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Poetic shekels bring


rabbinic opposition
In Israel, its hard to be a bill.
Take, for example, the new
50 shekel bill that entered cir-
culation last week. It has come
under attack from some Ortho-
dox Jews, because the Hebrew Charedi singer hides his straying eyes
poet it sports was married to a
An ultra-Orthodox singer perform- decision, so as not to sit with his eyes
Christian.
ing before a women-only audience open in front of the dancing women.
Not that the 20 or 100 shekel
covered his eyes with masking tape in Then he removed the tape and con-
bills issued last month had it
the middle of his concert in order not tinued the concert normally.
much easier. They were report-
to see audience members who were The act was considered unusual,
edly greeted with dismay by
dancing in front of the stage. even among the ultra-Orthodox who
some Orthodox Jews because
Yonatan Razel was playing his practice strict adherence to mod-
the Hebrew poets they portray
keyboard and singing at Jerusalems esty laws. There have not been other
are female.
International Conference Center on incidents of charedi singers covering
Benzion Mutzafi, an influential
Sunday night when he put the tape their eyes in this way in front of the
Sephardic rabbi, laid down the
over his eyes during one song. Video all-female crowd.
law with a demonstration. As the
of the eye-taping was played on Ha- Galia Wolloch, president of Israeli
ultra-Orthodox news site Kikar
dashot television news. womens rights organization Naamat,
HaShabat reported, Rabbi Mut-
Razel is an American-born musi- slammed the singer for his extreme
zafi pulled a 50 shekel bill from
cian, and one of the most popular behavior.
his pocket, and showed his stu-
ultra-Orthodox performers in Israel. How far will this ostensibly reli-
dents how he had folded it to obscure become a symbol in the State of Israel.
He recently released his third album. gious extremism go? she wrote on
the visage of Shaul Tchernichovsky. Tchernichovsky was born in 1875, in
An organizer of the concert, which Facebook. And who are the religious
After one of his students asked for a what is now Ukraine, and immigrated
was part of a festival of ultra-Or- authorities who encourage this bi-
fuller explanation for the ban, the rabbi to Palestine in 1931. He was a physician,
thodox music for women, said that zarre behavior?
a senior adjudicator of Jewish law worked for the Tel Aviv school system,
Razel covered his eyes for a few Razels representative downplayed
in the Sephardic community wrote, was active in writers organizations, and
minutes. the incident.
As regards the illustrated image: It is died in 1943. Some of his poems were
The scene in which he is seen to Razel wants to say that he has
known he [Tchernichovsky] was mar- popularized by singers like Shlomo Art-
be covering his eyes took place for appeared regularly for years before
ried to a devout Christian woman who zi, who composed a tune for Omrim
only a few minutes, when there were women and respects them, and his
every Sunday would pray in church. Yeshna Eretz, and Miki Gavrielov, who
circles of women dancing at the foot actions yesterday should not be given
They say that at the time, the late did the same for Hoy Eretz Moladedi.
of the stage, the spokesman told the any other significance, he told Ynet.
Rabbi [Abraham Isaac] Kook the When the Tchernichovsky 50 shekel
Ynet news site. It was his personal RENEE GHERT-ZAND/TIMES OF ISRAEL
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Tchernichovsky was indeed an
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MARCH 8,
Noshes
No matter how much money hes got, hes still
going to the same place that people who
dont recognize God and morality and accept his
salvation are going. And thats not a good place.
Roy Moore, the Alabama Republican candidate for
Senate, about Jewish philanthropist George Soros.

THE GOLDBERGS:

New episode to
focus on Chanukah
The title family of abdicated. This episode
The Goldbergs uses recently released
TV show didnt official papers that show
come out as Jewish until how deeply Edward and
a Chanukah episode in Wallis were connected to George Segal Peter Morgan
2015 the series 57th the Nazis and how
episode. It was sort of disparaging Edward was
worth the wait, because of his brother, Elizabeths
this well-written episode father, who had to take Dave Franco and James Franco in a scene from
cogently explored the the throne a position The Disaster Artist
problems of being for which he was ill-pre-
Jewish during the pared when Ed-
Christmas season.
Chanukah is at the center
ward abdicated.
Knowing all this, you A pretty good movie
of the new Goldbergs
episode, airing at 8 p.m.
can understand why
the rest of the British
about a bad movie
on Wednesday, Dec. 13, royal family was so cold
The Disaster Artist depicts the early friendship of
on ABC. Main plot: A toward Edward and Wal-
competition about who lis for decades after the Greg Sestero and Tommy Wiseau, the actors behind
will throw the best abdication. Their anger Glenn Thrush Matt Lauer the 2003 cult film The Room, which often is hailed
Chanukah party. Theres was about much more as the Citizen Kane of bad movies. Disaster follows
a subplot involving Pops than an inappropriate The Crown shows him smart and funny. Cohen the troubled making of The Room, and Sestero and
(GEORGE SEGAL, 83) marriage. By the way, leaving her nasty notes, grew up in Millburn. Wiseaus careers after its surprising success. (Opens
advising his grandson to Edward frequently made including one that read: Well, even the New December 8.)
become popular by anti-Semitic remarks and You look like a Jew- York Times and
JAMES FRANCO, 39, directed Artist, and he plays
entering a school talent blamed the war on Roo- ish manicurist and I USA Today fell for
show and then realizing sevelt and the Jews. (In hate you. widespread internet Wiseau. His brother, DAVE FRANCO, 32, plays Sestero.
the boy cant sing. depth: watch Edward: This years Jeop- misinformation that SETH ROGEN, 35, ALISON BRIE, 34 (Dave Francos
The second season The Nazi King docu- ardy! Tournament Meghan Markle, now the real-life wife), and ARI GRAYNOR, 34 (Im Dying up
of The Crown will mentary on Netflix). of Champions fiance of Prince Harry, Here on HBO) are in supporting roles. Advance reviews
begin streaming on I suspected that ended with a very has a Jewish father. The are mostly very positive. Still, this is a quirky movie
Friday, December 8, on Crown creator PETER exciting finale on Novem- Times corrected itself about a quirky movie, so its not for everyone. N.B.
Netflix. Some people MORGAN, 54, who writes ber 17 as AUSTIN (Nov. 28) the same day
criticized the first season most of the scripts, Buzzy COHEN, 32, as it made its mistake.
for showing Edward VIII, wouldnt let Edward off won, coming from way This is Markles back-
who abdicated in 1936 to the hook. His late father, behind in the second half ground, according to the Her mother is African- a few of the celebs
marry American divorcee ARTHUR MORGEN- of the show. He is a Times: born Protestant American. I suspect the recently fired or sus-
Wallis Simpson, as a rath- THAU, was a German music company execu- (but not baptized), she Jewish story originated pended for sexual
er benign figure. In Jew who fled the Nazis. tive and his father-in-law went to a Catholic girls in the fact that her harassment: Charlie Rose
October, British history (His mother was a Pol- is MOSHE LEVIN, a school and intends to be ex-husband, TREVOR isnt Jewish; NY Times
experts who had seen ish Catholic woman who beloved, recently retired baptized into the Church ENGELSON, is Jewish, reporter GLENN
season 2 held a panel fled the Soviets.) San Francisco rabbi. of England before and their wedding, THRUSH is, and MATT
discussion, where they Sad to say: Princess Levin told the San marrying Harry. Her reports said, contained LAUER is the son of a
disclosed that a second Margarets husband, Francisco Jewish paper: father is of varied Jewish elements. Jewish father and a
season episode will focus Anthony Armstrong- I always knew he was European ancestry, Readers wonder, I non-Jewish mother. He
on Edwards dealings Jones, is revealed to be smart and funny, but including German and know: so heres the wasnt raised in any faith.
with the Nazis after he a bigoted, cruel bully. didnt know he was that Irish (but not Jewish). background of just N.B.

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Anti-Semitism from faculty members leaves Rutgers students uneasy
LARRY YUDELSON

T
alia Schabes of Englewood is
a junior at Rutgers University,
where she is studying nutrition
and Jewish studies. She hopes
to go to medical school.
She worries about a friend of hers who
is majoring in food science there.
What if the friend wants to register
for a course in food microbiology next
semester?
That friend would have to spend Tues-
day and Thursday afternoons in the class-
room of Dr. Michael Chikindas, one of the
experts in microbiology in the food sci-
ence department at Rutgers School of
Environmental and Biological Science
and founder of the journal Probiotics and
Antimicrobial Proteins.
Professor Chikindas also has a Jewish Dr. Michael Chikindas Dr. Mazen Adi Dr. Jasbir Puar
problem.
In October, the Israellycool blog discov- Should I knew [sic] that sharing these petition asking that he be fired garnered
ered that Dr. Chikindas repeatedly posted freely available pictures questioning more than 5,000 signatures.
anti-Semitic content to Facebook. There Zionism on possible racist actions can Meanwhile, Ms. Schabes worries what
was a cartoon with a hook-nosed Jew be seen as anti-Semitic, I would never would happen if her friend were to take
proclaiming I am Gods chosen people do it, Dr. Chikindas said. I strictly sep- Dr. Chikindas course.
you filthy goyim. There was a cartoon arate anti-Semitism from intolerance to Im nervous for her, Ms. Schabes
in which hook-nosed Jews are blamed Zionism. said. Its nerve racking for Jewish stu-
for the Federal Reserve, Internet spying, Rutgers University responded with dents to enter a classroom and worry
cancer, and sex trafficking, among other a statement condemning all acts and about being discriminated against.
things. There were anti-gay posts, and a statements of bigotry, racism, anti-Sem- But Dr. Chikindas is not the only one of
post questioning whether six million Jews itism and white supremacy, which have Rutgers 8,000 faculty members who is
were killed in the Holocaust. Dr. Chikin- no place in our society or on campus. making Jewish students there uncomfort-
das even managed to blame Jews for the All of the members of our community, able. The school has nearly 70,000 stu-
Armenian genocide. including faculty and staff, are free to dents, and Jewish groups estimate that
After his posts first were reported, express their viewpoints in public forums about 7,000 are Jewish. Most of them
Dr. Chikindas denied that he was anti- as private citizens, the statement contin- are at the schools main campus in New
Semitic. He told Algemeiner that he once ued. Yet at Rutgers University we must Brunswick.
was married to a Jewish woman and that also foster an environment free from dis- Dr. Jasbir Puar is an associate profes-
one quarter of his ancestry was Jewish. crimination, as articulated in our policy sor of womens and gender studies at
He then told reporters that his Facebook prohibiting discrimination. Rutgers School of Arts and Science. She
page had been hacked. He then deleted The university announced an investi- already had come into the Jewish public
the page. gation into whether Dr. Chikindas had eye for her anti-Israel positions, deliv-
He insisted to a radio station, NJ 101.5, crossed the line. So far, there has been ered in academic venues. They include
that he is anti-Zionist, not anti-Semitic. no word on the investigation. A student a talk in Vassar College in 2016, where render it visible through containment in
she put forward the idea that a comparative frame, but to understand
young Palestinian men were intensifications of biopolitical modes of
mined for organs for scientific control that are continuous and reso-
research. nant with historical modes and, indeed,
She has now come under across contemporary geopolitical spaces.
renewed focus; last month her Palestine in this sense provides an epis-
third book, The Right to Maim: temological blueprint, one that opens up
Debility, Capacity, Disability, the connective tissue between regions,
was published by the respected regimes of power, sites of knowledge pro-
Duke University Press. The book duction, historical excavations, and soli-
brings together theories of dis- darity struggles for liberation.
ability studies with a pro-Pales- And along the way she charges Israel
tinian perspective on the 2014 with a deliberate policy of debilitating
war in Gaza. The book describes and crippling Palestinians.
her project as an anti-Zionist Yet it is a third faculty member who has
hermeneutic that seeks neither Ms. Schabes putting up flyers on campus
to exceptionalize Palestine nor to SEE RUTGERS PAGE 8

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he didnt address Professor Adi at all,


Rutgers she said. The latest remarks addressed
FROM PAGE 6
only Michael Chikindas and quite quickly
on behalf of the American Union of Jew- diverted and started speaking about Pres-
ish Students. (She also is an active par- ident Trump and Islamophobia.
ticipant in Rutgers Hillel and an intern for If Ms. Schabes isnt satisfied with the
the David Project, forging connections universitys response, well, neither is the
between the campus Jewish and vegetar- Anti-Defamation League.
ian communities with programs such as In the universitys fervent defense
Tu Bshvat seders.) of academic freedom, they also have an
That third faculty member is an opportunity to communicate their per-
adjunct, Mazen Adi, who served as a sonal distaste for anti-Semitism and other
spokesman and legal advisor to the Syr- hateful ideologies, Joshua Cohen, ADLs
ian delegation at the United Nations New Jersey regional director, said. He
from 2007 to 2014. He teaches in Rut- doesnt believe the university has taken
gers masters program in United Nations adequate advantage of that opportunity.
and Global Policy Studies, offering such We have reached out to Rutgers to
courses as International Criminal Law take concrete steps to effectively address
and Anti-Corruption; Extremism, Vio- anti-Semitic and anti-Israeli bias on cam-
lence and Political Change; and Theories pus and ensure that Jewish and pro-Israel
of Terrorism and Counter-Terrorism. Rut- students do not feel isolated and margin-
gers faculty website does not mention alized, he said. The ADL stands ready
that his diplomatic experience was with to work with Rutgers University to com-
the Syrian government. bat anti-Semitism, hate, and bigotry.
The organization UN Watch called for At the Jewish Federation of Northern
his firing. Federation, CEO Jason Shames said he
Mr. Adi systematically acted as an too is unsatisfied with the university
apologist for the mass murder committed response.
by the Assad regime against his own peo- As to what to do thats now under
ple, helping Syria to win impunity at the discussion with other New Jersey federa-
UN to conduct continued war crimes, tions. This is a bigger issue than just any
UN Watch said. one community, he said.
He has reached out to the Israel Action
Rutgers defended the hiring. Network of the Jewish Federations of
Rutgers will not defend the content of North America for their expertise. He
every opinion expressed by every member said that Dr. Chikindas, whether he
of our academic community, but the Uni- is tenured or not, is unequivocally In the universitys fervent
versity will defend their rights to academic
freedom and to speak freely, the school
unacceptable.
We have to figure out new tactics and
defense of academic freedom,
said in a statement to Algemeiner. thats what were talking about now, he they also have an opportunity
Among the opinions Dr. Adi delivered
while speaking for Syria at the United
said.
Dr. Leonard Cole of Ridgewood is an
to communicate their personal
Nations was that international gangs adjunct professor at Rutgers and a mem- distaste for anti-Semitism and
led by some Israeli officials are now traf-
ficking childrens organs, as he told the
ber of the Rutgers Hillel board. He too is
unhappy with Rutgers stance.
other hateful ideologies.
JOSHUA COHEN, ADL REGIONAL DIRECTOR
Security Council. He wants a much stronger response
I dont get where people get these than we have gotten so far from the uni-
ideas, Ms. Schabes said. Were working versity administration not only from count. We didnt hear the right words from said a word about Israel in any of his
on a campaign to put up flyers to stand the president, but from the entire leader- the administration yet, he said. lectures, but at the same time, how
in solidarity with the Syrian community, ship structure, including the appropriate Dr. Cole said that there will be a stain many Jewish kids would feel comfort-
to make sure they know that this profes- boards, he said. on the university as long as these pro- able about taking a course with this
sors actions are reprehensible and are The leadership of the university ought fessors continue to hold their positions. guy, knowing what he had portrayed
not being tolerated, she said. to be using words like repugnant or dis- I understand free speech and the on Facebook that are among the most
She hopes to meet with University gusting or hateful instead of the pabu- importance of tenure. At the same time, outrageous absurd descriptions of Jew-
President Robert Barchi next semester. lum theyve been using, he added. It also free speech doesnt mean whatever, ish behavior that come right out of the
She is not impressed with Dr. Barchis needs to come out specifically addressing whenever you want to say is okay. Free Hitler playbook? Who wouldnt be wor-
responses to the situation so far. He just these specific situations anti-Israel, anti- speech is fine but intimidation is not. ried or nervous about somebody who
published another condemnation, but Semitic and name them as such. Words Michael Chikindas may have never has got these ideas?

