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CSP 670
Spring 2016
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Table of Content
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Overview
This Social Skills Small Group Counseling Curriculum teaches 2nd grade children positive social
skills and behaviors. Teaching about friendship, solving conflicts with peers, and positive social
skills is extremely important; these skills will empower students to effectively deal with
aggression and conflicts.
Goals
o Teach students social skills they could utilize in the classroom, with their peers, and at
home.
Requirements
Teacher/parent referral and students with at least 3 discipline slips in the previous school year
were invited to join the social skills group.
Evaluation
o Pre/Post Test
o Behavior slips
o Citizenship grade compared to previous progress report.
Materials Needed
Curriculum Implementation
The lessons here are designed to be sequential. The lessons here refer to the previous lessons.
In addition, due to the academic levels of the 2nd grade students, we recommend reading out
loud the pre/post-test for the students.
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2nd Grade Social Skills Small Group
Empresa Elementary School Counseling Program
Dear Parent/Guardian,
Counseling groups offer children the opportunity to learn and practice social skills in a small structured
setting.
Groups are based on childrens needs. Once the groups are formed, lessons are structured around the
needs of the group.
These groups provide an opportunity to learn and practice specific social skills in a non-threatening
environment.
Counseling groups are for all children and they are intended for children who need to practice social
skills or would benefit from social and emotional support.
Sincerely,
___________________
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2nd Grade Social Skills Small Group
Empresa Elementary School Counseling Program
Student: _________________________________
Teacher: _________________________________
2nd grade Social Skills small group with the school counselor.
Date: _________________
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2nd Grade Social Skills Small Group Pre/Post Test
1) Write down the three steps to make friends?
a.
b.
c.
a.
b.
c.
No Yes
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5) Lizzy is playing on the playground and Joe ran into her. Lizzy fell to the ground and was
really mad at Joe for bumping into her and making her fall. She wanted to push Joe back
because she was hurt. What should Lizzy do?
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7) Circle the parts of our bodies do we use when we are good listeners?
Yes Maybe No
10) A consequence is
a. A new video game
b. A math problem
c. Something that happens after you make a choice
d. A punishment for a choice
e. type of dinosaur
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Week 1 Getting Acquainted
o To welcome students
o To go over appropriate group rules
o To allow students to feel more comfortable in the group setting
Materials:
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Week 2 How to Make Friends / Be a Good Friend
Materials:
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o Show the students How to Make Friends Worksheet. Explain to students how to make a
friend.
o Have each student role play with a partner. Have each pair demonstrate.
o Ask students if they know what it mean to be a good friend.
o Get three volunteers to share
o Explain to students what friend means (two people who like each other and enjoy each
other) and what it means to be a good friend (someone who is nice, shares.
o Do friendship tree activity. Tell the students: "We are going to make a 'friendship tree.' I will give
everyone three leaves and I want you to write down qualities you would want a friend to have and
ways you can be a good friend. What do you think is important to keep a friends? When you are
done, put your leaf at the tree branches."
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How to Make Friends / Be a Good Friend Test
1) What should your face look like when you meet someone? Circle
Yes Maybe No
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Week 3 Listening Skills
o PS:A2.7 Know that communication involves speaking, listening and nonverbal behavior
o A:A2.3 Use communications skills to know when and how to ask for help when needed
o PS:A1.5 Identify and express feelings
Materials:
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o What happens when someone does not listen with (insert body part)?
o Practice listening skills with a round of Simon Says. Try making it difficult for students by
calling for them to do more than one thing (for example, touch your nose and hop two
times).
o Discuss what students are doing now to ask for help in the classroom. Give them the
following line to practice.
Excuse me __________________. I dont understand ____________, can you please
help me?
o Discuss appropriate times to ask for help.
o Review the whole body listening handout. Ask students to write on the poster board 3 body
parts they will practice listening with. We will check in next week to see how successful they
were in reaching their goal.
o Closure / Questions
o Check in with students next week and ask how many practiced the 3 skills they identified
o Check in with teachers
o Post test
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Listening Skills Pre/Post Test
a. Shoulders
b. Nose
c. Eyes
d. Knees
a. True
b. False
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Week 4 Calming Down
Materials:
o Pre/Post test
o Behavior slips
o Citizenship grade
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Calming Down Pre/Post Test
a.
b.
