0.27(0.91) 0.35(0.95)
EX 1.15(1.04) 1.46(1.09) 1.25(1.05) 1.55(1.14) 1.03(1.02) 1.35(1.03)
GI -0.03(1.31) -0.02(1.51) 0.14(1.35) -0.15(1.52) -0.24(1.25) -0.14(1.50)
ITP 0.02(1.25) 0.24(1.27) -0.10(1.28) 0.08(1.41) 0.16(1.22) 0.43(1.06)
P 0.11(1.32) 0.25(1.45) 0.14(1.40) 0.19(1.50) 0.07(1.22) 0.45(1.38)
PD 1.49(1.09) 1.19(1.15) 1.56(1.18) 1.24(1.17) 1.41(0.99) 1.12(1.13)
RC 1.78(0.69) 1.38(1.07) 1.84(0.77) 1.46(1.00) 1.21(1.14) 1.27(1.13)
TP 2.05(0.99) 1.96(1.00) 2.15(0.88) 2.00(1.06) 1.91(1.09) 1.85(0.91)
Japanese U.S.
App Eff App Eff
AGG -2.34(0.90) -1.52(1.21) -1.54(1.20) -0.46(1.38)
PO 1.43(1.15) 1.34(1.11) 0.83(1.13) 0.77(1.28)
AV -0.26(1.03) 0.21(1.16) -0.69(1.00) -0.59(1.19)
COMP 0.77(0.96) 0.82(1.05) 1.38(1.04) 1.43(0.97)
CO 1.55(1.14) 1.40(1.28) 2.42(0.96) 2.25(0.89)
DS -0.36(1.01) 0.28(1.17) 0.05(1.01) 0.26(1.10)
EX 0.86(0.99) 1.24(1.24) 1.61(0.95) 1.81(0.82)
GI 0.25(1.28) 0.28(1.49) -0.47(1.25) -0.48(1.44)
ITP 0.15(1.27) 0.33(1.17) -0.19(1.21) 0.09(1.42)
P 0.47(1.20) 0.63(1.33) -0.44(1.31) -0.33(1.45)
PD 1.08(0.92) 0.81(1.00) 2.13(1.04) 1.78(1.12)
RC 1.68(0.67) 1.20(1.16) 1.94(0.70) 1.66(0.83)
TP 1.74(1.04) 1.86(1.03) 2.33(0.85) 2.22(0.86)
Note: App=appropriateness, Eff = effectiveness, AGG=aggression, APO = apologize, AV = avoid, COMP
= compromise, CO = consider the other, DS = defend self, EX=express feelings, GI=give in, ITP = involve
a third party, P = pretend, PD = private discussion, RC=remain calm, TP = talk about the problem. Standard
deviations in parentheses.
loaded on both the first and third factors (remain calm negative to the third factor). The
underlying factors appear to be integrating, avoiding, and dominating for the first,
second, and third factors respectively. The facework categories were summed and
averaged for each of the three factors.
TABLE 3
Factor Analyses of the Facework Categories
Appropriateness
Facework Factor 1 Factor 2 Factor 3
Aggression -.46 .35 .66
Apologize .68 .17 -.02
Avoid -.10 .60 .49
Compromise .73 .08 .15
Consider the other .81 .03 -.08
Defend self .06 .01 .89
Express feelings .55 -.46 .38
Give in .05 .70 -.03
Involve a third party .10 .54 .13
Pretend .03 .73 .05
Private discussion .74 -.16 -.02
Remain calm .51 .15 -.15
Talk about the problem .79 -.07 -.23
Cronbach's Alpha .83 .71 .81
Effectiveness
Facework Factor 1 Factor 2 Factor 3
U.S. Americans. Hypotheses Five-Seven focused on the ratings of the effectiveness and
appropriateness for avoiding, integrating, and dominating facework by best friends
and relative strangers. Multivariate analysis of variance was utilized to investigate
these hypotheses. The ingroup-outgroup boundary and national culture (individual-
ism-collectivism) were the independent variables and the appropriateness/
effectiveness ratings of the three factors were the dependent variables. Bartletf s test
of sphericity, 273.90 (df= 20), p < .001 indicated that a multivariate analysis of variance
was warranted. The multivariate interaction effect of national culture and ingroup-
outgroup boundary was not significant, Wilks' lambda = .97, F(6,147) = .86, p = ns.