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May all our dreams and prayers come true


Sinai Schools video shows way forward for each child as it looks to February gala
Joanne Palmer

I
ts all about the honesty of faces.
At its beginning, the children in
the Sinai Schools new music video,
Prayers From My Heart, stare out
at us, reproachfully, angrily, with frustra-
tion. They are open, honest, vulnerable,
and shinily wide-eyed. Always wide-eyed.
Over the course of the not-quite-three-
and-a-half-minute video, we see those
children look at us again with dawning
glimmers of hope, and then again, at the
end, with glistening, eye-moistening joy.
Some of their teachers and parents and
mentors are with them, the adults mir-
roring the childrens nearly palpable
emotions as they too look directly at
the camera, or instead at the children,
clearly pouring their entire beings their
love, their help, their hope into those
children.
And the thing is that its real. You look
at it and you see that artistry has gone
into allowing these children and adults to
show us their truth.
How do they do that?
At its core, even deeper than the art
and the craft that have gone into the (To watch it, click on Prayers From My
video, there is the truth that Sinais Heart, and then click on the word Vimeo
approach to special education, which so you can see it full size.)
remains entirely unmentioned in the The song is the collaboration of three
video, permeates it. Sinai parents, Sam Fishman, the schools
Sinai places its students, who have a managing director said. Hes one of
range of special needs, in six schools, five them; Abigail Hepner Gross, its commu-
of them in Bergen County and one in Liv- nications director, is the second, and C
ingston; the next academic year will see Lanzbom, the musician and composer
the opening of another high school, this who works with composer and singer
one in Riverdale, N.Y. Each Sinai student Noah Solomon on this video the pair
is given a personally tailored range of worked together for years as Soulfarm
services and therapies that helps him or is the third.
her develop to the fullest extent possible. Mr. Fishman and Ms. Gross worked
The school begins in first grade; some together on the lyrics.
students remain with Sinai until theyre My sweet child, its hard to watch you
21; others go on to a mainstream college struggle, they begin. I worry about you
career after they graduate high school. every day. I want to do much to ease your
The experience offered to each Sinai pain and trouble. I wish I knew what to
student is as unique as each of the faces do or say. the lyrics, Mr. Fishman and Ms. Gross sent from despair to hope then there is a
we see in the video. Sheyimalu mishalot libeynu, it con- them to Mr. Lanzbom. Mr. Fishman also full bar of pause, when we come to I am
Every year, Sinai offers the gala eve- tinues; may the prayers of our hearts sent songs that had the mood he wanted. so proud of you, Mr. Fishman said. The
ning that is a cornerstone of its fund- be answered. Prayers from my aching There were about six of them, classical, image onscreen is of a father and son.
raising, and every year for the last many heart. I want so much for you. And then pop, that captured in different ways the You see the dad, his heart rings out, he
years that evening has included a video. that section ends, as all three sections elements I wanted, he said. That unlikely added. Its true. His face radiates joy.
This year, this video is an appetizer for do, with May all our dreams and prayers group include Pachelbels Canon in D, the It was cathartic for them to create this
the gala; its available online now, at come true. theme from Chariots of Fire, Crosby Stills video, Mr. Fishman said of his and Ms.
Sinais website, www.sinaischools.org. After they finished a preliminary draft of and Nash, and some country music. Mr. Grosss experience.
Fishman went to Mr. Lanzboms studio. Although he is in charge of the schools
What: Sinai Schools holds its annual benefit dinner It was a hoot, he said. business side, he works with parents con-
When: On February 25; the buffet opens at 4:45 p.m. and the program begins Each measure of music is carefully stantly, Mr. Fishman said. The school
promptly at 6:30. matched to every shot in the film; each accepts every student its administrators
childs face moves us because the emo- feel it can serve, and then undertakes
Where: At the Marriott Glenpointe Hotel, 100 Frank W. Burr Blvd. in Teaneck
tion it shows is mirrored in the music. the monumental task of figuring out how
How much: $300 per person (The photography is by Jamestown to pay for it. It is expensive to educate a
Why: To benefit Sinai Schools for children with special needs. Associates.) student with special needs, and it also is
For more information and reservations: Call (201) 833-1134, ext. 105, email As the song moves from the second expensive to provide a uniquely tailored
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Mr. Lanzboms, and were at the point Ms. Gross points out, however, that there. And thats what makes what were
Dreams
from page 11
where it really has worked out, he said. there are children with a wide range of dis- doing worth doing every day.
I know. My son, Mike, has a masters degree in abilities at Sinai, as the video makes clear. C Lanzbom (thats how he spells his
Our purpose in creating this song is special education. In fact, there is a wide range of children first name, with no period; just call him
community first and foremost, he con- He is a brilliant young man with a lot of at Sinai period. There are boys and girls; C) is profoundly moved by Sinai; it saved
tinued. When I talk to parents who are social issues, he continued. I think that some you could tell by looking are disabled my childs life, he said. He was thrilled to
just starting out considering Sinai, or today he would be classified as having and some you cant, she said. There are be able to write and then perform on the
who live in other parts of the world but Aspergers, but that was not a term that some children of color. Many come from video, as he is every time he can contrib-
have children with special needs, Abigail was used then. His problems largely were Orthodox families but many others do not. ute to the school.
and I can say that weve been there. social, and to me the most meaningful All of this is clear on the video. My child is brilliant, but my childs
We get it. thing is how empathetic he has become. There is no one Sinai student, Ms. learning was different from regular kids,
We get the ache in a parents heart. Of my four kids, hes the one who Gross said. Thats what we are trying to he said. Sinai was able to understand
You just dont know how to help your always remembers my birthday. My wife get across. the right path for her, and she was able to
child. We have a community, a staff, a and I have been blessed to go to four col- And there is no one measure of suc- get on it and succeed. In my opinion, and
mission to help families, to show them lege graduations, and when I think of cess, Mr. Fishman added. Some will in my wifes, it saved her, and she had a
that there is hope, to show that when it the arc from ache and despair to joy, I never go to college. Some will never live beautiful experience. So I will do anything
works you go from a feeling of being lost, have hope. independently. But just as each child is for Sinai.
from a lot of pain, to a feeling of hope, to My son is at Kushner, in 11th grade, taught individually, each has his or her When Mr. Fishman and Ms. Gross gave
seeing progress. and thinking about college, Ms. Gross own measure of success. him the songs lyrics and the inspirations,
We speak about parents seeing a said; in fact, hes actively engaged in that And I dont think the journey ever he and Mr. Solomon were able to come up
spark in their children. I see the spark, often overwhelming process. Hes also a ends, Ms. Gross said. Thats always with music that they felt worked quickly.
and I know that if we reach that poten- gifted artist. His life is ahead of him. true, but its more true when you have a As luck or fate had it, we came up with
tial, we can be happy. Mr. Lanzboms child is married, a child who struggles. something naturally and quickly, he said.
His child is older than Ms. Grosss and mother, and a teacher. We know, she said. Weve been It was a matter of experience and being
lucky; we felt we nailed it.
You get together, he said, talking
about the way he and Mr. Solomon col-
laborate. And you have done it year after
year, and its hit or miss, and sometimes
its not right, but we have our skills. And
we get up to the plate, and we were able to
hit it out of the park.
Of course when you write something,
you dont know how it will be accepted.
And you also can write something and be a
real fan of it, even though you wrote it, but
still you dont really know the full impact it
will have. Thats more a social thing.
The musicians aside from Mr. Lanz-
bom, whose solo guitar work begins the
video, and Mr. Solomon, they are Dave
Eggar on cello, Joel Diamond on piano,
and Ben Antellis on drums percussion
tell the story of the childrens move from
despair through hope to joy.
It tells a universal story, Ms. Gross
said. It is the story of success. What that
success means is up to you to interpret.
Sheyimalu mishalot libeynu
Prayers from a joyful heart,
I see such change in you.
Sheyimalu misha lot libeynu.
May all our dreams and prayers come true.

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Activist helps indigenous communities


adapt to changing climate
Survivors
granddaughter
pursues a personal
commitment to
human rights
LOIS GOLDRICH

G
rowing up in Paramus, Victoria
Herrmann heard a lot of sto-
ries from her grandfather, Fair
Lawns Siegfried Herrmann.
He would tell me stories about his
time in the camps, she said; Mr. Her-
rmann was imprisoned at Auschwitz.
This time of year, she thinks particularly
of his story about how inmates used pea-
nut shells for a Chanukah menorah.
What the 27-year-old now an accom-
plished climate researcher and the
founder and director of the Arctic Insti-
tute had not known about her grand-
father, she learned from his three-hour
interview for the Shoah Foundations
oral history project. There were a lot of
details he had spared me, she said.
But there was more. She learned her Victoria Herrmann looks out over a bleak Arctic seascape.
grandfathers deepest thoughts about what
he considered most important from that
interview. His experiences, and these reflec- As she got deeper into her studies, Ms. Ms. Herrmanns biography is a bit intimi- woman, there are four main reasons why
tions, helped guide the younger Herrmann Herrmann found that one of the biggest dating. As president and managing director of indigenous groups face a bigger injustice in
into her future career. injustices was climate change, so I continued the Arctic Institute, her research and writing the climate equation.
A lot of my initial inspiration came from that work in my masters. I went to Canada focus on climate change, community adap- The first is culture. They live much closer
my grandparents experience in the Holo- on a Fulbright scholarship and continued to tation, human development, and resource to the land, and have a stronger spiritual con-
caust, she said, noting that her grandmother, study international affairs but concentrated economies, with a particular focus on Arctic nection to the landscape around them, she
Ann Herrmann, who had been sent to Eng- on indigenous rights, particularly how they fit oil and gas. In addition, she is a Gates Scholar said. This tie extends both back and forward
land on a Kindertransport, was the sole sur- into climate change policy and negotiations. at the Scott Polar Research Institute at the in time, she added, equating the concept to
vivor of her extended family. When I was an At the time, she said, Canadas prime min- University of Cambridge, where she is work- the Jewish understanding of ldor va-dor,
undergraduate, I decided to major in inter- ister was less inclined to act than the current ing toward a Ph.D. in the political geography from generation to generation. The indig-
national relations, Ms. Herrmann said. Her prime minister, something our own country of the Arctic. enous peoples use the same land for fishing
ultimate goal was to work in human rights, is facing now. Her focus, she said, was on In 2016, she traveled across the United and hunting as well as for spiritual and ritual
to make sure that within the international how minority groups, particularly native States for a National Geographic-funded concerns, something city residents cannot
arena, minorities werent being hurt. groups, could have their voices heard. book on climate change stories, Americas understand.
Eroding Edges. Before that, she worked at The second reason is economic. Faced
the Carnegie Endowment for International with quick-onset natural disasters, for which
Peaces Energy and Climate Program as a you need a lot of money to prepare for and
junior fellow and was awarded a Eureka! rebound from something that destroys every-
prize from the Baker Institute for Entrepre- thing, these communities have particularly
neurship in 2012 and a Fulbright Scholar- high unemployment rates, with 30 percent
ship to Canada to pursue Arctic research in living under the poverty line, many of them
2013. She is the author of Arctic Melt: Turn- children. There is little ability to rebound.
ing Resource Extraction into Human Devel- The third reason is political. It is very dif-
opment, published in 2015, and has been ficult for these communities to have their
published in many peer-review journals and voices heard in the political process, she
quoted widely in the media. said. Theres not a huge lobby for ensuring
Ms. Herrmann, who grew up in Paramus that American Indians or Alaskan native com-
her parents are Marc and Patty Herrmann munities are included in any way. So, effec-
holds a masters degree from the Norman tively, they get lost.
Paterson School of International Affairs at The fourth reason is geography. Many
Carleton University in Ottawa and a bache- indigenous communities live in remote areas,
lors degree in international relations and art so Theyre ecologically more vulnerable,
history from Lehigh University in Pennsylva- Ms. Herrmann said. In the Arctic, were
Ms. Herrmann notes that indigenous groups are unique victims of climate nia. (And remember, shes not even 30.) witnessing warming at twice the rate of the
change. According to this remarkable young global average. The more immediate effect is

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that ice that was there for their ancestors is Her next project, set to begin in January,
too thin to hunt on and the ground they built is building a platform where pro bono work,
houses on is beginning to fall. with professional organizations and other
Her first job out of college was working on associations, will provide that assistance to
the impact of climate change on cities, she community leaders. Given the current polit-
said. But I began to realize that while cit- ical situation, the federal resources wont
ies are very important to the solution, the be there, she said. But the hope is that as a
most immediate needs are in more remote short-term fix, the 2018 project will provide
places. She noted that when people think more immediate assistance, expertise, guid-
of the Arctic regions, they picture an envi- ance, and resources for the communities to
ronment. Pictures of ice melting and polar adapt.
bears is what captures peoples imagination The work will be done with the help of
and emotion, but it doesnt factor in the com- the JM Kaplan Funds Innovation Prize for
munities on the edges of the ice. There are Rising Tides, which, says the organization,
more extreme storms, and ice cant buffer the will create a new online matchmaking plat- Ms. Herrmann on her Arctic travels.
waves. There are also fewer bears to hunt. form that connects pro bono experts with
So Ms. Herrmann jumped ship and used climate-affected communities. Ultimately communitys remote location, it pays twice she said, We can come together on issues
her Fulbright grant to focus on the Arctic, to Rising Tides will help communities adapt as much for diesel fuel as do communities in of safety, as the world is changing at a
explore the gaps and see what was needed. their important sites and places in response the continental United States. rapid place. Working with different com-
Then, with help from National Geographic, to quick and slow onset disasters related to We work across the Arctic region, but munity leaders, I get a real appreciation
she began to visit American coastline com- climate change. not in Russia, Ms. Herrmann said. Work is for different ways of knowing the world.
munities across the country, interviewing The Arctic Institute a Washington, D.C.- done in Canada, Alaska, Norway where But all community leaders, she said, are
300 local leaders about what was needed to based nonprofit incorporated in 2016 the institute holds an annual conference committed to keeping their communities
adapt to climate change. looks at the many security issues the Arctic Greenland, and Denmark. The groups safe from such dangers as flooding and
If, for political reasons, she could not region faces. Composed of researchers who funding comes from grants, with some erosion.
always use the term climate change, she still meet with government decision makers to money coming from the Canadian govern- At the end of the day, Its all about cli-
found a lot of commonality in the needs of relay their findings, it also runs workshops ment and from partnerships with universi- mate adaptation. Making a community
the various communities. One of the biggest and does community-oriented capacity- ties, many in Norway. safer, you dont need to believe in man-
responses we heard was that people dont building work. For example, Ms. Herrmann Ms. Herrmann said that today, in the made climate change. Her job is to help
have the basic resources to know what to pri- said, it recently ran a workshop on renew- U.S., theres a lot of divisiveness and peo- keep things moving without entering into
oritize. They dont have time or money. able energy in northern Canada. Given that ple not seeing eye to eye, not talking. But, a debate on what causes climate change.

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The Hungarian Jewish girl


who became Indian almost-royalty
Our correspondent tells the remarkable story of Shobha Nehru
MEYLEKH VISWANATH conditions that had to be met before they
would allow the match. It was not that they
On the warm morning of May 21, 2017, were against their son marrying a Euro-
my friend Bindu Bhamba took me to visit pean Jew but they wanted to be sure that
Anil Nehru in a spacious, modern, sun- Fori knew what she was getting into and
filled bungalow in a quiet neighborhood that BK would be able to provide for her.
of Chandigarh. The conditions were that BK had to pass
Anils mother, Shobha Nehru, aka Fori, his Indian Civil Service exams and that
the little-known 108-year old Hungarian Fori had to live in India for a year with-
Jewish woman who had married into the out BK to see if she could manage to live
legendary Nehru family, had just died on in such a different environment, and if she
April 25. I had recently read about her could be happy there. The Nehru family
death in the New York Times. This was did all they could to welcome her when
soon after I wrote an article on Ashkenazi she moved to India in 1934 for that trial
World War II refugees in India. year. Anil Nehru reports that his mother
I was intrigued to learn that her youngest recalled that she was overwhelmed by the
son, Anil, lived in Chandigarh, where seren- love that I received.
dipitously I happened to be visiting a friend. The family enveloped me in love, she
I was born not long after Indias indepen- told her son. They dealt with me very gen-
dence, so the India of my early years was tly and magnanimously. Fori stayed with
full of the larger-than-life Jawaharlal Nehru, her fiancs family in Lahore, Allahabad,
our first prime minister. The Nehru family, Kashmir as the family moved around the
consisting of famous statesmen and writers Shobha Nehru was born as Magdolna Friedmann; in Budapest, her nickname was country, she moved with them. During this
such as Vijayalakshmi Pandit and Nayantara Fori. She died in India, where she had lived for most of her life, at 108. YOUTUBE time, BKs father taught her Hindi, which
Sehgal and many others, captivated Indias
attention for many decades. I could not pass stayed and became part of the culture and for all that Shobha Nehru had become
by the opportunity to make contact with of Bharatvarsha ancient India. Anils undeniably and completely Indian, there
that almost mythological family. mother was such a one; she had come to was still enough of the Jewish Fori about
When we knocked at the Nehru resi- India as a Hungarian Jew and soon became her to interest the diligent inquirer. Fori was a
dence, we were expected; Anil himself
opened the door and invited us in. Anil
indistinguishably Indian, always dressed in
a sari and passing as another fair-skinned
Fori was born Magdolna Friedmann to
Regina and Armin Friedmann in Buda-
remarkable
and his wife, Chand, also of Kashmiri heri- Kashmiri in a family of Kashmiri Pandits. I pest, Hungary, on December 5, 1908. The woman, who
tage, soon put me at my ease. Over a cup
of spicy masala chai, they answered my
suppose I was hardly the first interviewer
who mistakenly sought to find out more
family name had been changed several
times, from the original Forman to Fried-
completely
questions frankly and without reserva- about the Jewish Nehru, the refugee from mann and later, after anti-Semitic feelings remade herself as
tion. Although I was out looking for a Jew-
ish story, it was quite clear that this was an
Hitlers Holocaust.
But though Anil noted that there was
increased, to a more Hungarian Forbath.
The family, however, did not hide its Jew-
an Indian while
Indian story. very little Jewish about his mother, he ishness, although there was not much never forgetting
From time immemorial, India has been
visited and even invaded by different
was more than willing to respond to my
queries. The story that he told, supple-
Jewish practice in the home, particularly
among the younger members. Foris father,
her Jewish past.
groups of people Greeks, Mongols, Jews, mented by information provided by his Armin Friedmann, did go to the synagogue
Armenians, Persians most of whom brother Ashok, was indeed fascinating; on the High Holidays, but Anil said his she mastered; shed already learned some
mother told him that Armins two daugh- written and spoken Hindi from a Hungar-
ters, who also didnt believe in all this reli- ian scholar back in Budapest. Learning the
gious stuff, used to stand outside the syna- language helped her to get used to her new
gogue, stamping our feet in the cold. surroundings. She also studied the Bhaga-
According to an article published online vad Gita and learned yoga; she later would
by the GandhiServe Foundation, Foris say that her hair remained black for a long
parents had a family business in toys and time because of her yoga.
furniture. The Jewish quotas imposed by Once BK had completed his exams and
Hungarys universities meant that Fori Fori had finished her internship, they
could not continue her studies at home. were ready to be married but there was
Her parents sent her to France in 1932, another obstacle to be overcome first.
when she was 24 years old, and then she The Nehrus wanted a Hindu wedding,
went to Oxford for further education. She but the priests would not agree to per-
was studying English when she first met form a religious ceremony. The Nehrus
her husband-to-be, BK (Braj Kumar), at a were Kashmiri Brahmins, but the bride
dance at the London School of Economics, was not a high-caste Hindu. The approval
where he was studying. She had already of Mahatma Gandhi, however, tipped the
seen him in the school library and had balance, and couple finally were married
asked a friend about the good-looking in Lahore in 1935, according to Hindu rites.
guy in the corner. Gandhis approval was remarkable.
BK and Fori fell in love and decided to Later, when another Nehru Jawahar-
Anil and Chand Nehru talked about Anils mother, Fori Nehru. MEYLEKH VISWANATH get married but BKs family had two lal Nehrus daughter, Indira, who later

