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Jokes and humor, in general, play an important part in determining who we are
and how we think of ourselves, and as a result, how we interact with others. A
sense of humor has been an essential part of humankind and society throughout
Introduction
Humor researchers have long existed in the sociology and psychology fields, but
as communication studies scholar, Owen Lynch, covers in his papers Humor &
Communication there is a need for communication researchers to bridge the gap in the
two differing fields, which Owen believes, can be built through communication studies.
He states, Humor has no boundaries it permeates every social contextit is time for
the field to delve deeper to grapple with humor and establish a communication-based
understanding of humor. Pete Holmes, a comedian who speaks frequently on the uses of
humor, spoke on humor and its nature of play during a monologue for his network
[Hit it back]my last name is Holmes. What up, Holmes? I get that a
lot, and yes, Ive heard it a million times, but I love it. Why? Because it
means they are trying to play, people are being silly with me. Its so much
Holmes and Lynch use the space of communication to find meaning in the use of
humor. Humor as play, or the ability to engage with others, has unlimited capacities for
connection because of its need for mutual interaction between two parties, the sender and
the audience.
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Comedians and writers have long used humor to tackle tragedy and social issues that
were often too taboo to talk about openly in society. A more recent example can be seen
at the first airing of Saturday Night Live after the September 11 attacks in 2001. In light
of the attacks that took place in New York City, the first show of season debuted on
September 29th, 2001. The opening featured New York Mayor Rudolph Giuliani standing
in front of members of the New York fire and police departments while Paul Simons
The Boxer serenaded the audience. Lorne Michaels, the producer of Saturday Night
Live, joined Giuliani on the stage and asked, Can we be funny? Giuliani turned to
Michaels and shot back, Why start now? (Saturday Night Live, Season 27, 2001). The
show was delicate to address the fragility of the nation, but recognized the importance of
areas: connecting with others, maintaining relationships in conflict, and expressing the
needs of the self. Humor is built from two tiers, the intrapersonal and the societal. It is
important to see how humor impacts the communicative space between the two tiers
(Lynch, 2002). In this research, a sample of participants were used for data collection and
analysis by being asked a series of questions that identified the use of their own humor,
how they engage with humor in their workplace and home, and lastly, how humor was
used in their interpersonal conflicts. To this end, this paper is focused on explaining three
main ideas: (a) to explain how messages are impacted through the use of humor in
regards to connection and relationship maintenance, (b) to identify the role humor has in
communication, and (c) to find the how humor enables self expression.
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communication scholars are superiority, relief, and incongruity. These theories suggest
the structure in which we use humor, but do not fully explain how humor impacts the
study revealed that humor is a dominant communicative device used in initial connection,
as a buffer to ease tensions in difficult conversations, and can be used as bridge to engage
Literature Review
look at the intrapersonal and societal use of humor. The following review provides a brief
overview of humor theory as defined by types of humor, types of connection, and humor
as play in communication.
Types of Humor
Humor cannot be consolidated into a simple definition. In order to frame the
of humor applied and used in modern society. Humor research is studied under three
theories: superiority theory, incongruity theory, and relief theory. Under each theory there
aggressive (Meyer, 2000; Martin & Doris, 2003). The later uses of humor involve the
societal exchange of humor between the provider and the recipient(s), or audience.
Incongruity theory fixes its attention to the object of humor and its violation of
socially developed patterns (Cooper, 2008; Meyer, 2000). Humor is incongruent when
the object of humor is not the predicted outcome expected by the audience. For example,
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the late comedian Robin Williams delivered this joke in an interview with The Telegraph
(2011), Ah, yes, divorcefrom the Latin word meaning to rip out a mans genitals
through his wallet. If we dissect the joke into two parts, it would look like this:
reduces tension from social anxiety or in order to better cope with pain or high stress
levels (Thorson and Powell, 1994). Joking involves the involuntary response of laughter,
which lowers stress levels. Lynch says a good benefit of this humor results in lower
inferior to his/her self through socially constructed norms agreed on by two present
parties (Duncan, 1985). This approach allows the individual to feel influence by
dominance over others through humor. Superiority is one of the earliest studied forms of
humor. Early philosophers such as Plato and Aristotle wrote pieces about mockery
often geared towards their own expense (Lynch, 2002). A general example is the
given by fellow colleagues (See Dean Martins Celebrity Roasts, NBC, 1974). Although
the nature of the roast is meant to exude a light joking nature, often times the humor
becomes hostile. Hostile humor can be explained primarily through the superiority
inferiority (Meyers, 2002). Superiority is one type of humor that must be used in
moderation. Superiority theory is not a theory solely used in harming the identities of
others, but can be used as a means for social correction (Meyers, 2002).
