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Among our batchmates, probably I was the first person who took the risk to explore the
avenue of traditional business. But not always its easy to walk on the path less travelled.
Educated entrepreneurs must have the guts to walk away from the apparently secured
well-paid jobs and stay on that out-track at least as long as success shows its first sign.
Things are not that easy. Now Im a derailed engineer. I started with my coaching centre,
later entered the stock market taking some calculated risk (God bless the investors
including me! Your friend says, money is nothing? Ok fine, tell him to invest in the share
market.) My succession of such attempts ended in establishing my own gift business
branding by the name DOVANA. I owned 2 shops and Id always dreamt of being a
business magnet extending my domain over some other sister concerns as well till the
date my dream transformed meeting newer impulses. (Lucky Im as I did never have to
regret for my new impulses.) Yes, I was planning to kill my brainchild. To become
successful youve to start young. Its even more important to fail young if you really want
to fail in any of your attempts. To fail successfully is an art. Now I feel, sometimes
failures are good and life-saving. I always found myself in a position that I hardly seemed
very comfortable with. When I saw my friends already having crossed a long way, I felt
just helpless. Gradually they were becoming the top professionals in their respective
sectors. If youre not accustomed to being considered Nobody by others since your
childhood, its difficult to see yourself Nobody even for a short time. I strongly felt only
walking or running at least to catch them was not enough, I must take a flying leap! I was
struggling to win, but fighting with small people was constantly giving me a hollow
inferior feeling. I was out there alone on my own island, and I felt like I was
disengaged . . . . . . . Even if you win by fighting with small people it gives you a feeling
that youre the kind of them, just a mediocre talent. Success in business is an extremely
selfish game. Maybe, youre thinking, Huh! Im already much selfish, but to have won
more than others you would have needed to be more selfish than you really are. . . . . . . . .
I always talked to my engineer batchmates (I belong to 02 batch) and used to insist we
better start a software business. I found only a few really serious in words, fewer in
action. The easiest way to start anything is just to start it. Everyone around me wanted to
start a journey of a thousand miles; no one was willing to put even the first step. I know
its true not always taking risks is easy especially when youve been brought up in a
surrounding full of millions of NOs. How easy it is to say NO to an attempt! Not always
life sounds so easy as to stay indifferent to all the opportunity costs and be connected
with your dream when it belongs to elsewhere contrary to common expectation. You start
feeling that maybe youre going to be a just nobody for whom just nothing is waiting. Its
horrible to be just a NOBODY to others. All the time youre thinking, planning, hoping
about your dream and at the same time wondering what would happen if you find
yourself in the wrong place when its too late. (One thing I can tell you: Never its too
late to realize its already getting late.) Life didn't come to us with a user-manual. So, it's
our right to use and to abuse it! I can tell you for sure that playing with life is a wonderful
game, but you must carefully make it sure that it remains wonderful at the end of the day.
Winners stand alone only because only a few can really win. Living unremembered,
unrecognized can give you the worst feeling, I can say. Not always life is so smooth as to
stay complacent with, I think, therefore Im principle, life makes you feel the urge to
start believing, Others think, therefore Im. Identity is more important than existence.
Now I believe, deciding what you really want matters. It took me almost 2 decades to
decide what I really want. When I'd decided finally, it took me only a few months to get
what I really want. Whatever you do, job or business or anything else, you must work not
only hard but also smartly to become successful enough to smile and not to be
embarrassed seeing others smile at your previous sweet failures. Failures are never
meant to be sweet. Its your success that makes them sweet. Sometimes your best role
model is only YOU in a better state you could be. Not always success is being anyone
else you dream of being, rather being a new YOU better than previous YOU or not
degrading your better YOU if you already are. Hardly, things not worth-challenging are
worth-getting. Success is all about earning not deserving. The easiest way to make people
admit you deserve something is only to earn it. Fact is, your success is what you think
you earn, your failure is what others think you deserve. . . . . Success. It's just living
without sighs. It's just dancing in the manner you want and making people think you
dance well even if you don't. It's making your style others' favourite brand even if it's
foolish. It's sometimes making people laugh listening to your even worst jokes. It's
making others hear you even when you don't speak. It's taking the opportunity to tell
others that meeting your previous millionth failure was essential, anyway. It's making
your failures worth-mentioning by you or by others. It's just what it's, not the opposite of
failure as often popularly told and wrongly believed. Throughout my life Ive followed a
simple technique. I always have the highest respect for any peak Im trying to reach and I
make the successful persons my heroes. It gives me a great drive! Really! Even a child
wants to become the hero he dreams of. Its easy to work for something when you really
admire, in any job, in any business. Your business is like your child. You cannot expect
your child to be a complete man overnight. Similarly, you cannot expect your business
boom before you become used to the bitter reactions from the people around you. People
have a natural talent of undermining your attempts to which they are not familiar with or
dont feel comfortable about. There are some people who can never appreciate. So, it's
foolish to judge yourself by what they say. Kind words are healthier than chicken soup.
Have a bowl of healthy soup----served (if youre lucky enough) or self-served (if you
want to make your own luck). Get busy living. Ive always found this: learnt free, lost
paid. So, invest before you earn. Get inspirations from people who never stop before they
cross the miles to go before they sleep. Quitters are never winners. Que sera, sera---
Whatever will be, will be. Things are that they're, things will be that they'll be. If you
quit, only you quit. Some won't quit and will reach the peak. The easiest way to finish
something is to start it. Once you start, you're surely on the way to the end. If you finish
before it finishes, you must search for another way. Not always a new way is better rather
sometimes it brings newer pains. If you still don't know what to do, ask your heart. Do
what you love, love what you do. Your heart strangely somehow knows better than you.
Never ask a blind man to help you cross the road because he is also trying or has failed to
cross it. If you can't see ask someone who has already seen. Better to live 1 minute with a
wise man than to stay 1 hundred years with an idiot. First decide, deserve and then desire.
These 3 D's can give you what you and others want from your life. Not always life is
easy, but it's still worth-living. Tough time doesn't last long for the tough men. Be that
tough. Don't tell the world what you can do, let the world tell it for you. Your actions
speak much louder than your words. Don't challenge others, challenge yourself because at
the end of the day what all you're left with, is only yourself. It's never too late, rather
being late is good as you've already paid the price for mistakes that others haven't yet.
Know what to do, learn how to do it and JUST DO IT! Be that tough guy for whom time
waits as he has refused to shape his life with time, by time, for time. Remember, only
your results are rewarded, not your efforts. This is the way the world accepts or rejects
you. Good luck! :)

CSE (CUET) 02 batch, MBA (IBA, DU) 45th batch, MDS (DU) 9th batch

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.............. because it's love

: Before I met you life had always meant me being with books, movies, music &
facebook. Being single was a cool idea, things around were cool, no worries, and no
regrets. All on a sudden, I happened to realize, the problem with these stuffs is, theres no
conversation. So, I need you.

: Why me??

: I dont know actually. All on a sudden, life sounded to me to meet a beautiful girl who
doesnt have a boyfriend and admits it to me.

: Later, you decided to leave. Ridiculous! Just ridiculous!!

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and have not. Youll walk a long way if Im not beside you.

: Dont say everything, I wish you liked at least one thing Id! Now you claim, you
liked everything, huh? Surprising!!

: You are a masterpiece of God (like everyone else hahaha), you belong to yourself
& to your own family ........... No one on earth deserves you!!!

: No no no! No one in this earth understands me. But, deep in my heart, someone is there
whom I really miss every time, and really want him; whatever, just forget it!

: Maybe ............ only your family members understand it and behave rudely when
anyone else tries to understand........ Thats why just be with yourself & your own family,
& most importantly, BE HAPPY; no mater, with or without whomever, whatever!

: You never care whatever I think, however I miss you, whenever I want you. You have
created your own world and never let the rest of the world enter it. You have no idea
about who misses you, how badly she wants you, how shattered she feels when you dont
respond.

: If you miss someone, just tell him before it's too late.......... When we don't decide, God
Himself decides......... It's the rule of Nature. The only problem with golden moments is
that they just pass by too early.

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: What do you mean, Aryan?

: I dont know. If I did, at least I could brag of my talent.

: You are also much conceited which you yourself dont even know. You tell & do some
boastful things that others notice, maybe you dont mean, still some meaning is there. I
used to feel bad when someone told bad things about you; still I do. Youll never
understand. You think girls like me are not marriage materials. I know what Im; so, I
dont think it at all. To me, life is not as you think. You have your own ideas about life.
Maybe, we failed to understand each other. Whatever, we cant see our backs, its not a
problem; the problem is, we feel comfortable to forget that still others can. No worries,
its natural. I know, these talks mean nothing to you. Youll humiliate me any time
writing these things publicly on facebook. No problem, Ive got used to bad feelings.

: Leave the feelings of all people; just let them feel what the Hell they want to feel. I
never expect all to be happy with what I'm, how I'm, why I'm so............. I just don't care
whether people, who can't be happy with me, who are always there to find fault with me,
but never can appreciate for the few good things Ive, are beside me or not. Even if they
dont leave me, I just leave them............ Sometimes it's a great fortune to be just with
yourself, and even much better, with some, if youre lucky enough or at least someone
who feels comfortable with the unpleasant things you have. All have unpleasant things,
but not everyone can master the art of hiding. Some girls like hypocrites, I know. But I
cant be that smart to be that double-faced. I cant even sometimes handle the one face
Ive, how can even dare to have another one! hahahaha.. Better to be a scoundrel
than to be a hypocrite. Sorry, I failed to tell you & your family what I never thought &
believed.

: Why not just say it directly; you are just happy without me? Nothing surprising, you
always were!

: You again misunderstand. OK, let me explain (though I believe, only love needs no
explanation). I'm just happy without your family; never that, I'm happy without you. You
still mean a lot to me. Hope, it makes sense. Your family is too arrogant to stand (for me)!
They better find a spineless boy for you whom they can tell what the Hell they like! Not
always, you have to show & keep on announcing what you have; if you truly achieve
something, people can understand. It's never a good idea to underestimate people who
don't feel comfortable to brag............ Often, people who can't walk further, just brag & let
the world know their limit. I believe, whatever you brag about, defines your limit &
capacity................ When your journey is yet to complete, you have to just walk, not tell
others, See! It's only me on earth, who can walk!

: You want to make me cry again. I know, youll soon start rebuking me, and as usual Ill
start crying. I really fear you. You only scare and scare; never love. I love to study; its
the problem in your eye. No problem, start rebuking, Ive no one here to stop me from
crying. I feel so helpless.
: Don't misunderstand me.

: No no, rebuke rebuke! Ill keep on crying. What you want only is my tears.

: Don't cry, as I don't deserve your tears. And, youve no one around to stop you? No no,
you'll always find someone who stops me from making you cry, as they have the firm
belief no one else on earth can make you cry only to make you feel better when he makes
you smile later. Ive time to cry for you & wait for you to make me smile, but you have
no time to cry for me, huh? As long as, you're in this cycle, don't expect anyone else to
make you cry, make you smile, make you unhappy, make you happy. Your family owns
you in such a way that deters all on earth from being with you. And, the only thing that
matters, YOU ARE QUITE HAPPY WITH IT! So, be happy with your family, career,
life, vanity, beliefs............. My dear, only peace & happiness matter ......... no matter with
or without whomever or whatever you're. Be just as you want to be. Forgive me as I
could not be as you & your family wanted........... I just wanted to live a life before I die,
not to be in the popular rat-race............. The problem with that race, even if you win, you
still remain a rat............ I have always wanted to be a human being, not a rat. I believe,
job for life, not life for job. I cant plan for a decade as Im too busy living in this ten
seconds. I live in every moments world. Ive no aim in life. To me, life is just living
without sighs. No big big dreams! Dreams happen to meet, na? Dream means to be happy
with the beauty of small thingsmyself, my family, some kind people around me.
Sorry for my poor vision. And forget everything I've written; all are soliloquies, just
soliloquies. Its all like my own life that signifies nothing. Life is an old tale told by an
idiot.

: Its you who have left me. You never understood me, did you?

: No no, you & your family made me leave; to be precise, it was your family............. I
still wonder, how more rude a person could be!!! I'm sorry, forgive me. And, probably
youd wanted it, I could understand later. How foolish I was!!! In love, there is
stupidity............ I don't regret, I was right and Id every right to be an emotional fool! If
you love someone, you can never leave!! Never!! You can do what the Hell you want to
do, but never can you leave. But you did it!! No worries, just be happy in the way you &
your family want to be. Ive disturbed you a lot, hampered your study, career........... You
father, your family & most unfortunately you yourself think so!!! How helpless I felt!!
You have no idea............ Please don't cry, I don't deserve your tears, really I dont!

(.silence.)

: I felt like crying, thats why I left the conversation. Sorry. You know Ive problems in
my head. So, marry soon. Otherwise, Ill knock & give you pains forever. I do promise!
: No no, I'm happy being single. I couldnt realize it earlier. Being single is cool, really
its! Hahaha.

: What do you mean? I cant understand.

: Thanks God you cant! If you could, your CGPA would lower! Be happy with being
dumb enough to score higher CGPA!

: Uffffff. Youve still stayed impossible!! At least tell me what Ive not
understood. Please!