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Sandi M. Malkin, LL C
became Indians prime minister wanted to marry
another non-Hindu, Feroze Gandhi, a Zoroastrian
(and no relation to the Mahatma), he would not give
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dhis eyes. It may well have been that Fori was rela-
tively quiet, and Feroze was a political firebrand.
In contrast to Feroze Gandhi, who remained a Zoro-
astrian, Fori made every effort to fit in. Her marriage For a totally new look using
ceremony was Hindu, and her three children Ashok,
Aditya, and Anil were brought up as Hindus, not your furniture or starting anew.
as half-Hungarian-Jewish kids, as Foris oldest son,
Ashok, puts it. The Nehrus were not big on ritual,
though, and as Ashok recalls, the family celebrated
Staging also available
Hindu festivals but we never went to temples to wor-
ship. We kids learned about the epics and traditional
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values through our Gandhian grandmothers telling us
one story each night from the life of Krishna, and then
the Ramayan and Mahabharat. This continued from
the time that our grandparents had to migrate from
Lahore to Delhi after Partition in 1947 until 1949, when
Pa was deputed to the U.S. the first time.
Almost from the beginning, Fori always wore a sari.
An exception to that rule was when she wore a lotha
At Magen David Adom, were often saving
a tribal Naga skirt. That was when BK was governor
of five separate north eastern Indian states Assam,
lives before our ambulances even arrive.
Meghalaya, Tripura, Manipur, and Nagaland.
Fori probably was more of a practicing Hindu than
her husband and sons. Ashok said, In our immedi-
ate family, my father was an atheist, we three sons
were non-temple-going Hindus we can do that in
the Hindu way of life, theres no compulsion and my
mother was perhaps the only practicing Hindu, pray-
ing in the morning and at night to the beautiful dancing
bronze Ganesh at my brother Anils home in Chandi-
garh. She also visited the temple at Tirupati, Andhra
Pradesh, with its central image of Vishnu (Balaji), per-
haps four times, and had a photo of the Balaji image
along with several small images of Ganesh in a small
puja shrine at her home in Kasauli, Himachal Pradesh.
Although Fori was Hindu, that didnt mean that
her kids had no exposure to Jewish practices. Foris
mother, Regina, followed her daughter to India and
lived with her in the late 1930s. Though technically
an enemy alien during the war, Regina was never
interned, as were many of her fellow Jews of German
origin, because the Nehrus vouched for her. She spent
the war years in India, then went to the United States
and finally joined her son in Australia, living there
until she died. But while she was in India, staying with
her daughters family, her grandson Anil remembers
that she used to light Shabbat candles and talk to them
about Jewish things. Ashok remembers snippets of
a Hungarian nursery rhyme, but comments that the
words probably wouldnt make sense to a Hungarian!
Shobha Nehru did not forget that she also was Fori.
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Koshertroops volunteers from across the Jewish community
send packages to U.S. service members around the world
ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN Micronesia, Pakistan, and even one time to a Jewish mem-

S
ber of an NGO in Vanuatu whod heard about us, Ms.
ara Fuerst had no inkling that her daughters bat Fuerst said.
mitzvah project sending Purim goodies and per- What keeps me going is the incredible feedback we
sonal letters to 150 Jewish soldiers would turn get, Ms. Hamburger said. She is a school psychologist, art
into a volunteer program of massive proportions. therapist, and the mother of five. We see the impact that
But the feedback from those Purim packages nine years Koshertroops has. The soldiers tell us that sometimes the
ago alerted her to an unmet need and motivated her to fill only Jewish items they have are from us.
it on a regular basis. If we dont send it, they wont have it.
We had a beautiful response, Ms. Fuerst said. She Despite the nonprofits name, the packages of kosher
and her neighbor and partner in Koshertroops, Ava Avi- foods are sent to all service people identifying as Jew-
dar Hamburger, spoke over Skype from Ms. Fuersts ish, whether or not they keep to a kosher diet. However,
home in New Hempstead, N.Y. The troops were happy Koshertroops has a special package of heat-and-serve
to know that the Jewish community still remembered meals and other items for Orthodox or chasidic service
them, she added. people stationed in places where they cannot get strictly
The need was larger than the women might have imag- kosher food.
ined, they learned as they began their work. There are I lived for awhile in the Caribbean islands with no
approximately 10,000 Jews in the American military, kosher food, so I know what its like not being able to
spread across the world. People are surprised when we Ava Hamburger, left, and Sara Fuerst stand together go to a kosher supermarket or kosher pizza place, Ms.
tell them that, said Ms. Fuerst, an Israeli-born realtor, in Koshertroops warehouse in Mahwah. Fuerst said. Sometimes we insist on chaplains telling us
mother of three, and grandmother of five. what these soldiers would like to receive. Its not spoil-
Koshertroops became an official 501(c)3 nonprofit orga- The Shabbat boxes contain such items as challah, grape ing them because theyre so far from home and all they
nization seven years ago. Using mostly donated items, juice, gefilte fish and horseradish, matzah ball soup, and have is their MREs. (MREs are meals ready to eat, or
packed with the help of volunteers from many local Jewish dessert, accompanied by letters from children, candles, field rations.)
schools, camps, and synagogues, the organization ships havdalah kits, and an NCSY booklet containing the Grace The Chanukah packages that Koshertroops sent out
Jewish holiday packages to U.S. troops five times a year after Meals in Hebrew, English, and transliterated Hebrew. to 800 service people several weeks before the holiday
and also sends Shabbat packages each week to a few sol- Weve sent packages to places such as Afghanistan, included donuts, decorations, snacks, dreidels, and choc-
diers on a rotating basis upon request. Iraq, Kuwait, Jordan, Africa, Germany, Italy, Korea, Japan, olate gelt. The items were donated by Amazing Savings,

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gles group, and various schools from Passaic.
Participants, however, dont have to be in the
immediate area. The childrens letters in every care
package come from all over the United States. And
kids from many locales do bar/bat mitzvah projects 6 Spectacular Pesach Destinations
to benefit Koshertroops that include raising money
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or creating the challah covers or havdalah kits that go
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help from every type of Jew. We all live in this coun-
try, and owe our thanks to the troops protecting our
freedom.
The kudos go both ways. Koshertroops gets many
letters of thanks from recipients. Here are a few
excerpts:
The Members of the Tribe (MOT) here in south-
west Afghanistan (also better known as the Jew Crew)
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from 18 months in Djibouti, I want to tell you we also
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Thank you all for your kind donations of supplies,
gifts, food and handmade cards and items for our Pass-
over observation at Kandahar Airfield, Afghanistan.
We had an incredible showing for both Seder dinners
and shared the holiday as a congregation.
In addition to the care packages, Koshertroops also
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Local

Letter from Israel


A paean to public transportation
ABIGAIL KLEIN LEICHMAN orders online. The delivery man

B
schleps the bags right into the
efore making aliyah in 2007, kitchen. This time- and labor-
we sold our two Subarus saving convenience costs about
and decided to try living in the same as it would have cost
Israel without a car. This was in gas.
almost as radical a decision as was ali- There are two big non-mon-
yah itself. etary reasons I prefer pub-
But we reasoned that the high price lic transportation, too. First,
of the car, gas, maintenance, and insur- not having a car dramatically
ance in Israel didnt make sense for our reduces our carbon footprint.
shrinking household. A bus to Jerusalem Second, the experience is pow-
stopped every 20 minutes outside our erfully democratizing.
new home. We could take taxis, hitch Think about it: In a private
rides, even rent a car when necessary, car you have no occasion to
and still come out way ahead. observe, much less interact
Its been more than 10 years, and we with, the masses. Admittedly,
are happier than ever with our car-free
existence. In fact, it has only gotten
easier.
Buses now come more frequently and
cost less per ride than they did when
we first arrived. The Rav Kav electronic
card introduced a few years ago allows
us to pay our fare on any bus in Israel
with a fast swipe, as well as receive free This bus to Maaleh Adumim displays a Chanukah greeting.
transfers to other buses or the light rail
within 90 minutes. New dynamic solar- bombs were detonated
powered signs at bus stops take the at Israeli bus stops or on
guesswork out of when the next bus will Israeli buses. In addition
arrive. to physical trauma, these We are spared
We are spared the headache of navi- horrific incidents caused
gating through traffic and searching psychological trauma that the headache
(and paying) for parking. We dont have persisted even after such of navigating
to deal with fender-benders, flat tires, attacks finally waned.
or road rage. A few times a year, we rent As newcomers in 2007, through traffic
a car for vacations or when we host spe- we discovered that many and searching
cial visitors. After returning the vehicle students arriving for gap-
(and paying) for
JACOB RICHMAN

we always breathe a little sigh of relief; year studies in Israel still


its not our responsibility anymore. had to promise their par- parking. We dont
One of the delights of Israeli life is to ents theyd never take
see electronic Jewish holiday greetings a public bus. Occasion- have to deal with
flashing from the front of public buses. Life in Israel a bus, a rifle, a phone, and a flower. ally I ran into children of fender-benders.
Drivers, whether Jewish or Arab, often friends or relatives at bus
wish passengers Shabbat shalom on that can be a good thing; its not pleas- stops who begged me not to rat them
Fridays as they disembark. Last Octo- ant to be a straphanger on a crowded out. They didnt want to act like spoiled Last Friday, as my bus reached a
ber, an Arab driver in Jerusalem made bus or share a seat with someone giving Americans, they preferred to use their checkpoint, I didnt pay much atten-
the news for decorating his bus for their deodorant a run for its money. You taxi allowance for other expenditures, tion as several teens climbed aboard
Sukkot. sometimes have to put up with crying and they realized that the vast majority in matching t-shirts until I saw they
Of course, reaching any destination babies and rude passengers or drivers. of Arab passengers, like themselves, are werent soldiers with rifles but rather
usually takes longer by mass transit And yet Ive never felt so very much just trying to get from point A to point youth group members with flowers.
than by car. For example, the trip to our a part of greater society as I have on B on a safe and convenient mode of They handed out single stems to
sons home takes about an hour via two Israeli buses and trains. I have abun- transportation. every passenger and wished us all Shab-
buses or about half an hour by car. So dant opportunities to observe a wide They didnt have to convince me. bat shalom. I couldnt help but take a
if were pressed for time or toting large swath of cultures, to help fellow pas- When all is said and done, the chances surreptitious snapshot of a soldier in the
packages, we contact our favorite taxi sengers struggling with packages or of arriving at a destination in one piece seat ahead of me with a rifle on his lap,
driver, Eyal, or use our Gett app to hail baby carriages, or even to choose a seat are much higher in a bus than in a car. a phone in one hand and that colorful
a cab if Eyal isnt available. beside a woman in a hijab reading the Besides, you almost always have blossom in the other. It was one of those
And how do we handle grocery shop- Koran. I am proud to say that our public armed escorts. Uniformed soldiers ride precious sights I would have missed had
ping? We have several good alternatives. transportation is an equal-opportunity public transportation for free, so its I been alone behind the wheel of a car.
One, we walk to the neighborhood gro- carrier. not unusual to have several rifle-toting
cery with a granny cart for day-to-day Regarding that last scenario, I under- IDF service members along for the ride. Abigail Klein Leichman, a Jewish
shopping. Two, I have a standing offer stand why many people, especially And if your bus goes through a military Standard correspondent, made aliyah
to join friends who drive to a nearby tourists, get nervous in the presence of checkpoint, a few young soldiers come from Teaneck more than a decade ago
supermarket every Thursday morn- Arabs on public transit. aboard to scan the scene quickly for and sometimes sends us letters from
ing. Three, I place our larger grocery Between 2001 and 2004, 27 terrorist anything (or anyone) suspicious. Israel.

20 JEWISH STANDARD DECEMBER 8, 2017


upcoming at Kaplen JCC on the Palisades
Chanukah Science Circus!
Celebrate the holiday of miracles with over a dozen
mind-blowing experiments brought to us by scientists
from Liberty Science Center. Well explore the positives
and negatives of static electricity, the sub-zero
temperatures of liquid nitrogen, the states of matter
and the immense pressure of air.
Sun, Dec 17, 11 am-12 pm, $10/$12 per person
(children under 2 years, free)

Monday Morning at the Movies


gate of hell

Join Harold Chapler to screen top film picks and then


engage in lively discussion.
This beautiful, honest Japanese movie by Teinosuke
Kunigasa tells the story of a courageous, loyal
samurai (Kazuo Hasegawa) who tries to marry
a woman he rescues, only to discover that she is
married. (1954, 1hr 29m, English subtitles)
N
Mon, Dec 18, 10:30 am, $8/$10 H O C

Red Cross Lifeguard Training


Become a lifeguard and learn the skills you need
to work in water safety. This course combines
online training with on-site skill sessions. Course
completion provides a 2-year American Red Cross
certificate for Lifeguard Training/First Aid/CPR/
AED. Visit jccotp.org/aquatics-teens to register for
swim test and information on requirements.
Ages 15+
swim test: Sunday, Dec 10 OR Dec 17, 2 pm, $10
course: Tue-Fri, Dec 26-29, 12-4 pm & Sun, Jan 7,
2 pm, $399/$499, plus $35 paid to Red Cross

kids community family

Winter Break Vacation Camps Member Registration Opens Family Fun, December 25!
When school is out let the JCC fill your childs December 11 Join award-winning author Karen Rostoker-Gruber for a
day with fun! classes begin on January 28 playful reading of Maddie the Mitzvah Clown; a book about a
ages 2-4: Build fundamental skills across a girl who, despite her shyness, becomes a Mitzvah Clown to
We have a great season lined up including
variety of sports. make her grandmother and friends smile. Enjoy a morning
classes in art, science, cooking, sports,
of fun and laughs with a real life Mitzvah Clown, balloon
grades K-5 : Trips to the Ice House, Space dance, drama, music and more. Try our
making, juggling, singing and dancing just like in the book!
Odyssey, the movies, Tenafly Police and classfinder tool at jccotp.org/classfinder to
Book sale and signing.
Fire Departments followed by sports, art, get personalized recommendations based on
your childs interest, age and availability. Mon, Dec 25, 11 am-12 pm, $10/$12 per person
and swimming fun at the J. Extended care
(children under 2 years, free)
available till 6 pm Tue-Thur. (Trip locations Visit jccotp.org for a full list of programs.
subject to change) SIGN UP TODAY! to register or for more info
Tue-Fri, Dec 26-29, 9 am4 pm, Registration for the public opens Dec 18. visit jccotp.org
$85 per day by Dec 15, $100 after stay in the Know! liKe us on
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May all our dreams and prayers come true

Sunday Evening
February 25, 2018
ANNUAL
BENEFIT DINNER
Marriott Glenpointe Hotel, Teaneck, NJ
Honoring

EXCELLENCE IN
SPECIAL EDUCATION


Ruthie & Chazan Shim Amy & Dr. Joshua Dr. Perla & Dr. Gerardo INDIVIDUALIZATION
Craimer Fogelman Yablonovich
INCLUSION BY DESIGN
TRANSFORMING LIVES

Special tribute in
memory of our beloved
Associate Director

Yaakov Guttman Shimmy Stein


SINAI alumnus & star of this Shomer She'erit Yisrael
year's feature documentary

Jacob Weinstein, A"H

It is only through
your compassion and generosity
that our vital work can continue.
PLEASE REMEMBER US IN YOUR
Lawrence R. Inserra, Jr., CEO YEAR-END CHARITABLE GIVING
and Inserra Family We accept gifts of
Inserra Supermarkets, Inc. appreciated securities
Community Partnership Award

www.sinaidinner.org 201-833-1134 x105


22 JEWISH STANDARD DECEMBER 8, 2017
SHATTERING STEREOTYPES ABOUT CHILDREN WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

OVERCOMING
DISABILITIES AND
PAINFUL LOSS,
HE ROSE TO CREATE
HIS OWN DESTINY

SINAI SCHOOLS PRESENTS

PREMIERING 2.25.18 AT THE SINAI DINNER


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Briefly Local

New Jersey Yachad gala honors three local families Y


The New Jersey Yachad k
Gala Melava Malka recep-
tion was held on Novem-
t
ber 18 at Congregation i
Keter Torah in Teaneck. T
Ne arly 500 people o
attended the reception, s
which honored three R
Yachad families from L
New Jersey and benefitted b
the New Jersey chapter of L
Yachad, the National Jew- c
ish Council for Disabilities. o
The global organization Scott and Shira Sheps Dr. Jeff Lichtman, Ari and Dena Katz, and Debbie and Shlomo Tsadok flank their c
addresses the needs of all Chani Herrmann son, Avi. p
Jews with disabilities and a
ensures their inclusion in every aspect of integration program mainstreams camp- Yachad activities. The gala was a tremendous oppor-
Jewish life. ers with disabilities, so campers from Avi Tsadok has been involved with tunity to honor these three special fami- c
Local honorees included guests of Yachad participate in the full sleepaway Yachad since he was 8, and his par- lies, Ms. Herrmann said. Every year the C
honor Ari and Deena Katz of Bergenfield, experience. The camps vocational pro- ents, Shlomo and Debbie Tsadok, have gala keeps getting better and better and F
Young Leadership awardees Scott and gram allows young adults to work in culi- become role models for Yachad in the turnout increases, which speaks vol- C
Shira Sheps of Fair Lawn, and Shlomo, nary, sports, the day camp, and the camp Englewood community. From their sons umes about how the community has R
Debbie, and Avi Tsadok of Englewood, office. The entire Katz family is involved time at the Mendel Balk Center, to fam- embraced Yachad. Yachad is funded by d
who received the Yachad Family award. with the Yachad chapter. ily shabbatons and Camp Mesorah, Avi is the Orthodox Union, led by its president, P
Ari Katz is the owner and director of Shira Sheps began her work at Yachad as an active and lively member of Yachad. Moishe Bane. a
Camp Mesorah, and his wife, Deena, is an intern working for the NJ Yachad direc- He attends Yachads vocational training To support the gala and NJ Yachad, i
the camps administrator. Camp Meso- tor, Chani Herrmann. Shira photographs program, and also works at the Rosen- go to www.ou.org/giving/new-jer- w
rah partners with Yachad to offer camper various events for Yachad; she, her hus- baum Yeshiva of North Jersey and Camp sey-yachad- gala-melave-malka- 5
integration and vocational programs. The band, and their children are immersed in Mesorah. reception-2017. i
g

Pictured, from left, the NNJ chapters Women of Valor Diane Reidenberg of Caldwell, Geraldine Stein of Fair Lawn, Helen Mandel of Hillside/Union, Estelle
Glucksman of Livingston, Brenda Gold of Millburn/Short Hills/Tziona, Rita Levin of Paramus Bat Sheva, Karen Albert of Pascack and Northern Valley, Alice
Solomon of South Orange/Maplewood, Leona Crystal of West Orange, and Stephanie Z. Bonder, Woman of Valor chair.

