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Rasulullah S.A.W. telah bersabda yang bermaksud : "Sesiapa yang memelihara solat,
maka sholat itu sebagai cahaya baginya, petunjuk dan jalan selamat dan barangsiapa
yang tidak memelihara sholat, maka sesungguhnya solat itu tidak menjadi cahaya, dan
tidak juga menjadi petunjuk dan jalan selamat baginya." (Tabyinul Mahaarim)
Rasulullah S.A.W telah bersabda bahawa :
"10 orang solatnya tidak diterima oleh Allah S.W.T, antaranya :
Sabda Rasulullah S.A.W yang bermaksud : "Barang siapa yang sholatnya itu tidak
dapat menahannya dari melakukan perbuatan keji dan mungkar, maka sesungguhnya
sholatnya itu hanya menambahkan kemurkaan Allah S.W.T dan jauh dari Allah."
Hassan r.a berkata : "Kalau sholat kamu itu tidak dapat menahan kamu dari melakukan
perbuatan mungkar dan keji, maka sesungguhnya kamu dianggap orang yang tidak
mengerjakan sholat. Dan pada hari kiamat nanti sholatmu itu akan dilemparkan semula
ke arah mukamu seperti satu bungkusan kain tebal yang buruk."
Saya belajar
Apa yang saya anggap terbaik, bukan tentu yang terbaik dariNya.
Dan sebaliknya, yang terbaik dariNya belum tentu kita senangi.
Teruslah bersyukur kepadaNya atas semua nikmat dan karuniaNya.
Manusia hanya dapat terus berdoa dan berusaha untuk mendapat
yang terbaik dariNya
Saya belajar
Seberat apa pun cobaan yang diberikan olehNya, pada akhirnya
akan membuat kita menjadi manusia yang lebih bertanggung jawab dan berguna.
Syukurilah seluruh anugerahNya dengan hati ikhlas dan tulus.
Everything happens, happens 4 a reasons.
Saya belajar
Bahwa kedewasaan itu lebih berkaitan dengan berapa banyak
pengalaman yang kita miliki dan apa yang kita pelajari dari pengalaman
tersebut,
dan kurang berkaitan dengan telah berapa tahun usia kita.
Saya belajar
Walaupun kita berpikir tidak ada lagi yang dapat kita berikan dan lakukan,
ketika seorang teman kesusahan dan membutuhkan kita, kita akan
selalu menemukan kekuatan dan jalan untuk terus menolong.
Saya belajar
Jangan membandingkan diri sendiri dan kesusahan kita dengan orang lain.
Saya belajar
Bahwa latar belakang & lingkungan mempengaruhi pribadi saya,
tapi kita tetap bertanggung jawab & menentukan masa depan kita sendiri.
Saya belajar
Bahwa saya harus bertanggung jawab atas apa yang telah saya lakukan,
tidak peduli bagaimana perasaan kita.
Saya belajar
Bahwa saya punya hak untuk marah, tetapi itu bukan berarti saya
dapat berlaku sesuka hati saya tanpa memikirkan orang lain.
Saya belajar
Bahwa saya harus memilih apakah menguasai sikap dan emosi atau sikap
dan emosi itu yang menguasai diri saya...
Saya belajar
Bahwa tidaklah penting apa yang saya miliki, tapi yang penting
adalah siapa saya ini sebenarnya....
Saya belajar
Jangan menilai orang dari penampilannya saja, itu bisa menipu.
Bicara dan kenalilah orang tersebut lebih mendalam.
Setiap orang memiliki kelebihan dan kebaikannya masing-masing,
meskipun tidak ada orang yang sempurna di dunia.
Saya belajar
Di saat susah lebih terlihat mana teman sejati dan bukan.
Saya belajar
Bahwa dua manusia dapat melihat sebuah benda yang sama, tapi
kadang dari sudut pandang yang berbeda....
Saya belajar
Bahwa saya tidak dapat merubah orang yg saya sayangi, tapi semua itu
tergantung dari diri mereka sendiri....
Saya belajar
Bahwa butuh waktu bertahun-tahun untuk membangun kepercayaan dan
hanya beberapa saat saja untuk menghancurkannya...