: Im not that much meritorious like you. If you cant, how can I understand! If I were
meritorious I could have a good academic result like you. And, people couldnt make me
listen whatever they like! Now I understand, girls with a higher CGPA should not make
the boys fall in love! They have only one feeling: I must study! I must study!! No
other feeling in their heart let alone love! A girl must not have commonsense, sense of
humour & feeling of love to score a high CGPA. True!

: You still feel comfortable to scold me as meritorious? Well well

: And, you still think I was born only to marry, not to be a Harvard graduate, huh?

: What do you mean?

: Nothing, as before, just some rubbish talks! You see, Im still a mad.

: I still cant understand what makes you angry! Please tell it exactly.

: Hahahaha Leave it, just leave it! You or your family has never cared whatever
bullshit I think or I dont. You are a genius and find another genius for yourself. I can bet,
your children will be masterpieces on earth! Please forgive me for my foul talks.

: You deserve a hard blow on your nose. RIGHT NOW! . Arent you going out for
an afternoon stroll? If possible, please wear something blue today; shirt or T-shirt. Not
that you always have to wear black to catch the girls eyes! hahaha

: OMG! You are still living with me!!! What does it mean! You are in love again? How
come!!

: Dont tell again. Ive always been! Im not like you. Huh! Maybe I still love you,
otherwise why the Hell you still haunt my mind?!

: Oh maybe. That means, youre still confused. Girls have natural talent to stay
confused; ALWAYS! I see!

: Leave it. Ive just told you what I feel. Im still crazy for you.
: You can never ever be so crazy like me only because youve a good CGPA. You are not
that type. Good students are desperate just for result not for love. Or, maybe I lack some
qualities to make you love me madly.

: Why are you always looking for a chance to quarrel? Just say, youre not going to wear
blue. Simple! Why always in such a jugglery of words!! Disgusting!! And, dont forget to
marry ASAP.

: No, I wont. You marry. Ive decided not to marry before you. I just want to prove that
you never loved me.

: No no no!! Marry just tomorrow, right now! Otherwise, youll ruin my peace & Ill ruin
yours. Im tired. Ill take a nap now. Why are you so quarrelsome always? Even a girl
wont be able to beat you, I can bet!

: Ill be busy tomorrow. Ill have to sleep the whole day long, no time to marry. Sorry!
And, I like to be quarrelsome. OK, from now on, Ill quarrel with other girls. Never will I
bother you. Promise!

: Hello Mr! Listen, dont feign! I know you already do this with other girls. Girls are also
so stupid! They have no work! Crazy idiots!!

: Hey! Dont ever scold girls in front of me! It hurts! I love them all.

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September 20, 2009 at 4:43pm

Broken Appointments of Love . . . . . . . by: Sushanta Paul

When I approach Love, it buries itself in me.

So, I've decided to make it approach Me.

I'd rather play hide and seek with it!

I promised to Love many a time,

Later, I realized I made promises only to break them up.

I, then decided to make Love promises to me.

For Love's sake, I let not it break the promises!

I taught Love how to live broken-hearted.

It stayed longer to leave me forever.

I burnt myself in desire ---

Yet let it go away safe.

I walked on the wall of darkness,

Love made its journey to my soul,

I wonder I hardly noticed its pace,

Only discovered its essence in the silent music of darkness!

I thought, I drank the nectar of love to my heart,

But I sipped but a little!

I found myself entrapped with your eyes,

Even though I never dared ask you even just a kiss!

Love once whispered to my soul,

I was too busy then even to listen to it.

Long long afterwards, I heard its echo,

My heart treasured it, I felt like floating!

Our sweetest feelings always remain untouched, I realized.

I did mesmerize Love, its zeal.

Angels robbed it but once,

Again, it dropped like a star on the strand I stood.

How can Love be subdued? I made them bethink!

Love tried to veil your radiant eyes,

Even you remained behind the silken snare of your tresses.

How could pearls get concealed when oysters let not them do so?

Can water but turn to wine if I leave a kiss?

Love gave me leave to kiss, made me bold to woo,

Yet, how can daring fate be ignored? I wonder!

Elsewhere in other world, my soul dotes in solitude,

In the distant shore, you once dreamt to go.

The story of that distant bliss--couldn't but be gone with the wind,

Left me insane, just in the lap of eternity.

So obvious in hue, yet blurred in guise of Erida.

I recalled my oath, which I made not to you, but to my love.

Again came Aphrodite, just emerged from the ever-frozen zone!

As vowed I've, never dare banish Love.

Never too late begins my ache to shun.

Gentle swain as I'm to refuse---

To turn wicked spirit into divine one!

O Love! You whom I often and silently can't but adore,

Hear the sighing sound beyond silence's shore;

Yet not too late to counsel or pray.

I'll dare to bet Love's broken heart for decades to come!

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Thank you; I can NEVER trust anyone again. People who flatter you all the time, you
really think they love you? They don't. They love your success ONLY. And God forbids,
if you ever drop down, these people will be gone too. So try not to hurt people who
actually care next time, for whoever it may be, they will agree to stay beside you when
the rest of the world will decide to leave you. To the world you may be a saint, but to me
you are someone who ruined my perfect life. I know youll get some pervert sort of self-
satisfaction if I tell you how badly Id fallen for you. You can use me as an example of
how charming youre to the next boy youll talk to (or already have used? Who
knows!). At this point, I really dont care.

When you pretended to accept everything I wanted you to accept, you should have
realized that I am not one of those cheap guys who flirt with different girls every other
day. To you I was just another random guy you love to pass time with. But, you were the
ONLY girl I decided to let into my life in 28 years! You pretended to have feelings for
me. And my biggest mistake was being in love with everything you said; you were fake, I
was not. You led me on, made me fall for you and then when you realized that I had badly
fallen for you, you lost interest and threw me out of your life. At first I was in denial. I
couldnt believe how I could be SO wrong in judging you; I couldnt believe you were
not the person I thought you were. I couldnt believe the cheap mentality beneath that
decent face of yours..so deceiving! Deceiving; yes, it is!

And even then I couldnt hate you. Instead, I started to hate myself being disgusted by
how much priority I gave to, how much feelings I wasted on the wrong person. You have
damaged me. I didnt deserve this. You had no right to come to my life and play with it
when you had absolutely no intention to stay in it. Now, I understand the ability to hate is
a gift. It makes your life easier---You can pour all your frustration on the object of your
hatred, blame it for every bad thing that happens to you, even if it is as irrelevant as a
crow shitting on you. Its funny, huh? Sometimes not being able to hate is a blessing too.
Hatred holds you back, keeps you from moving on and in a way constantly reminds you
of the very thing you want to forget. But what disturbs me is the grey area between this
hate not-hate dilemma. How would you explain it?
I would sit for hours staring at a book and even the kindest words would stare back at me,
mockingly. Every few minutes, I would check my cellphone with little hope to see a
small envelope sign at its top left corner. A message, even if it were a one syllable hm
from the number with seven and three as its last digits, was ALL I would look forward to
in an entire day. My heart would miss a beat every freaking time my phone buzzed
but your text never came, NEVER!

For someone like me, who has never done anything in his life apart from dreaming of
being or being with fictional characters of books and movies, being in love with both
melody and its creators, feeling what I write, keeping away from the old passions is
something like refusing to breathe. I could hardly sleep, even if I could, luckily, Id see
you in my dreams! I could not take you hovering in my head 24/7 any longer.it was
getting unbearable with each passing day. And then came a point when I desperately
wanted to call you and ask you to treat me nicely, I wanted you to be with me, talk to me
even if all of it were pretense, all words just fake. I, who had been habituated with
refusing all the goddamn gorgeous girls around, whose every single wish got fulfilled at
home even before he demanded, was on the verge of begging you for your time!

But I never called. Neither did I text. Itd kill me inside, but I made it a point that Id
never inbox you FIRST. Youd inbox me every 4/5 days asking me how I was. Do you
know how it sounded? It was like a person who threw another person on to fire and then
kept asking the latter how he was feeling at every 5 minutes interval! Id stare at the
message for a long time, a hundred thoughts racing my mind, another hundred stabs
wounding my heart. Then I would reply with a small not bad followed by a full stop. I
started to like full stops! You never heard the cries of desperation behind that not bad of
mine, never saw the tears in my eyes through that not bad, never felt the intensity of my
emotions that the insignificant not bad echoed.did you?

Do you know why I never called or texted or inboxed you first? Because I was afraid that
I wouldnt be able to take it if you didnt reply or pick up my call. I was scared of not
being able to handle your neglect. I was scared of not being able to wait long enough for
that reply, what if it never came? That is what you did to my self-esteem---shattered it to
pieces, stomped it with your feet until it turned to dust. And all the while you acted like
nothing had happened. You were living your perfect happy life while I was dying inside.

During those countless, sleepless nights I would often ask myself---was it all fake? Did
you not feel a thing? Really? How could you not feel that burning chemistry that sparked
between us? Was it really one-sided? How could I be so sure about you while being SO
wrong? I never had the courage to ask you if you ever felt anything for me. Reason being
the same: fear, which maybe youd say, was all in my head. And I was not ready to accept
it. I wanted to believe that no matter how temporary it was, it was real, that it had at least
some meaning. But it never had any meaning, not for you and therefore not for me.
until yesterday.

But you know what? You are not the end of my world. You dont have the capability to
feel with the depth with which I feel. You can NEVER be true to anyone; you can never
be true to yourself. I laugh at myself for liking someone who wasnt worthy of my
feelings. But I feel pity for you. Because you let someone like me go; someone who
would have stopped the world for you. I know you wont feel guilty. You are probably
laughing at me right now or taking sadistic pride in your control over my emotions. You
will probably say that you treated me just as a friend and that I misunderstood
everything. And you will probably never realize that what you did to me was wrong;
actually, women of your type never do. You play with someones feelings and when you
get bored you switch to the next guy. Then again I dont care anyone anymore.
Thankfully, I dont even want you anymore. I am telling you all this neither because I
want any answer from you nor because I want your sympathy but because I want closure
on you. You were a bad dream and I woke up from it. Did you just get your answer?

You said those 3 words, 8 letters and I went blank. Complete black-out. Pin-drop silence.
The world around me stopped, grasping the magnitude of the moment, absorbing it as
much as it could. Now, I dont want to ask you anything. I finally got my closure on you.
I finally got my answer. I can finally rest because all my feelings were not pointless, after
all. It doesnt matter even if you dont mean it. I just needed to hear it once. By saying it
out loud, you have freed me from yourself.now I have no strings attached to
you Thank you for my happiness.
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November 12, 2014 at 11:29pm

Soliloquy 1:

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Things Fall Apart

~ Chinua Achebe

The term 'forever' is too relative to be brought under any universalized definition, yet it
conveys some meaning as long as time-interval is considered. And such time-slots are
often biased through our inclination, urge, target, vision etc. And in context of a
predefined notion which we live by, it perhaps, holds good. . . . . . In such a world with
complicated thoughts and transient illusions it's often rather daunting to make things
around last as long as we wish. Things were that they were, things are that theyre and
things will be that they will be. Our attitude towards them matters most. How we feel is
more important than what we really feel. Things around often turn worse long before they
really turn worse. And such is the course of life! . . . . Things fall apart only when our
thoughts fall apart. We make things better or worse, they never change truly. They neither
fall apart nor gather close. We make, something remakes keeping the mystery of Nature
unveiled forever. . . . . . . Palaces are built to be reduced to dust. What could last forever?
Nothing. And nothing should be allowed to last forever; otherwise it'll be suicidal for
human race. Creation would be stopped, the world is sure to lose its beauty. . . . . No
memory is either sweet or bitter. The memory we try to remember seems sweet, the
memory we try to forget is bitter. It's too relative. You can never call a memory absolutely
sweet or bitter. . . . . I think, therefore I'm. I follow, therefore I'm not. Someone else
thought, therefore he/she was. I followed, therefore I wasn't. Existence is the magic of
thought. Once we lose the power of free thinking, we do not exist any more.
Existentialism teaches the art of living. Belief is often self-denial. True knowledge never
springs from beliefs, it springs from doubts. We last till our doubts last. Nothingness
overshadows personality. A dead soul is the most dangerous thing. A soul that never lived
can never die also. It can't last forever as it was not born at all!

Soliloquy 2:

I think, therefore I'm single . . . .

Hey there! Solitude is bliss but the problem is, there is no conversation. I often think that
it's better to live alone than to live with a wrong person, and the fact is, I could never find
a Miss Right! (I rather found many who often Miss Right!) . . . . . Life is a Disneyland,
and most of the girls I've ever met are just the Mickey Mouses. I never felt like spending
my whole life with a Mickey Mouse (Life never seems something to me to be spent in
just compromising) . . . And, I often talk to myself as I prefer to talk to only better class
people. . . . . I feel I'm the eleventh one out of ten you can count. Alone with in the midst
of crowd not worthy of breaking my solitary state . . . . We can get whatever we want, but
the problem is, we can never want whatever we want . . . . Solitude is not always a good
companion, after all . . . . . Something often goes wrong; perhaps I let it go wrong . . . . I
don't know, but it does. I can't go wrong with it, and so it goes wrong . . . . . . I have
friends who say, 'Good Twilight!' . . . . But, I miss someone who can say, 'It's Twilight!' . .
. . I often make a mess, I feel there should be someone to make or unmake this mess for
me . . . . . I find many already born, so keep on looking for someone to be born yet .
That's not an easy deal, I know, but I like to be stupid in indulging myself into this
audacity of hope . . . . .