Similarly, the multivariate main effect for ingroup-outgroup boundary was not
significant, Wilks' lambda = .93, F(6,147) = 1.72, p = ns.
There was a significant multivariate main effect for national culture, Wilks'
lambda = .69, F(6,147) = 10.90, p < .001. There were five significant univariate effects:
avoiding effectiveness, (F[6,147] = 5.21, p < .05, n2 = .03), avoiding appropriateness,
(F[6,147] = 4.07, p < .05, rf = .03), integrating effectiveness, (F[6,147] = 27.74, p < .001,
if = .15), integrating appropriateness, (F[6, 147] = 20.85, p < .001, rf = .12), and
dominating effectiveness, (F[6, 147] = 9.06, p < .01, n2 = .06). Dominating
appropriateness was not significant, (F[6,147] = 5.21, p = ns).
We carried out planned comparisons of the significant univariate effects based on
the hypotheses. Japanese (M = .51, SD = .80) rated avoiding effectiveness higher than
U.S. Americans (M = .21, SD = .73), f(154) = 2.35, p < .05. Japanese (M = .36, SD = .70)
also rated avoiding appropriateness higher than U.S. Americans (M = .13, SD = .60),
f(154) = 2.12, p < .05. U.S. Americans (M = 1.73, SD = .75) rated integrating effectiveness
higher than Japanese (M = 1.01, SD = .82), f(154) = 5.47, p < .001. U.S. Americans (M =
1.85, SD = .70) also rated integrating appropriateness higher than Japanese (M = 1.39,
SD = .82), f (154) = 4.70, p < .001. Finally, Japanese (M = -.09, SD = 1.14) rated dominating
effectiveness higher than U.S. Americans (M = -.63, SD = .99), f(154) = 3.05, p < .01.
Overall, Hypotheses Two and Three were supported and Hypotheses Four-Seven were
not supported.
DISCUSSION
The objective of the current study was to develop a typology of facework behaviors
in conflicts between best friends and relative strangers. The findings of the current
study include: (a) a total of 230 unique face-related Japanese and U.S. responses were
aggression and defend self. This factor emphasizes the importance of asserting and
defending one's face or self-interest and with the use of direct tactics to threaten the
other parry's face in order to defeat the other person for self-gain. Both behaviors
represent self-face concerns although defending self is a response to a threat from
another person and aggression is a direct attack on the other person.
The second factor can be labeled as avoiding facework. The avoiding facework
behaviors are avoid, give in, involve a third party, and pretend. This factor focuses on
obliging or saving the face of the other conflict party in order not to embarrass the other
person's face directly. Although avoiding, pretending, and involve a third party can
also be used to protect self-face (e.g., pretending not to be hurt), previous research has
indicated that avoiding conflict tactics are associated positively with other-face (Ting-
Toomey et al., 1991). Thus avoiding facework is associated primarily with other-face
concern.
In examining the avoiding facework, give in focuses on accommodating the face
of the other person, whereas pretend and avoid do not deal directly with the conflict
and thus do not threaten the face of the other (and potentially the self). Involve a third
party refers to utilizing an outside party to help deal with the conflict This is a face
move because it protects self- and other-concerns and can be used to maintain
relational harmony.
The third factor can be labeled as integrating facework. The integrating facework
behaviors are represented by apologize, compromise, consider the other, private
discussion, and talk about the problem. This factor emphasizes a mutual concern for
both self- and other-face. The mutual-face behaviors also have subtle differences.
Private discussion protects the relationship by not dealing with the conflict in public.
Talking about the problem and compromising provide a means to directly discuss and
resolve the conflict and protect both self- and other-face needs through direct means.