Hadassah Myrtle Wreath awards


On Sunday, November 12, Hadassah Ruth Grossberg of Fair Lawn, this
Northern New Jersey held its annual years honoree, was cited for her dedica-
Myrtle Wreath award celebration. The tion to the Jewish people as Hadassahs
award, one of the most prestigious the United Nations deputy chair and as a
organization gives, is given to people past Northern NJ Region president.
who have made significant contributions The celebration, at Bnai Shalom of
to Jewish life in the United States or in West Orange, also honored the chapters
Israel in politics, diplomacy, science, Women of Valor for their dedication to
the arts, or organization work. Hadassah.

Hadassah vice president Geri Lipschitz, left, 2017 Myrtle Wreath honoree,
Ruth Grossberg, and Hadassah Northern NJ president Gail Black.  RUTH GROSSBERG

24 JEWISH STANDARD DECEMBER 8, 2017


Briefly Local

Yiddish and Congressman Chris Smith


klezmer is Norpac guest
tonight Rena and David Schlussel will host a
in Wyckoff Norpac pro-Israel meeting for Congress-
Temple Beth Rishon in Wyckoff man Chris Smith (R-NJ Dist. 4) at their
offers a pre-Chanukah Shabbat Teaneck home on Sunday, DECEMBER
service as Yiddish diva Eleanor 80 at 10 a.m.
Reissa and the Klezmatics Frank Rep. Smith is chairman of the House
London join Cantor Ilan Mam- Foreign Affairs Subcommittee, tasked
ber, rabbis Stephen Wylen and with oversight over the United Nations.
Lois Ruderman, and TBRs adult For information, email Avi@NORPAC.
choir, Kol Rishon, with Itay Goren net or call (201) 788-5133. Congressman Smith, left, with Rena
on piano, Jacob Niederman on Museum plans Chanukah party for and David Schlussel.  COURTESY NORPAC
clarinet, and Jimmy Cohen on young professionals
percussion, tonight, December 8, Young Friends of the Museum of Jew-
at 7 p.m. ish Heritage A Living Memorial to the which has a panoramic view of New York
A Yiddish and klezmer con- Holocaust in Battery Park City in lower Harbor, the black- tie-optional evening
cert, supported by the Arthur & Manhattan meets to celebrate Chanu- will include dancing, a premium open
Channa Mamber Memorial Music kah. Young Friends Light Up the Night, bar, and dinner. Dietary laws observed.
Fund, follows at 7:45, led by TBRs a party for the areas young profession- Proceeds support the museums edu-
Cantor Ilan Mamber, intern Naomi als, 21 to 39, is set for Thursday, Dec. cation programs. For information, call
Rogin, Cantor Emeritus Mark Bid- 14, at 8 p.m. The annual party typically (646) 437-4252, email youngfriends@
delman of Temple Emanuel of draws about 500 young professionals. mjhnyc.org, or go to www.mjhnyc.org/
Pascack Valley, and rabbis Wylen Held in the museums Events Hall, events/light-up-the-night.
and Ruderman, with percussion-
ist Jimmy Cohen. Refreshments
will be served. The temple is at
585 Russell Ave., in Wyckoff. For
information, call (201) 891-4466 or
Frank London and Eleanor Reissa NCJW increases community grants
go to bethrishon.org. The Bergen County section of the the Jewish Home at Rockleigh, provides
National Council of Jewish Women, a volunteers to run the gift shop, and
nonprofit organization that has been at hosts parties for residents throughout
the forefront of social change in Bergen the year. At Project Sarah (Stop Abusive
Local artist talks about her work County, is celebrating its 95th anniver-
sary. It will award more than $70,000 in
Relationships at Home), funding from
NCJW supports the organizations pro-
Englewood artist Rachelle Weis- grants to Bergen County organizations gram of domestic violence and sexual
bergers piece is part of a group that support women, children, and fam- abuse counseling, treatment, and com-
show, Art as Sanctuary, spon- ilies. Inspired by Jewish values, NCJW munity education, with unique empha-
sored by the New York Society strives for social justice by improving the sis on the Orthodox community. A grant
of Women Artists, a professional quality of life for women, children, and to the Bergen Volunteer Medical Initia-
association of painters, sculptors, families and by safeguarding individual tive helps the facility provide free medi-
and graphic artists. Ms. Weisberger rights and freedoms. cal care for working, low-income Bergen
is a member of the groups board. The grants represent a major increase County residents who have no health
Her work has been exhibited in in funding over last year. The organiza- insurance. Financing and volunteers
leading galleries in the tristate tion attributes this increase to the gen- for the Swim-In program, co-sponsored
area and is represented in private erosity of the sections members and with the National Multiple Sclerosis Soci-
collections. donors, and to increased revenue from ety, support a therapeutic water exercise
The exhibit is in Living Room the Council Thrift Shop in Bergenfield. program for people with multiple scle-
Gallery at St. Peters Church, 619 NCJW provides recipient agencies with rosis. Funding will also help the Wom-
Lexington Ave., in Manhattan, and both funding and volunteers. The grants ens Rights Information Center provide
runs through January 3. support a wide range of vital programs a warm environment for women facing
Ms. Weisberger is the author of and services to the local community. economic and social barriers in their
Biblical Beauty: Ancient Secrets At Bergen Family Center, two grants lives. Shared housing, career service,
and Modern Solutions. She is a will support a social day care program and computer training are among the
member of both the East Hill Syn- Rachelle Weisberger of Englewood discusses for visually impaired adults and other many programs it offers. Two grants to
agogue and Congregation Ahavath her painting Sarah at an Artists Talk meet- seniors and programming for the 100 the Youth Consultation Service support
Torah in Englewood. A lifelong ing sponsored by the New York Society of children enrolled in HIPPY (Home YCS Holley Child Care and Development
supporter of Israel, she is affiliated Women Artists. Instruction for Parents of Preschool Center, a residential treatment facility
with the charitable organizations Youngsters), whose parents are trained for emotionally and/or physically abused
Amit, Emunah of America, and to be their childrens first teachers. The children in crisis, and YCS Kilbarchan, a
Hadassah, the Womens Zionist Organization of America, and AIPAC. For more informa- Center for Food Action provides emer- residential treatment home for adoles-
tion, go to www.rachelleweisberger.com. gency food, rent, and utility assistance to cents. Summer Campership, which also
people in need, and the Center for Hope received support from NCJW, provides
and Safety provides counseling, support funds for scholarships for low-income
Keep us informed services, safe shelter, transitional hous- children in Bergen County.
We welcome photos of community events. Photos must be high resolution jpg files. Please include a detailed caption
and a daytime telephone. Mailed photos will only be returned with a self-addressed stamped envelope. Not every ing, and community outreach to women NCJW receives no government fund-
photo will be published. and children who are victims of domes- ing. For more information, go to www.
PR@jewishmediagroup.com
NJ Jewish Media Group
tic violence. NCJW supports programs at ncjwbcs.org.
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Chanukah
The czars soldier
A Chanukah tale
Curt Leviant obviously didnt know about. And people die

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just like that too.
his is the story my father, Yaakov, The newcomer, who said his name was
told me. He had heard it from Dovid, covered his face with his hands and
his grandfather, Chaim, who was began sobbing like a baby.
there in the Russian shtetl when it And whats your mothers name?
happened, during the reign of the czar. Rivke.
One snowless early winters day, at the Do you know how many Rivkes we have
end of November, just before Chanukah, a here?
solidly built man he seemed to be in his But married to Motl the carpenter?
mid-thirties appeared in our shtetl, Kari- The men looked at one another and
ukovke. He wore a khaki-colored greatcoat shrugged.
and a peasants hat with earflaps, and he had Whats your family name?
a knapsack on his back. It was obviously an We hardly ever used our family name,
army uniform but it lacked any insignias or Dovid said. They called my father Motl the
markings. Carpenter and I was Motls son. And in the
The man spoke a rough-edged Yiddish army they didnt use last names. They always
with an equally rough Russian accent. To the called me Motl Yid.
first groups of Jews he met, he said he had Wait a minute, the older man said. Now
just finished his obligatory 25 years of service I remember. There was a Rivke married to a
in the Czars army, and that he was returning Motl the carpenter. I think the family name
home. was Shatsky.
He said his name was Dovid. Dovid, was your family name Shatsky? I
Given the way he spoke, people looked at asked.
him skeptically. Maybe.
Are you a Jew? What do you mean, maybe. How can a
He laughed bitterly. What? You think Im man forget his family name?
a goy? In the army they sure didnt treat me Like I said, they never called you by
like a goy. Ikh bin a Yid, he added in Yid- your family name. Anyway, do we use fam-
dish. I am a Jew. ily names here in the shtetl? Youre called by
But people werent convinced. Out of your first name and what line of work you
range of his hearing, they murmured that do. Like Motl shneider, the tailor. And Avrom
he was a Russky trying to get money before shuster, the shoemaker. And if youve been in
Chanukah, or perhaps find lodging in the the czars army for 25 years, and your child-
old age home, which always welcomed Jew- hood and youth and many of your precious
ish travelers. grownup years are wasted, you forget a lot
Why did you come to Kariukovke? of things. Its a miracle I remember what I
Where else should I go? This is where I remember.
was born, where my family lived, and it is We all stared at him. He looked like a goy
from here the Czars abductors took me. I but he spoke Yiddish. He threw in lots of Rus-
was not yet 13. sian words, and at times it seemed he was
It was true. Years ago, the abductors, snatchers, khap- some youngsters left of their own accord to try their luck translating from Russian into Yiddish. Had you heard him
pers they were called in Yiddish, were active, taking even in America. from a distance, his language would not have sounded
little children. But Kariukovke had suffered a rare pogrom Take me to my father Motls house. Yiddish. His speech had the rhythms and cadences of Rus-
about a dozen years back and many Jews left the shtetl. Motl who? There are and there were lots of Motls here. sian. And it should be said that speaking Yiddish did not
Other Jews, fleeing incidents in their villages, sought ref- Motl the carpenter. automatically identify a person as a Jew. We had a number
uge in Kariukovke. Jews evidently put into practice the old The men looked at one another. One of them, the old- of goyim in town who worked for Jews and spoke Yiddish
Hebrew expression: change your place, change your luck. est of the group, a man in his seventies, nodded his head fluently.
In any case, no one in town remembered such an abduc- slowly. The ex-soldier, Dovid, claimed that he had spoken only
tion from 25 years ago. Indeed, throughout the years There actually were three by that name. But none are Russian for 25 years. That probably was why the Slavic
alive. overwhelmed his Yiddish.
Curt Leviant is the author of two recent novels, King of None? Not one? My father dead? Then someone in our group took out a little siddur and
Yiddish and Kafkas Son. We had a pogrom here about 12 years ago, which you showed it to Dovid.

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Chanukah Dilemma
How many presents are enough?
Dr. tani FoGer each night of Chanukah, we light an

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additional candle so we can increase
amily traditions of gift-giving light over darkness with each day of
help shape our childrens val- the holiday. Spreading light is a power-
ues and potential for apprecia- ful message in the Chanukah story. We
tion. While the holiday season can teach our children to increase their
floods us with marketing and merchan- light as well by empowering them to do
dizing, and many of us get caught up in an act of kindness on each day of Chanu-
the buying frenzy, this can also be an kah, thereby concretizing the theme of
opportunity to teach our children about the triumph of light over darkness. For
mindful giving and generosity. example, make a drawing or project and
Lets face it, as soon as Thanksgiving is bring it to a senior center to brighten up
over our kids begin angling for what they will be get- someones day. Or give cookies or latkes to an elderly
Can you read? ting for Chanukah. As much as we like to emphasize neighbor, or bring winter coats to homeless people.
I havent looked at a siddur in 25 years. I forgot how to the Maccabees, dreidels, and latkes, for most children Mindful giving. This is my personal favorite. Let the
read. really its all about the presents! kids use one night to exchange gifts with siblings, and
How can a Jew forget to read? So how can we give them eight nights of gifts while to make a gift for their parents as well. Mindful giv-
Dovid came up to the man and looked him in the face. The still preserving an attitude of gratitude? ing focuses our thoughts on the important people in
man, apparently frightened, backed off. Parshat Vayetze, sandwiched between Black Friday our lives who will be receiving a gift, and helps our
Have you ever been in the czars army? Have you been in and Chanukah, guides us into the holiday shopping children experience the joy of giving, rather than just
the army for 25 years? Anything, everything, is possible... But season with a powerful message for us as consumers. being on the receiving end. In many families only
I still remember the Shma Yisroel. That they couldnt wipe As Yaakov awakens from his dream and sets out on his the children receive gifts, and nothing is expected
away from me. I said it to myself every night. Every night. I life-altering journey, he asks only for bread to eat and from them in return. As parents, very often we say,
didnt miss a night. And he brought the palm of his right hand clothes to wear. Just the bare necessities. I dont need anything. Please dont get me any gifts.
to his eyes, covered them, and recited the Shma fervently. So how, amid all the Chanukah gift shopping for We think were doing our children a favor by remov-
But even this did not persuade the group of men. They said family members and co-workers, do we impart this ing this formality from their to-do list, but in fact we
that they had known Russkies who could imitate those words important value to our children? How do we teach are missing an opportunity to teach kids the internal
and that gesture too. them to appreciate what we have, and to understand reward of gift-giving that they can make someone
But why should a Russian want to pass himself off as a Jew the difference between what we want and what we feel good and they can make a positive difference in
in a land where there was lots of anti-Semitism, both popular need? other peoples lives.
and official? The answer is that the Jewish community was Here are some tips for reasonable gift-giving that Homemade gifts. Encourage your kids to get cre-
known for caring for its own. will satisfy the gift-a-night custom without creating ative. Poems, stories, and drawings can be the best
The man who claimed to be Dovid no doubt was hoping the spoiled-child syndrome. presents and they can last a lifetime. Homemade gifts,
for a bed in the poorhouse or in the old age home, or a place Clothes. Kids are always losing hats, scarves, and or offering to help with projects around the house,
in someones house until he found a job. He was still a young gloves, so nows a great time to stock up on some fun can be more appreciated than store-bought items.
man and likely would find work as a carpenter. and trendy pairs. Also, now is a perfect time to buy These suggestions cover seven nights. That still
Ikh bin a Yid, he kept saying, at times declaring it forth- those clothes that your child will need in the next few leaves a night for that one special Chanukah gift of
rightly, at times in a tone of complaint. They snatched me months anyway, and that you know you will be buying your childs choosing!
away when I was only 12, a year before my bar mitzvah, at some point in the near future. I wish everyone a joyous, mindful, and light-filled
and forced me into the army. They wanted to break me, all Replenished art supplies. If art supplies crayons, Chanukah.
the anti-Semites, but they didnt. They couldnt make me a glitter, markers, colored paper, and so on and other
Christian. household staples are rapidly dwindling, now is the Dr. Tani Foger of Englewood is a psychologist and
Im still a Jew. Ikh bin a Yid. perfect time to buy a new supply and wrap it up as a educational consultant.
We exchanged glances. He was sounding more and more gift. Kids will appreciate them.
like a Jew. But what Jew didnt know his family name? What Puzzles and board games. Make Chanukah the time
Jew cant read from the siddur? What Jew has the gruff look to update your toy and game inventory. Remove board
of a goy? And what Jew speaks Yiddish like it comes out of the games that your kids have outgrown or that have too
mouth of a muzhhik? A peasant? many missing pieces, and buy some new skill- and
Because of the turmoil that Kariukovke had experienced, age-appropriate games that will facilitate great family-
and because Dovids parents no longer were alive, there was fun time and awesome game-nights.
no one who could remember his kidnapping into the czars Books. Help encourage your childs love of
army. reading by giving him or her a book on a
I was looking for my fathers little house before I met you, favorite topic. After all, reading, more than
but I couldnt find it, Dovid told us. The town has changed. any other academic activity, is directly corre-
Weve had turmoil here, I said. Pogromists. Fires. New lated with higher achievement scores in high
construction ordered by the authorities. school.
Dovid looked down. I thought I would be able to return to Tzedaka. Giving a donation for one night can
my parents house. be a very meaningful family Chanukah expe-
We didnt know what to say. I felt sorry for the man. Should rience. Discuss with your children how they
I invite him to stay with our family? would like to help others, and then together, as
Meanwhile, Dovid stood there silently, shifting his weight a family, choose a charity something that reso-
from one leg to another. nates with them and donate to that charity the
One of the men near me ran into a house and came out with money that would have gone toward one nights
a glass of water for Dovid, which he drank eagerly. present.
Are you hungry? another man asked. Spreading light through an act of kindness. On
see SOLDIER PaGe 29