Soliloquy 3:

Any shortcut to avoid the clash between Dream and Reality?

Well, both are dreams . . . . . . The only difference is, Dream is a dream dreamt, while
Reality is a dream felt . . . . . We're often better dreamers than we're not supposed to be,
worse feelers than we're supposed to be . . . . . . Dreaming for dream's sake is never
worth-dreaming, because when the dream ends you're left only with reality. Life exists in
the wide gap between Dream and Reality. We're life. Life's we. Dream pays much here.
But, we can't live here forever. We must go where we're supposed to go. Staying is better
but not possible always. Life is never so easy as to not have to say Goodbye to dream.
We're to back to reality at dream's departure. . . . Is there any technique for learning not to
dream anything not worthy of dreaming? . . . . Thinking shapes our inner world, outer
world remains the same as it was. We can never stop thinking as we're meant for it.
Dreaming a dream that is never like that, can be a better feeling but always a worse payer
as long as the world around is considered. Living in a Utopia, better for living, turns
worse once lived. Dream is the keyword; Reality is the leader though it is supposed to be
the follower. Such is the life lying between the gap between Dream and Reality, dreaming
of a world that never was . . . that never will be. We are such puppets in the hands of
eternity --- the worst player ever created . . . . . . I often wonder why given all our skills,
resources and talents, I, so obviously capable of being the best, settle so often for the
worst. Different issues and themes struck me on my mind's pilgrimage around the gap
between Dream and Reality . . . Is there any digestible packages of suggestion to be
followed in this regard? I'm often a great dreamer of Dream but a wrong doer with
Reality . . . . . . Inheritance works only in case of people who are born only to inherit not
to acquire. Acquisition, no doubt, pays much more than inheritance . . . We can never
inherit anything, just we're often reluctant or helpless to be out of such easy inheritance
track!

Soliloquy 4:

The worst sides of our weakness often hide the best sides of our strength. Do they?
Really?

I'm a stranger to my intellect. I'm an outsider to my instinct. And so, I'm still an ordinary
man. . . . . I always think positive, can't do positive always however. My instincts usually
pay better than my intellects and it creates a mess too often. Though I never let grief and
sadness engulf me, they're quite good at making their own way! . . . . . . The things we
hide resemble us most, I think. There is a constant clash between our instinct and
intellect. This clash sometimes finds its way to a happy resolution through the dictation
our conscience. But, often things around are not too rosy to make everything okay for a
happy ending. A power in disguise in more miserable than weakness itself. We can hardly
be out of the never-ending track of illusionary thoughts. We do what we should not do.
We like to think what we really need to stop thinking. It's a psychological Odyssey none
could ever complete, I doubt! . . . . . . Again, strength and weakness are relative terms.
Even the worst side of our weakness may be our strength against one opponent and best
side of our strength may be our weakness against another. . . . . So true in some
perspectives as love and hatred are also too relative to define universally. If we impose
some common traits on the range of strength and weakness, perhaps it holds true. Our
strong sides are often veiled behind our weaker side due to some instincts within or some
catalysts without. Great is the person who can be out of self-denying instincts . . . . .
That's the only measure to be adopted, not easy though . . . Hercules and Hamlet can
hardly be friends within our minds. Then, what to do? Well, often flexibility is the key.
Trees which don't bend can't weather storms. It's about how you can play your weakness
to strength, because you can not ever change some of the basic characteristics, for
instance, the physical ones. Break yourself free from conventionality and look at bright
side of things that have already been predefined as dark and base.
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November 13, 2014 at 8:14pm

Soliloquy 5

Girls are like shadow. If you run after them, they will run away from you. If you run
away from them, they will run after you.

Well, I've never been dumped by any girl or, dumped anyone either! Anyway, I should
have not offended those who are good runners in this regard! Sorry for that! . . . . . . . See,
you may say that I talk too much foul. Thanks. Should a stupid talk wisely? . . . . . . I don't
love girls, they love me. I just can't hurt them. . . . . . . . . Finally, I can say that love runs
blind, so better depend on blind-dating! Hahahaha . . . . . . . You can suggest to stand still.
Can you ever touch you shadow? . . . . . . . . What's the use of passing even your whole
life just staring at a dumb shadow? . . . . . . . . . . . Again, I often feel proud of my stupidity
as in this God-gifted virtue I'm second to none! Girls are by far, fond of stupid boys, as
they don't prefer any smart one who can trace their stupidity easily! . . . . . . . Hmm. . . . . .
. Seriousness? This seems too heavy for me to bear! . . . . . . I can at most be seriously
stupid only, not more than that! Even an idiot knows how stupid his shadow is!
. Have you ever tried to fight with your own shadow? It's amazing! Just try it!
Ahh! Girls are just like that! . . . . . . . . I tried it many times and have found that this is the
only strife in the world where you'll lose the appeal of rejoicing the victory even if you
win! . . . . . . . . . Just imagine that you're walking but, you've no shadow. Are you a
human being at all it this case?. . . One possible solution: Walk in darkness. No shadow
will follow you! No one is there whom you can chase or, who can chase you either!
Hahahaha. . . . . . .

Soliloquy 6

Things are that they are and things will be that they will be.

I don't wish to conclude anywhere....but just to pull on the thought process, let me go a
little further. Unlike the 3 coordinates on which lies the entire astronomy, there is a 4th
coordinate called 'time' propagated by none other than all-time great scientist Einstein.
The above line may make us aware of the famous theory of relativity of Einstein. Under
this if any physical particle travels with the speed of light, time factor becomes 0; and if it
exceeds light-speed, 'time' becomes negative. And that's what the astrology is.....to know
what lies under the secret of future 'time' factor. On this Einstein's theory there have been
not less than millions acquiring PhD, for or against, to prove or disprove.... Time
becomes negative means, if we start our journey today, we would have reached yesterday.
We know it doesn't make sense. But anything supernatural when established through
proven logic becomes natural. I don't wish to advocate for 'superstitions', just a
thought. . . . . . . . We generally act on strong impulses and our impulses instigate us on
some common theories mostly ensued from our previous experience. Hence, we
generally dare not be out of our traditionalism. But if we have an independent view on
the way of life and can explore in the avenues that are self-created we can find the real
truth of life. Being a master of one's soul is a must in this case. Otherwise we miserably
become a slave to indoctrinated thoughts. . . . . . . Of course that's what the entire science
is......to discover something new. When we say new, it is new to us only, whereas it
already exists as per the law of nature. And we can't change that law; we can only know
the new secrets of Nature.....which may also be called God as per ones faith. A real way
of life, according to me, is, Listen to all....don't block your receiver for anything....but
make an independent opinion of your own. Also the thought should be open to changes
and not become a victim of mental-block. Irrespective of what has been spoon-fed into
our brain, it's got to be ready for any changes anytime. ....You may recall, probably it was
Galileo who became victim of going against the mental block of society at that time, for
propagating theory of earth revolving around sun that was against the Bible. . . . . . . The
present God-based Religions are largely biased! Let us build up the impulse to accept
Religion for Man's sake instead of Religion for God's/Religion's sake.
Soliloquy 7

The easiest way to remember a girl's name is trying to forget it . . . . .

I've a very wonderful memory for forgetting names, especially girls' names . . . I know
it's not memory's task to forget . . . . . So, I must have an extraordinary memory. . . . .
Later on, I tried to assign the task of forgetting to my memory. . . My plan worked
miserably well, now I can remember the names most boring girls I've ever met . . . . .
Grrrrrrr . . . . . . I know I'm not young enough to think I'm young! . . . . . My memory is
good at forgetting other nouns too . . . common, collective, material, abstract . . . But, the
interesting fact is, it works only when I try to forget what I don't want to remember, I
mean I want to remember . It might be for that I'm an aged young man . . . Still, Id like
to follow a never mind theory. . . . . . Please don't pretend that you don't like the colours
of the rainbow when you've created the rainbow in your heart . . . . . Ah! Come on! Our
life is too short to be so serious. Imagine a life without any fun; I know that would not be
a funny thing to do! Let's be smart enough to handle serious things smartly . . . . .

Soliloquy 8

I've a wonderful memory for forgetting things. I often rename girls I know, name boys I
don't know . . .

But, forgetting things has a great advantage too . . . Every time I enjoy the beautiful
things for the first time . . . Things are never old to me. I'm never experienced; just enjoy
everything for the first time. . . . . . . . . I've many unpleasant experiences about forgetting
names. Some of them are really horrible! Now, I've devised a funny technique. It works,
however. I try to remember the names of the boys and to forget the names of the girls.
You may give it a try. It works, really it works! . . . . . . . What's in a name? Well, the
things that you might avoid by calling someone rightly by his/her. . . . . . A name might
pay less than you hope, but renaming pays much more you deserve. You can try it, it
works instantly especially in cases of girls.....

Soliloquy 9

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The blank above is the emptiness of life. Fill it with Smile and Love . . .

~SMILE~
~LOVE~

: I filled my share..... Dear, can you feel the love around you?

: It's not all around anymore. It enters my heart, my soul. It's within, not without.

: Well said....as long as you felt it within your soul...for that is what matters...

: Even better said . . . . The magic of love revealed so simply by you. . . .

: Ah! Inspired by you ...love always rules us . . . .

: Rule it, instead. You'll be ruled more for sure!

Soliloquy 10

Giving up smoking is the easiest thing in the world. I know because I've done it
thousands of times.

~ Mark Twain

Giving up a habit is not an easy task. . . . For instance, I can tell you for sure it's not
almost possible for me or some others like me to quit Facebook though there are a good
number of reasons convincing enough for quitting it. It's a passion, much more than
merely an addiction. But, it's not such an addiction that ruins the addicts as well as people
around them who don't use Facebook. An addiction that harms only the addicted but not
the others who aren't addicted, isn't so disapproving. After all, everyone has the right to
die or live in the way he/she chooses. Living by letting others live isn't an offence. . .
Smoking is not such an addiction. You're bound to be harmed even though you're not
addicted. Usually any type of addicted person (addicted to any type of habit) is devoid of
commonsense. He hardly cares about whether he is proving himself an idiot in front of
others for his addiction. Fascination often turns to addiction. You've the right to be
fascinated but you have no right to create pain for others. It's very silly from my point of
view. If you don't cause any type of stupid inconvenience for people around you, they
will not care about your fascination or addiction, whatever it is. I personally never care
about others' personal likings or dislikings. I live and let others live. This is the way I
prefer to follow. To be honest, I never care about whether smoking or any rubbish thing
like it is harmful or not. Until I'm not involved into it, it's of little use to care about
someone who doesnt care about himself. I can just try to dissuade him from smoking
being a genuine well-wisher but I can never change him if he doesn't feel like being
changed. Some are born to break not bend, it's their choice. But, I can hardly tolerate if
any stupid emits a puff of smoke before me and compels me to be a passive smoker. And
the fact is, smokers, like all other addicts, just dont care. I often request my smoker
friends or known persons not to smoke in front of me. They try to convince me saying
that I won't die if they finish a cigarette before me. What rubbish! And, I'm sure the non-
smokers always face the same problem as I do. It's not easy to teach an idiot public
etiquette. I'm not supposed to be such a great teacher. . . . . . Am I advising? Who am I to
advise people? They're intelligent enough to do it for themselves. True. Everyone has the
right to choose the way of life for himself. But is it approving if anyone causes troubles
for others? A gentleman never causes troubles for others. Being addicted to anything
might be your personal matter, but you've no right to make others suffer for your
addiction. Die or live as you wish, but let others live . . . . . Some are stupid by born,
some are stupid by instinct, some are stupid by choice. I've no objection to their stupidity
until it makes me suffer unnecessarily. Thanks.

Soliloquy 11

Man is a self-contradictory creature. Human heart yearns for a lasting relationship but
man often breaks it up with just a simple "touch" long before it is formed.

In these days, love is hardly interpreted as what it is actually is. We're too busy at
pleasing ourselves rather than feeling it in the truest sense. People think they're in love;
they're often in just lust. The true aspect of love can never be so narrow as to be
surrendered only to some subconscious desire. In this context, let me quote some lines
from my poem, "Broken Appointments of Love" . . . . .

I thought, I drank the nectar of love to my heart,

But I sipped but a little!

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....................

Love once whispered to my soul,

I was too busy then even to listen to it.

Long long afterwards, I heard its echo,

My heart treasured it, I felt like floating!

Our sweetest feelings always remain untouched, I realized.

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As vowed I've, never dare banish Love,

Never too late begins my ache to shun.

Gentle swain as I'm to refuse---

To turn wicked spirit into divine one!

Soliloquy 12

Thank you father for what I'm and for what I'm not.

My father practises what I preach . . . His dreams teach me how great actions should
be . . . . . I often thought that honesty is what we show in our actions . . . His life has
taught me that honesty is what we have in our thoughts. . . . . Later on; our thoughts
become our actions . . . Hats off my dear father! I think when our thoughts spring from
our actions, we're led to preaching, and when our actions spring from our thoughts, we're
led to practicing. . . Preaching is always easier than practicing! . . . . . . . I've not seen God
but I've seen my parents, and it's enough for me. I can pass my whole life just
worshipping these two wonderful personalities. . . . . . What I thought yesterday, I'm
trying to do today. What I'm thinking today, I might deviate from tomorrow. That's my
problem, indecisive manners in my actions, thoughts. If I can escape from such a
stereotype, I'll surely be able to do what you want me to do.

no full stops, please : Part III

November 13, 2014 at 8:34pm

Soliloquy 13

Does a teenaged or a young boy/girl most often confuse 'smartness' with

shamelessness?

