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Introduction
This Companion Workbook is a free gift to you as a reader of The Tao of
Show Business, written by Dallas Travers. The assignments here are
designed to enhance your experience while reading
The Tao of Show Business.
If you do not yet own the book itself and would like to purchase your own
copy, please visit www.taoofshowbusiness.com.
-Dallas
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Your Long-Term Vision
Imagine that you are living the career of your dreams.
Ask yourself the question: If I could be anywhere, doing anything,
where would I be, with whom would I be, and what would I be doing?
With that picture clear in your mind, please answer the following
questions below about your long-term vision.
Craft
How proud are you of your chops? What teachers or peers do you learn from? How do
others respond to your talents? Where do you showcase your skills?
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Creativity
How do you nurture your artist? How do you express yourself? How do you feel about
your creativity?
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Confidence
Describe how confident you feel and how that plays out in your day-to-day life. How
do you deal with setbacks and your inner-critic?
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Finances
What is your financial situation? How much money do you earn?
How does that affect other areas of your life? How do you feel about money?
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Fun
What is your attitude towards life? What do you do in your free time?
Describe how fun plays a role in your ideal life.
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Health
Describe your appearance. How do you feel about yourself?
How do you nurture yourself? What do you gain from your self-care?
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Personal Growth
How do you continue to learn and grow? What resources, outlets, or people do you
learn from? How do you feel about your personal growth?
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Personal Relationships
Describe your personal relationships. What do you get from them? How do you impact
others in your life? Who are the most important
people in your life and what roles do they play?
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Professional Relationships
Describe your professional relationships.
What do you get from them? How well do you communicate?
How do you feel about your place in the business?
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Spirituality
How do you define spirituality? What role does it play in your life and career?
How do you feed your spiritual side?
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Keeping this long-term vision as a whole in your mind, please identify your
tightrope moment. If you could pinpoint one specific moment in your future
that might represent the culmination
of your long-term vision, describe what that ideal scene might look like and how
you feel about this experience. What is your tightrope moment?
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Values Appraisal
Rate the importance of each value listed below on a scale of
1 (not important) to 10 (very important). How important is each
value to your life and your career?
Now, consider which FIVE might be most important to you and your life. After
you have selected FIVE values, please rank them in order of importance.
How much do you walk your walk when it comes to your values?
How might you use your values to move your career to new heights?
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S-A-G-E Goal Characteristics
Now that youve identified your short-term goal(s), its time to make sure that
your goal is a SAGE one
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SPECIFIC
Is this goal easy to measure? Is it time-sensitive? How will you know when
youve arrived at your goals finish line?
ACHIEVABLE
How much control do you have over your desired results? How much do you
believe that you will, indeed, accomplish this goal?
GENUINE
Is this goal truly yours? How inspired do you feel when you consider taking this
goal on?
EXPANSIVE
Describe how your short-term goal fits into the broader picture of your long-
term vision.
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The Time Traveler
First, identify your specific goal along with a specific deadline.
Describe each milestone involved in your journey.
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The Time Traveler
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The Inch Worm
After you have rated your current level of satisfaction in each area of the Artist
Wheel. Please complete the Inch Worm Action Plan Process
to improve any are you choose from the Artist Wheel.
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What specific actions must you take in order to achieve this goal? When will you
take these actions?
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The Possibility Web
Refer to the Possibility Web instructions in your The Tao of Show Business book
and complete the Possibility Web Process below.
Goal:
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Vision Board Grid
business confidence
spirituality & & &
service marketing personal
tools growth
YOU
relationships &
wealth communication
health,
craft & wellness, fun &
creativity enjoyment
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Limiting Beliefs
Here are some sample limiting beliefs. Refer to this list and explore what
limiting beliefs you may be buying into.
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Limiting Beliefs
Please consider your own limiting beliefs.
Explore them by answering the following questions.
2. How does this belief serve you? What does it protect you from?
3. How does this belief harm you? What does it prevent you from?
4. Setting aside any emotion or opinion about this idea, how TRUE is this belief?
8. What must you do to find out which belief is true for you?
Example
Belief: Im too old to make it in Hollywood.
Without this belief I would be happier, more free, and probably more successful.
A belief is just a thought or an idea. You can change your thoughts. Therefore,
you can choose your beliefs. This exercise is designed to help you release your
limiting beliefs and live without them once and for all.
Step 1 On a piece of paper, write down your limiting belief. Write down
any thoughts or emotions that arise when you think about this
belief. Explain how this belief has served you in the past. Explain
how it has also harmed you.
Step 3 When you have finished, look over both sheets of paper, and
make a decision as to which you prefer. If it is the positive one,
then take the other and say, "I release my need for this belief. It
no longer exists in my world.