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Chanukah

Stepping up your latke game


Three new twists on the Chanukah classic
Michal Levinson Tamari scallion sauce the batter into the pan in mounds, then
press down with a spatula. Turn the
Latke:
1 lb potatoes
Ingredients heat down to medium. Once you notice 2 medium onions
1/2 cup tamari (or use regular soy the edges turning brown, flip the latkes. 1 large egg
sauce) Brown the other side (around 3 min- 1/2 tsp salt
1/4 cup water utes). Drain the latkes on a paper towel Both:
3 tablespoons rice vinegar lined baking sheet.and sprinkle lightly Sunflower oil for frying
2 teaspoons sugar with salt. To keep them warm, place
3 tablespoons sliced scallion the latkes on a wire rack set in a shal- Instructions
low baking pan in the oven set to 300 Make the falafel batter: Put all the ingre-
Instructions degrees. dients in the bowl of a food processor.
Stir together the tamari/soy sauce, Note: To make ahead lay the latkes Pulse until the chickpeas are pulverized
water, rice vinegar and sugar until the on a baking sheet, cover with foil and but not pastey. But, since were stuff-
sugar dissolves. Stir in the scallions then plastic wrap. Place in the freezer. ing these into latkes, if you get pastey,
right before serving. Then, heat them up in a 425 degree dont worry!
Note: You can make the sauce (with- oven for 15 minutes before serving. Next, make the latke batter: Peel the
out the scallions) three days ahead potatoes and be grateful that youre
Carrot Ginger Latkes of time and keep it chilled and cov-
Cucumber raita not outside on KP duty somewhere in
ered. Add the scallions in after youve the frozen tundra! Grate the potatoes
Ingredients and onions separately, whether by hand
brought it up to room temperature. Ingredients
1 pound Yukon Gold potatoes or by food processor. Place grated po-
2 Persian cucumbers, diced
1 pound carrots tatoes in a bowl with cold water. Let sit
1 teaspoon cumin seeds
2 medium onions for two minutes, then drain.
2 cups plain, whole-milk yogurt
3 eggs Place potatoes and onions in a
1 clove garlic, peeled and minced
1/4 cup flour (or GF flour) towel (or triple thick paper towels) and
2 tablespoons fresh cilantro, chopped
2 tablespoons minced ginger squeeze all the liquid out. Place back
1 tablespoon tamari (or regular soy into a bowl and mix in the egg and salt.
Instructions
sauce) Put it all together: Heat 1/4 cup of
Blot off moisture from cucumbers with
1 tablespoon sesame oil sunflower oil in a large pan over me-
paper towels.
1 teaspoon rice vinegar dium high heat.
Toast cumin seeds for a few seconds
1 teaspoon salt Using a teaspoon, take a bit of falafel
in a small, heavy frying pan over high
1/2 teaspoon pepper batter and coat on both sides with the
heat. In a bowl, stir yogurt until it is
sunflower oil for frying latke batter. Using the spoon, delicately
smooth. Mix it with the cumin, garlic
and cilantro. Combine mixture with cu- place the falatke in the pan. Reduce
Instructions heat to medium. Cook until undersides
cumber and chill before serving.
Grate the potatoes, onions and carrots. are browned (around 4 minutes) then
Honestly, I find the food processor to flip. Cook another four minutes until
be the best and fastest way to go. both sides are done. Transfer to paper
Place the grated veggies in a large Curried Latkes towels to drain.
bowl and cover with cold water. Let
them sit for 5 minutes. Then, taking Ingredients
handfuls of the vegs, squeeze out all 1 pound Yukon Gold potatoes Fresh tchina
the liquid and lay on a towel (or 3 layers 1 pound carrots
2 medium onions Ingredients
of paper towels). Roll up the towel and 1 cup sesame seeds, toasted
twist it to get rid of the excess mois- 1 15 oz can chickpeas, mashed by hand
1/4 cup cilantro, chopped 3 tablespoons sunflower oil
ture. Discard the water in the bowl, but pinch of salt
leave a little bit of the starch that has 2 eggs
1/4 cup flour (or GF flour) 1 clove garlic
pooled at the bottom. Put the grated Juice of a lemon
vegs in the bowl. 1 teaspoon salt
Stir in the remaining ingredients. 1/2 teaspoon curry powder
1/2 teaspoon garam masala Instructions
Heat up 1/4 cup of oil in a large, heavy In a pan over medium heat, toast the
skillet over a medium high flame, until 1/4 teaspoon crushed red pepper.
Sunflower oil for frying sesame seeds until fragrant but not
hot but not smoking. Work in batches browned.
and fry up your latkes. Depending on Falatkes When the sesame seeds have cooled,
the size of latkes you are making, spoon Instructions
the batter into the pan in mounds, then Grate the potatoes, onions and carrots. the most Israeli pulse them in a food processor until a
paste forms. Add the oil, salt, garlic and
press down with a spatula. Turn the
heat down to medium. Once you notice
Place the grated veggies in a large bowl
and cover with cold water. Let them
way to eat latkes! lemon juice and puree until smooth.
If the mixture is too thick, add water
the edges turning brown, flip the latkes. sit for 5 minutes. Then, taking handfuls Ingredients
until you reach the desired consistency.
Brown the other side (around 3 min- of the vegs, squeeze out all the liquid Falafel:
utes). Drain the latkes on a paper towel and lay on a towel (or 3 layers of paper 2 medium onions
lined baking sheet.and sprinkle lightly towels). Roll up the towel and twist it to 6 cloves of garlic Michal Levison, who is Israeli-American,
with salt. To keep them warm, place get rid of the excess moisture. Discard 1 cup veggie chips lives in Franklin Lakes with her husband
the latkes on a wire rack set in a shal- the water in the bowl, but leave a little 2 15 oz cans chickpeas, drained and two daughters. She is the owner of a
low baking pan in the oven set to 300 bit of the starch that has pooled at 2 tbsp ground coriander home-based business, Seasoned Moments,
degrees. the bottom. Put the grated vegs in the 1 cup fresh parsley and gives cooking lessons, both privately
Note: To make ahead lay the latkes bowl. 1 cup fresh cilantro
and to groups. She was inspired to create the
on a baking sheet, cover with foil and Stir in the remaining ingredients. 1/2 cup fresh mint
then plastic wrap. Place in the freezer. 2 tsp cumin Japanese-style latke and the curried latke
Heat up 1/4 cup of oil in a large, heavy
Then, heat them up in a 425 degree skillet over a medium high flame, until 1/2 tsp cardamom as a result of her travels to the Far East and
oven for 15 minutes before serving. hot but not smoking. Work in batches 2 tsp salt India. Because one of her daughters loves
and fry up your latkes. Depending on 1 tsp black pepper falafel and the other latkes, she decided to
the size of latkes you are making, spoon create the falatka, which incorporates both.

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Soldier a black yarmulke on his head. He looked take an only child. But they didnt listen. Shabbes candles because they bring about
from page 27 calmly at all of us, but stared intently at the They didnt care. It was a cold day. A few peace in ones household . But If one
Dovid shook his head. Then he said in ex-soldier. days before Chanukah. already owns Shabbes candles but only
an upbeat voice, Is Avrom the teacher still As soon as Dovid saw the old man he ran I asked the soldiers, let me at least say has enough money to either purchase
alive? up to him and cried out, his voice choking, goodbye to my father and mother. But wine for the Shabbes kiddush or Chanu-
We looked at him, bewildered. How did Rebbe, its me, your student, Dovid. Do they didnt. kah candles, then one should purchase
he know the old teacher? you remember me? Dovids eyes widened and a glow spread Chanukah candles since it involves show-
Why do you ask? Avrom rose, and with an agility that over his dusky face as if he was having a ing off the miracle of Chanukah.
Is he alive? belied his years, he gave us that heartfelt revelation. He looked at Reb Avroms face With tears in his eyes, Reb Avrom came
Yes. But hes very old. broad smile that was an ingrained part of as though he wanted to absorb its essence. up to Dovid, embraced him, and kissed
I know. He wasnt young years ago. his personality. We were studying the laws of Chanu- both his cheeks. The tears of both men
Where is he? Dovid. Dovid. Avrom shook his head, kah when they barged in. intermingled.
Why do you want to know? a sort of rocking motion that did not quite Reb Avrom interrupted. Yes, yes. Thats Thats what we were studying when
Why dont you answer me? Stop asking indicate yes or no. what I was going over with you. From they came. And you remembered every
me why. Where does he live? Rebbe, you were my teacher. I was 12 Joseph Caros the Shulchan Orukh. The word. After 25 years.
In the old age home. years old. Studying with you. It was a few Code of Law. Dear rebbe. I always thought of you.
Is he well? days before Chanukah, just like right now, You were reading what happens if a You were like a second father to me.
For a man in his late eighties, maybe when the czars men came in suddenly person doesnt have enough money to And Dovid bent down and kissed the
nineties, he is quite well and alert. and snatched me away. buy both Shabbes candles and Chanukah rebbes cheek.
Take me to him. I want to see him. How many years ago? candles. Borukh ha-bo, tayerer Yid. Welcome,
We all walked through the quiet streets Twenty-five. Reb Avrom began in a singsong voice, dear Jew. Welcome home. And a freyle-
to the two-story community old age home. Now Reb Avrom was nodding. Yes. It reciting in Hebrew. Its from Chapter 678 khen Chanukah.
Inside, a few residents sat in the living sounds familiar. A long time ago. from the Shulchan Orukh. If one has insuf- I looked around. Every mans face was
room.. Twenty-five years, rebbe, Dovid said ficient means to purchase both Chanukah wet, yet every man was smiling. Now too
We walked up to Reb Avroms room, with a tear in his voice. Twenty-five long candles and Shabbes candles.... all of us embraced Dovid. And now all of
knocked on the door, and opened it. years with them. They tried, but they Dovid closed his eyes and contin- us vied as to who would be the first to wel-
Reb Avrom was sitting at his table, study- couldnt break me. Ikh bin a Yid. Ikh bin ued chanting in Hebrew with his rebbe. come him to stay with us throughout Cha-
ing a text. He was no doubt surprised to geblibn a Yid. I remained a Jew. Now both their voices rang out. As if in a nukah until he settled in.
see so many people, including one who Reb Avrom clapped his hands. They rehearsed duet, their two voices joined in And with the return of a Jew after 25
looked like a soldier. Avrom was a short, burst in. I pleaded with them. Hes an only song: years, it was indeed a freylekhen Chanu-
thin man, with a wispy white beard and child, I said. Its against the czars law to ... that person should purchase kah in Kariukovke.

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If Avi Gabbay becomes Israels next prime (pronounced gah-BYE), who hopes to win
minister, he wants you to know he loves the next election and unseat Prime Minis-
American Jews. ter Benjamin Netanyahu something no
Gabbay, the latest head of Israels Labor Labor leader has done since 1999. Netan-
Party, was in New York on a series of meet- yahus government has had a growing pile
and-greets with American Jewish leaders. of spats with American Jews: This year, it
The former business executive, who took reneged on an agreement to expand the
the helm of the center-left party in July, Western Walls non-Orthodox plaza and
reclined in the corner of a French cafe in introduced a bill that would further mar-
Midtown Manhattan, his tie draping across ginalize non-Orthodox conversions.
his suit. Last month, Deputy Foreign Minister
He would expand a plaza for non-Ortho- Tzipi Hotovely suggested that American Labor Party leader Avi Gabbay leads a meeting at the Israeli parliament on
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ican Jewry. remarks but did not heed calls to fire her. have fired her. for late 2019, by appealing to Israelis of all
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bay never has lived in the United States. dent, Gabbay also paradoxically under-
But his persona is a study in contra- stands that he needs to be the Israeli
dictions. A former CEO of Bezeq, Isra- Donald Trump a leader who speaks
els telecom giant, he now is the head his mind, however controversial.
of a historically socialist party. Before So he shrugs at Labor loyalists who
becoming the standard-bearer of Isra- feel alienated by his praise of settlers and
els center-left, he co-founded Kulanu, criticism of the lefts Jewish values. He
a center-right party, and served as envi- is who he is. And he thinks Israelis will
ronmental protection minister under like him.
Netanyahu. He grew up in a poor Jeru- In todays era, people want more
salem neighborhood but now lives in an authenticity and want people they can
elite neighborhood in northern Tel Aviv. feel, he said. They dont want people
He believes in God, usually carries a who come with talking points all the
kippah in his pocket, and hopes to win time. Im on the side of the authentics.
the votes of Israels religious Jews. Gabbay JTA WIRE SERVICE

Avi Gabbay sits next to Knesset member Tzipi Livni at the Israeli parliament,
Nov. 6, 2017. MIRIAM ALSTER/FLASH90S

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Jewish Democrats boosted by Trump remarks


RON KAMPEAS Have you heard what Democrats are doing? Demo- own ranks in a moment. Is it true that Democratic
crat groups are accusing Republicans of anti-Semitism in groups are accusing Republicans of anti-Semitism in
WASHINGTON The Republican Jewish Coalition sent out a hypocritical move to fundraise. Democrats are using the order to fundraise?
a fundraising email this week accusing Jewish Democrats of actions of a group of radicals who have no affiliation with I asked Matt Brooks, the RJCs CEO, what fundrais-
unfairly linking the party to anti-Semites. the national Republican party to distract us from the blatant ing appeal he was referring to. He cited a pitch by
The pitch, with the subject line Democrat anti-Semitism anti-semitism in their own ranks. the newly established Jewish Democratic Council of
hypocrisy, reads as follows: More on what the RJC means by anti-Semitism in their America, which was established recently to effec-
tively replace the National Jewish Democratic Council,
which is defunct in all but name.
This is that appeal, signed by the JDCA chairman,
Ron Klein:

Proud to b e Jew i s h Since President Trumps election, now more than


ever, we cant afford to be complacent as American
Jews. Anti-Semitism has roared back to life with sur-

Why do we give to Jewish Federation? The idea that anti-


We want our children to understand the Semitism has roared
importance of keeping our Jewish community back to life since
vibrant - here and in Israel. Trumps election has
become a talking
This summer, we went to Israel for our point among a number
childrens bnei mitzvah and visited agencies of Jewish groups,
supported by Jewish Federation. We toured
Nahariya, Jewish Federations sister city,
although the statistical
and volunteered at a food pantry. Visiting evidence is ambiguous.
these sites and making new friends made us
realize how important it is to support Jewish prising ferocity, as neo-Nazis march in Charlottes-
Federation. Jewish Federations work inspires ville and the president refuses to condemn them. We
American Jews have to be on the front-lines of fighting
us to give and it can inspire you, too!
for justice and equality. [There follows a description
~ Alyson and Tzvi Small Family of the JDCA mission.] President Trump must be held
accountable. Show them where the Jewish community
stands by supporting the Jewish Democratic Council of
America this #GivingTuesday.
Send a message to President Trump and his sup-
porters in our community: You dont speak for us!
#NotInOurName
The idea that anti-Semitism has roared back to life
since Trumps election has become a talking point
among a number of Jewish groups, although the sta-
tistical evidence is ambiguous. On the other hand, ask
the actual neo-Nazis and white supremacists whats

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making them bolder, and they will say its Trumps and most Jewish groups regard as the dismantling of Israel as trial for his crimes during the Holocaust.
election and his embrace of an insular nationalism. a Jewish state. The George W. Bush and then the Obama administra-
Plenty of MAGA hats were visible at Charlottesville. The RJC fundraising appeal continues: tion tried to deport Palij; no country would take him. The
Trump did condemn the Charlottesville marchers, Meanwhile, Republicans continue to steadfastly support Trump administration this month pledged to deport him
but only after a 24-hour firestorm following his ini- the Jewish community and forcefully combat anti-Semi- after a bipartisan appeal from the states congressional del-
tial remarks blaming violence on many sides. Many tism. New York lawmakers urged President Obamas Justice egation; whether it succeeds where Bush and Obama did
centrist Jewish groups regarded that as too little, too Department for years to deport Nazi Trawniki death camp not is not yet clear. The Obama administration was not shy
late, especially after a news conference the next day in guard Jakiw Palij, to no avail. Just last week, the Trump about deporting Nazis: John Demjanjuk, most prominently,
which the president again blamed the counterprotest- Administration vowed to act to deport Palij so he can stand was sent to Germany on Obamas watch. JTA WIRE SERVICE

ers, as well as right-wing extremists, for that Saturdays


violence. The largest nonpartisan Jewish groups didnt
accuse Trump of anti-Semitism, but it did chide him
for not using his bully pulpit to forcefully and consis-
tently condemn the kind of racism and anti-Semitism