I often wonder, whether a stupid generation complacent with and proud of its stupidity is
a gift of civilization or, civilization can't but make its way pervertedly to some silly idiots
making them victims of a so-called smart culture !! Now, we've a generation whose
members claim themselves to be the followers of western essence, but they're just blind
slaves of western culture!! They never bother about inner illumination; they just try to
fool away their gender-based counterparts through their outer stupid gestures. Is it not a
sheer crisis of civilization? I often sigh for my studious youth! What will be left for them
to sigh over when they've pass the youth? We also passed our teenage. We enjoyed being
silly, doing foolish acts but felt the urge to be out of that track too and accordingly, did
something to turn out to be smart. I wonder how some of their heads can work without
brain!! They never feel sorry for their ignorance. They hate reading poetry but like
writing it!! They never try to know what love it but fall in love 24 times a day!!! Is it not
pathetic to see some souls chained? A teenaged or a young boy is often found attending
the gym to raise his muscles above his shoulder but lowers his brain under his knees !!
How can he expect others to think him handsome? A teenaged or a young girl often
seems to be lovely as long as she doesn't open her mouth! Once she starts talking, a smart
guy is sure to lose interest in her! Please don't take my comment as a generalized
observation. I sincerely feel worried for such a misguided generation. We're experiencing
a 'confused generation'. Teenage boys and girls often wait to be confused and so it's really
easy to confuse them with the simplest confidence trick! How can they hope of
participating in greater decision-making without knowing what to decide and how to
decide? It's never a good idea to generalize things, because some things are not really
general. There are some persons who are always out of the 10 you can count. I personally
feel a sharp contrast between our generation and the present generation. As I teach some
students, I've been with a good number of teenaged and young minds for at least 8 years.
I feel really surprised when I see that almost all of them have no taste for reading what
isn't required for passing the exam. They don't read literature, as they think it won't pay
them in exams. They never go through poems though they write a good number of poems
for their boyfriends or girlfriends. Just guess what type of indigestible DJ type poetic
feeling they have. It's often horrible even to imagine what they can think, feel or don't
think, feel. . . . . . They're never convinced of things they can't imagine or think. It's really
so easy to persuade them to do things they're not supposed to do. . . . . . Now it's really a
world of fast things, viz fast food, fast study, fast dress, or even fast dating! Can you
imagine what would happen to this fast generation when they're left behind once and
can't proceed only because they've no knowledge how and why they're fast!! . . . . . They
like a nice haircut, a nice look, and a nice appearance . . . How long such things last
really? Who will command the honour of others at the end of the day? . . . . . What is the
use of showing smartness without being smart? Is smartness just a thing to be seen not be
understood? Such smart poor fellows are really miserable . . . Just leave them in the midst
of some enlightened persons and see what happens. Just tell them to write on a topic in
English, they'll start crying in English instead of writing in English. I've the experience, I
can tell you how they're busy just worrying about how to show down themselves with
muscular body, latest mobile phone, reckless speeches, slang words, hanging out with
boyfriends or girlfriends and so many thousands of nuisances!! . . . . . In most cases
they're emotionally abused, psychologically blackmailed, mentally indecisive, and so
they lack the power to judge what self-dignity is. . . . . . The elders are often intimidated
whenever they try to rectify the teens. They think they understand well enough, there's no
need to try to make them understand!

Soliloquy 14
Is poverty a curse of honesty? Or, is honesty an excuse of poverty?

There are two ways of being honest . . . Being honest to our passion . . . And, being
passionate for our honesty . . . The first way elevates our personality . . . The second one
raises our conceit subconsciously and we develop a dishonest attitude in our thoughts and
actions. . . . Most of the poor people are poor because they don't want or simply don't
know how to think and work for wealth, yet fabricate stories of honesty only as the
means of self-complacency!! Being honest is only being committed to what we're and
what we want to be. . . . .

Soliloquy 15

Music makes or unmakes my mind. I live with music, by music.

Music is magic, magic is music. Our life is a song, the best gift bestowed upon us during
our birth. . . . . . . Let's live for it. Let's sing for it. Life is a music heard by soul, not by
ears. Music never lies; even we can never lie when there is music in our soul. I think,
music defines what life is, to be more precise, what life is supposed to be. Our soul
echoes when music stops. When our soul stops, music echoes. We can never listen to it
until we feel it. Music makes me feel the subtle presence of my soul. My thoughts soar
higher and higher with music searching the royal road to eternity. Hats off to the singers
and musicians! They're the greatest magicians the world has ever seen. I feel my moods
best through music . . . My emotion raises my heart when I bathe in music.

Soliloquy 16

Becoming a Gentleman! How?

If you want to be only gentle you must not be outspoken outspokenly ......Being
outspoken is important for being honest to yourself. . . . . . . . A gentleman is the man who
respects ladies and make a woman behave like a lady while talking to him!! A gentleman
is someone who has a respect for those around him, and will act in an honoring fashion,
even in the face of adversity. That doesn't mean he won't disagree, but if he does, it will
not disrespect or look down upon the other's belief. He interprets everything for the best.
He does not stoop to meanness in disputes. Even towards his enemies he behaves in a
manner as if they were going to his friends one day. A true gentleman is one who hurts
nobody either by words or by deeds. He tries his best to make everyone feel at ease .He
freely offers his helps towards removing difficulties from the path of others. He is very
considerate and carefully avoids controversial discussion. He never monopolizes
conversation. He is never offended at the follies of those he is talking with. If he does a
favour to any person he does not let him feel that he has done any. He is not self-
centered .He does not attend to idle gossips. A true gentleman is polite to everyone, in
action and words. A gentleman tells about others more politely than he is supposed to. He
never becomes a slave to the moment, rather tries to make the moment his slave. A sense
of self-respect never lets him attack others making things objectionable. A gentleman
must not do anything that might cause inconvenience or discomfort to another person. It
is almost a definition of a gentleman to say he is one who never inflicts pain. This
description is both refined and, as far as it goes, accurate. He is mainly occupied in
merely removing the obstacles which hinder the free and unembarrassed action of those
about him; and he concurs with their movements rather than takes the initiative himself.
The true gentleman in like manner carefully avoids whatever may cause ajar or a jolt in
the minds of those with whom he is cast; -- all clashing of opinion, or collision of feeling,
all restraint, or suspicion, or gloom, or resentment; his great concern being to make
everyone at their case and at home. He has his eyes on all his company; he is tender
towards the bashful, gentle towards the distant, and merciful towards the absurd; he can
recollect to whom he is speaking; he guards against unseasonable allusions, or topics
which may irritate; he is seldom prominent in conversation, and never wearisome. He
makes light of favours while he does them, and seems to be receiving when he is
conferring. He never speaks of himself except when compelled, never defends himself by
a mere retort, he has no ears for slander or gossip, is scrupulous in imputing motives to
those who interfere with him, and interprets everything for the best. He is never mean or
little in his disputes, never takes unfair advantage, never mistakes personalities or sharp
sayings for arguments, or insinuates evil which he dare not say out. From a long-sighted
prudence, he observes the maxim of the ancient sage, that we should ever conduct
ourselves towards our enemy as if he were one day to be our friend. He has too much
good sense to be affronted at insults, he is too well employed to remember injuries, and
too indolent to bear malice. He is patient, forbearing, and resigned, on philosophical
principles; he submits to pain, because it is inevitable, to bereavement, because it is
irreparable, and to death, because it is his destiny. If he engages in controversy of any
kind, his disciplined intellect preserves him from the blunder.

Soliloquy 17

Every girl wants to be appreciated for her beauty, no matter whether she has it or not. So,
you can't be a good lover without being a better liar. . .

Does it sound objectionable to anyone of you? My humble apology! I know, I'm never
good at dealing with girls. It's often because I can't tell lies with them (I confess, it's
because of my nervousness while talking to them. . .hahahaha) , sometimes because I
consider many of them as my younger sisters (holy fool, as my friends call me) and
sometimes because of my introvert nature (to be more specific, because of shyness). Now
let me share some of my experience . . . (Please share yours too)
1. A girl once asked me how beautiful she looked. I also asked her how long it was she
had last stood before the mirror. And, she stopped talking to me forever. . . . I'm happy as
I hate lies!!

2. My female friend (please, don't read it 'girlfriend') once asked me what people should
appreciate the most --- her beauty? or, her figure? or, her brain? . . . I answered her, I
didn't know about others, but I must appreciate her 'sense of humour!! . . . She lacked the
sense of humour proving me wrong and never talked to me after that day. . . . I don't
know why people hate truths!!

3. Now, let me tell about some beautiful girls . . . A girl was really beautiful, her smile,
her eyes, her face . . . . Trust me friends, everything was ok until she opened her mouth . .
. There were some other burdened with all the beauties of the world paid in exchange
with all the brains of her beautiful head!! Too highly she had to pay for her beauty, no
doubt!!

Now, is it that beauty and brain don't coexist? No friends, rarely they do. . . . My
observation is, in most cases, beautiful woman gifted with brain as well, are married. . . .

Another observation . . . I admit that 'love is blind' and couples are rarely matched. Just
look at the couples . . . They prove this paradox very cruelly. I don't know why God is so
unjust in this case. . . .

Last but not the least; I must say that some love stories surpass all our assumptions. These
couples experience real love (a ghost that all of us tell about though none of us have seen
it). . . . We, the idiots, often fall in love without knowing what love is.

Soliloquy 18

Now, I can feel that my brain is a masterpiece. On its right side nothing is right; on its left
side nothing is left!! Grrrrrr . . . . .

You don't need to 'reshape' my brain, just try to 'shape' it. It's still fresh; I've not used it
yet. . . . . When my mind fails, my brain speaks. When my mind doesn't fail, my stupid
brain speaks again! . . . . The architects do the best when you do something with virgin
staffs. I'm not an architect; I have a stupid computer engineers brain (academically) who
likes to make staffs virgin after having them programmed!! . . . . . . . . . The fact is, the
Lord created me as a masterpiece. Later on, my parents tried to recreate my brain and
thus the earlier masterpiece was lost . . . . I was born genius, education ruined me.

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What is the best job/employment considering financial and social security? Friends,
please, share your view here . . .

Me: Dear Mr X, that's a very good creative idea. Exploring for alternative energy
resources and trading time for it would be a profitable platform to reach, no doubt.
There're some problems too. Anyone intended to be engaged here must acquire an overall
knowledge on how to start, where to start, why to start (vision) and finally comes the
decision. There's no one around to help or encourage. Everyone is going to suggest not to
start as few started it and made it a successful entrepreneurship. So, how to overcome
these hurdles? Can anyone who doesn't have a financial security think seriously of getting
involved into this track? Thanks.

Me: Hello Ms Y! That wouldn't be a safe zone for a stupid like me, I think! Thanks.

Me: Mr X, I've liked the idea and suggestion. It's all about agro-based business. Few
people are here. And, this sector really claims some smart entrepreneurs. I thought it
earlier and also analyzed some of its prospects. I consulted with some experts regarding
Dragon Fruit and Strawberry farming and they showed keen interest in helping me. I've
found some problems:
 No one is here to accompany.
No one is eager to discover an engineer (or, an educated youth) being involved in
this 'ordinary' (so-called) sector.
I've found no helping hand to associate with this task.
Society pays little values to such projects.
I've little financial knowledge to initiate an entrepreneurship (I own a small
business, though).

But, finally I'm thinking seriously again after reading your suggestion. Yes, it's true my
thoughts flow at some unusual tracks. I've the impulse, but not the courage (probably).
Probably it's time I thought more about it. The most attractive remuneration of this sector,
I think, is performing the commitment to my country and country people. Thank you very
much for your valuable suggestion.

Me: Ah! So nice to see you here on my wall Ms Z! Yours is a nice plan. I've been
teaching for the last 9 years and I think this is a nice sector to work with. But, here are
some less rewarding things too (in our country's perspective). Thank you for sharing your
view.

Me: Hello C! Youre here, at last & at least! Thank you Sir for your presence on my wall .
. . . I wrote, that'd be a one-stop solution for my wife and it means no one has availed
herself of this solution yet as this solution isn't available due to not arising problems . . .
.lol . . . . . . . Now about your second comment . . . In my case exclusively, my personal
liking drives me more than my academic qualification. I've not the least intention to build
up my career as a computer engineer . . . Now Sir, about your third comment . . . . Why
do you suggest being a government professional? I've liked this idea as there is ample
opportunity of serving my country and nation. Apart from this, what features make it a
standalone priority? Thanks.

Me: Mr X, thank you Sir for those wonderful inspiring words. Today or tomorrow I'll
expand my working arena to agro-based and relevant sectors. I've this future plan. I'll let
you know my plans through mails. Your suggestions are highly anticipated in this regard.
Thanks a lot for writing here.

