ALPHA COLEGE OF TECHNOLOGY

VSSA 1011

PUBLIC SPEAKING

SEMESTER 1 2014/2015

DEVELOP CENTRAL IDEA: MARRIED IN YOUNG AGES

PREPARED FOR:

MR. WAN MAHARUDDIN HJ WAN SULAIMAN

PREPARED BY:

NUR SABRINA BINTI MAJIMAN

940429-13-5080

DATE OF SUBMISSION: 8th OCTOBER 2014

1.0 INTRODUCTION

Young marriage just like young motherhood, has a unique set of challenges as well as
advantages. However most the conversation concerning young marriage is negative, and
the few who do advocate for young marriage arent really laying out any romantic
reasons. For those of us who married young, or relationship are up for public debate,
whether we like it or not. Im here are not to flip the script and say that being married
young is inherently better. It isnt. While everyone seems to have a strong opinion about
whether marrying young is a good idea, marriage isnt a one size fits all deal.

2.0 BENEFITS MARRIED IN YOUNG AGE

An early marriage has considerable advantages. The mind is set in an early age. A
big task is solved in the early age. A big task is solved in the early age. One has more
time for his career and his family. On the other hand many people who are late
married or married after experimenting couple of broken relations, they just lose a
very precious young age time of their lives, either in stressful single life or given to
their broken relations. One may not need to wait until his mind his is mature enough
to decide for a right partner.

2.1 Avoid Potential Dangers Of Sex

Couples who marry in their 20s should know that on the whole, married
people have more sex than their single counterparts. Those facts aside, in truth, if
choose to get hitched earlier in life, youre less likely to increase the number of
sexual partners you have which makes you less susceptible to sexually transmitted
diseases. Marriage is the most intimate relationship you will ever have on several
levels. While co-habiting can also give you the ability to live together there is
something about vowing to see each other through thick and thin when its not so
easy to run, that gives this relationship the extra power.

2.2 Marriage Encourages People To Grow Up

 It is not a strange sighting today to see 25 or 26 years old men living at home
with mom and dad. The recently created teenager or adolescent culture seems to
be a growing age group. Adolescence is no longer just during the teen years but
continues into the 20s and earn 30s. Marriage is Gods gracious gift of forcing a
man and a woman to grow up, particularly men. When a man gets married he
becomes responsible for providing for his family, making sure the bills are paid,
and protecting his wife. He must not only take responsibility for himself but for
his wife and future children. Marriage pushes young men out of the nest to spread
their wings and fly under the windy pressures of life. This is a good thing, but
unfortunately rather than pushing these guys towards manhood we allow them to
continue in a lengthy boyhood.

2.3 Enough Time To Learn Practical Things

The girls, when we get married at the age group of 20s can have enough time
to learn different households. Their mother in laws should cooperate in this regard
and let her have the room of learning different households like cooking and
cleaning freely and dont input y extra burden onto her shoulders. In the same
way, the boys can have enough time to become successful in their career. They
would not need to earn for a livelihood at this early age because their fathers are
already earning enough to run the families.

2.4 Enough Time To Avoid Negative Circumstances

Due to certain circumstances early marriages are highly appreciated.
The children with early marriages are usually lesser educated so they can
continue their education after wedding or can adopt the profession of their
choice. The boys with immature marriage do not fail to concentrate on their
professional life because they have much stamina, creative thoughts and
energy to take up the burden of wife, children and a whole family. The girls
with early marriages mostly become more competitive in managing their
household and children as compared to girls with mature marriages.

2.5 Pregnancy Can Be Better Conceived

 For sure a young girl or teen, when ready to give birth to a child has
higher chances to conceive her pregnancy. This is due to the reason that her
body cells are more energetic and physiology of her body allows to conceive
the pregnancy well, as compared to an old-age pregnant woman. The main
actor of barrenness for woman is late in their married. For a woman ages 35s
has a difficult to pregnant because it is to risk and complicated. Fertility for a
woman is around 20s because they are strong, young and energetic o delivery
a baby.

3.0 CONCLUSIONS
Early marriage does benefit teenagers and young adults in many ways. They
may not be all that mature to cope up with responsibilities, but together as a couple
they can resolve many of their problems. Young people who are into a relationship
often prefer to solemnize their relationship. They prefer to get married as they feel
they know each other better and marriage is way out from them. Also, marriage helps
them to be independent of parents who perhaps may not be taking good care of them.
Early marriage has its own set of problems. Teenagers may prefer to tie the knot
despite perhaps parental objections, but they need to know what is in store for them
before taking such a decision.
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