Saya belajar
Bahwa tidak masalah berapa buruknya patah hati itu, dunia tidak pernah
berhenti hanya gara-gara kesedihan saya...
Saya belajar
Hanya karena 2 orang berbeda pendapat dan tidak terlihat mesra,
bukan berarti mereka tidak saling menyayangi, mencintai & setia.
Dan hanya karena mereka selalu sependapat dan terlihat mesra,
bukan berarti mereka selalu saling menyayangi, Mencintai & saling setia.
Saya belajar
Bahwa persahabatan sejati senantiasa bertumbuh walau dipisahkan
oleh jarak yang jauh. Beberapa diantaranya melahirkan cinta sejati...
Saya belajar
Bahwa jika seseorang tidak menunjukkan perhatian seperti yang
saya inginkan, bukan berarti bahwa dia tidak menyayangi saya....
Saya belajar
Bahwa saya tidak dapat memaksa orang lain menyayangi saya.
Saya hanya dapat menunjukkan & melakukan sesuatu untuk orang
yang saya sayangi... selanjutnya terserah mereka.
1. Gagal itu tidaklah sama dengan menjadi pecundang. Seseorang bisa saja sering
gagal namun tetap bukan seorang pecundang.
2. Gagal tidaklah memalukan seperti yang dikira semua orang. Berbuat salah
tidaklah lebih daripada bergabung dengan umat manusia.
4. Sesuatu yang layak itu tak pernah tercapai tanpa resiko gagal. Orang yang
meresikokan segalanya untuk mencoba mencapai sesuatu yang benar2 layak lalu gagal
sama sekali bukanlah pecundang yang memalukan.
5. Kegagalan adalah persiapan alami untuk meraih sukses Walaupun tampaknya aneh,
sukses itu lebih sulit dijalani dengan sukses ketimbang kegagalan.
6. Setiap kegagalan disertai dengan kemungkinan2 akan sesuatu yang lebih besar.
Analisalah kegagalan dari sudut manapun, maka akan anda temukan benih2 untuk
mengubah kegagalan itu menjadi sukses.
7. Adalah terpulang pada anda untuk menyikapi kegagalan2 dalam kehidupan anda.
Kegagalan itu bisa menjadi berkat atau kutuk, tergantung pada reaksi atau respons
masing2 individu terhadapnya.
(Dale Galloway)
Semoga bermanfaat
Pergaulan yang asli adalah pergaulan dari hati ke hati yang penuh keikhlasan, yang
insya Allah akan terasa sangat indah dan menyenangkan. Pergaulan yang penuh
rekayasa dan tipu daya demi kepentingan yang bernilai rendah tidak akan pernah
langgeng dan cenderung menjadi masalah.
d. Hindari membandingkan
Jangan pernah dengan sengaja membandingkan jasa, kebaikan, penamplan, harta,
kedudukan seseorang sehingga yang mendengarnya merasa dirinya tidak berharga,
rendah atau merasa terhina.
j. Jangan menertawakannya
Sebagian besar dari sikap menertawakan seseorang adalah karena kekurangannnya,
baik sikap, penampilan, bentuk rupa, ucapan dan lain sebagainya, dan ingatlah bahwa
tertawa yang tidak pada tempatnya serta berlebihan akan mengundang rasa sakit hati.
k. Hati-hati dengan penampilan, bau badan dan bau mulut
Tidak ada salahnya kita selalu mengontrol penampilan, bau badan atau mulut
kita, karena penampilan atau bau badan yang tidak segar akan membuat orang lain
merasa terusik kenyamanannya, dan cenderung ingin menghindari kita.
b. Senyum tulus
Rasulullah senantiasa tersenyum manis sekali dan ini sangat menyenangkan bagi
siapapun yang menatapnya. Senyum adalah sedekah, senyuman yang tulus memiliki daya
sentuh yang dalam ke dalam lubuk hati siapapun, senyum adalah nikmat Allah yang
besar bagi manusia yang mencintai kebaikan. Senyum tidak dimiliki oleh orang-orang
yang keji, sombong, angkuh, dan orang yang busuk hati.
f. Senangkan perasaannya
Pujilah dengan tulus dan tepat terhadap sesuatu yang layak dipuji sambil kita
kaitkan dengan kebesaran Allah sehingga yang dipuji pun teringat akan asal muasal
nikmat yang diraihnya, nyatakan terima kasih dan do?akan. Hal ini akan membuatnya
merasa bahagia. Dan ingat jangan pernah kikir untuk berterima kasih.
h. Maafkan kesalahannya
Jadilah pemaaf yang lapang dan tulus terhadap kekurangan dan kesalahan orang
lain kepada kita, karena hal ini akan membuat bahagia dan senang siapapun yang
pernah melakukan kekhilafan terhadap kita, dan tentu hal ini pun akan mengangkat
citra kita dihatinya.