4) You are in the playground and someone did something that stressed you, list what you would do to
calm down.
a. Friends
b. Choices
c. Gifts
d. Jokes
e. Songs
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Week 5 Dealing with Anger
Materials:
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Dealing with Anger Pre/Post Test
1) Michael is angry at Jordan (his friend) for taking his toys without asking. What is an I Message
Michael should say to Jordan?
5) What do you think these kids are feeling? How can you tell?
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Week 6 Problem Solving / Conflict Resolution
School Counselor: School Counselor
Date: October 29th
Activity: Problem Solving/ Conflict Resolution
Grade(s): 2nd
Time Frame: 45 minutes
Materials:
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o Example Problems: Feel free to add your own examples
o You are in the playground and there is only 1 swing available. You and your friend want to
use it. How do you solve the problem.
o You want to play video games but you were asked to clean your room first. What do you do?
o Your friend calls you a mean name, what do you do?
o Closing: Finish the following sentence.
o The most interesting thing I learned today was ________.
o I feel __________ about solving my problems.
o Inhale one deep breath through your nose, exhale slowly to blow a bubble.
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Problem Solving / Conflict Resolution Pre/Post Test
3) Circle all that are true. Problem solving with STEPS can be done in
a. My classroom
b. No where
c. The playground
d. Home
e. Lunch area
4) A consequence is
a. Cubby
b. Places
c. Consequences
d. Outside
e. Space
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Week 7 Teaching Tolerance / Accepting Differences
School Counselor: School Counselor
Date: November 5th
Activity: Teaching Tolerance / Accepting Differences
Grade(s): 2nd
Time Frame: 45 minutes
Materials:
o Group Rules Poster
o Book: Its okay to be Different By Todd Parr
o Construction paper
o Multi-colored markers
Procedure / Outline of Group Lesson:
o Get all the students
o Go to the small group counseling meeting space
o Take attendance
o Remind everyone about Group Rules
o Review last lesson
o Introduce new lesson by telling students that today we will be learning about accepting differences
and similarities that exist between our group and how to respond to individuals when they may say
something that hurts our feelings.
o Read Its okay to be Different By Todd Parr.
o On a piece of construction paper, draw a venn diagram.
o You will draw as many circles as there are students and make sure to have one area of the venn
diagram where all circles overlap.
o Write the name of each student in or around their circle and label the overlapping circle as all.
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o Explain to students that you will be asking questions and asking everyone to answer the question. If
a students response is unique then their response goes in only their circle. If two or more students
have the same response, then it goes in the overlapping circle.
o Ask as many questions as you would like. Some sample questions include:
o What color is your hair? Eyes? Skin? Nail polish? Shirt? Shoes?
o What is your favorite color? Food? Game? Sport? Song? Subject in school? Season?
o How many people do you have in your family? Mom(s)? Dad(s)? Brother(s)? Sister(s)? Pet(s)?
o How old are you? What is your birthday month?
o What do you want to be when you grow up?
o Once you have completed asking/answering questions, ask students to point out the similarities
and differences they notice that exist between the group. Tie the activity back to how we all have
differences and similarities and how these different characteristics make us awesome and unique.
o Ask students what they would say/do if someone said something to them that hurt their feelings?
o Ask for a few volunteers to share
o Teach students to use firm and friendly voices to say It makes me feel________ when
you_________. Please stop.
o Tell students that if the other person continues to say hurtful things even after they have asked
them to stop then they need to go to an adult for help.
o Closure / questions
Plan for Evaluation:
o Check for understanding
o Pre/Post Test
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Teaching Tolerance / Accepting Differences Pre/Post Test
o Is it okay to be different?
No Maybe Yes
o What do you do if someone is saying hurtful things to you and they are not stopping even after you
have asked them to stop in a friendly and firm way?
a. Hit them
b. Yell at them
c. Tell an adult
o Is it okay to say hurtful things to someone else just because they are different than us?