Me: Mr C, thank you Sir for your further suggestion. Before I read your suggestion, I had
always been thinking about involving myself in any non-IT based sector. Yes, I'm now
thinking of getting higher studies on IT, but I'm still reluctant to be on that stream
professionally. I can expand my working arena to some IT sectors as an amateur basis.
Thanks for making me think twice. I've always thought how to fulfill my commitment to
my country, my society, my family, and above all, to myself. The last one must precede
the earlier ones. And, I'm now trying on this regard. I agree with you on the point that
being a bureaucrat is the best gateway to access to public affairs. This surely provides
ample provision for financial, social, personal, familial security and for fulfilling my
commitment to my state and countrymen. And, I'm now planning to switch myself to that
arena. So, far as I know, you had been serving as a doctor of military dept of Indian Govt
before you retired officially. I salute your service to your state and its people. Again,
being a private practitioner must have not brought the honour you've enjoyed and are still
enjoying. Such type of service is always highly praise-worthy.

Me: Should I really believe youre here? Hahahaha . . . . . Thank you madam for writing
on my wall. I must deem your comment a hearty compliment as it comes from you. I
don't know whether I've intellect or not, but surely, I'm not still enjoying its fruit. What
I've shown up to this stage of my life is nothing but a bulk of stupidities. But, I don't
regret. Life didn't come to me with a user-manual. So, I've every right to use and abuse
it!!

Me: Dear brother, you're most welcome to write, suggest, share on any topic, no matter
it's taken positively or not. Your idea on my status highly conformed to its relevance.
Thank you for being with me.

Dear friends! I'm quite confused about deciding which job of Bangladesh Civil Service
would suit me most. Could you please suggest me something?

Me: Dear sister, I'm now in a Hamletian Complexity! . . . To be or not to be that is the
question . . . . . . . Actually, now I'm to fill up an application form of Bangladesh Civil
Service exam, the toughest of all the exams held in Bangladesh. There I'm required to put
my priority of Govt cadres or posts. I've primarily decided to choose the cadres in this
sequence: Foreign Affairs, Police, Administration, Customs and some others. If I can
qualify the exam and be at the top of the merit list Govt will recruit me in either of the
first two choices (usually this is procedure). I can't decide whether I need to change the
order . . .
Me: Ah X! Who told you I'm a book-worm? I just read books for the same reason as I
take food. . . Anyway, I also feel like preferring to join the Administration or Foreign
Affairs as my ultimate goal is to be a writer. I could think of joining other sectors other
than Public service. But, the charm of Public service, I think, is the social security
regarding Money and Power. The most important aspect is to fulfill my commitment to
the country as it deserves something from me. . . . . I don't know how far I'd be able to be
true to this commitment, but I'm determined on my part . . .

Me: Thank you for your comment. Your suggestion sounds quite self-experiencing! I
know you're saying from a generalized standpoint. It's OK, but does not hold well in my
case. I'm the eleventh one out of ten you can count. I've the confidence on my worth. If
things around me don't turn worse, I think, I'll not be tenth one till my death. Thanks. Mr
A, thank you once again for your presence on my wall . . . My father is an advocate and
he is the most honest person I've ever seen in my life unlike many of his contemporaries.
We're not rich but we're happy having all a man needs to live a decent life. I've grown up
to this age with some indoctrinated senses of honesty that I can hardly think to be out of.
If things turn wrong, I'll rather break down but not bend.

Me: My regards H bhai . . . I'm the most indecisive person I've ever seen in my life till
now! I'm always in a never-ending loop regarding any decision . . .

Dear friends! Which post or cadre of Bangladesh Civil Service, do you think, is the best?
I sincerely ask for your opinion.

Me: Dear sister, Im planning to fill up my cadre choices in this priority: Foreign Affairs,
Police, Administration and Customs respectively. And on the top of the above four,
theres a cadre everyone likes to get frightened about! Im still in a dilemma.

Me: Dear Y didi, thank you for the kind suggestion. I've a plan to go abroad to complete
my Masters and Ph. D. I'll do it on a study leave after joining the civil service. . . I know
I'm more than I seem to be, and that's the reason why I'm too indecisive! And, it's
a rare fortune that you're beside me to suggest and guide me to go the path I should. I
can't step if I'm not told to step. . .
Me: Dear P didi, I also dream of it much . . . But, it's really tough to prove myself worthy
of it. . . FA is considered as an Elite Cadre and so the competition is the toughest there.
Lots of deserving candidates are waiting to grab it. So, I must be among the top 15
students in the Bangladesh Civil Service (BCS) exam to prove myself worthy of it. It's
really a tough job to do (for me, I do confess) . . .

Me: Ah P didi! So kind of you! Your inspiring words always suggest me something that I
should have been suggested within my heart. Whenever I lack in resolution, your
soothing words provide it. You're the magician to throw the glance of aspiration. Yes, I
can, so I will . . .

And finally, my Facebook status on 2 November 2011 evening (the final result of the 30th
BCS Exam got published on that afternoon)

Friends! Let me share a great news . . . I've stood 1st in order of merit in Customs &
Excise cadre in the 30th BCS (Bangladesh Civil Service) Exam . . . Till date , it's the
greatest birthday gift I've received ever. I just feel like being in heaven. Heaven must not
feel any better, I can bet! Now, I'm the happiest man on earth! Sweet birthday
02.11.2011!! Please pray for me.

. . . . . . . as YOU were born to be HAPPY

November 15, 2014 at 6:57pm

A short story for you.

There was a happy man walking along the fields; the sunshine and the perfume of flowers
filled his happy being. Just then, he came across the bridge which he dreaded to cross. It
was one thin rope on the bottom to walk on and one thin one to hold for balancing. And
the distance always seemed to grow every time he came to the bridge. But, he had to
cross it to reach home. That day, there was a storm in the river below and the winds
above were bellowing wildly. The man reached half way across the bridge when the rope
below gave way. He screamed for God to help him. And that's when he saw God standing
across the bridge, smiling benignly at him. He yelled: God! Save me! God Smiled
lovingly. The man got angry....started yelling and grumbling and said he'd never believe
in God again! But, God kept smiling at the other end of the bridge. With extreme
difficulty and a lot of perseverance, the man managed to cross the bridge, hanging from
the thin rope which was meant to help him balance himself. He reached and he accused
God of enjoying Himself at his expense. And THAT's when he saw, that God was holding
the broken second rope in His badly bruised hands.

The quest? Well, if God brings you to it, He sees you through it, too.. Be Happy... This
maybe God's way to build your endurance and your belief in your own abilities and save
you from any big falls!

Another touching story that I received through an email.......

Sometime ago, when the ice-creams were not so expensive, a ten-year old boy went to an
ice-cream parlour. While sitting at the table, he asked the waitress, How much does a
Sundae cost? 50 cents, she replied.

The boy took out his money from the pocket and began counting it.

Well, how much does a simple ice-cream cost?"

There were other people waiting to be served, so the waitress began to get a little
impatient.

"35 cents!" she replied abruptly. The boy counted his money again and said: Please get
me a simple ice-cream!"

The waitress served him the ice-cream and his bill. The boy ate his ice-cream, paid his
bill at the cash counter and left.

When the waitress went to clean the table she began to cry for there, in the corner of
the plate, were 15 cents her tip.

The boy took a simple ice-cream instead of a Sundae so he could leave a tip for her.
I felt like crying when I read it. Really, we can never tell what will be written on our fate
till we get it written!!

Those are not just lines written to inspire...those are a leaf out of the book of life. So
many times we dont realize that a higher power is working 24/7 to make our lives
happier. We blame and accuse and question its motive, when we are troubled. But, that
power (we may give it any name---God, Allah, Bhagwan, Jesus or Just POWER) gives us
what we ask it for. If we keep complaining about what is NOT, we'll get more of that.
Because our passionate energies are going into complaining. If we thank and send peace
to the Universal Power, we will get peace and more reasons to be thankful for because
then our energies are working in creating a joyous situation for us! Its what they call the
law of attraction. This law is just amazing. It really works! If we think we can, it's true
and if we think we can't, that's also true. The whole world conspires to give us what we
want from heart. I believe in a POWER. It works for us, 24/7 or even more! I believe in
the POWER of good, the POWER of small. I believe in the God of small things. But,
things are not always rosy as we seem to think. Things sometimes turn worse. They look
like strangers. Blissful virtues sometimes stop working. And, I feel helpless. Perhaps,
that's the time for transition to better. Dreams need some nightmares to be crossed.
Sometimes it so happens that some powers try to contradict my principles. I live by my
principles. So, every part of my BEING starts revolving. My brain stops walking side by
side with my heart. I try to shape the world around and forget that it can't be shaped, as
it's already shaped. And, I start bathing in the dews of imagination. It works better
always. And, when I can't do it, I just sink into NOTHINGNESS. I'm just meaningless
without my thoughts. They are my soul provider. I feel like crying when these scattered
thoughts haunt my mind. These are not merely thoughts; these are a soul-provider! Life
hardly tastes so good before you read the life-book!

I agree there are times when we feel out of sorts...and our thoughts dont seem to align
themselves to our surroundings. At these times, you must physically leave all that bogs
you downthose thoughts, those people, those circumstances; and feel yourself floating
on a white cloud. LITERALLY FEEL AND SEE all the muck is left behind...and see
yourself float towards a softly lit, perfumed garden with soft music playing. Force
yourself to remain there for 30 minutes. Forcefully in the beginning; but slowly, relaxing
all the musclesfeel the tension smooth out of your body... stress out of the nape of your
neckThe shoulders fall downthey need to relaxlet your back bend and neck
hangfeel the tension seeping outsee it slither away like a snake and out of your sight
into nothingness.Just 30 minutes and you'll be rebounding with energyor you'll
feel lazy and happy.. Just go along with the feeling.
To live by principles are great. But, remember that principles are your own creation.
DONT ever let them get overbearing. Sometimes the very same soft principles we create
for ourselves get out of hand and slowly kill our joys. Take care of yourself. Surround
yourself with people who make you happyand most importantly, smile often at your
own self. After all, no one is more worth it than you. Cheers!

Let your words speak out loud directly to your soul! Once I read about the Yoga
techniques in one of Osho's books. They're really wonderful. I tried to practise for some
days and discontinued later. That's me! I can retain interest on anything for a very short
time. I always go on experimenting. That's really harmful, I know. Relaxation techniques
and your own ideas on self-principles will stir you. Never leave your principles
unguarded and always follow what your conscience says. Your soul is your best friend.
But, not always things are that easy. Hard times make things fall apart. And, we often
start thinking what lasts, what doesn't; what should last, what shouldnt, etc etc! It's really
intricate, you know. And we feel like remodeling our principles. Never a good idea it
is! . . . . When you try to smile a lot, but sometimes you cant, just smile to myself. Try it!
Your heart will also smile back! It's really lovely, isn't it? Make people around smile.
And, often you cant. You feel how small youre when you fail to make someone happy!
You know, not always it's possible. After all, you can never please everyone, but always
try to do it . . . . . I'm sorry if my thoughts bother you.

Just let it GO! You should let it go. Sometimes the best way you can follow to try is just
not to try at all. Let yourself free from all the bogging down thoughts. Like I have already
said, principles are only good when they dont harrow you. With time, the principles also
must undergo subtle changes to adapt to the newer things that take place around us.
Nothing is constant. So why should principles be? As for the relaxing technique, the air
hostesses are taught this in their training for the airlines. This is what they do when they
are exhausted after a flight. Focus on keeping yourself happy. Because only when you are
happy, you can spread the joy! There's no harm in trying out new things or
experimenting, as long as each experiment is helping you grow as a better person.
Success follows when you have experienced what makes you the happiest. So no harm
trying out newer avenues in a quest to understand what makes you the happiest. Life is
very simple. We complicate it with our thoughts and preset morals/ principles. RELAX!
Relax to succeed, relax to be able to love and relax to be able to spread happiness. Be
kinder to yourself. Life's a roller coaster--- you'll go down at times and at the others,
you'll be above all else. Enjoy the ride! Peace and joy upon you......

November 17, 2014 at 8:04pm

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soliloquies
November 17, 2014 at 10:21pm

1) A cock must not crow when there maybe a fox nearby.

2) A suggestion is always good for you when I don't have to follow it.

3) Achieved unpaid, lost paid. A free lunch always costs high.

4) Behind every great success, there are some compromises. Your success is what
you've earned, not what you deserve. Success can never be deserved. Only the failures
and vindictive people try to judge you only by the things you gave up for achieving the
other ones and undermine your success. Not always you can choose your path; sometimes
you're to accept it. What matters is whether you like it or not. Success is having one side
compromising another one in such a way that makes the end happy. Yes, that's it! The
value of anything is the price we're ready to pay for it or we're attributing to it.

5) Better to be defeated once by the BIG people, than to defeat always the SMALL
people.

6) Between birth and death

. . . . . . . .that's seen

. . . . . . . .that's I !

Before birth and after death

. . . . . . . .that's unseen

. . . . . . . .that's You !

7) Death is the only truth that never fails.

8) Don't judge how perfect others are. You aren't that perfect either, in fact, nobody is.
Just judge what they've done with perfection. It's more important. Learn it. And, just do
it.

9) Don't let your dress be smarter than you. Not always people are that stupid to be
fooled. Dress smart, be smarter.

10) Don't try to claim yourself smart until and unless you do something really smart.
Only stupids and flatterers grant your foolish smartness.

11) Either marry such a woman who is agree to marry only you, not your status, or marry
such a woman whom you can spend your whole life to understand.

12) I just love to remake theories on exam scripts. My stupid brain sometimes likes to
work on intelligent things.

13) I wish I could judge others not by what they show but by what they hide.

14) Identity is more important than existence . . . . . . . Others think, therefore Im.

15) If you cannot help a person do something, you have no right to demoralize him/her
saying that he/she cannot do it.