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@1. SECRET
Secret1
Definition:
Hidden; concealed; as, secret treasure; secretp lans; asecretvow.
Secret2
Definition:
Withdraw from general intercourse or notice;in retirement or secrecy; secluded.
Secret3
Definition:
Faithful to a secret; not inclined to divulge or betray confidence; secretive.
Secret4
Definition:
Separate; distinct.
Secret5
Definition:
Something studiously concealed; a thing kept from general knowledge; what is not
revealed, or not to berevealed.
Secret6
Definition:
A thing not discovered; what is unknown or unexplained; a mystery.
Secret7
Definition:
The parts which modesty and propriety require to be concealed; the genital organs.
Secret8
Definition:
Tokeep secret.
secret9
Definition:
something that baffles understanding and cannot be explained; "how it got out is a
mystery"; "it remains one of nature's secrets"
secret10
Definition:
information known only to a special group; "the secret of Cajun cooking"
secret11
Definition:
something that should remain hidden from others especially information that is not
to be passed on); "the combination to the safe was a secret"; "he tried to keep his
drinking a secret"
secret12
Definition:
not openly made known;"a secret marriage";"a secret bride"
secret13
Definition:
the next tohighest level of official classification for documents
secret14
Definition:
having an import not apparent to the senses nor obvious to the intelligence; beyond
ordinary understanding; "mysterious symbols";"the mystical style of Blake";
"occultlore"; "the secret learning of the ancients"
secret15
Definition:
not expressed; "secret (or private) thoughts"
secret16
Definition:
conducted with or marked by hidden aims or methods; "clandestine intelligence
operations"; "cloak-and-dagger activities behind enemy lines"; "hole-and-corner
intrigue"; "secret missions"; "a secret agent"; "secret sales of arms";
"surreptitious mobilizati
secret17
Definition:
indulging only covertly; "a closet alcoholic"; "closet liberals"
secret18
Definition:
communicated covertly; "their a secret signal was a wink"; "secret messages"
secret19
Definition:
(of information )given inconfidence or insecret; "closet information"; "this
arrangement must be kept confidential"; "their secret communications"
secret20
Definition:
hidden from general view or use; "a privy place to rest and think"; "a secluded
romantic spot";"a secret garden"
secret21
Definition:
designed to elude detection; "a hidden room or place of concealment such as a
priest hole"; "a secret passage"; "the secret compartment in the desk"
secret22
Definition:
not open or public; kept private or not revealed;" a secret formula"; "secret
ingredients"; "secret talks"
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# Dictionary : secret
> adj.
1. Kept hidden from knowledge or view; concealed.
2. Dependably discreet.
3. Operating in a hidden or confidential manner:a secret agent.
4. Not expressed; inward:their secret thoughts.
5. Not frequented; secluded:wandered about the secret byways of Paris.
6. Known or shared only by the initiated:secret rites.
7. Beyond ordinary understanding; mysterious.
8. Containing information, the unauthorized disclosure of which poses a grave
threat to national security.
> noun.
1. Something kept hidden from others or known only to oneself or to a few.
2. Something that remains beyond understanding or explanation; a mystery.
3. A method or formula on which success is based:The secret of this dish is in the
sauce.
4. SecretA variable prayer said after the Offertory and before the Preface in the
Mass.
# Thesaurus : Secret
> adjective
1. Concealed from view:hidden,screened,secluded.Seeshow/hide.
2. Existing or operating in a way so as to ensure complete concealment and
confidentiality:clandestine,cloak-and-dagger,covert,huggermugger,sub
rosa,undercover.Informalhush-hush.Idioms:under wraps.Seeshow/hide.
