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Socio-Autobiography
Dr. Garoutte
5/20/2015
I was born in 1994. During my lifetime, gay rights in America have
come a long way. In 1994, almost every state had banned gay marriage.
Since then there has been a turn and it appears we might be headed down a
path to total marriage equality across the entire country. But just because
our country is headed in that direction does not mean we are changing the
Think back to when you were a child and your parents bought you toys.
If youre a boy, you received train sets, race cars and footballs. If youre a
girl you received Barbie Dolls, play houses and Easy-Bake Ovens. These
normal parental practices happen every day and they are all part of
buy my son this football so he doesnt turn out gay. But that is essentially
what happens. Parents contribute to heteronormativity all the time and they
grandchildren were all girls so all they have at their house are the hand-me-
cousins was playing with the Barbie Dolls along with my other girl cousins.
My aunts and uncles were making smug comments so his mom (my aunt)
went over and told him to go outside and play football instead. I dont think
my family is homophobic, this is behavior that naturally occurs because of
I never thought anything of it at the time but looking back now him
playing with the Barbie Dolls went against gender schematics. Even though
the only reason he probably chose to play with the dolls was because thats
what the other little ones were doing, people in my family saw it as weird.
I believe this type of behavior from adults not only comes from not
wanting their kid to turn out gay, and also abiding by gender roles. If a
father sees his child using an Easy-Bake Oven he may not like it because he
wants his expects his son to be a provider for his family. They all tie together
when talking about the socialization of our children to the norms of society.
something like $5 to get into the Homecoming Dance and $8 for a couple.
But there was a rule: you had to be a male and a female. I remember
but cant? I dont think the school thought Lets not let gay couples go to
the dance together. I think the thought process behind the rule was that
Although I am not suggesting there is anything wrong with buying your son
toy trucks and your girl Barbies, but think about it next time you do. Will
allowing my son to play with a toy house this one time really going to affect
his sexuality in the long-run? My guess is not. These are all decisions we