16) If you're not thinking about your dream, you're not thinking at all.

17) In life two things are needed: Patience to become successful . . . & . . . Tolerance to
others' jealousy when success comes.

18) Is having confidence essential for reaching success? Or, is reaching success essential
for having confidence? The transition period between confidence and success is really
difficult to pass through.
19) It took me almost 2 decades to decide what I really want. When I'd decided finally, it
took me only 1 year to get what I really want . . . . In short, this is the story of my life till
date.

20) Life didn't come to us with a user-manual. So, it's our right to use and to abuse it!!

21) My wastage of money on books is just as good as your investment of money on your
maybe girlfriend. Everything pays in some way or other.

22) Never pre-judge a girl seeing her mother, you might get disappointed later!

23) Nobody cares for your honesty and nobody bothers about your dishonesty until and
unless you interfere with their interest.

24) Not all beautiful young ladies are dumb and stupid, some are married too!

25) Not all questions can be answered. Not all answers should be questioned.

26) O God! Either make me comfortable with remembering people's names or make
them comfortable with my forgetting their names. Why am I gifted with an unpleasantly
wonderful memory for forgetting things?

27) Sell what you've learnt. Buy what you haven't learnt. 'Free learning' hardly helps a
learner . . . . . And remember, not always you can buy or sell everything with money!

28) Smart people teach, smarter people read, smartest people learn.

29) Sometimes it's better to let go than hold on to something that was never meant to be
for us, it's harder said than done, but then that's the way life is, can't have always what we
want . . . . . .

30) Success can buy silence. And, it often really buys.

31) The best part of beauty is what we cannot buy with money.

32) The sweet punishment of success is that people will overrate you and you will feel
delightedly embarrassed.

33) The tragedy about beautiful girls with brain: Either beauty spoils their brain or brain
spoils their beauty . . . Some exceptions exist, however. But the irony is, they're engaged
or married.

34) There are some people who can never appreciate. So, it's foolish to judge yourself by
what they say.
Kind words are healthier than chicken soup.

35) They say, ' Hey! You've grown much old, yet you've never been in love! Pathetic!!
' . . . . . I say, ' Huh! Everybody is always young enough to fall in love. ' . . . . .
Pathetically optimistic I'm . . . forever!

36) To be a good friend, you must learn to tolerate two things of your friend: Illness &
Success. Your family is your only good friend.

37) We always remember that the reward of success is BIG. But what we often forget is
that the reward is BIG only because only a few of us can become successful.

38) We create our own heaven. We create our own hell. There is no better heaven. There
is no worse hell.

39) When I find and show excuses for my mistakes, I often forget that at the end of the
day people will remember only my mistakes. People feel comfortable to judge you by
your mistakes forgetting theirs.

40) When pople don't acknowledge your presence, just make them feel your absence.
Not always it's easy to accept ingratitude.

41) When someone judges you by what your grandfather was rather than what you are,
be sure that he is still living in the age your grandfather lived. Now, it's your choice
whether you want to leave him to live in the time alive or to stay with him to live in the
time dead.

42) When two strong entities enter your mind, one entity makes the other one weaker
and tries to kick it out. Two weak entities can exist together, but two strong ones cant.

43) When you decide to mix with SMALL people, you decide to show and tolerate
SMALLER attitudes. Now, it's your choice!

44) You can't eat the fruit you achieved and keep your mouth open at the same time. Let
them talk who have failed to achieve it and hate to see you eat it. Just eat and enjoy.
no full stops, please : Part VI
November 18, 2014 at 8:11pm

Soliloquy 31

"Nothing rules forever" . . . We need some Argentine supporters, not Anti-Brazilian

supporters!! . (my facebook status during the 2010 Football World Cup)

: I wonder who supported Argentina before the so-called "Goal by the Hand of God! . . .
Anyway, we must confess that Brazil failed to present a classic game from their side.

I humbly request all my friends not to behave or write in the way that might hurt
someone's ego. You really don't have any right to hurt anyone's ego. (You can also
remove me from your friend-list if you want me to teach you courtesy. I'm not such a
great teacher!) A person with least the sense of personality never does it. I confess that
Brazil failed to play the game we really expect from them. This never means that they're
not a deserving team for this World Cup. Let's not be just stereotypical, rather be logical.
Thanks.

: Thank you for conveying your thought. . . What if Brazil or Argentina or Germany or
Netherlands or any team else wins the cup or not? No one would attribute the credit to us,
that is, our nation, our country. What we can merely expect as ordinary viewers is just a
good game and better criticism. We needn't be fanatic about the result; nobody would pay
the least tribute for such 'loyalty'! . . . Let's hold our thumbs up for the team that really
deserves it. An impartial view always makes things better. Thanks.

: Thank you all for sharing your valuable views on my wall. Though ours is not a World
Cup playing country, we always look forward to any genuine source of entertainment.
Interestingly enough, the whole country is literally divided into two groups: Argentine
and Brazilian (compare the initial letters as found in Awamileague and BNP!). The people
of the first-world countries are not as crazy about football as we seem to be (ask an
American or a British or a French or anyone from any participant country else). However,
we're quite happy with our little bliss, sorrows. We live by our smiles and tears sharing
our excitements and frustrations together. Such goes on our life . . .

I've always been and am still a Brazilian supporter. The match of the last evening was a
total fiasco and dumped me like other supporters. It's true that they failed to play the
classic rhythmic football as we, the ordinary viewers, expect from them. Mr. Dunga is
largely responsible for such a disaster, as popularly believed. The Argentine players are
really presenting a fair game contrary to the performance they showed in the last World
Cup (they had to bid a goodbye from the first round). Their playing style really deserves
praise. I'm really grateful to them for presenting the rhythm that the Brazilian footballers
were once accustomed to. Hope they will keep this spirit up in the match of this evening
against another top favourite Germany. Wish them all the best . . . . .

: "Actually in our country, most persons are not supporters......they are anti-
supporters" . . . . . nicely commented!! Truer than true!! ......... I also want that
Netherlands or Spain win the cup. They should be awarded for their commitment and
devotion. Thanks.

: If Bangladesh lost today's match, I would shoulder the shame willingly. Now, what we
can keep our fingers crossed for is just a fair match and better impartial game. I don't
know how amply the fanatic supporters would be rewarded for their 'loyalty' . . . . I'm
sure that even in Brazil or Argentina there are not so many 'stupid' flag hoisting
competitions as we've seen in our country. . . . Let's wait for enjoying fair matches . . .

Soliloquy 32

I'm so happy today to declare my younger brother Prashanta Paul a qualified student of
CAT (Certified Accounting Technician), a worldwide recognized professional course of
Accounting. Friends! Please pray for his future success and professional betterment.

: My dear friends!

Please accept my heart-felt gratitude for your kind wish and felicitation on his success.
Friends should never be far away while celebrating.

It's really a nice feeling to celebrate the academic success of younger brother or sister. My
brother's accomplishments always give me more pleasure than mine. Younger brothers or
sisters never grow old, they just grow up, I think. His smiling face is the greatest gift I
can ever think of.

He has attained this success besides running my giftshop 'DOVANA' (along with his
friend) and hopefully enough, this business maintenance has already provided a real-field
orientation for him regarding inter-personal relationship, office management and above
all, a professional attitude-formation. Through this success, he has stepped forward to the
second phase of the professional course, ACCA (Association of Certified Chartered
Accountants).

Let's wish his every success.

Regards
: Wow! I really feel very blessed to be in the midst of a constellation of friends like you. I
don't know whether I deserve such a great care of such precious friends. Thank you for
being with me in this pleasant moment.

If you ever see my brother you'll be surprised how much he resembles my face, my
appearance (you can see him in my photo album) though he is junior to me by 4 years.
One dissimilarity is, he is not a bookworm like me (with due apology), but he knows
better what to read, why to read and how to read. Yes, he is still accustomed to a lot of
childish thoughts and tasks even at this age of 22! He never grows old, just grows up!

I'm sorry for writing much about him if it creates annoyance for you. I'm eagerly waiting
for the day when he would be ACCA qualified and I can celebrate with all of you with a
big party. Yes, I promise a big big celebration.

May he retain the strength for crossing the next hurdles.

Thanks a ton for your dignified presence on my wall.

: Yes, you commented on his pictures, I can remember. He takes after me so much . . . . I
highly appreciate your friendly approach and it's really nice to meet you here in
facebook . . . I feel honoured at your kind promise. Thank you.

: My dear friends! I think, I could pay back the loan of gold, but I'm afraid I would die
forever in debt to you for being so kind to share my joys!!

How beautiful a success can be

When congratulation touches it!

I would thank you from the bottom of my heart, but for you my heart has no bottom.
Soliloquy 33

Truth is, everybody is going to hurt you; you just have to find ones worth suffering for.

~ Bob Marley

As I've approached the middle of my youth, I can realize it's better to love and to be loved
and so to be hurt than not to hurt and to be hurt at all . . . . Being hurt is compulsory but
feeling hurt is optional. I'm quite good at the second option, as no one ever seemed worth
suffering for. I'd rather like to leave a promise unmade than to bear the agonies of
promise. A promise in veil is always more powerful than a promise revealed!! And, I live
by this. . . . . Youth can't be always framed by age. And, in this sense, 60 can be called the
end of youth. So, my youth can be said to continue 3 decades further, a great challenge
with age, no doubt!

Yes, life is not always too easy to feel unhurt. The greatest attack I've ever felt is from
within rather than from without. I myself am good enough to control such feelings.
People around just add some sauce to it. It's the crudest reality I've still learnt. . . . . . Its
true that to wait to suffer is more painful than to suffer, I think. It's better to suffer alone
than to suffer for a wrong person. And, that's what poets call 'the bliss of solitude'!

Soliloquy 34

I've stood 6th in order of merit in the Evening MBA admission test of Dhaka
University . . . Feeling happy.

: Didi, you always have something for me more valuable than I really deserve.

: Dada, I also pride myself on having such precious well-wishers like you.
: Dear friend, I feel humbled at your kind thought about me as I think, it's not about
'going for'; rather it's all about 'trying for'!! I'm thinking of trying for it. Thank you for
inspiring me.

: I wish you informed me about it earlier!! lolzz.......... Brother, if the deadline of

admission is before the admission test of the MBA course of IBA, I think, it's wise to get
myself admitted; otherwise Ill await the admission test of IBA. Thanks for writing on
my wall.

: I wish I could escape from this Corporate Hell!! Sometimes, Hell seems to be sweeter
than Heaven.

: Dost, I felicitate you on your standing 17th in order of merit. You always rock, we
know!! Take care.

: Thank you, my sweet, cute sister. Dear pagli, Im always ready to throw a party. Just
come to Bangladesh and make a grab at it!!

: But for your presence on my wall, this result would have been just a piece of news
rather than being a success. I feel like being on an elevated plane for your sincere wishes.
Thank you for this favour. Take care.

: Im gladly taking the opportunity of thanking you for those wonderful words of
felicitation. Its just what I need! I like the blend of your cordial feelings very much. No,
success has any real value if theres no one to evaluate it. Im so lucky to have some
genuine well-wishers through this giant social network. Hats off to Mark Zuckerberg!!
Its really difficult to bridge the narrow, yet seemingly never-ending gap lying between
what Ive and what I deserve. A harmonious transition is NEVER possible but for such
a selfless support youve rendered for me. I know my achievement is SMALL but youve
helped me in making the sense of it BIG. Only what we sense or think matters. Yes, small
is beautiful and so every little thing counts. A BIG is just a SMALL in disguise!! ..........
Well never part either in smiles or tears. --- Lets make this a reason BIG enough to
soar higher together. Be blessed always.
To be honest, the honour that I dont deserve embarrasses me. Its not so great an
achievement as you seem to think. I felt happy when I came to know the result (I can
remember, I felt the same ecstasy when I had stood 2nd in order of merit in the admission
test of my graduating engineering varsity, CUET about 8 years back) and just felt like
sharing it with you. You always make me think in a different way about my life and lives
around me. It's a precious experience. It's worth thousand million dollars or even more I
hardly can count! Nothing can bet the incredible kindness shown by a friend, you know.
It's difficult to have a different thought, but it's easy to think differently especially when
you feel the urge within to do so. Yes, you're those priceless persons in my life who have
always made me feel more than I deserve, think more than I'm supposed to --- my honest
confession. Nothing is significant or insignificant till we feel or think so about it. So, it's
purely a mind-game. It obviously takes some players with beautiful minds. THANK
YOU for those wonderful words woven carefully by soul, though I'm not the least worth
of it yet. In my defense, I can say, who on earth dare be indifferent to the love of a friend?
No one! Because, life is meaningless without love; love is meaningless without life. . . . I
feel love, so much love that pours from you, and those closest to me, and the love that
flows from me, giving me more, the more I give!

Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be
shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared. THANKS for being with me with
the vision of light that fills my sight in even the darkest imprisonment of mind or on the
most sun-blessed, windswept mountaintop Ive always dreamt of. Kindness is a language
that even the blind can see, the deaf can hear. You're the supreme master of this language!
I can hear the song your heart wants to sing, I can feel the compassion your soul
nourishes for me. Just feel the rhythm playing within your soul; I'll be there to entertain
you forever, forever.