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on display in Charlottesville
Brooks, in a follow-up email, said J Street also was
guilty of unfair guilt by association. A pitch by the lib-
eral Mideast policy groups director, Jeremy Ben-Ami,
was sent after the Zionist Organization of America
held a gala last month featuring Trumps former top
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e Donald Trump, it fears and opposes most of his pol-

s icy agenda, and it abhors the white nationalist hatred


spread by the likes of Steve Bannon and Breitbart.
g On the other side, theres the extreme and vocal

r minority that embraces Islamophobes, racists and


even anti-Semites as long as they call themselves
, pro-Israel, defend the settlement movement and

l attack liberals.
This minority is small, but its dangerous and its
. influence is clearly growing. Thats because, incred-
ibly, it has the full support of the prime minister of
Israel and the president of the United States, as well
as the full financial backing of their shared favorite
donor, Sheldon Adelson.
Bannon does not embrace anti-Semites and has said
he doesnt welcome their support, although Breitbart
News seems happy to flirt with them occasionally. And
Adelson (and for that matter Brooks) have made clear
that while they do not regard Bannon as an anti-Semite,
they are not allied with him. The caveat: J Street is not
the Democratic Party. The RJCs pitch made it sound like
these accusations were a Democratic phenomenon.
Back to the allegations in the RJC pitch that there
W
sand & r e
was blatant anti-Semitism among Democrats:
Look no further than prominent Democrat poli- e
ticians, like 2020 presidential hopeful Kirsten Gil- your exi nish
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unabashed anti-Semite and supporter of Sharia law.
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ing a Muslim of supporting sharia law is like accusing New
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A war along Israels northern border could be just week, Dermer said. As Iran continues to aggressively happen, he said. JNS.ORG

weeks away, according to Israeli Ambassador to the expand its military presence near Israels border, the
U.S. Ron Dermer. Jewish state is forced to enforce its red lines, which
Dermer made the comments in a wide-ranging inter- risks an escalation in tension, he said. Report: Alibaba to acquire
view published by Politico on Monday, saying that the The more they push, we have to enforce our red Israeli start-up Visualead
probability of direct conflict with the Iranian terror lines, and you always have the prospects of an esca-
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According to the German daily newspaper Frank-
furter Allgemeine Zeitung, the German government
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What Michael Flynns plea


could mean for Jared Kushner and Israel
RON KAMPEAS
Why does the timing matter? that it would allow through the Security
WASHINGTON Michael Flynn, President The 1799 Logan Act calls for the prosecu- Council resolution a move that would

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Donald Trumps former national security tion of any U.S. person who directly or indi- enrage Israel and its American supporters. It
adviser, pleaded guilty to lying to the FBI rectly commences or carries on any corre- did and Russia did not intervene, in fact vot-
twice. Both times it was about policy maneu- spondence or intercourse with any foreign ing for the resolution. (Russia did heed the
vering with Sergey Kislyak, the Russian government or any officer or agent thereof, in Trump teams request not to impose sanc-
ambassador to the United States, during the relation to any disputes or controversies with tions, however.)
presidential transition. the United States, or to defeat the measures Flynns actions could suggest that he car-
That last word is key: Flynn twice talked to of the United States. ried on intercourse ... in relation to another
Kislyak in December 2016 when Trump was Neither Flynn nor Trump were yet in countrys controversies with the United
president-elect. He was not president. That government. States, as its defined in the Logan Act. In the
was still Barack Obamas job. What did Flynn do? case of the Obama administrations decision Michael Flynn leaves his plea hearing
One of the things Flynn and Kislyak According to court papers released Friday, to allow the U.N. Security Council resolution at the federal courthouse in Washing-
talked about was Israel. Flynn says that was Flynn on Dec. 29 asked Kislyak for assurances to advance, his action, had it been successful, ton, D.C., on Dec. 1, 2017.
at the behest of Trumps son-in-law and that Russia would not retaliate against the would have defeated a U.S. measure.
adviser Jared Kushner, who has longstand- United States for sanctions Obama had just So this is about the Logan Act? his foreign policy during a transition is not
ing ties with Israeli Prime Minister Benjamin imposed for Russias alleged interference in Maybe not. There has not been a successful unprecedented. President-elect Dwight
Netanyahu. the 2016 U.S. election. On Dec. 22 he asked prosecution under the act since 1799; there Eisenhower visited South Korea in Novem-
What does that mean for special pros- Kislyak to keep a U.N. Security Council reso- seems to have been only two indictments. ber 1952 to lay the ground for his plan to end
ecutor Robert Muellers investigation of ties lution condemning Israels settlement policy One concern is the laws First Amendment the war. During the 1968 transition Richard
between the Trump campaign and transition from advancing. He lied about those conver- implications. The Logan Act, were it ever Nixon, through a top adviser, Henry Kiss-
team and Russia? What are the implications sations in a Jan. 24 interview with FBI agents. to be applied broadly, would inhibit politi- inger, secretly reached out to North Vietnam
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So if its not about the Logan Act, what 2016, Trump put out a statement saying
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American airman who had been captured. OBrien, a Trump biographer, said Kush-
Lyndon Johnson considered invoking ners interests with Russia and Israel may
the Logan Act just before the 1968 election extend well beyond his father-in-laws
when he learned that Nixon was secretly foreign policy considerations. Kushners
working with the South Vietnamese to scut-
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of a Manhattan office tower, and Muel-
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ocratic candidate, Johnsons vice president, ler is intrigued about a meeting Kushner
Hubert Humphrey, a pre-election boost. took with a banker during the transition.
(Saigon wanted Nixon to win.) Johnson in (Kushner has said he met with the banker
the end kept Nixons secret. because of his close ties to Russian Presi-

in Israel
So its the cover-up, not the crime? dent Vladimir Putin, and for no other rea-
Perhaps. If Mueller establishes that son.) In his real estate dealings, Kushner
the Trump transition team was intent on has also partnered with one of Israels
undercutting steps Obama had taken to wealthiest families.
protect American interests, the lying would
become more consequential, even if the
Theres more: Kushner reportedly
pressed his father-in-law to sack then-FBI THE DANIEL
underlying act is not illegal.
So isnt it a wrap? Muellers got Flynns
Director James Comey in May. Comey was
investigating the very events that have HOTEL & SPA
guilty plea, right?
Mueller has another game in mind, and
entangled Flynn and, we now know,
Kushner. Kushner also has spoken to con- HERZLIYA
Flynn apparently is cooperating. In his gressional committees and with Muellers
plea, Flynn said a very senior member of investigators. Whether Flynns revelations
the presidential transition team directed of the conversations with Kislyak came up
Flynn to contact officials from foreign gov- and whether Kushner was truthful about
ernments, including Russia, to learn where what he knew we dont know.
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How a kids book on Palestine ensnared


this Manhattan store in a political crossfire
BEN SALES But thats what happened after Doeblin, the co-owner of ABC Book. The bookstore chain also donated $650 to a
Book Culture, a chain of independent bookstores in New York crowdfunding campaign for P is for Palestine.
When Chris Doeblin agreed to buy 100 copies of a chil- City, bought and held a reading of P is for Palestine, which But that angered another partner of Book Cultures: the
drens book to help an author friend, he didnt expect to came out last month. Written by Golbarg Bashi, an Iranian-born Stephen Wise Free Synagogue. This week, Book Culture
become enmeshed in a controversy over international author who has held Persian-language readings of childrens is set to provide books and toys for a book fair at the large
relations and free speech. books at Book Culture for three years, it is subtitled A Palestine Reform congregation in Manhattan. But after discovering
the bookstores work with Bashi, the synagogue threat-
ened to pull out, charging that the book especially a
page on intifada glorifies violence against Israelis.
In the end, the synagogue withdrew the threat, but
not before putting an independent bookstore chain
in the unusual position of having to make a string of
statements on the Israeli-Palestinian conflict includ-
ing supporting Israels right to exist and opposing the
boycott movement against it.
So many people were incensed and took offense and
were hurt by this books publication, Doeblin said. I can
honestly say Im sorry. As we try and reach out to people,
we have to do it with enough respect so that we dont hurt

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and cause these violent reactions.
This is just the latest ripple effect of controversy that
has surrounded P is for Palestine since it was published
on Nov. 11. The picture book dedicates pages to each letter
of the alphabet, along with a corresponding word A is
for Arabic, for example.
The main reason for the conflict wasnt the books title
or concept. Instead, it was the two-page spread featur-
ing the letter I, which says I is for Intifada, Intifada is
Arabic for rising up for what is right, if you are a kid or a
grownup! The accompanying illustration shows a father
and child waving peace signs next to barbed wire.
The synagogue, along with plenty of other critics,
charged that the book obscured the violent nature of the
two Palestinian intifadas, or uprisings, which occurred
over a span of years in the late 1980s and again in the
early 2000s. More than 1,000 Israelis died in attacks per-
petrated by Palestinian terror groups that targeted civil-
ians. Thousands of Palestinians died in clashes with Israeli
security forces.
Of particular concern to me is the glorification of the
Palestinian intifada a cruel, murderous and terroris-
tic campaign that purposely targeted innocent Israe-
lis, including children, in restaurants, buses, hospitals,
schools and shopping malls, Ammiel Hirsch, the Stephen
Wise Free Synagogues senior rabbi, said in a statement.

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The intifada was not a rising up for what is right. It was


a mass descent into immorality.
Bashi, however, says intifada encompasses a broader
and largely nonviolent Palestinian cultural resistance.
P is for Palestine has sold out its initial print run of
2,000 copies. And the controversies have continued: Last
month, a 28,000-member Facebook group for mothers
on the Upper East Side of Manhattan was wracked by vit-
riolic debate over the book.
The dust-up between the synagogue and Book Cul-
ture began on Nov. 21, when Hirsch put out a statement
demanding Book Culture publicly rescind their support
of P Is for Palestine, a book by Golbarg Bashi that glorifies
the Palestinian intifada or Stephen Wise will cancel its
upcoming book fair featuring Book Culture.
Since then, the synagogue and bookstore have come A view of Book Culture, a bookstore on Manhattans Upper West Side. COURTESY OF BOOK CULTURE

to an agreement: Book Cultures owners have publicly


repudiated Bashis views but will keep selling her
book. Hirsch said that the synagogue is happy to part-

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dont know what the current or future relationship of the
store is to the book. We didnt want to get into the busi-
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Bashi, however, who lives in New York, feels the syna-
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Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell


speaks; he is flanked, from left, by Republican
senators John Barrasso, Orrin Hatch, John
Thune and John Cornyn, on Nov. 28, 2017.
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Why Jewish groups


arent thrilled about
the upcoming
tax overhaul
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WASHINGTON Staring at a massive defeat, Jew-


ish groups dealing with social safety net issues
are looking at the tax plan about to reach its final
stages in Congress and hoping they can snatch a
few small victories.
The hope is when they reconcile the bills that
passed the House and the Senate, lawmakers will
preserve a number of elements of the Senate bill,
particularly deductions for medical expenses.
Bnai Brith International, which advocates for
elderly care, cited the nonpartisan Congressional
Budget Offices estimate that the slashed taxes in the
Senate and House bills would increase the deficit to
$1 trillion. The measures ostensibly compensate for
tax cuts by removing loopholes and deductions, but
overall there will be massive losses in revenue.

The hope is when they


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Jewish groups said they hoped the Senate version pre-
vails for a number of reasons:
It preserves deductions for medical expenses. Most
Americans who apply for the deductions, which apply
if your medical expenses exceed 10 percent of your
income, are older than 65.

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Tax-free withdrawals
will include private
school tuition and
could help some
parents in the
community better
afford the high cost
of Jewish education.
ABBA COHEN

It has more expansive allowances for item-


izing deductions for charitable giving, a practice
that Jewish groups say is critical to their fundrais-
ing. As more taxpayers continue to itemize, there
will be less negative impact on charitable giving,
the Jewish Federations of North America said in a
memo Monday to its constituent federations.
The Senate version also does not touch current
reporting for donor-advised funds, the system of allow-
ing donors to determine where a federation spends the
money it parks in planned-giving vehicles. Its a key way
for federations to expand their donor base.
In sum, the Senate version of HR 1 is more favor-
able than the House-passed bill to the charitable
sector in general and federations in particular, the
JFNA memo said.
It does not remove the so-called Johnson
Amendment, which blocks houses of worship from
directly campaigning for political candidates. An
array of centrist and liberal groups oppose remov-
ing the amendment; conservative Christian groups
want it gone. Trump campaigned last year for the
removal of the amendment, named for Lyndon
Johnson, who led its passage as a Texas senator in
the 1950s. The House version removes it.
The Senate version includes an amendment that
would allow $10,000 a year in tax-exempt student
savings plans to go toward private school tuition.
Now, the monies are dedicated almost solely to uni-
versity tuition. Sen. Ted Cruz, R-Texas, introduced
the amendment, which is favored by Orthodox Jew- Lighting the way.

ish groups, and it passed by a 51-50 margin. Vice


President Mike Pence cast the deciding vote.
We are supporting the expansion of 529 educa-
tion savings accounts to the K-12 level, said Abba
Cohen, Washington director for the charedi Ortho-
dox Agudath Israel of America, using the tax code
name for the savings plans. Tax-free withdrawals
will include private school tuition and could help
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Chanukah on ice in Budapest


CNAAN LIPHSHIZ

BUDAPEST The outdoor ice skating rink the largest in


Central Europe in Budapests city center has been part of
Hungarys Christmas tradition for nearly 150 years.
Stretching across 3.5 acres between Heroes Square
and Vajdahunyad Castle, the Budapest City Park Ice Rink
draws hundreds of thousands of visitors from across the
country each winter. They come for the Christmas mar-
ket, the winter festival, and the promise of smooth ice and
affordable skate rentals.
Its an enormous and enormously popular attraction, so
City Park Ice Rink is filled with Christmas revelers nearly
every day.
Except on the first night of Chanukah.
On that evening, the rink is populated with hundreds of
Jews. They gather to sing Chanukah songs as they watch rab-
bis on skates light a large menorah built by EMIH, the local
branch of Chabad. With help from a donor in Budapest, they
rent the rink for $12,000, and distribute sufganiyot and tea to
holiday revelers who have pre-purchased tickets.
The City Park Chanukah celebration started just over
a decade ago, and it is unusual in that its one of just a few
places in Europe where the North American Chanukah on

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ice tradition has taken root. In the United States, Chabad rab-
bis organize dozens of Chanukah on ice events each year, fea-
turing the ceremonial candle lighting, deep-fried Chanukah
delicacies, and ice skating, with games for children and train-
ing for the inexperienced. Rabbi Slomo Koves lights a menorah at Chabad Hungarys 2015 Chanukah on Ice at Budapests City Park Ice Rink.
But in Budapest, the event is part of a broader coming out
of Jewish communities in the former communist bloc, where, the largest celebration of Chanukah in
after years of practicing their religion underground, Jews are Europe: the annual gathering of 6,000
now celebrating Chanukah in very public ways. Jews at the State Kremlin Palace for an
Chanukah used to be low key in Budapest, as was every- evening of dance and performances, as
thing else connected to Judaism during socialism, said Rabbi well as the bestowing of awards to com-
Boruch Oberlander, one of the early organizers of Buda- munal VIPs. Organizers say the venue is
pests Chanukah on ice tradition. Back then, Jews feared that important to them for symbolic reasons,
practicing any religion and Judaism especially invited because it produced some of the worlds
persecution. worst anti-Semitic policies after the fall of
But its not good for Judaism when things are low key, Nazi Germany.
he added, because it made people leave the tradition. In Budapest, the citys summertime Jew-
Throughout the Soviet sphere of influence, decades of ish cultural festival also is an example of Jews
religious persecution compounded the Nazi-caused dev- reclaiming their place in society. Judafest,
astation. Unaware or ashamed of their Jewish identity, which was held for the 10th consecutive year,
countless Jews in that part of the world assimilated, dis- draws thousands of Jews and non-Jews to the
tanced themselves from Judaism, and produced children historically Jewish 7th district for sessions,
who no longer saw themselves as Jewish. activities, and exhibitions connected to Jew-
Against this background, Chanukah has a special sig- Rabbi Slomo Koves, right, and a participant at Chabad Hungarys ish cooking, dancing, and Yiddish.
nificance in the post-communist world, said Oberlander, a 2015 Chanukah on Ice take a selfie at Budapests City Park Ice Rink But theres something special about the
Brooklyn-born rabbi who settled in Budapest 28 years ago in December 2015. COURTESY OF EMIH Chanukah-on-ice event, which is held at an
as a Chabad emissary. iconic location with strong ties to the holiday
Oberlander isnt just talking about public events at ice Such displays inspired Jews to think big in Western Europe, period for all Hungarians.
skating rinks theres also the longstanding practice of ending decades in which communities traumatized by the I think it indicates a generational difference in which
placing Chanukah menorahs on the windowsill, specifi- Holocaust had shunned initiatives that advertise Judaism. young people our age dont think twice about participat-
cally for all to see. Since 2013 in the Netherlands, for example, the chief ing in an event that celebrates, publicly, our Jewish iden-
Meaning, dont be low key! he said. rabbi and the Israeli ambassador had been lifted by crane tity, Eszter Fabriczki, 30, a regular at the event, said.
Oberlander, 53, does not skate himself, he said, explaining to light the first candle of a 36-foot menorah built for Holocaust survivors passed the fear element to their chil-
hes not very good at it. But in his community, the event is the Jewish community by Christian Zionists who say it is dren, but not to their grandchildren.
one of the most popular because of how it combines seasonal Europes largest. In Berlin, a giant menorah is lit at the Against this background, Fabriczki said, her father is freak-
amenities, sports, and religious ceremony in a fun, family- Brandenburg Gate monument. ing out over my wanting to give my son a circumcision, if I
friendly setting. Like the massive menorah lightings, Europes growing have a son, because then he could be identified as Jewish.
His interpretation of how Jews should celebrate Chanukah Chanukah-on-ice trend which this year can be observed She has no children, adding: I have no thoughts of this kind,
is shared by many rabbis all over the world Chabad rabbis, in Budapest, Moscow, and London also started in the living a pretty comfortable Jewish life.
in particular who stage large, public menorah lightings in United States, where it is occurring this year in locations Despite the generational gap it exposes, Fabriczki said
central squares of major cities. New York, for example, boasts from Wollman Rink in New Yorks Central Park, to Hous- she and her mother have bonded over the City Park Ice
two such massive events: The Grand Army Plazas in both Man- ton, to San Mateo, California. Rink Chanukah event.
hattan and Brooklyn have been in competition over which In Moscow, the popular Chanukah-on-ice event, Im quite religious but my mother is not, so the Chanu-
holds the title of Worlds Largest Menorah. which began in 2012, is eclipsed by what may well be kah on ice event is something we can share because she