No Maybe Yes
a. Two or more people who have everything in common (For example, likes the same food,
color, sport, etc.)
b. Two or more people who look exactly the same (For example, have the same hair color, eye
color, skin color, etc.)
c. Two or more people who do not have everything in common (For example, one person may
have blonde hair while another person may have brown hair)
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Week 8 Identifying Feelings / Empathy
School Counselor: School Counselor
Date: November 12th
Activity: Identifying feelings/Empathy
Grade(s): 2nd
Time Frame: 45 minutes
o Recognize how to identify how a person is feeling by looking at their face, body, and situation.
o Learn how to put ourselves in someone elses shoes in order to understand how theyre feeling.
o Be empathetic towards other people
Materials:
o Group Rules Poster
o Picture of student who is having a hard time learning how to read
o Picture of student who is finally able to read
o Poster with the word Empathy written on it along with the definition Putting ourselves in
someone elses shoes so that we may know how theyre feeling.
Procedure / Outline of Group Lesson:
o Get all the students
o Go to the small group counseling meeting space
o Take attendance
o Remind everyone about Group Rules
o Review last lesson
o Introduce new lesson by telling students that today we will be learning about how to identify
feelings so that we may be empathetic.
o Ask students if they know what it means to be empathetic.
o Ask for a few students to give you their definitions.
o Show poster that has the definition of empathy on it and explain.
o Explain to students that in order to be empathetic, we first must know how to tell how someone
may be feeling either by having them tell us or by looking at their face, body, or the situation.
o Show picture of boy (Bobby) who is having a hard time learning to read.
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o Read description: This is Bobby. He is trying to learn how to read, but it is hard for him.
o How do you think Bobby is feeling? Remember to look at his face, body, and the situation to
help you decide how Bobby may be feeling.
o Ask for a few volunteers to tell you how they think Bobby is feeling and ask them why they
think he may be feeling that way. (Did the point out his face, body, or situation?)
o After the students have gotten to the point where they say he is sad/confused/-- ask them what
they think Bobby can do to not feel sad/confused or how they could help him if he was in their
class?
o Ask for a few volunteers to share what they think Bobby can do.
o Ask them why they think that would make him feel less sad/ confused? (point out how they
are being empathetic because they are putting themselves in Bobbys shoes and thinking of
ways they would like to be helped if they were having a hard time learning how to read)
o Show the picture of Bobby now that he is able to read.
o Read description: After a lot of practice and help from his teacher, Bobby is now able to read well
on his own.
o How do you think Bobby is feeling now? Remember to look at his face, body, and the
situation to help you decide how Bobby may be feeling.
o Ask for a few volunteers to tell you how they think Bobby is feeling and ask them why they
think he may be feeling that way. (Did the point out his face, body, or situation?)
o After the students have gotten to the point where they say he is happy
o Reiterate how we were able to tell how Bobby was feeling at different points by looking at
his face, body, and the situation.
o Reiterate how by knowing how someone is feeling we are able to be empathetic and come
up with ways to help them.
o Closure / Questions
Plan for Evaluation:
o Check for understanding
o Pre/Post test
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Identifying Feelings / Empathy Pre/Post Test
1) What does Empathy mean?
2) What do we need to look at when trying to figure out how someone may be feeling?
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Appendix A
How to Make Friends / Be a Good Friend How to Make Friends Handout
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**Smile**
Ask Questions
What is your favorite food?
Tell them what you think.
Can I be your
friend?
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Appendix B
How to Make Friends / Be a Good Friend Leaf Cut Outs
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Appendix C
Listening Skills Lesson Whole Body
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Appendix D
Calming Down Lesson What Bugs Me
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Appendix E
Calming Down Lesson Calming Down Cards
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Appendix F
Dealing with Anger Lesson Things I Do that Might Bug Others
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Appendix G
Identifying Feelings / Empathy Lesson Picture of student who is having a hard time learning how to
read
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Appendix G
Identifying Feelings / Empathy Lesson Picture of student who is finally able to read
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Appendix H
Identifying Feelings / Empathy Lesson
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