: I didn't write, I just echoed my soul, just as the same way you're used to doing. An
interpreter of souls is the greatest gift on this earth. The poetry you've tagged me in has
touched my soul and so did my writing in your case. Singleness of two souls matters. It
seconds love to make a unique blend, I think. Thank you for making me feel more about
myself than I really am.

: Thank you buddies for your kind presence on my wall . . . I've not passed such a long
way so as to make success run after me. My very ordinary status just makes me humble
enough to take your wish as a compliment only. Hope you'll see the better days that your
heart wishes to see. Take care.
: Thank you madam for your gorgeous presence on my wall. I sincerely feel honoured to
express my humble THANKS to you. I got chance in the Evening MBA program of the
Department of Finance, conducted by the Faculty of Business Studies under DU. IBA has
not yet published any circular of admission test of MBA program through media or its
official website. I hope I'd take that admission test too and surely go for IBA if I can
prove myself competent for it.

I sincerely feel inspired, grateful and honoured for your dignified presence on my wall.
Every aspect of pride and pleasure comes only for some priceless people like you. Please
allow me to express my humble THANKS to you for being with me on this auspicious
moment. Take care.

no full stops, please : Part VII

November 18, 2014 at 10:29pm

Soliloquy 35

(a wall-post from my sister) hi Sush.... your exams are right around the corner..... feeling
nervous? don't be... you don't need to get a 100% .... just give your 100%...just
remember..if the Romans had been obliged to learn Latin, they would never have found
time to conquer the world!!

(my reply) Your words are always inspiring! They have a great effect on me. I often wait
for them, you know. I don't know why you're thinking that you've not been a good sister.
Our minds are really mysterious. We hardly know what's going to happen till it happens.
Indecision and confusion are our constant companions. I can tell you it judging my
psychology. I don't know yours. You're so elite in your thinking, manner. I admire nearly
everything you think, you write, you suggest. And, I'll do it forever. I'm often emotional
about things, about some persons. This is my weakest point. Never have any guilty
feeling about your silence or my silence. I know I've such type of childlike feelings often.
. . . I'm emotional--it's bad. I'm true to my emotions--it's even worse!!
I hope you've received my reply over phone. Take care.

Soliloquy 36

Not all extraordinary people are strangers to us, some are our neighbours too! Why do
most of us remain as ordinary as we were born? Hats off to our Bangladeshi scientist
Shuvo Roy! My grandfather and his grandfather were colleagues and friends.

: Yes, as a Bangladeshi, I really felt proud of him when I came across the news of his
great invention. I felt it even more when I heard from my mother that his paternal
grandfather was a professor of English and my maternal grandfather was a professor of
Bengali in Kanungopara Sir Ashutosh College. They were best friends too and had a
close familial relationship. Why am I so ordinary? Am I going to die ordinary?

: Yes, it's possible to add the prefix 'extra-' prior to every effort we undertake. And, that,
no doubt, this tough journey begets at home. Parents are always extraordinary. Actually,
they're born so. We can be extraordinary in our ways. But, is it a big deal to step onto the
path where the famous often travel? Do they do the very different things no one ever did?
They just think differently and work accordingly. But, why aren't we there? This big
WHY is hammering my head! Not great people are always from great breed like Tagore
or Mr Sen. My breeding has everything I need not to remain ordinary. Then, why am I
too helpless to make that transformation?

: Yes, it's an artificial kidney that he invented. Further experiments are still going on . . . .

: Gone are those golden days! Feeling nostalgic, brother. I'm a different man when I recite
on stage. Thanks a lot for tagging me in this picture. I'm saving it.

: Brother, as I requested you earlier, please keep up the cultural tradition of our dear
CUET. Very few persons are convinced of the indispensability of such programmes for a
varsity. So far as I know you, I think you'll consider seriously about the cultural
orientation as an integral part of academic curriculum. All the best!

Soliloquy 37

I've just watched the movie, Rab Ne Bana Di Jodi . . . There's always an extraordinary
love story in every ordinary jodi (couple) . . . It's true and will remain true, forever,
forever!!

: I heard about this movie earlier, but never watched it before . . . There's only one best
couple in the world and you can find it almost in every home. . . . . . . I'm not so young to
be convinced in everything I hear, see or read. But, I feel that I'm still too young to have
learnt to say a humble 'NO' to any colour of imagination that is yet to be on the canvas of
reality. Yes, I enjoy it. No regret at all! I feel like being in this paradise forever! I've never
fallen in love, but love often falls in love with me. And, my heart goes on and on . . . . .

: Life feels good whenever I watch such movies. Life is really beautiful. But, the problem
is, we feel it only after we've a beautiful life.

: No fiction ever written, I think, reads stranger than life itself. Truth is, we fear to master
the art of reading life. It remains unread forever. . . . I know my limitations, my life
doesn't. My life knows my powers, I don't. What an irony! Is it the illusion our life is
made of? Does life really lose all its charms when all the illusions are over? Is there any
fiction stranger than this ever-unwritten one? We're always busy reading others' fictions
ignoring ours.

Soliloquy 38

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Some of my friends have asked me through inbox, Do you still support your Bangladesh
cricket team?" I've just answered, "YES" . . . . Can I ever call another beautiful woman
Mother only because my own Mother is ugly? . . . . NO !! NEVER!! . . . . Better days
must come, I believe!!

: I'm humbly requesting all of my Bangladeshi facebook friends not to say anything if
you don't have something nice to say about Bangladesh . . . . . I really do mean it!! . . . . .
Please stop this nuisance!!

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Our players tried their best. That's what we want from them. Hope we'll win the next
matches. Good Luck Bangladesh

: India has not been this 'India' overnight. It took time. We're improving ourselves in
every match. As we're so poor, we lack many opportunities that players of others
countries are enjoying. One day we also will win the World Cup. Better days are not far
to seek. My dear Bangladesh rocks!!

: The GAME is not over yet!! We've other matches to play! Yes, we've proved that we
can. Just think, if our bowlers could perform just in their usual manner, the result could
be different. The decision to field first was not a good decision, I think. We just have to
believe that we can win. Only then, we can be very close to victory!! India is not an easy
opponent. Mind it. We must be happy with the score. 300 could be better, but we're not
frustrated at all. Let's wait and see what happens next. . . . . . . . There's always a Shewag
in every team. Not always he becomes that 'Shewag'. That's what we call the
unpredictable nature of game. Think about the start of our team. We scored 50 faster than
India. Isn't it great? The seniormost player of our team is only 28! Yet, we tried to show
the professional fury. . . . . . . Stories will always tell us about the heroism of the hunters
till the tigers don't learn how to write. Till then, we've to wait.

Soliloquy 40

And . . . Bangladesh WINS!! . . . . Miracles happen when you believe!

: My Bangladesh ROCKS!! I'm always ready to believe or disbelieve anything for YOU,
my Bangladesh, my Mother. Two thumbs up for our players!! . . . . . . . Miracles happen
always!! Just make a wish and sincerely believe it and work for it!! The laws of attraction
start working and divine blessings pour on you in some unknowing forms . . . . I can tell
you this from the experience of my life . . . . . . Nothing stirs me more than my country
and countrymen. . . . . . . . The drunken masters are masters, after all! Yes, being the
masters matters. Every moment you live king size, counts! The moment we win is
thousand times precious than the years we've wait to meet that moment. And, the winners
will always write the history. That part of the past we know, that part of the present we'll
know ever. The hunter will always be a hero till the lion learns how to write. . . . . We
won the match, they lost. And, that's true. Victory speaks out for itself! Let's be a part of it
and hope for the best! Good Luck Bangladesh!! Wish You A Happy Ending.
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May 31, 2015 at 8:15pm

Life is beautiful only when we have a beautiful life.

I'm the eleventh one out of ten you can count, I can bet! . . . . I'm an optimist. I'm agree
even to be the last optimist in the world. I'm born every moment. I believe life is more
beautiful than we can imagine. So, I always enjoy it with others! :-) I've a personal library
and a collection of music and movies. Without these treasures, my existence would
become meaningless.

Let me share some lessons my life has taught me:

Among our batchmates, probably I was the first person who took the risk to explore the
avenue of traditional business. But not always its easy to walk on the path less travelled.
Educated entrepreneurs must have the guts to walk away from the apparently secured
well-paid jobs and stay on that out-track at least as long as success shows its first sign.
Things are not that easy. Now Im a derailed engineer. I started with my coaching centre,
later entered the stock market taking some calculated risk (God bless the investors
including me! Your friend says, money is nothing? Ok fine, tell him to invest in the share
market.) My succession of such attempts ended in establishing my own gift business
branding by the name DOVANA. I owned 2 shops and Id always dreamt of being a
business magnet extending my domain over some other sister concerns as well till the
date my dream transformed meeting newer impulses. (Lucky Im as I did never have to
regret for my new impulses.) Yes, I was planning to kill my brainchild. To become
successful youve to start young. Its even more important to fail young if you really want
to fail in any of your attempts. To fail successfully is an art. Now I feel, sometimes
failures are good and life-saving. I always found myself in a position that I hardly seemed
very comfortable with. When I saw my friends already having crossed a long way, I felt
just helpless. Gradually they were becoming the top professionals in their respective
sectors. If youre not accustomed to being considered Nobody by others since your
childhood, its difficult to see yourself Nobody even for a short time. I strongly felt only
walking or running at least to catch them was not enough, I must take a flying leap! I was
struggling to win, but fighting with small people was constantly giving me a hollow
inferior feeling. I was out there alone on my own island, and I felt like I was
disengaged . . . . . . . Even if you win by fighting with small people it gives you a feeling
that youre the kind of them, just a mediocre talent. Success in business is an extremely
selfish game. Maybe, youre thinking, Huh! Im already much selfish, but to have won
more than others you would have needed to be more selfish than you really are. . . . . . . . .
I always talked to my engineer batchmates (I belong to 02 batch) and used to insist we
better start a software business. I found only a few really serious in words, fewer in
action. The easiest way to start anything is just to start it. Everyone around me wanted to
start a journey of a thousand miles; no one was willing to put even the first step. I know
its true not always taking risks is easy especially when youve been brought up in a
surrounding full of millions of NOs. How easy it is to say NO to an attempt! Not always
life sounds so easy as to stay indifferent to all the opportunity costs and be connected
with your dream when it belongs to elsewhere contrary to common expectation. You start
feeling that maybe youre going to be a just nobody for whom just nothing is waiting. Its
horrible to be just a NOBODY to others. All the time youre thinking, planning, hoping
about your dream and at the same time wondering what would happen if you find
yourself in the wrong place when its too late. (One thing I can tell you: Never its too
late to realize its already getting late.) Life didn't come to us with a user-manual. So, it's
our right to use and to abuse it! I can tell you for sure that playing with life is a wonderful
game, but you must carefully make it sure that it remains wonderful at the end of the day.
Winners stand alone only because only a few can really win. Living unremembered,
unrecognized can give you the worst feeling, I can say. Not always life is so smooth as to
stay complacent with, I think, therefore Im principle, life makes you feel the urge to
start believing, Others think, therefore Im. Identity is more important than existence.
Now I believe, deciding what you really want matters. It took me almost 2 decades to
decide what I really want. When I'd decided finally, it took me only a few months to get
what I really want. Whatever you do, job or business or anything else, you must work not
only hard but also smartly to become successful enough to smile and not to be
embarrassed seeing others smile at your previous sweet failures. Failures are never
meant to be sweet. Its your success that makes them sweet. Sometimes your best role
model is only YOU in a better state you could be. Not always success is being anyone
else you dream of being, rather being a new YOU better than previous YOU or not
degrading your better YOU if you already are. Hardly, things not worth-challenging are
worth-getting. Success is all about earning not deserving. The easiest way to make people
admit you deserve something is only to earn it. Fact is, your success is what you think
you earn, your failure is what others think you deserve. . . . . Success. It's just living
without sighs. It's just dancing in the manner you want and making people think you
dance well even if you don't. It's making your style others' favourite brand even if it's
foolish. It's sometimes making people laugh listening to your even worst jokes. It's
making others hear you even when you don't speak. It's taking the opportunity to tell
others that meeting your previous millionth failure was essential, anyway. It's making
your failures worth-mentioning by you or by others. It's just what it's, not the opposite of
failure as often popularly told and wrongly believed. Throughout my life Ive followed a
simple technique. I always have the highest respect for any peak Im trying to reach and I
make the successful persons my heroes. It gives me a great drive! Really! Even a child
wants to become the hero he dreams of. Its easy to work for something when you really
admire, in any job, in any business. Your business is like your child. You cannot expect
your child to be a complete man overnight. Similarly, you cannot expect your business
boom before you become used to the bitter reactions from the people around you. People
have a natural talent of undermining your attempts to which they are not familiar with or
dont feel comfortable about. There are some people who can never appreciate. So, it's
foolish to judge yourself by what they say. Kind words are healthier than chicken soup.
Have a bowl of healthy soup----served (if youre lucky enough) or self-served (if you
want to make your own luck). Get busy living. Ive always found this: learnt free, lost
paid. So, invest before you earn. Get inspirations from people who never stop before they
cross the miles to go before they sleep. Quitters are never winners. Que sera, sera---
Whatever will be, will be. Things are that they're, things will be that they'll be. If you
quit, only you quit. Some won't quit and will reach the peak. The easiest way to finish
something is to start it. Once you start, you're surely on the way to the end. If you finish
before it finishes, you must search for another way. Not always a new way is better rather
sometimes it brings newer pains. If you still don't know what to do, ask your heart. Do
what you love, love what you do. Your heart strangely somehow knows better than you.
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cross it. If you can't see ask someone who has already seen. Better to live 1 minute with a
wise man than to stay 1 hundred years with an idiot. First decide, deserve and then desire.
These 3 D's can give you what you and others want from your life. Not always life is
easy, but it's still worth-living. Tough time doesn't last long for the tough men. Be that
tough. Don't tell the world what you can do, let the world tell it for you. Your actions
speak much louder than your words. Don't challenge others, challenge yourself because at
the end of the day what all you're left with, is only yourself. It's never too late, rather
being late is good as you've already paid the price for mistakes that others haven't yet.
Know what to do, learn how to do it and JUST DO IT! Be that tough guy for whom time
waits as he has refused to shape his life with time, by time, for time. Remember, only
your results are rewarded, not your efforts. This is the way the world accepts or rejects
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days. I do believe there will be sweet songs to make you remember your dark days in the
loveliest way. If it still torments, just say goodbye to this moment of today. It's always
another day tomorrow. Make your heart believe that another sun will rise tomorrow.
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for, live by? Well, it's: You look awesome when you smile!! Cry, cry today only to smile
better tomorrow. Believe me, you surely deserve to smile better, if not the best! Don't you
know you look so bad when you don't smile? You're beautiful, my dear friend! You've no
right to destroy this God-gifted beauty! Smiling is just a choice. Who told you you're the
most unlucky person on this earth? Not always your worst teardrops prove your saddest
moments. Always belive, too often the happiest faces mask the saddest tragedies, you can
never know. Find and be close to the very few people who love you and want to see you
happy. Be happy for them and make it a habit. Never wait any longer for the hostile
people to turn friendly to you. Some people were sent to this earth only to make you
unhappy, only to make you cry. Say them goodbye forever before it's too late. Just get rid
of them. Leaving to live is an art. Keeping people you don't need to keep means keeping
pains you don't need to keep. It's your life---the greatest gift you were sent with. Live it in
your way before it ends! Happy living!!
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I don't have a role model but I hopeto be someone's role model someday. I am very
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~ Feng Tianwei, 2012Olympic table tennis bronze medalist, Singapore