Step 4 Get rid of this piece of paper. You may chose to lock it in a box,
burn it, mail it to a mysterious address, or tear it into shreds.
Destroy this paper in whatever way is most meaningful to you.
Step 5 Take the second piece of paper, make a conscious choice that this
is now your TRUTH, put it in your purse or wallet and carry it
everywhere with you. That is powerful enough to clear anything.
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Living Mantras
Take some time to craft your very own Living Mantras. Just think about what
you desire or what youd like to change and jot down some inspiring questions
that reflect the new results you want to generate.
After youve created your mantras, you may consider creating
Living Mantra Cards that you can take with you in the car, on the subway,
or anywhere you go.
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Concrete Commitment
Creating a Concrete Commitment is pretty simple, but youll need to practice it a
bit in order to create one thats right for you. Please answer the following
questions and create your Concrete Commitment.
After youve created your Concrete Commitment, share it with at least one
person each day for the next 30 days.
1. What specific career or life goals are you currently committed to?
2. How does this commitment fit into your long-term vision or your values?
3. Who are you as an artist? Set aside what you do and think about who you
are outside of your career aspirations.
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Sideliner Exercise
As much as I wish you could you just cant control the actions, opinions, or
thoughts of other people.
The Sideliner Exercise will help you align your expectations of others with who
they really are, not who youd like them to be.
If I accept this truth and let them do their job, I am now free to do my job, which
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Your Collaborators
You can keep track of your team using several different types of computer
software such as Outlook (for PC users) or Bento (for Mac).
You can also utilize your email address book or even
an old-fashioned address book.
Just begin keeping track of who you know, how to contact them,
and when youll get in touch.
I also like www.performertrack.com, www.theactorsoffice.com, or
www.actorgateway.com
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Your Collaborators
Collaborator's Name phone:
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How I Know Them other:
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Your Collaborators
Collaborator's Name phone:
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How I Know Them other:
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Your Shadow
Think about your pesky Shadow. How do you feel when your Shadow rules
your life? Wouldnt it be great to use your Shadows energy in a way that
catapults you forward rather than keeping you stuck?
Try this exercise out to redirect your Shadows energy.
Think about an early experience (kinda like Dallass spelling bee story) when
your Shadow may have first appeared. It is not important that you pinpoint the
precise moment your Shadow was born.
Just think back and select any experience that comes to mind.
What happened?
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How has your Shadow worked to protect you from experiencing that again?
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What does your Shadow prevent you from doing, saying, accomplishing or
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How appropriate is your Shadow today? How much (if at all) do you need your
Shadow to continue to protect you?
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If you could give your Shadow a new job, what would that be? How might you
like to redirect your Shadows energy to serve you in more constructive ways?
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Write down all of the nasty ideas, distractions, insults and fears your Shadow
tells you. Take all the time you need to really explore your Shadows voice.
After youve written down your Shadows script, its time to create your
Shadow. Draw it, design it, build it, paint it, sew it, or find an object that
represents your Shadow. Identify what your Shadow says to you, how it holds
you back, and what it looks like. Be creative.
After youve designed your Shadow, its time to have a little talk. Tell your
Shadow, Hey thanks, but you dont have to be such a jerk about protecting me.
Im quite all right without you. Instead, Id really like you to (give your Shadow
a new job). You could use your Shadow to motivate you, to inspire you, or to
build your confidence. Remember, this little sucker is a really good worker, so
give your Shadow a job thatll help you.
Keep your new Shadow close by to remind you that YOU are in charge of you.
You dont need to fear any longer cause your Shadow has your back.
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Qualities Questionnaire
Please consider your Personal Danny DeVito and answer the following questions
about your consistent qualities.
Doing so may shine some light on how you can pinpoint your Danny DeVito
and carve out your unique niche.
1. How are you different from other actors in your age range? List physical
characteristics as well as internal qualities or special talents / skills.
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3. What qualities did you possess as a kid that are still true for you in
adulthood?
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4. Among your peers, how are you perceived? For example, are you the
planner in the group, the funny one, or the person people trust most?
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6. What is the general first impression you leave with people?
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7. What are people surprised to learn about your personality after they get to
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10. If you were an inanimate object, what might you be? For example, a shiny
red sports car, a painters easel, or an expensive pen.
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After you have received your completed Castability Surveys, please review what
feedback you got. Take a blank survey and use that to compile all the
feedback onto one sheet.
You can do this by placing a hash mark next to each
word every time it is selected.
2. Eliminating the obvious choices (ie: grandma if you are only 22 years old),
what five adjectives and roles came up the least or not at all?
3. What common thread or theme do you notice about the feedback your
received in your surveys?
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4. What does this information tell you about your Personal Danny DeVito?
5. Given how other people see you, what message might be missing from your
current headshots?
6. How does the survey you completed for yourself compare to the surveys
others did for you?