3. Known about by very few:auricular,confidential,inside,private.Informalhush-
hush.Seeshow/hide.
> noun
A means or method of entering into or achieving something desirable: formula, key,
route. Informalticket. Seemeans.
# Antonyms : Secret
> adj
Definition: hidden, unrevealed
Antonyms: clear, defined, explicit, forthright, honest, known, open, public,
revealed, unconcealed,
# visible
> adj
Definition: underhand, clandestine
Antonyms: aboveboard, known, legal, legitimate, overt, public
> noun
Definition: something kept hidden, unrevealed
Antonyms: known, public knowledge, revelation
> noun.
something that is kept or meant to be kept unknown or unseen by others: a state
secret.
The secret has a positive, necessary side and a negative, destructive side. Freud
referred to it periodically throughout his work, but gave it a central place that
anticipated his later research in "The Uncanny" (1919h). In 1892 the term appeared
in his writings with an analconnotationwhenever it brought to mind "foul words,
those secrets we all know, knowledge of which we forceourselvesto hide from others"
("A Case of Successful Treatment by Hypnotism" (1892-93a)). The secret was then
associated withunhealthyobsessions in the neuro-psychoses of defense (1894a). In
1900, inThe Interpretation of Dreams(1900a), Freud interpreted dreams
ofexhibitionismas a desire to "keep a secret."
In his discussion of Dora's secret,masturbation, Freud wrote, "He who has eyes to
see and ears to hear knows that mortals cannot keep any secret" (1905e [1901]). In
1906, in "Psycho-Analysis and the Establishment of Facts in Legal Proceedings,"
(1906c), Freud distinguished the criminal's conscious secret from the unconscious
secret of the hysteric. In "Infantile Sexual Theories" (1908c), he demonstrated the
importance of the parents' lying andsecrecyregarding the question of the child's
origins, which allows the infant to access the secret in turn. "Children, once they
have been deceived (thestorktheory) . . . begin to suspect that there is something
hidden that grownups keep for themselves and for this reason they surround their
later research in secrecy." The parents' secret is an enigmatic message triggering
the birth of thinking in the infant.
In 1919, in his article "The Uncanny" (1919h), Freud gave considerable space to
secrets and their transmission. He discussed thevarious meanings of the secret and
its connections with the familiar, meetings, love affairs, sin, intimate organs,
commodes, andoubliettes. He also quotes Friedrich Schelling, who writes: "'We
callunheimlichanything that must remain secret and which becomes
manifest.'Heimlichalso designates a 'place without a ghost.'" Freud goes on to
study the theme of the double, and its analysis strangely anticipates the ideas of
Nicolas Abraham and Maria Torok on the phantom, thecrypt, and theintrapsychiccave,
and all the later work on the transmission of the secret across generations:
"Doubling of the ego, splitting of the ego, substitution of the ego?the constant
return of the similar,repetitionof the same traits, characteristics, criminal acts,
even the same names in several successive generations."
Abraham and Torok make an analogy between the work of the phantom and the work of
the death drive, both working in silence without being mediated in words. In their
article, "De la topic r?alitaire: Notations sur une m?tapsychologie du secret,"
they define the phantom as "aformation of the unconscious that is unique in never
having been conscious. It is a result of the transition, whose method remains to be
determined, from the parents' unconscious to the child's unconscious." They add
that the phantom is the "work in the unconscious of another'sinadmissiblesecret."
The phantoms that haunt the living are "the holes left in us by the secrets of
others." For these authors the phantom is associated with a
preservativerepressionthat fixes,immobilizes, and "the present past forms a block
of buried reality,incapableof coming back to life without crumbling into dust."
After 1970 research on the role of the secret and non-symbolization in alienating
transgenerational transmission increased. Clinical work increasingly helped
illuminate concepts such as non-transmission, the transmission of theinert(with
Micheline Enriquez and the heritage ofpsychosis), the leaping of generations and
alienating unconscious identification (Alain de Mijolla, Hayd?e Faimberg), and
failed blockedmourning(Jean Cournut). Incorporation, encryption, psychic
fossilization, andunfulfilledmourning are reflections of the work of the negative
that is active in the transmission of secrets across several generations. The work
of Daniel Stern on affective tuning may, perhaps, serve as anexplanatorylink to
account for this intergenerational psychic transmission, which continues to remain
enigmatic.