Types of Connection
Connection creates a sense of team in relationship. In order to achieve this aspect, one
individual attention (Woods, 1996). Connection [or integration] and autonomy are
dialectics are the opposing forces that are in the normal parts of every relationship. There
integration and separation, stability and change, and expression and privacy (p. 199).
Relationships that contain an unequal distribution of these types of traits will lead to
in relational dialects is crucial to maintain healthy relationships and build trust with one
another. Communication is defined by the way individuals send verbal, paraverbal, and
nonverbal indicators during the course of social interactions. These signals note three
factors about an individual: who he or she is or want to (appear to be), how he or she
tends to relate to people with whom he or she interacts, and in what way his or her
messages should usually be interpreted (De Vries & Baker-Piper, 2009). Messages are
encoded in the verbal, paraverbal, and nonverbal cues and require a translation from the
receiver. A personal sense of security is obtained when messages are properly decoded in
communicate clear lines between the performer and audience. Improvisation comedy first
became popular in the comedy sphere by the late 1920s. Many of the first improv teams
were out of Chicago, Los Angeles, and New York. Second City, a Chicago improv
native, brought improv comedy to America and continues to be one of the largest and
These rules, despite many variations between troupes, are widely accepted beliefs. The
three basic rule of improv include (see Tina Feys Memoir, Bossy Pants):
1) Never say no
2) Listen to your partner
3) Make your partner look good
The first rule keeps the game, or improv sketch, moving forward. To deny someone his or
her idea denies the continued growth of the scene and ultimately ends the sketch. An
about how many toes there were on the performers feet. By saying yes, and to a
partner allows for a scene to continue with both parties contributing to the final outcome.
Lets go back to the example with the toes and apply the yes and theory:
Performer #2: Yes, and I will have to charge you 2 extra dollars for your
pedicure.
The second rule, listen to your partner, closely follows the first rule. Although
many jokes in improv follow the incongruity structure of humor, there is a way to
essential for the audience to understand. To achieve cohesion, both performers must
listen to their partner. There cannot be a dominant performer in a proper improv game.
Finally, the third rule applies to the game in order to make sure the preceding
rules are followed. Many times the scene can be dependent on what is given to each
partner. To approach this rule, these thoughts can be applied: What can I say to set them
up? How will I communicate this best? Each rule is designed with an effort to follow-
through with the scene, allow the audience to understand the content of the game, and
the communicative ability of play with one another. Improv invites a set-up [dialogue]
from the team, and response [laughter] model from the audience. These rules can be
social context (Lynch, 2002). Humor, the language of improv, is a powerful tool to relate
patterns. Humor is directly correlated with expressive personalities. Many find their
humor allows them to be the center of attention and creates a connection they might not
be able to create through other communication styles (De Vries & Baker-Piper, 2009).
Relationships, when humor was positively used in communication, generally had lower
perceived stress, less loneliness, higher self-esteem, and greater ability to decode
sensitivity (Kuiper & McHale, 2009). Humor serves as an indicator of intrapersonal and
effective tool for coping, interpersonal, and social communication (Mizco, 2004).