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likes to ice skate and its important for me to observe Nehru a couple of months. She would go to catch up with old
all the Jewish holidays, Fabriczki said. FROM PAGE 17 friends each evening and often would return in tears. So
But for 16-year-old Sara Szalai, Budapests Chanukah on Varsnyi Irn utca and she and her sister used to go many of them had disappeared during the war or had suf-
on ice means quality time with her dad, Kalman, who around the city in a horse carriage although later her fered from the German occupation and later from the Rus-
is the managing director of the Jewish communitys father lost much of his wealth in the financial crash of sian invasion.
Action and Protection Foundation, the local equiva- 1928. Fori remembered being given hot toast with butter Fori also revisited Budapest in the early 1960s, going
lent of the Anti-Defamation League, which monitors and grated garlic to ward off the cold, after coming home again to see her father, and once again, much later, went
anti-Semitic incidents. from a morning of ice-skating. back with her husband. She never forgot her native Hun-
Neither are particularly concerned about self-iden- She remembered her childhood as a happy time, garian she also spoke French, Italian, and German, and
tifying as Jews at the event. Maybe there are people Although neither Fori nor her mother, safely in India, were of course English but she never learned Yiddish.
who think this way, but for us its not a big issue, she directly affected by the Second World War, other members Fori was a remarkable woman, who completely remade
said; shes a pretty good skater, she added. Its usu- of her family were not so fortunate, though most survived. herself as an Indian while never forgetting her Jewish past.
ally pretty crowded there, so its a rare opportunity to Her father was lucky. He remained in Hungary through- In fact, late in her life, when she met the British Jewish his-
really skate properly on Chanukah without worrying out the war; a fierce German housekeeper took care of him torian Martin Gilbert, a classmate of her sons, she asked
about bumping into people. and would not allow anybody to come into the house to him for reading material on the history of the Jews. She
The event typically unites Jews across the religious- ask any questions. He felt secure enough to go out of the felt her ignorance of that subject keenly. In response, Gil-
secular divide. Chanukah has fewer restrictions than house to have a shave every day. Foris uncle Joszef, her bert wrote a book, Letters to Auntie Fori: The 5,000-Year
other Jewish observances, such as Shabbat or Yom Kip- mothers brother, also survived the Nazis. He was a good History of the Jewish People and Their Faith, published in
pur, when observant Jews are not allowed to operate bridge player, and a Hungarian commandant who played 2002, based on his correspondence with her.
machines, travel, or perform any action classified as work. with him kept him alive during the war. After the war Joszef Being Jewish is, first and foremost, being a part of the
In Hungarys fractious Jewish community where stayed on, but he left before the Communists came into Jewish people, and Fori felt this kinship until the end. As
interdenominational tensions are rising amid polariz- power. Foris sister and her husband moved to Australia. she told Martin Gilbert, I have a feeling of guilt. I wasnt
ing policies undertaken by the nationalist government Another cousin escaped the communists by jumping into there. I was safe. The guilt feeling is still with me. Why
Chanukah on ice offers a rare armistice in which the the Danube and feigning death. should I not have suffered?
secular, religious, local, and Israeli Jews put aside their After the war, Fori went back to Hungary for a couple of
differences for a night of fun. visits. In 1949, on the way to Washington, where BK had Dr. Meylekh (P.V.) Viswanath of Teaneck teaches finance
Its also, Fabriczki noted, a chance to see rabbis on been posted to the Indian Embassy, she took her three at Pace University. His research intersects economics,
skates. sons to meet their grandfather and stayed in Budapest for religion, and history.
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Editorial
Honoring social service agencies
TRUTH REGARDLESS OF CONSEQUENCES

Jerusalem awaits
A its proper recognition
t the dinner celebrating the first tax bill is made law, they will try to balance it
year of the fledgling Jewish Family by reforming entitlement programs, including

D
and Childrens Service of Northern Medicare and Medicaid.
New Jersey an organization so So these are hard times for charities. uring the presiden- attack us; they already view Amer-
new that some of its honorees stumbled over But then there were those gifts that showed tial campaign, Donald icans as decadent infidels who
the very many initials in its obligatory alpha- up in the JFCS offices. Trump pledged that he deserve death. We cannot allow our
bet-jumble name, the JFCS of NNJ (how hard Clearly, Ms. Greenbaum said, very few peo- would recognize Jeru- foreign policy to be held hostage by
it would be for our community if the letter J ple knew exactly what specific clients needed, salem as Israels capital and move people who despise our democratic
were rationed!) its executive director, Susan down to the dollar amount those needs would the U.S. embassy there from Tel and religious values. If we based all
Greenbaum, told a story. cost. Who could know that, she asked rhetori- Aviv. He is reportedly preparing an our policies on whether they might
There have been quite a few highly and cally. Its the social workers and other therapists announcement this week, and I trust upset Muslim extremists, we would
oddly specific donations showing up in the who work with the clients. that he will make good on his cam- be totally paralyzed.
office, she said. So lets stop and think about the people who paign promise. Recognition of reality To those who say moving the
There was a gym membership for a teenage work for social service agencies like JFCS. Lets is long overdue. embassy will kill the
girl, a therapy client who couldnt afford to think, for that matter, for people like the ones The usual sus- peace process, I have a
pay for the exercise she needed get her blood who work at Sinai Schools, whom we write pects, the Palestin- simple question: What
flowing and her brain unfogged. The gym was about this week, or at Yachad, whom we wrote ians and their sup- peace process?
exactly what she needed. about a few weeks ago. porters, certain Arab I understand that
A piece of medical equipment a shower What all these people have in a common is governments, and the the president is pre-
chair showed up in the food pantry, labeled a love for their work, which is helping people. obstructionists in the paring his own initia-
with a specific therapy clients name. The They are lucky; theyve found a passion that State Department are tive and does not want
chair was exactly what he needed. provides them with both a livelihood and a howling, as they do to lose the opportunity
There was a check on a desk; the note said reason for being. They have an overwhelming each time the issue is to make the ultimate
that it was to register a client in the agencys empathy for the people with whom they work, raised. The Palestin- Rabbi deal. Despite this,
school-based system for the schools basket- and it lifts them. ians say they will not Shmuley however, the prospects
ball team. The amount was exact, and being There is no small irony in the many gifts that negotiate, the Arabs Boteach for reaching a deal will
on the team was exactly what he needed. these selfless people give. It is generally well say the Muslim world be enhanced by recog-
As we reported last week, needs are going known that if you want a lucrative job and will revolt against us, nizing Jerusalem and
up. We are living through a particularly tense, that job easily could also be intellectually stimu- and the State Department says U.S. moving the embassy. The reason
unsettled time; norms of civility are broken lating, even actively exciting you dont go into interests will be threatened and the is that one of the prerequisites to a
so quickly that their sharp shards have begun social services. When it comes to emotional peace process will end. I hope the deal is disabusing the Palestinians
to litter our minds. More and more children gratification, those jobs pay. When it comes to president ignores these doomsayers. of the notion that Jerusalem will be
need therapy. So do their parents. In immi- actual, you know, money, the stuff you pay your First, the Palestinians have refused divided or that Israel will give up
grant communities, fear is rising; in the Jew- bills with not so much. to negotiate with Israel for eight sovereignty over the holiest sites of
ish community, divisiveness, anger, disbelief, In fact, in at least some versions of the years. They would not talk after Pres- Judaism. The fact that the Western
and a feeling of general unease have settled in, new tax bill, there was a direct hit at teach- ident Obama coerced Prime Minister Wall is in occupied East Jerusalem
unsettling us all. ers, another group of people who often are Netanyahu to freeze settlement con- is irrelevant as the Jewish history of
The new tax bills that House and Senate motivated more by love than by practicality. struction for 10 months. They have the entire city dates to the time of
Republicans passed and that have to be rec- In poor school districts, teachers often have made excuses ever since. During the King David, centuries before Jordan
onciled before they become law (and before to pay for their own school supplies; if they summer, Mahmoud Abbas reached divided the city, expelled the Jews,
that the handwritten bits of the Senates version want their rooms decorated or their students a reconciliation agreement with and became an occupying power.
have to be typed) is likely to affect charitable to have paper or pens, they have to buy them Hamas, joining hands with the orga- Lets also be clear: The Palestin-
donations. (It has to do with doubling the stan- with their own money. The tax code honored nization whose raison dtre is the ians have no claim to Jerusalem, not
dard deduction, which makes it less likely that that outlay, at least symbolically, by allowing annihilation of Israel. a weaker claim, no claim whatsoever.
people will itemize their deductions. Accord- them to deduct the first $250. That deduction It is possible that some Muslims The Palestinian demand to establish
ing to National Public Radio, citing the Indiana most likely will go away. will be angry with the United States a state with a capital in Jerusalem is
School of Philanthropy, 82 percent of all chari- As a community, and as individual people, we if it recognizes the obvious fact that based on one thing and one thing
table giving comes from people who itemize honor social workers and teachers and school Jerusalem is, and has been since only, a desire to control the holy city.
their tax return. And the estimate is that char- administrators who are propelled by love and 1948, Israels capital. Radical Mus- The Palestinians never have had a
itable giving will go down $13 billion with the empathy. We are moved by their stories. We lims dont need any new reasons to state in recorded history, let alone a
changes in both these pieces of legislation.) wish that the need for them to sacrifice finan-
Beyond that, Republican leaders have said cially would go away, although we realize that Rabbi Shmuley Boteach of Englewood is the author of 31 books, most recently
that once the deficit balloons, as it will if their is unlikely to happen, and we honor them. JP The Israel Warrior. Follow him on Twitter @RabbiShmuley.

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capital in Jerusalem. The majority of the population


in Jerusalem has been Jewish since at least 1844. For Much pain for the many,
most of history under the Muslim empire, Jerusalem
was a backwater of no significance, and never served to benefit the richest few

T
as a provincial capital or a Muslim cultural center.
As for religious significance, Jerusalem is no holier he tax bills just passed by the House and the growing chasm even bigger.
to Palestinians than to any other Muslim. While the Senate are each an historically catastrophic If past is prologue (and by the actual admission of many
entirety of Jerusalem is holy to Jews, Muslims revere disaster for most Americans in general, and for CEOs) we can expect that our very wealthiest individuals
only the Al-Aqsa Mosque. Palestinians have the right most New Jerseyans in particular. and corporations will hold onto their newly gotten tax cuts,
- under Israeli law to worship at the mosque, a right These bills still need to be reconciled and voted on by enhance their lifestyles, buy back their stock, and give their
we should always protect. But they have no legal the same Republican-controlled houses of Congress that executives and shareholders greater returns, but they will
r right to political sovereignty over the mosque or any wrote them. But what is obvious now is that no amount of not markedly invest in any additional employees, capital
y other part of the city. tinkering around the edges can save our country from the plant, infrastructure, or research and development.
To those who are immediately thinking: What impact of this titanically callous, unfair, and destructive These new Trump tax cuts also will fail to provide real
about the two-state solution? Is it not the case that legislation if it is passed. tax relief to the vast majority of Americans.
t the Palestinians will never accept a state without Here is the fundamental question: Is this the best use For example, the nonpartisan congressional Joint Com-
Jerusalem as their capital? of the $1 to $3 trillion that these tax bills will add to our mittee on Taxation estimates that as a direct result of these
Well, Abbas once engaged in talks with Israeli national debt? debt-increasing tax cut bills, by 2027, 84 percent of U.S.
Labor Party member Yossi Beilin that envisioned a To put this question in context, lets consider just a households will face either a tax increase or a tax cut that
Palestinian state with its capital in Abu Dis. In fact, few examples of the many terrible provi- is smaller than $100. The nonpartisan Tax
the Palestinians even built a building for their future sions and effects of this legislation: It (i) Policy Center calculates that half the tax sav-
t parliament in the town. Abu Dis is technically part of adds between $1 trillion to $3 trillion to our ings would go to the top 1 percent people
Jerusalem and was included in the corpus separatum national debt; (ii) cuts hundreds of billions who earn more than $732,800. The center
t of Jerusalem in the partition decision. needed to meet the obligations of Medicare adds that after 10 years, nearly 80 percent of
- The notion of a compromise is moot, however, so and Medicaid to our nations baby boomers the savings would go to the top 1 percent of
- long as the Palestinians remain obdurate and refuse and retirees; (iii) raises taxes on 78 million earners.
t to recognize Israel as a Jewish state within any middle class households; (iv) results in 13 As for the harm to New Jerseyans in particu-
y boundaries, or to engage in face-to-face talks. That million Americans losing health insurance; lar, the House and Senate bills either eliminate
is even more reason for the president to act now. (v) provides no money for the rebuilding of or cap the deduction for state and local prop-
, The Palestinians need to be shown that Israels capi- Americas crumbling roads, sewers, bridges, Steven R. erty and income taxes, costing New Jerseyans
tal will remain united and that the most powerful and tunnels; (vi) gives no money for research Rothman more than $130 million dollars. It has been esti-
country in the world will not allow the Palestinians and development for cures of diseases or for mated that this provision will reduce the value
- to divide it. Hopefully, once America acts, the rest of technological breakthroughs in engineering, of New Jersey homes, make home ownership
the worlds leaders will follow suit. In fact, for those industry, or science; (vii) taxes graduate students if they here more expensive to maintain, and seriously hurt many
who fear violence because of a change in policy, the have been given a tuition grant or waiver; and (viii) ends homeowners ability to sell their houses.
best way to send a message to the extremists that or caps the federal tax deduction for state and local taxes. To make matters even more unfair and unreasonable,
they cannot intimidate us is for every country to As for the tax bills effect on our nations economy in gen- these tax bills keep the Foreign Earned Income Exclu-
move its embassy to Jerusalem. eral, there is no dispute that this bill will add to our national sion in place. That allows someone to exclude $101,300
On a personal note, in my sons bedroom there is debt. In a party-line vote, the Republican-majority House in income earned outside of the United States, if taxes
f a photograph of my great-grandfather from Iran. He and Senate conceded as much. were paid on that money in the foreign country. The
n sports a long white beard and crushed hat. He was notion that taxes paid to a foreign government can be
called Hajji Chaim because more than 100 years ago, deducted, but taxes paid to an American state or local
f family tradition has it, he traveled by foot more than government cannot be, is simply unfair and discrimina-
f 2,000 kilometers from Isfahan, Iran, all the way to tory against those earning their incomes in America. This
the holy city of Jerusalem. His dream was to plant As for the harm to New is yet another example of how these tax cut bills help a
, his eyes upon the last fragments of the Holy Temple, very few wealthy people at the expense of a far greater
destroyed 2000 years earlier by the Romans. He was Jerseyans in particular, number of Americans.
- renowned in the Iranian Jewish community for hav- the House and Senate Now is not the time to double down on a failed trickle-
t ing made the great pilgrimage, and acquired the title down theory that disproportionately benefits only the rich-
. Hajji for completing a form of a Jewish hajj. bills either eliminate est among us, makes our countrys economic situation
I have heard this story from my father from the or cap the deduction worse, puts off addressing our nations real problems, adds
time I was a boy. This story of my ancestor indicates to the suffering of tens of millions of Americans, and fur-
both what Jerusalem means to the Jewish people why for state and local ther burdens our children with paying off a greater national
. we must never forfeit any part of it today. property and income debt, leaving them to fix those problems that will have got-
President Trump, electrify the world with official ten worse and more expensive to address and making them
American recognition of the eternal Jewish connec- taxes, costing New less competitive in the global economy.
tion to the holy city of Jerusalem and as the capital Jerseyans more than If President Trump signs these bills, they will under-
of Israel. mine the American economy, while the vast majority of
$130 million dollars. Americans either will get nothing out of it or will lose a lot.
These tax cuts will make most Americans economic lives
Just a few weeks ago, Republican senators and repre- more insecure, unfair, and unstable.
sentatives voted to allow $1.5 trillion in debt to be added Reach out to as many House and Senate Republican
to their budget authority. The most conservative esti- members as you can to get them to vote down these disas-
mates show that these tax bills use up at least $1 trillion trous bills.
The opinions expressed in this section are those of of that amount. Most economists, however, believe that And while youre at it, encourage President Trump to
the authors, not necessarily those this legislation will cause as much as $2 trillion or $3 tril- start his tax reform effort again. This time, demand that
lion dollars to be added to the national debt. he incorporate the priorities and wellbeing of the vast
of the newspapers editors, publishers, or other
According to the Federal Reserve, 1 percent of Ameri- majority of Americans, not only his chosen few.
staffers. We welcome letters to the editor.
cans now own nearly 40 percent of our nations wealth,
Send them to jstandardletters@gmail.com. and that disparity increases every year. These new tax Steven R. Rothman of Englewood, a Democrat, is the former
cuts, which disproportionately benefit the richest of U.S. Congressman who represented New Jerseys 9th
Americans, will make that already indefensible and Congressional District from 1997 to 2013.