Systemic family therapy is also relevant to secrets and their relation to family
myths. The oedipal myth is already a history ofa family secret. In families it is
guilt that creates secrets and all thepathogenicrules that follow from them. Many
American family therapists have shown that family secrets (divorce, suicide,
madness,incest) can mask animplicitnarcissistic wound, adevaluationof self image
and family image leading to abnormal behavior in a descendant.
We must not forget that our psychic life can only develop against a background that
remains silent, secret?the secret Self of which Winnicott speaks. And along with
negative and positive secrets, living transmissions exist alongside deadly
transmissions ofthe secret.
> Bibliography
1. Abraham, Nicolas, and Torok, Maria. (1994).The shell and the kernel. Chicago:
University of Chicago Press. (Original work published 1971)
2. Faimberg, Hayde?e. (1988).? l'?coute du t?lescopage des generations: pertinence
psychanalytique du concept.Topique,42, 223-238.
3. Freud, Sigmund. (1919h). The "uncanny."SE, 17: 217-256.
4. Ka?s, Ren?. (1993). "Introduction au concept de la transmission psychique dans
la pens?e de Freud," in R. Ka?s et al.,Transmission de la vie psychique entre g?n?
rations, Paris: Dunod.
5. Mijolla, Alain de. (1982). En guise d'ouverture . . . InPsychanalyse et musique,
Paris: Les Belles Lettres.
6. ??. (1987). Unconscious identification fantasies and
familyprehistory.International Journal of Psychoanalysis, 68, 397-403.
Quotes:
1. "Every thing secret degenerates, even the administration of justice; nothing is
safe that does not show how it can bear discussion and publicity."
by-Lord Acton
2. "Our true history is scarcely ever deciphered by others. The chief part of the
drama is a monologue, or rather an intimate debatebetween God, our conscience, and
ourselves. Tears, grieves, depressions, disappointments, irritations, good and evil
thoughts, decisions, uncertainties, deliberations --all these belong to our secret,
and are almost all incommunicable and intransmissible,even when we try to speak of
them, and even when we write them down."
by-Henri Frederic Amiel
3. "You know there are no secrets in America. It's quite different in England,
where people think of a secret as a shared relation between two people."
by-W. H. Auden
4. "To know that one has a secret is to know half the secret itself."
by-Henry Ward Beecher
6. "What one hides is worth neither more nor less than what one finds. And what one
hides from oneself is worth neither more nor less than what one allows others to
find."
by-Andre Breton
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@2. TECHNIQUE
Dictionary: tech?nique??(tek-nek')
n.
1. The systematic procedure by which a complex or scientific task is accomplished.
2. alsotech?nic(tek'nik)
a. The way in which the fundamentals, as of an artistic work, are handled.
b. Skill or command in handling such fundamentals. See synonyms atart1.
noun
1. A method used in dealing with something:approach,attack,course,line,modus
operandi, plan, procedure, tack. Seemeans.
noun
1.a skillful and detailed method of executing procedures to accomplish a desired
result.2.the method of performance of manipulation in any art; the
termstechniqueandtechnicare used synonymously, but the wordtechniquepertains more
to the artistic skill involved.
2. "The moment a man begins to talk about technique that's proof that he is fresh
out of ideas."
by-Raymond Chandler
3. "To focus on technique is like cramming your way through school. You sometimes
get by, perhaps even get good grades, but if you don't pay the price day in and day
out, you'll never achieve true mastery of the subjects you study or develop an
educated mind."
by-Stephen R. Covey
4. "The more technique you have, the less you have to worry about it. The more
technique there is, the less there is."
by-Pablo Picasso
5. "Technique is the test of sincerity. If a thing isn't worth getting the
technique to say, it is of inferior value."
by-Ezra Pound
6. "Technique is noticed most markedly in the case of those who have not mastered
it."
by-Leon Trotsky
#Wikipedia: Technique
Atechnique is a procedure used to accomplish a specific activity or task:
Technology, the study of or a collection of techniques
Skill, the ability to perform a task
Scientific technique, any systematic method to obtain information of a scientific
nature
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