The current goal is to not only understand humor as communication, but also understand
the impact humor has in the connection and maintenance of relationships. If humor is a
communication form deeply rooted in expression, how can it impact our ability to
Methodology
The data for this study resulted from interpretive qualitative research. More
expressly, the data consists of four in-depth interviews, lasting 20-45 minutes each, and
Participants
sampling takes place when participants help researches obtain their sample by
identifying other similar participants (Keyton, 2011, p. 131). Of the four interviews, 2
were male and 2 were female; two were a college graduates, one was currently enrolled at
a private Midwest university, and one had some college experience. Three participants
identified as White, and one mixed race, Black/Filipino. Three participants identified
with working in customer service jobs, and 1 participant identified as a student. All
references by e-mail with a brief description and nature of the research. Once connected,
participants schedule their interviews and picked a location for meeting. On the day of
the interview, participants were asked to sign a consent waiver that informed them any
disclosed information could be used for public reading in an academic format. The names
(Appendix A). They were presented with proposal of the given research and information
regarding the nature of the interview. The four interviews were conducted between
sixteen minutes and one hour. During the interview process, participants were asked what
traits or characteristics they admired most about their friends, how they met their friends,
what they do together now to maintain those relationships, and how they use their humor
on a regular basis within relationships. This approach created a framework for how
humor was used to connect in relationships and how humor impacted the communication
Data Analysis
Thematic analysis was used the data collection. Since the research is based
primarily from shared experiences among individuals it is important that the data analysis
is fluid and able to adjust as stories evolve. Data was categorized by common themes,
words, and stories. This means of collection will allow the best possible results for
understanding participants, learning the connection between their stories, and finding
patterns that bridge how humor impacts connection and communication in interpersonal
relationships.
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Findings
The findings of this essay contain four stories. In Steve and Humor as Play,
humor is used as a medium to invite others into a conversation. Susan and Coping with
struggles or hardships. Matthew and Connecting with Humor speaks on building a bridge
to connect with others. Finally, Shannon and Finding Color in Humor relates to how
humor brings more life to mundane tasks in life. These findings demonstrate the use of
Steve works as a barista in the Arts District of Los Angeles, California. Although
we had no mutual acquaintances, I frequented the coffee shop to work on various school
assignments and to meet people for casual lunches on work breaks. I began to recognize
Steve during each visit. After some friendly banter and discounts on my daily tall, black
coffee, Steve agreed to meet with me about participating in an interview for my research
study. Steve said he appreciated good conversation and good people and would be more
than happy to help with the project. We met at a coffee shop in Echo Park, The Library,
on the back patio away from the noise of other customers. I told Steve the interview
would only last 15-20 minutes, but he so enjoyed talking about the subject that it
proceeded to run closer to 45 minutes. We ordered coffee and began the interview.
I informed Steve that the nature of the interview required his honesty, but he
could refuse to answer any question that might make him feel uncomfortable. He agreed
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with the terms of the interview and we discussed the nature of his close relationships.
Steve: I generally tend to get close with people who are [good], I really like, goodness.
Goodness is a big deal for me. People who do good things and are kind to people
I learned that Steve was a musician and most of his current friends he had met on
the road or by doing gigs throughout Los Angeles over the past few years. He was a
college dropout who was working two jobs, barista and bartender, while continuing to
make music on his off days. When I asked if there was an exception to the friends he had
met on the road he told me he had a best friend who he met in forth grade and who has
become like his own brother. He begins to mention that his friend exudes the qualities of
being true and good, and how he never uses sarcasm to deceive other people. I questioned
Steve: I do, I use it [sarcasm]. I admire people who arent sarcastic, a lot of people say
there is no such thing as sarcasm that isnt mean, but I disagree with that. I use sarcasm in
absurd ways as opposed to biting ways. We use sarcasm in absurdity, pure silliness.
There are ways to do it that are creative and funny, we can bring attention to something
that people wouldnt normally talk about because its too awkward. You can use it to
Steve is describing one of the three uses of humor defined by social scientists as
incongruity theory (Lynch, 2002). Incongruity theory stems from, as Lynch says, the
recognition that something is inconsistent with the expected rational nature of the
perceived environment. Steve continues to build a story with his narrative on sarcasm,
and gives the example of his sister. His sister uses sarcasm, not to make light or point out
the absurdity, but rather in biting or hurtful ways. I asked Steve to describe his
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relationship with his sister. He said they were very distant and their communication was
rarely received well. To see the inverse of a negative relationship, I asked Steve what
Steve: My friends are pretty funny too. They make me laugh, for the most part. The best
ones are the ones that make me laugh the most. I dont know if thats because they are
funny or because I love them so much. Theres no sense of humoring people you love so
muchthese people that make you laugh so much wouldnt have to do anything to make
you laugh.