Consider the other and apologize demonstrate concern for the other party (other-
face), which helps support the relationship (mutual-face). Essentially, these behaviors
represent a variety of ways to discuss the conflict in a manner that protects the
relationship and both parties' needs. 3
Each of these facework behaviors may also serve other functions than just face or
identity goals. Many of the facework behaviors are used to address substantive goals
during the conflict. For example, talking about the problem is utilized to resolve the
issue and expressing feelings is used to define the conflict in order to resolve i t
Competence Ratings
The findings of the current study have important implications for understanding
the relationship between facework behavior and communication competence. First,
the ratings of the appropriateness and effectiveness of the categories provide
important insights about the competence of particular facework behaviors. The
ratings indicate that integrating facework behaviors generally are rated as competent,
avoiding facework behaviors are generally rated as neutral, and dominating facework
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and dominating facework. The three factors represent the broad framework for how
conflict can be addressed, while the facework behaviors represent specific moves that
take place during conflict An important implication of the typology is that it helps to
capture a wide variety of potential cross-cultural facework behaviors.
Three broad conflict strategy types (or five conflict styles) are too limiting for
cross-cultural and intercultural research because the use of only three strategy or
styles may cause researchers to gloss over important differences (Ting-Toomey, 1988).
For example, cross-cultural research illustrates that people from collectivistic cultures
prefer to maintain relational harmony and to demonstrate concern for the other's face.
Using a five-style model, we conclude that people will avoid or accommodate conflict
Based on the findings of the current study, we can utilize a variety of behaviors to
accomplish these goals, such as avoiding, apologizing, considering the other,
involving a third party, and private discussion.
Each of these behaviors may be utilized in different situations to accomplish
different goals. With the current typology, researchers can examine the possible
situational, cultural, and relational influences on the use of facework behaviors. A
broader typology helps to identify subtle nuances in facework across cultures that may
have important implications for successful conflict management At the same time,
the organizing framework of the three types helps to place the moves into a larger
context of facework and conflict approaches that assist in comparing and contrasting
cultures.
Additionally, the typology helps to move beyond substantive to relational and
image concerns. Thus the typology has two further implications. First, a focus on only
the substantive evaluation of conflict emphasizes a Western-based, individualistic
cultural perspective rather than a collectivistic cultural perspective. Both
perspectives are important as the resolution of conflict can impact the quality of
relationships, but the underlying relational and image issues often motivate the
communication of conflict parties. The current typology helps to emphasize both
perspectives.
Second, the item contents of each cluster were logically interpretable and can serve
as an initial step to operationalize the dimensions of self-, other-, and mutual-face in
the face-negotiation theory (Ting-Toomey & Kurogi, 1998). Thus, the clusters can be
utilized to empirically derive a reliable and valid measurement of facework in a
variety of cultures. With a reliable and culturally-sensitive facework instrument, we
NOTES
1
We use the term U.S. Americans to refer to people who are citizens of the U.S. This term is
preferable to the more common American as America includes North, Central, and South
America.
2
The three-factor solution only explained 57% of the variance in appropriateness and 58% of
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Recall a recent conflict situation with your best friend. Describe the conflict situation in as much
details as possible.
1) Please start your description by giving some background information about your conflict
partner (i.e., sex, age, relationship type, etc.) and then comment on the WHEN, WHERE,
WHAT, HOW, of the conflict situation. Be as specific as you can in describing the conflict
episode.
2) Who was primarily responsible for starting the conflict? Clarify briefly.
3) What were the primary causes of the conflict? Explain briefly.
The following questions are concerned with how you negotiated "face" in the conflict situation.
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"Face" is defined as the positive social values (e.g., self-respect) that persons claim for their public
selves.
4) In recalling the same conflict situation, how did you and your conflict partner negotiate
"face"?
5) What were the specific verbal and/or nonverbal communication strategies you used to
negotiate "face"?
6) What were the specific verbal and/or nonverbal communication strategies your partner used
to negotiate "face"?
7) Overall, did you feel you "lost face" or "saved face" in this conflict situation? Why?
8) Overall, did you feel your partner "lost face" or "saved face" in that conflict situation? Why?
9) Did you attempt to "give face" to your conflict partner in this conflict situation? How? Why?
10) Did your partner attempt to "give you face" in this conflict situation? How? Why?
11) In retrospect, what do you think the most appropriate ways to negotiate "face" in this conflict
situation would be?
12) In retrospect, what do you think the most effective ways to negotiate "face" in that conflict
situation would be? Why?
13) Are there anything else you would like to comment on concerning the role of face-negotiation
in interpersonal conflicts?