Professional Documents
Culture Documents
By John Hellner
At the party, the know it all explained the fundamental problems in the
school. The know it all knew the cures too. The know it all spoke with
conviction and certainty and never asked questions or listened to anyone
else. Why should you when you know it all. The know it all told everyone
what they ought to do about the schools problems, but no one wanted to hear
it: their loss, said the know it all, thats part of the problem, no one wants to
know the truth. Must be nice to be so sure.
Teacher: That was an important assignment and you point blank didnt do it.
Pupil: I forgot.
Teacher: You forgot? You shouldnt forget. Its obvious, that its your job as
a pupil to remember.
Teacher: Starting tonight, I want you to write it down in a notebook and Ill
check it every day.
Believing your personal views and experiences are universal or definitive, and
expressing personal attitudes, values, beliefs and opinions as facts,
characterises the know it all person. Teaching and working with people
involves a great deal of wobbling and banging about. People are a messy
business theyre just so complex and diverse.
Tentative teachers
Compare the conversation below between a tentative teacher and the know it
all approach above:
Pupil: I forgot.
Teacher: I know I dont live at your house, but isnt there someone or some
way to help you remember to do your homework?
Teacher: I know you might think typical adult, but can you hear me out?
Sooner or later you have to take care of your own business. I think that is part
of what school is about.
Both dialogues arrive at the same outcome, but tentative dialogue invites
comment, involvement and further discussion. In know it all dialogue the
teacher makes it clear that they have said everything that needs saying and
responding is difficult.
Tentative Approaches
Disclaimers
If it were me
Sometimes
Maybe
Kinda
Rarely
Likely
Hedges
Perhaps
It seems to me
You might
Tag Questions
Descriptions
For example, saying the people are barbaric passes judgment: saying the
people make human sacrifices and live in caves, describes behaviour.
Saying I hated the place gives an evaluative opinion: saying I felt
bewildered and confused when I was there, describes feelings. Description
not only indicates tentativeness, but also credits the listener with the ability to
draw their own conclusions.
Nor does tentativeness apply to the rare student who methodically seeks to
undermine a teachers ability to teach other students, or to take advantage of
the teachers best intentions. Those students deserve the consequences the
teacher doles out.