Steve suggests in his comments that those we are closest with do not require a
often expressed in shared laughter. I followed up this idea on how Steve used laughter in
his workplace and the interactions he had with the customers there.
Steve: Sometimes its my favorite way to use it to show people how silly they
are being at the coffee shop, but that I always regret doing anyway. I always end
up regretting doing anything retaliatory, you can just lose high ground. I use
humor, people in reference to coffee, people come in, you know, Hi, welcome to
Starbucks, and people want to be treated like humans and if youre funny with
them, if youre funny and its not at their expense, like when you are playing
with someone. You meet people and people say stupid things, things that are not
that funny, but they engage you, Oh youre real tall/Hows the weather up
there. I try to talk to some people, and some people in any situation get so
frustrated by that. Somebodys trying to play with you, they might not know how
to do it right, but they are trying to put themselves out and play. Even if they
suck at it, they want to play and Im always receptive to that. If people want to
play, I never shut them down. Lets play; lets be a person. Maybe if they get
shut down, they arent going to want to talk to anybody.
Steve suggests there is a sense of engagement and play that happens in humor that
recipient to accept or deny ones attempt to play with the other person. As Steve suggests,
the more we deny the invitation of humor given by someone else, the more likely that
person will no longer attempt to try with anyone else. This can result in a damaging effect
for initial interpersonal connection, and can act as a gage for determining robust
located in Southern California. She graduated from college in 2013, and began working
in the department shortly after her graduation. She is currently enrolled in seminary, and
is a strong advocate in progressive social issues on campus. I met Susan through a lead
given to me by a gatekeeper, a mutual friend of both ours, and she agreed to be apart of
the study.
She decided to meet on the university campus on her lunch break. We sat down at
a table nestled in the back corner by a broken down jukebox. I introduced the project to
her in more thorough detail and ordered her a small soda. We started the interview in
order to keep good time before her lunch break was over. Susan identified that she was
connected to a close community, mainly of people she had met during her time in
college. I asked Susan how she would define the words, connectedness and vulnerability.
Susan: Vulnerability is letting someone see a part of you, your heart, your life or your
story that in return allows them to wound you in that area, but generally those are areas
that cant be healed unless another person sees them. I think of vulnerability and I think
of risk. Connectedness, I think of when someone truly sees you and you truly see them.
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Susan agreed that she felt both connectedness and vulnerability in her current
relationships. I was interested to see what path might have led to achieve such strength in
relationships. She noted that many of those relationships were brought about after having
many shared experiences throughout various college activities. She mentioned that humor
was most effectively used with her friends as a means to cope with their personal
struggles.
Susan: I happened to be lucky that my friends are fiercely funny, so in a lot of ways for
good or for bad we do use humor as a means to cope with the darkness. So its a tool that
can help us through stress and through struggle, but it is also a means in which we let
each other know that we are seen and known. This sounds morbid, but we say, If you
dont laugh, youll kill yourself. For those times that if you cant laugh about this right
now and see it for the absurdity that it is, were going to jump off a bridge. I think humor
can be used as a means to not actually deal with the issues at hand, but I think we use it in
a way that gives us courage to face the issues at hand. The ability to laugh at it reminds us
that we can beat it, we can wrestle with it, we still have power and agency over it.
Susan recognizes the power that dynamic humor has over difficult situations. She
is able to use humor as a means of identifying a problem, and being able to communicate
the problem to those around her. Sociological researcher, Bren Brown, says in her book,
Daring Greatly, Courage starts with showing up and letting ourselves be seen (Brown,
2012). Courage is an essential tool in overcoming fear. Humor has the ability to transcend
normal communicative patterns and creates a space for an individual to identify their hurt
or struggle, and also creates the space for others to identity with individual. In this
conversation.
Susan: My friend was wrestling with some really dark stuff, but needed a push start to
deal with it in a healthy way so my friends and I typed up an agenda, it was called A Swift
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Kick in the Ass Followed by a Pat on the Back. Humor helps people let their guard down
for a bit and be able to receive you that being super serious right off the bat wouldnt do.
