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This page takes a step back and covers some of the fundamentals of building
and maintaining relationships with others. We provide examples of the most
common behaviours that are considered polite.
Politeness can and will improve your relationships with others, help to build
respect and rapport, boost your self-esteem and confidence, and improve
your communication skills.
Many of the points raised on this page may seem obvious (in most cases they are common-
sense) but all too often social manners are overlooked or forgotten. Take some time to read
through the following points and think about how being polite and demonstrating good social
etiquette can improve your relationships with others.
Politeness Guidelines
You can apply the following (where appropriate) to most
interactions with others friends, colleagues, family,
customers, everybody!
4. Always use please and thank you. Make sure you thank people
for their input or contribution and always include please when
asking for something. If somebody offers you something use 'Yes
please' or 'No thank you'.
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11. Avoid gossip. Try to have positive things to say about other
people.
13. Avoid jargon and vocabulary that may be difficult for others
to understand explain complex ideas or instructions carefully. Do
not appear arrogant.
14. Respect, and be prepared to listen to, the ideas and opinions
of others.
16. Use humour carefully. Aim not to cause any offence and
know the boundaries of appropriate language for different
situations. (See our page: Developing a Sense of Humour)
17. Practise good personal hygiene. Wash and brush your teeth
regularly, change your clothes and use deodorant. Avoid strong
perfumes, after-shaves or colognes.
20. Do not pick your nose or ears, chew on your fingers or bite
your fingernails in public. Also avoid playing excessively with your
hair.
Good manners cost nothing but can make a big difference to how other
people feel about you, or the organisation you are representing. When youre
polite and show good manners others are more likely to be polite and
courteous in return.
You can improve your face-to-face or interpersonal relationships with others in many different
ways SkillsYouNeed has numerous pages providing in-depth advice and discussion on specific
topics related to interpersonal skills.
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