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Castability Survey
instructions for survey-filler-outers
This is a fun exercise for your friend or loved one to get a clear idea about the roles they
are likely to book in film and television as well as how other people perceive them.
Please take the time to fill out this survey and have some fun!
Step One: Start by circling up to 15 of the adjectives on page 1 that describe characters
or roles your friend might play. This is just a snapshot of who they are on one given day,
so dont stress out too much. Just have fun.
Step Two: Visit page 2 and again circle up to 15 roles your friend could play. Given
who they are...where are they likely to first be cast?
Step Three: Now, review and answer the questions on page 3. Again, have fun with
this. Keep in mind that you may only circle ONE of each of the options listed. The final
question on page one asks that you write a character description. Here are some
samples
(Sara) Early 30s. A simple, hardworking woman. Shes a single mother of 4 kids and is
clearly overwhelmed. Shes got 3 jobs to make ends meet, one of which is to drive a Head Start
Bus.
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Castability Survey
circle up to 15 of the adjectives that describe roles I am most likely to play
page 2.
page 3.
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Castability Survey
How old am I? (circle one)
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Character Breakdowns
Please write or find a character breakdown (description) that describes how you
might be cast in the genres listed below. Be as specific as possible. Heres where
you get to illustrate how your Personal Danny DeVito fits into the genres and
stereotypes in the industry.
[MIKE CHANEY] Strong and intimidating man in his late 40s to early 50s. A
former bully, Mike is a successful entrepreneur who owns a garish house just
outside Minneapolis. Hes a bit of a wanna-be mobster, but thats all an act.
[TRACY BLAKELY] Female, late 30s, sweet, nurturing. She is a grieving mother
whose daughter was killed by a drunk driver. After a painful trial, Tracy
forgives her daughters killer and asks the judge to practice leniency in his
sentence.
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Press Release Checklist
Follow the checklist below to make the most out of your press release
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The Four Fundamentals
Cover Letter Recipient(s)
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Rule of Seven Game Plan
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Ships Log
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Practice Imperfection
For the next two weeks, do one thing imperfectly. Record your imperfect action
below and write about your feelings or experiences.
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You survived! How has practicing imperfection impacted you?
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Stop, Drop, Dig, & Roll
Think about a recent crisis or emergency and apply the Stop, Drop, Dig and Roll
to uncover an easier way to handle emergencies.
Describe the story of this crisis. How did you feel? What did this crisis mean?
What motivation did you or the other people involved have? Really allow
yourself to describe the details & the drama.
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Stop, Drop, Dig, & Roll
Put the story aside and identify the facts involved in this crisis.
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What commitments or values do you hold that make this crisis a crisis?
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Looking at your commitments or values, what actions can you take to move
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Break Through Resistance
Make a list of at least three actions youve been resisting.
Identify the date you will take each action and go for it!
For the next seven days, do at least one thing that scares you.
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Do Whatever You Want!
For the next seven days, plan to make no plans. Do whatever you want. Each
morning, just ask yourself, What do I want to do today? Allow yourself to do
those things. Record your choices on the next couple pages and notice your
thoughts, feelings and experiences when you truly do whatever your heart
desires. Have fun!
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Get Your Priorities Straight
When you feel overwhelmed or unorganized, heres a system to align your
actions with those tasks or goals that are most pressing.
Please complete the following Prioritizing Exercise.
STEP 1: Write a to-do list. Please list all activities or tasks that need your
attention. This might include tasks you are presently working on
or tasks still waiting for you.
STEP 2: Ask yourself, How important and urgent is this task in the next
few weeks? Then rate, on a scale of 1-10, each item by level of
importance and urgency. Most important items receive the highest
numbers.
STEP 4: Outline what necessary actions you will take to accomplish each of
your top 3-4 tasks and schedule time to do so.
STEP 5: At the end of each day (or so), review your priority list. As tasks
are completed, remove them from the list and allow the following
tasks to move toward the top of the list. Your goal is to complete
your top 3-4 tasks each day. If any top tasks do not get completed,
they simply move to the following day.
STEP 6: Continue this process as your work through your to-do list.
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Task Importance Urgency Total
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Should Exercise
Should is one of the most damaging words in the English language. Every time
you use should, you are, in effect, saying wrong.
Either you are wrong or you were wrong or you are going to be wrong.
Think about all the ways you should on yourself. Select 4-5 specific shoulds and fill
them in below.
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Knowing you could do, have, or be these things, what actions do you choose to
make to create change?
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Lets look at how you should on others. Think about your expectations or
judgments of 2-3 people in your life and complete the following statements.
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Where else might you be able to get these needs met?
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What actions or changes can YOU make in order to meet these needs for
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Take Immediate Action
I ___________________________________________ commit to
creating my own unique success path starting today.
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