For Susan, humor was a kick-start to dealing with more difficult challenges in
to others through the channel of humor. She expressed that humor was a buffer for
enabling conversations, but sometimes that buffer could divert conversation if it was too
psychology major with hopes to move on to graduate school after graduation. I was able
to catch up with him over a Christmas Break when we were both in Ohio to visit our
families. Due to the duration of the trip, both of us were only in town for a few days, and
with the rapidly approaching holidays, we both agreed to meet the morning of Christmas
Eve to conduct the interview. We ordered food and the seasonal hot drink and began the
16-minute interview.
Like many of the other interviews, I asked Matthew how he met most of his
current community. He said he was a floater, someone who never really was apart of a
group, but has various amounts of friends. He noted that he struggled to call someone
who is always at a surface level, unable to be vulnerable, a close friend. I asked what the
Matthew: A lot of sadness is a lot of times what really draws people together the most.
Anyone can tell a joke, but you cant just share the deepest pain with anyone. Through
being fully known in your sadness gives an opportunity for joy and thats much more real
than casual joking. I think authentic joy really happens after sadness.
qualities of being present in his friendships and feeling connected to them on emotional
levels. Matthew doesnt discount the impact of humor on his relationships. I followed up
Matthew: Im more the funny friend. Im the comic relief, the theatrical person to
watch. I use my sense of humor; I usually use it to lighten the mood. My humor out is full
speed ahead [if the conversation is boring]. I use is as a tool to invigorate those around
me and myself. I think my friends are funny just by being real. Humor is just a lot of
saying what everyone is thinking. Its a safe way to express what is going on beneath the
surface.
Matthew uses humor to connect with other people in the room. It enables him to
stir the pot and keep movement in conversation. He also highlights the effectiveness of
humor and its relationship to honesty. Many times, humor is used as a resource to draw
attention to certain matters. Matthew found that his humor was a tool for expressing
honesty within himself and others, which ultimately created a safe place for conversation
to occur. I asked him if this had allowed him to overcome differences with others as he
Matthew: Im still living in a dorm, so I just think of the relationship with hall mates.
Like if someone is not cleaning or being gross, often times to handle that, the best way, is
through humor. You make a joke about leaving their stuff out. It gets the point across
without making you the attacker. Ive read its proven that couples who use humor in the
midst of conflict have productive conflict. I think humor is crucial to healthy relational
conflict. No one wants to fight negatively all the time. The issue is not the fight, the issue
is how are we going to relate in the midst of this conflict? Humor is a good tool on how
to relate.
I followed up his response by asking how he personally saw his humor being used
as a tool to relate to others.
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Matthew: Negative, Im very sarcastic. If someone is bothering me, I will make sarcastic
comment thinly veiled in assault. I will express aggression through humor because I dont
have the balls to talk about it. Positive ways, I use it to engage people. People I dont
know well, I use it for a long time first before I move to anything else. Im a connector,
so humor is what I use the most to build relationships.
others through an invitation of humor, but if taken too far, can prey on the vulnerable
state of one who is participating in the joke with Matthew if his mind is geared towards
ones humor, laughter can invoke a positive exchange between two parties and
teaching oral interpretation. She was an active member of her college forensics team and
worked for two years at a hotel front desk in downtown Los Angeles. Shannon and I met
Shannon has a friendly presence and has an infectious laugh that is noticed by
those around her in a room. We sat down at a table outside the coffee shop on her college
campus and began our interview. She, like the other interviewees, identified feeling
connected to a group or community. Shannon met her friends through school, and in the
house she currently lives in. She and her friends spend most time eating, sharing stories,
and laughing. Shannon highlighted those three traits early on in the interview. She
expressed a time in her house that humor was used to build connection before a meeting.
Shannon: My house was having a prayer night Monday night, and before we got
started, one of my housemates posed the question, How is everyone doing? In the midst
of really heavy stuff, the times of laughter that was present like being vulnerable to the
point of tears, but also being able to smile. It does great work to counter heaviness with
light. You can compliment vulnerability with humor. If youre in a room and you can all
find commonality in what youre laughing at that - laughter carries more weight than
fear.
humor has when being able to drive out fear within individuals when faced with heavy
humor must be used cautiously because of the fragile communication environment. Many
are able to openly ask and receive by using humor as a means to communicate. Since
Shannon worked largely in customer service at the hotel, I asked if she saw humor being
Shannon: Humor is huge. I didnt know this, when I hopped into this. One of my
managers will always be bringing in humor, light-hearted fun. It can be really mundane to
check someone in, ask them about their day, checking them out... But bringing humor
into it can change the disposition of that interaction. Just knowing there is a safe space
when youre laughing with someone about something its just that really simple human
connection.