True. Sometimes your best rolemodel is only YOU in a better state you could be. Not
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Success. It's just living without sighs.It's just dancing in the manner you want and making
people think you dance welleven if you don't. It's making your style others' favourite
brand even if it'sfoolish. It's sometimes making people laugh listening to your even worst
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My Old Facebook Friends! I'd like to write a few lines for you as a token of my gratitude
for your friendship because you people are just PRICELESS.

I regret I can hardly say a lovely'Hello' now. I am because you were & are. That time!
That morn! That dawn!Blessed was I much more than now I'm, I sigh for my golden
days! Pleasant enough, The never-returning dawn, dance of twilight in the lawn! The
years,stolen moments, pass by . . .

I know such goes the subtle thief : Time!

Still my heart aches for those precious eve,

Let present sink into oblivion, precious past be back!

The silent point I lived but for a while,

Neither did I touch,nor feel,

A deep breath sighs for the rainbow I never touched.

The solitude in the midst of crowd I weep upon now!

Nature, the greatest temple : the elevated columns, the beating of souls

Sometimes a hidden soliloquy breeds some cryptic symbols;

Thereupon men pass but silently through the never-ending woods

The ancient trees just watch him in their practised eyes!

Many a echo wafted from a land---distant, deep, so enigmatic,

Darkness approaches all at once through a transparent greatness!

All the colours, smells dare answer to those souls.

Some smells as if soft in the tune of the organ;

Greened in a prairie, soft with the touch of a child;

The others---winners, wealthy, profaned . . . yet alone!

Brings down to earth from the sky-like height . . .

All the sensibilities kiss our soul with the greatest mystery ever-unexplored.

(To ............. Ritu Soni Sodhi, SharmilaTalreja, Sarada Sekhar, Girish Kumar, Sharmeen
Muiz, Johora Bebe Ira, RoseTriza, Dk Singh, Rajeev Seth & many more whom I do adore
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Sushanta PaulMonday, December 28, 2015
Dear juniors!

Never judge a person by their grade or job. There was never, there is never and there will
be never a correlation between your grade and your achievement. If you just study, you
will have good grades and people around will call you brilliant. It's not that big deal.
Study and get good grades. Simple! A genius is something more than that. Only study is
not enough. There are many things you cannot learn, but you can only feel. I believe,
wisdom never comes from without, it always comes from within. Feeling as well, not just
knowing is what makes you extraordinary. For example, a good listener only just listens,
but a connoisseur also feels music. And, it makes the difference. One genius is much
more hailed on earth than even one thousand skilled people. No institutions could ever
produce a genius.

Still, grade is essential. There is no such a rule that you must have lower grade to have
higher potential as these two things are different. These two G's hardly go hand in hand :
Grade & Genius. But, there is only one point on which they coincide and that is, both
demand sweating, I mean, rigorous sweating. It's not that we don't sweat, it's that we
sweat on small staffs and it often results in settling on smaller lucks. Not achieving what
we aim for is not the problem, rather aiming for the things smaller than we could achieve
and really achieving those things is the main problem. You must believe that you're the
best, at least you're gifted with everything to be that best. If you're not found that best,
maybe you're wasting your time & energy exploring the wrong avenue. Only knowledge
is not enough, proper and timely implementation is needed. Have you ever noticed that
what we call luck, clicks the most in case of the high achievers? So, what about the
others? Haven't they tried? Yes, they did, but there's something beyond the popular
beliefs. If being out of your comfort zone is the first thing, the second one must be
knowing where to be, why to be and how to be. Conquering the Everest is all about
emotion and attitude, mindset, in short, not about physical capability or incapability.
Once you have that mindset, the rest will automatically follow. Yes, being where you've
always been never takes you where you dream of being. New things demand new
enterprises.

They often said, think out of the box. Now they say, think there's no box. I say, think
what no one ever thought. Be out of that box-concept. Even thinking 'there's no box',
requires an invisible box. You become a part of a community, people know you by your
community, it's the common thing that happens. Well, now you feel secured to be its part
as it assures you many things you couldn't avail otherwise. What most people do, is they
just introduce themselves by their community. Just think. There's always a genius who
crosses an extra mile by some extra intelligent sweating. For that crazy foolish genius, we
know that community. People start knowing that community by that person. Being a part
of your community is easy but making your community a part of yours is tough. A genius
like Bill Gates makes Microsoft and Microsoft makes thousands of skilled people. We
know Apple by Jobs, we know the best engineer in the world by Apple. Jobs' Apple
makes you feel like being of it, my apple makes you feel like making it your part as you
believe you cannot have Jobs' Apple. It makes the difference.

Why Destiny 2000 Ltd failed to operate? I've my own theory to answer this. When a
company runs not by its own face value, rather by its employee's face value, it can never
sustain in the long run. We knew Destiny by its distributors, not by the company itself.
We trusted the distributors, not the company. And, the system was something like 'job at
your doorstep'. I believe, 'job at your doorstep' is not a job at all. That's why Destiny had
always been destined to fall even since its inception. I used to share this concept with my
friends, but they never believed it and laughed at me. Who ever came at your home
wearing a tie and tried to persuade you to join British American Tobacco? Earning what
you don't have to sweat for is not an earning at all. Rather, such earnings make you
spend: time, energy, money, reputation!

You've to be the eleventh one out the ten common people if you want to stand in such a
way that that ten common people admire your stand. Being in a group, you can never
earn extra appreciation out of that group if you can't stop thinking like the members of
that group. Having a loser's mindset and attitude will never make you a winner. Winning
is a habit, unfortunately, losing is also a habit.

Only earning money is not enough. Also knowing what to buy with your money you earn
that your money cannot buy, is important, as the most beautiful things on earth are the
things money cannot buy. Paradoxically, you've to earn money to enjoy the things money
cannot buy, for, without earning money, not always enjoying those things is easy. The
more you can be out the moneymaking game, the more you feel rich, empowered. Being
a slave to money is being a slave to someone else's soul.

All worthless soliloquies........ Please read & just forget! Even better, if you'd not read
those lines at all!

Regards
Sushanta Paul
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your friend? Its not my business whether you can attend the viva board or not. You have
only 2 choices: Leave IBA, or, Leave BCS. ,
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it for me. I know Ill be at IBA. , You are a stupid little
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scheduled on the next Monday at 10 in the morning. I am appearing at the 30th BCS
written exam. I have an exam at the same time. So, I request you to shift my schedule to
another convenient time-slot. Sorry, we cannot. Please Sir! Otherwise, my dream to
be here will be shattered. Let it be. Just go for BCS. You will do better being a civil
servant. But Sir, its uncertain. Is being here certain for you? No Sir, thats why I
cannot leave any of these 2 opportunities. Please Sir, give me a chance. Do me a favour. I
will be ever grateful, Sir. ? ?
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University at or before 5.15 pm. I've an interview at IBA at that time. . . . Can't I do it? Is
it not possible? I need to do it at any cost. As I don't know about the routes of Dhaka City,
I'm asking for your help. Dhaka City is an unknown city to me. Can a taxi cab help me
reach there in 1 hour? I can't be late, otherwise I'll miss the interview schedule. I've
managed that schedule today through an application. . . Can a bike be a better solution?
Or, something else? I'm in great trouble. . . . , -
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'jogging' suggestion. I was also seriously thinking of this option. Yes, I'll surely manage
to reach in time by vehicles, on foot, again by vehicles, again on foot . . . . And, I'll go. I'll
be there in time by any means. ,
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I'll manage to avail the schedule in time. , ,
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I'm not surely making any attempt of getting on a bus! That'll be horrible, you know. I
was just seeking for a suggestion as I don't know about the route. Thanks for the
suggestion. I think a CNG powered taxi can help me in this regard. A taxi-cab is prone to
getting stuck up in the congestion forever. A bike could be a better solution. But, I can't
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another disaster. There is a saying: Que sera, sera meaning: Whatever will be, will be.
So, pray and try your best. I have given this opinion after a lot of serious thoughts. Please
follow it. !
MIRACLES HAPPENS IF YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF! , Didi,
things are that they're. Things will be that they will be. And, between this two there lies
some miracles that we're never aware of. And, miracles are often stranger than facts.
Facts are because they're. Miracles are because we or someone else want them to be.
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My colleague Romel will pick you. Alright?
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others, I've got much more than I truly deserve. Is it the thing that they call miracle? I
don't know and never try to know. I let miracles happen and thankfully they always
happen . . . . . . . Thank you for your generous approach. This really means a lot to me.
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Friends, I've been finally selected for admission into the MBA Program of IBA, Dhaka
University. ...... feeling happy. ....... HATS OFF to Sharmeen didi, Ira madam & Romel
bhai!!
# My dear friends..... Your gorgeous presence on my wall makes me think twice about the
POWER of friendship & the MAGIC of love. YES......... They matter!! I just want to be
with you forever. Please never say GOODBYE.... It hurts!! Your kindness and care mean
a lot to me. Youve always given me much more than I really deserve. Please accept my
sincere GRATITUDE.
Happy Social Networking!!
Long live Facebook!!
My best wishes for our Friendship!!
......... Love you all ......
# ( ) Dost, not reaching the Interview Session on 17 January at 5:30
pm was what I thought to be..... reaching there in time was what was written in my
DESTINY..... And, I ended up calling it a MIRACLE, something I never believed in
before...... Just have a look at the schedule of January 17......
International Affairs Exam (BCS written exam).... 10:00 am -- 1:00 pm
The departure time of GMG Airlines 3:20 pm, there was a delay of about 1 hour due to
fog and I availed another delayed flight of Bangladesh Biman at 4:37 pm.
The plane landed on Dhaka Airport at 5:13 pm and then started my fight against time to
meet the deadline by bike with Romel bhai!! Who managed those three saviours
(Sharmeen didi, Ira madam & Romel bhai) for me? I dont know. You better ask the
Heaven! I saw such a breath-taking motor-bike driving only in English movies. Before
that day, I had never thought I would experience it!!
Life is sometimes stranger than fiction . . . . Who can tell it better than I?
# ( ) Thank you Sir for your words of
felicitation. IBA of Dhaka University is considered as the most prestigious institute for
doing MBA in Bangladesh. As per the rules of that Business school, the Major/Field of
Specialization is allowed to be chosen at the final semester judging the academic records
& intention of a candidate. I dont have much idea about what to choose and why to
choose. Please share some ideas on it as youve huge practical knowledge (so far as I
know) about the present corporate trend.
You've nicely stated the trend of our careerist B-school graduates. No one really cares
about his own aptitude rather, tries to be what market wants him to be. Personally, I
always like decision-making and mainstream operational sections of giant companies.
And, probably I'll go for finance as my major when I've to choose it in my final semester.
Yes, my semester results must be well enough to work on my advantage. That's a story of
one and a half years later. Till then, I'll have to undergo the generalized curriculum as my
B-school formulates. The recent economic recession worries our friends studying at US
universities. And, almost all of them suggest me not to plan of staying there. But, they
suggest me completing my PhD in US if I want to and grab that opportunity. Let's wait
and see. . . . . Are you in India now? Hope you're quite OK along with your busy
schedule. Please, sometimes give me your valuable suggestions when you've time and
you're here on Facebook. . . . . Thank you once again for your helpful advice. Take care.
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