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Shannon noticed the space humor had to allow people to feel safe. This is
important in understanding the sensitivity of humor, but also its extreme importance. As
she previously mentioned, humor can accompany vulnerability in individuals. Given the
nature of this space, it is important that humor is used in order to enhance vulnerability,
never dismiss it. In relationally driven services, like a hotel front desk, it is pressing for
Shannon was drawn to use humor in her daily life because she believed it created
something more in the trivial and mundane tasks done on a daily basis. By using humor,
and creating laughter, it created a pivotal turn in the interaction. What was once
something as simple as checking someone out of their hotel room could be the best part
of someones day if it is met with humor. Shannon was passionate about using humor in
her classroom and workplace as a means of connection because she believed in the power
of laughter. Humor invites a different perspective to the conversation and can carve a
Discussion
their relationships, specifically within initial contact of meeting a person. Humor was
used to engage and disarm tensions that are typically found when meeting a new person
such as a roommate, co-worker, mutual friend, or customer. Those who used humor in
the workplace generally received positive feedback and were able to have continual
conversation with those they were assisting. Within their developed relationships such as
close friends or family, they described their use of humor as a means to communicate
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things they could not normally say to others. It gave them the courage to have a
allows space for connection because it acts as a buffer for confrontation, an aid for
Theoretical Implications
Humor contributes to filling the space that is created by the inability to communicate
used to disarm naturally occurring social tensions that are apart of every day
conversations and find connection points with others in order to continue to engage in
Practical Implications
a baby when we make it laugh, or why we enjoy turning on our favorite comedy
television series week after week. Humor is everywhere. The practical implications for
this research reveal the need for understanding the development of humor. It creates
common ground. There are three areas in which practical implications could be applied:
In social contexts, humor is used for the enjoyment of conversation and can
create shared experiences through stories and laughter that are vital to the health of
types of confrontations are left unspoken due to fear, but humor provides the
courage to say things that would not normally be said and allows for a space of open
communication.
Humor can be applied to the workplace through integration into job orientation
and training curriculums. In encouraging the use of humor within the employees, both
internal and external communications may benefit from the ability to interact more
openly and personably. Customer service geared jobs may consider finding ways to
In education, humor is a device that can be used by teachers as a way to ease the
tension built from the natural disconnect between students and faculty. Students may feel
less threatened by a teacher, and teachers may feel more connected to their students
stories when both parties are given a voice through humorous communication. Humor
can create the space needed for students to feel connected in the classroom and in return
allows them to feel more comfortable to ask questions and receive help in situations
With the intention that this study will validate findings of the link between humor
and interpersonal connection, there are some likely limitations that will occur during the
course of the study. Limitations may begin with individuals with more aggressive humor
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styles; they may connect with others of similar humor styles, but may be more likely to
cause feelings of anxiety and detachment in their partners (Howland & Simpson, 2013).
Although those who participated in this survey agreed they felt connected to their current
communities, given the nature of the small number of interviews and data collection,
others might find it difficult to answer questions regarding their relationships. Many
might also find it challenging to answer relationships about conflict and relationship
Future research may conduct studies on the nature of conflict and humor, or
additional studies could relate to corporate settings and a means of humor in transactional
this study found data that may support a connection between humor and the state of love.
Participants stated many times they found their love for their friends resulted in finding
connection between students and teachers; humor may be a key in providing stronger
Conclusion
This study demonstrates that humor can be used in communication with two key
positive derivatives: 1) Humor creates a space for messages that might otherwise be too
difficult to share, therefore creating a door for connection that might not have been
opened if the space had not been given. 2) Humor is a dominant trait in initial connection
and is a crux that is built upon throughout the longevity of the relationship. The
participants identified how using humor became a vehicle for bridging conversations. It is
dangerous when humor is used to hurt or disable others from participating in the
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conversation. This study shows the benefit of incorporating humor language into spaces
relationships can have a more robust sense of connection. The role of humor in
within relationships. Through the vehicle of humor, relationships have the power to form
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topic
of
humor
and
vulnerability.
I
understand
that
the
general
purposes
of
the
research
are
to
inform
interviewees
of
their
humor
styles,
to
record
data
that
will
help
the
research,
and
collect
results
for
analysis
and
that
I
will
be
asked
to
participate
in
an
interview
and
take
a
short
assessment
test
online,
and
that
the
approximate
total
time
of
my
involvement
will
be
25
minutes.
The
potential
benefits
of
the
study
are
understanding
the
affect
one
sense
of
humor
has
on
interpersonal
relationships
and
allow
for
better
understanding
of
ones
self
and
interaction
with
others.
I
am
aware
that
I
may
choose
not
to
answer
any
questions
that
I
find
embarrassing
or
offensive.
I
understand
that
my
interview
will
be
recorded
(audio)
for
research
purposes
only
and
will
remain
confidential
from
public
use.
I
understand
that
my
participation
is
voluntary
and
that
I
may
refuse
to
participate
or
discontinue
my
participation
at
any
time
without
penalty
or
loss
of
benefits
to
which
I
am
otherwise
entitled.
I
understand
that
if,
after
my
participation,
I
experience
any
undue
anxiety
or
stress
or
have
questions
about
the
research
or
my
rights
as
a
participant,
that
may
have
been
provoked
by
the
experience,
____________________
will
be
available
for
consultation,
and
will
also
be
available
to
provide
direction
regarding
medical
assistance
in
the
unlikely
event
of
physical
injury
incurred
during
participation
in
the
research.
(Appendix B)
DEMOGRAPHIC INFORMATION
The following questions on this form are optional. All the information you
provide will remain strictly confidential, and your name and demographic information
will be kept separate from your responses. Only the researcher will have access to your
individual data and any reports generated as a result of this study will use pseudonyms to
protect your identity
Name: _________________________________________
_
Job Description: ___________________________
What is the highest level of education you have completed? (Check one of the following)
_____Some High School
_____High School Graduate
_____Some College
_____Trade/Technical/Vocational Training
_____College Graduate
_____Some Postgraduate Work
_____Post Graduate Degree.
(Appendix
C)
INTERVIEW SCRIPTS
The following questions will be used as part of a one-on-one interview with the
researcher and interviewee. The questions are tailored to involve minimal risk to the
psychology health of the interviewee and keep the identity of those in question protected.
I.
When
I
say
close
friendships
(and
those
people
who
come
to
mind)
what
characteristics
stand
out
to
you
the
most
about
those
relationships?
A.
How
did
you
meet
most
of
those
friends?
B.
What
are
[general]
activities
you
and
your
friends
do
together?
C.
What
are
traits
you
admire
most
about
your
friends?
II.
What
do
you
believe
the
definition
of
the
words,
connectedness
and
vulnerability
are
and
do
you
believe
those
definitions
describe
the
current
nature
of
your
close
friendships?
A.
What
elements
must
be
present
to
make
you
feel
apart
of
community?
III.
What
are
ways
you
use
your
sense
of
humor?
Are
you
the
funny
friend
or
does
someone
else
share
that
role?
A.
How
is
humor
used
within
your
group
of
friends?
(Movies,
conversation,
etc.)
B.
How
do
you
react
when
humor
is
used
when
talking
about
serious
issues?
(Give
example)
C.
What
are
positive
ways
you
believe
you
use
your
sense
of
humor
and
what
are
negative
ways?
Humor
and
Connection
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IV.
Do
you
remember
a
time(s)
in
your
life
that
required
for
you
to
be
open
about
difficult
situations
you
were
facing?
If
so,
please
describe
these
situations
in
whatever
way
you
feel
comfortable.
A.
Was
there
hesitation?
B.
What
were
results
of
that
friendship
after
those
conversations?
(Did
you
feel
closer,
further,
or
nothing?)
V.
Do
you
have
any
closing
thoughts
or
additional
stories
regarding
the
information
weve
discussed?
Do
you
have
any
questions
for
me?