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Opinion

Being Hillel
Rethinking a position on welcoming intermarried Jews

T
en years later, Ive Ten years later, I think Aaron is correct. Jews who Consider that in May, Zuckerberg told Harvard gradu-
changed my mind marry out dont actively end their Jewish involvement. ates at commencement that at his daughters bedtime,
about intermarried What has happened in the past decade to change my he sings her an adaptation of Debbie Friedmans Mishe-
families position? berach prayer; after Yom Kippur he posted on Facebook
Like so many college stu- First, the theoretical became practical. In college, about forgiveness; and in September he posted pictures
dents, my roommate and I none of my friends had gotten married yet. Now, how- of his family celebrating Shabbat with lit candles, home-
engaged in late-night conver- ever, my peers have families with kids. I see that even made challah, and a kiddush cup thats been in the fam-
sations about world-changing those who married out still go to Shabbat dinners, sed- ily for 100 years. (To read more, Google Ben Sales story;
ideas. Unlike some other dorm ers, and services, often with their spouses. I know these use keywords JTA Ben Sales Mark Zuckerberg Judaism)
rooms, however, ours always Rabbi Alex people. Im captured especially by that kiddush cup. I dont
revolved around Jewish topics. Freedman Second, I realize that while marrying Jewish still know the story, but somebody in his family saw that one
We both became rabbis, to remains the logical thing for Jews to do, logic doesnt day Mark might want to use that kiddush cup for Shabbat,
nobodys surprise. govern everybodys choices. And when love enters the even though he was married to a non-Jewish woman. That
I remember returning to one question in particular sev- picture, its heat sometimes melts cold logic. person saw potential that I, as my college self, certainly
eral times: Does a Jew who marries a non-Jew opt out of Third, I shifted my focus from the rule to the exception, did not. Im so grateful that whoever it was took a chance
being Jewish? I always said yes, while Aaron Weininger to those Jews who marry out but still remain involved. The and passed down that cup.
said no. overwhelming odds still maintain that marrying out of the What kiddush cups, real or metaphorical, do we have
To me it was simple: logically, if someone isnt commit- faith lowers or eliminates the markers of Jewish identifica- that we can pass on to somebody close to us?
ted enough to marry another Jew, why would he or she tion in those Jews, their children, and their grandchildren. To be clear, I will officiate only at weddings between
have a Jewish home and raise Jewish kids? Out-marriage The rule remains. But without question, there are plenty two Jews, because I believe in-marriage is ideal. But that
marks a stepping out of the Jewish community. The data of exceptions. Not most, to be sure, but plenty. And if I as doesnt mean that I shouldnt welcome intermarried fami-
bore out this fact. a rabbi and the Jewish community can increase the odds lies. Each of us should reach out to families that have inter-
Aaron, for his part, pointed to people who bucked the of these exceptions remaining committed by reaching out married, in the realistic hope that some of them can be
trend, who married someone who was not Jewish but still to them, then lets do it. the exception and stay connected. If not the other parent,
remained involved in the Jewish community, for whatever A really interesting case study is Mark Zuckerberg of then certainly the children.
reason. They were the exceptions but still they were Facebook. Though he married a non-Jewish woman, Of course Im not the first to suggest Being welcoming,
very real. He reminded me that the world had changed. here is someone who publicly celebrates his Judaism. It but that doesnt make the call to do so less true or less
Unconvinced by each others argument, we called seems that the birth of his first daughter brought about urgent. The Talmud records an amazing sequence of three
it a night. this strengthened public connection to his faith. stories of three people who want to convert to Judaism.

More joy. Less oy.

A
Muslim resident of big-hearted graciousness in response to the religious holi- In the twelfth century, Maimonides (Hilchot Avodah
the East Jerusalem day observances of the majority culture in which we live! Zarah 10:5) codified Rabbi Yebas insight as law: We offer
neighborhood of All too often, Jews react to the Christmas season and its non-Jews appropriate greetings, even on their holiday,
Ras-al-Amud was ubiquitous and particularist greetings with unnecessary in the interests of communal amity (mipnei darkhei sha-
widely and enthusiastically cel- discomfort, at times approaching a hostile siege mentality. lom). Or as a thoughtful Muslim bus driver put it in Jeru-
ebrated by Jewish media out- The subject how to relate to non-Jews and their holi- salem: My goal is to improve relations with my commut-
lets this fall. days, and what appropriate greetings may be, occupied ers. Whether Ihab ever actually studied Maimonides is
Ihab, a bus driver, decorated the rabbis of the Talmud. The Mishnah (Gittin 5:9) says not clear. That he instinctively understood the spirit of the
the Egged bus that he drives to that Jews may lend support to heathens who are work- great sage is beyond dispute.
look like a succah, in celebra- Rabbi Joseph ing the land of Israel during the sabbatical year, when In his profoundly authoritative glosses to the Shulchan
tion of the joyous Jewish har- H. Prouser such agricultural activity is forbidden for Jews. A number Arukh (Yoreh Deah 148:12), Rabbi Moshe Isserles (the
vest festival. He adorned the of sages explain that the support in question is the practice Rema) of sixteenth century Cracow (and a defining pio-
bus ceiling with bamboo mats of offering non-Jewish neighbors suitable greetings. neer of Ashkenazi jurisprudence) also considers how Jews
(skhakh) and hanging plastic fruit and colorful garlands. Achzuku! (Strength to you!) is one such greet- might respond appropriately to the religious holidays of
Before that, on Passover, he decorated his bus to look like ing identified by the accompanying talmudic text (Gittin the majority culture.
a seder table. My goal is to improve relations with my 62A). This was Rabbi Yehudahs preferred greeting; Rabbi Isserles, of course, could have been referring only to
commuters, in light of the fact that theyre oftentimes Sheshet would say Asharta! (Yasher koach! More his Christian neighbors when he said: There is the risk of
strained, doubly so in Jerusalem, Ihab said. Ihabs passen- power to you!). Rabbi Chisda, the Talmud reports, always generating ill will if we separate ourselves from them on
gers, he reported, were delighted, wishing him yasher would be sure to offer greetings to non-Jews, even before their holiday, insofar as we live among them and do busi-
koach (more power to you!) and chag sameach they greeted him. Rabbi Kahana would say Shalom ness with them all year long. Therefore, if we come into a
(happy holiday!). Ihab has indicated his intention once lMar! (Peace to you, sir!). community and we find them rejoicing on their holiday,
again to find creative ways to decorate his bus to mark The talmudic discussion concludes with a logical puz- we should rejoice with them! This will prevent ill will. We
Jewish holidays. zlement: If the Mishnah says we may lend support to (and our friendliness in pursuing commerce the rest of the
A number of friends and colleagues approvingly called non-Jews engaged in behavior which Jewish law forbids year) would otherwise appear hypocritical (and, we might
my attention to this story, welcoming the friendly and to Jews, is it even necessary to say that we may offer them add, mercenary and self-serving).
open-minded spirit of this charming East Jerusalemite, verbal greetings, as the Mishnah also stipulates? (Shouldnt The argument has been asserted in some Jewish quar-
and identifying Ihabs actions as a hopeful sign for a future that simply be inferred as obvious, using a fortiori reason- ters that Christmas is essentially a secular holiday, primar-
of peaceful coexistence and reconciliation. My response ing)? Rabbi Yeba provides a telling and instructive con- ily celebrated as such, and that the customary greeting
to each correspondent who forwarded me articles on clusion: It is necessary to say so to say that we may therefore is halachically unobjectionable. This reasoning
Ihabs Succah-bus was the same: Would that American offer appropriate greetings specifically in reference to should be soundly rejected as demeaning to Christianity,
Jews could demonstrate the same sincere enthusiasm and their holiday. its holy day, and its sancta. During the Christmas season,

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First they approach Shammai with an unfair request


the best known is Teach me the whole Torah while
standing on one foot! Then Shammai shoos them
away, because Judaism rightly maintains standards.
Next they approach Hillel with the same absurd condi-
tion. Hillel quickly agrees, converts them, and teaches
them the tradition in a way that leads them to embrace
it all, which is more than they expected. Hillel doesnt
do this because he has lax standards; rather, he sees
the potential in each of them to meet those standards
eventually.
At the storys end, the three converts gather together
and praise Hillels humility for bringing them under
the wings of Gods presence (Shabbat 31a). The Talmud
here gives Hillel its overwhelming approval.
Very soon, Chanukah will see us gather in the pres-
ence of family, friends, and community. Singing the
blessings and songs by the flickering flames, we rightly
will feel the warmth of community and Gods pres-
ence. We use the shammash candle to kindle the other

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candles.
Lets each be a shammash candle and spread the
light of joyful Jewish living. We cant all be Mark Zuck-
erberg, with 99 million followers. But to our friends
and family who married non-Jewish spouses and their
kids, we can all be Hillel.

Alex Freedman is the associate rabbi at Temple Emanu-El


in Closter. Mark Zuckerberg delivers a commencement speech at Harvard University on May 25, 2017.

we ought to greet the Christians among whom we live in Roman Catholics, Mormons, Eastern Orthodox Christians, Peace and Joy, it should be understood, is not simply a
unprecedented peace and amity (and graciously, indeed, and a variety of Protestants: Methodists, Presbyterians, pareve or theologically neutral holiday greeting. It is (at
gratefully accept their greetings) not because we applaud Disciples of Christ, Baptists, Salvation Army, Anglicans, least from my rabbinic perspective) an artful literary allu-
the secularization of their faith (our own traditions daugh- Lutherans, etc. sion to our own sacred texts. Shoalin bshloman, mipnei
ter faith, it might be added) but because we value their Each year I select my Christmas cards with great care darkhei shalom, Mishnah Gittin reads: We offer them
friendship. (and, I must confess, a significant measure of joy!). Neither suitable greetings (literally, We ask after their peace), in
During the Christmas season, we ought to greet our the design nor the printed greeting is to be theologically the interests of peace. Similarly, Rabbi Moshe Isserles:
Christian neighbors and gratefully accept their greetings wrought (no nativity scenes, no saints, no churches). Yet Yismach imahem One should rejoice with them.
on principle, because we sincerely value the religious neither the design nor the printed greeting is to convey a Thus, Peace and Joy. Imagine: a (non-syncretistic)
expression of the majority culture over the deceptive and secular approach to the Holy Day so treasured by my cor- Christmas card quoting both the Mishnah and the Rema.
destructive allure of secularism and nihilism, with which respondents (no Santa Claus, no sleigh and reindeer, no What a wonderful country! In some ways given the lack
the religious enterprise (including our own) competes for Frosty the Snowman). Furthermore, neither the design of such amity throughout much of the Jewish peoples his-
attention and influence. During the Christmas season, nor the printed greeting is to suggest a syncretistic confla- toric experience it truly is the most wonderful time of
we ought to greet our Christian neighbors and gratefully tion of Christmas and Chanukah. All these requirements the year!
accept their greetings even on their holiday because make my card shopping a daunting challenge. It should be surprising to report that my Christmas
such a pattern of courteous social interaction was pre- Thus my joy upon successful identification of a vehicle cards and the friendship they represent have generated
scribed by the giants of rabbinic leadership from the very for my Christmas greetings! reciprocated expressions of greeting in anticipation of
founding of our tradition. This year, I selected a simple card, depicting on its cover the High Holy Days. This year, a dear friend serving as a
We should rejoice with them, the Rema ruled some two cardinals (of the avian not the ecclesial variety). The United Methodist pastor in Corpus Christi, Texas (with
450 years ago, all but explicitly instructing us to be greeting printed on the interior reads, in gold lettering, whom I stayed in close communication throughout Hur-
merry on Christmas! At the very least, the Rema made Peace and Joy. To the printed message I will add my own ricane Harvey), sent me a colorful Rosh Hashanah card
clear that greetings conducive to the merriness of those handwritten Merry Christmas, as well as a full report with a warm personal message. The card is now framed
celebrating Christmas are in no way contraindicated, pro- on my work, my family, my children and grandson, along and displayed in my home, showing the printed sentiment
hibited, or discouraged by normative and authentic Jewish with inquiries about the similar concerns of the friends on the front cover: More Joy. Less Oy!
practice. and colleagues being addressed. Achzuku, pastor! Yasher koach! Merry Christmas!
In the next few days, I will be reprising my annual cus- The goodwill generated by this annual correspondence, More Joy. Less Oy! The Rema couldnt have said it
tom of sending Christmas cards with personal notes and which I have faithfully carried out for 20 years and more, better himself. May that sentiment guide us in the Jewish
greetings to a long list of Christian clergy and lay lead- has been immeasurable. The year I dispatched Christmas community throughout the days and weeks ahead.
ers with whom I have been privileged to work coopera- cards from Jerusalem while on a family vacation made a
tively (many of these through my role as the Boy Scouts particularly profound impact. (Card shopping was unusu- Joseph Prouser is the rabbi of Temple Emanuel of North
of Americas national Jewish chaplain). Among them are ally difficult that Christmas!) Jersey in Franklin Lakes.

JEWISH STANDARD DECEMBER 8, 2017 47


Opinion

Speaking up, sovereignty, Frank Galvin, and Balfour

M
ickey: The case is
over. You know,
you broke the
first rule I ever
taught you in law school. Never
ask a question unless you have
the answer to it. Even your own
expert witness said there was
no negligence.There will be
other cases. Martha
Frank: There are no other Cohen
cases, this is the case. There are
NO other cases. This is the case.
- The Verdict
The Verdict, a 1982 film starring Paul Newman, written
by David Mamet and directed by Sidney Lumet, is the story
of Newmans Frank Galvin, once an up-and-coming attor-
ney who became an alcoholic after trying to do the right
thing early in his career. The attempt resulted in his losing
everything being fired from a prestigious law firm, losing
his wife, and barely escaping disbarment. Now an ambulance
chaser, Galvin is handed a medical malpractice suit by Mickey, Paul Newman, in front, and Jack Warden, to his right, in The Verdict.
his supportive, now-retired partner, a former law professor,
played by Jack Warden. He is asked to settle with a hospital Our first objective is the obtaining of sovereignty, assured by they were willing to allow the Jews to go to any country that
operated by the Archdiocese of Boston. But once Galvin sees international law. would take them. It was a disaster for the Jews, because only
his client, a young woman who was left in a vegetative state as And this is what Britain, one of the sovereign powers of that the Dominican Republic allowed any significant increase in
a result of gross negligence, he makes the ethical decision to time, did with the Balfour Declaration. His Majestys govern- Jewish immigration, and it sent a clear message to Hitler that
fight. He is set against a corrupt judge, a win-at-any-cost law ment views with favour the establishment in Palestine of a there would be no consequences for his treatment of the Jews.
firm representing the powerful Church, and nefarious events national home for the Jewish people, and will use their best Golda Meir and Chaim Weizmann were in Evian as observ-
that leave him desperate. endeavors to facilitate the achievement of this object, it being ers, but they were not permitted to talk. Meir wrote in her
Despite all this, even at his lowest point Galvin knows that clearly understood that nothing shall be done which may prej- autobiography that she was not even seated with the del-
he must fight through, because there will be no other cases for udice the civil and religious rights of existing non-Jewish com- egates, although the refugees under discussion were my own
him if he cant win and put his life back on track. munities in Palestine, or the rights and political status enjoyed people. She told the press after the conference: There is
This November marked the 100th anniversary of the Bal- by Jews in any other country, it said. To be clear, the Balfour only one thing I hope to see before I die and that is that my
four Declaration. On November 2, 1917, British Foreign Sec- Declaration did not create the modern State of Israel, but it people should not need expressions of sympathy any more.
retary Arthur Balfour sent a letter to Lord Rothschild, head confirmed the pre-existing right of Jews to live in their ances- After Evian, Weizmann said, The world seemed to be divided
of the Zionist Federation. In the letter, he recognized the tral home, now referred to as Palestine. into two parts those places where the Jews could not live
re-establishment of the Jewish national homeland in bibli- The declaration led to endorsements around the globe, and those where they could not enter.
cal Israel, a land that had been renamed Palaestina by the including from President Woodrow Wilson. It was submit- So what does sovereignty have to do with Frank Galvin?
Romans after they defeated Shimon Bar Kokhba and his fol- ted to and approved by the Council of the League of Nations Frank understood that without fighting for justice without
lowers in the second century. This name change was done in 1922; then it was incorporated into the Mandate and ulti- fighting to give a comatose patient a voice in bringing the
deliberately, to obfuscate any connection between the land mately codified into international law. As Alan Dershowitz powerful to justice he would never be able to believe in
and its indigenous Jewish inhabitants for future generations. points out, The State of Israel was established by the pen himself and be complete.
But the Jewish people never forgot Israel or their eternal capi- and the law, and defended by the sword, in contrast to most No fully sovereign nation can be denied its capital. For
tal, Jerusalem, which the Romans renamed Aelia Capitolina. other countries that were established by the sword. those who pretend this doesnt matter, last weeks UNGA vote
At the time of the Balfour Declaration, the Ottomans At the American Zionist Movements conference in Wash- should be sobering. On Thursday, Nov 30, the UN General
ruled the area, and the word Palestine was used to ington, D.C., last month, Israels ambassador to the United Assembly passed six anti-Israel resolutions, including one
describe a region, not an official entity. In fact, many Otto- States, Ron Dermer, talked about what sovereignty means to that denied Israels ties to Jerusalem, saying that Israels rights
mans and Arabs considered the area to be southern Syria. the Jewish people. First, it offers the blessing of a shield and a in Jerusalem have no validity whatsoever and calling for
The Ottoman rule, which lasted for 400 years, ended with sword. After centuries of being a powerless people, we no lon- respect for the historic status quo at the holy places of Jeru-
the end of World War I in 1918. Then the area became ger have to beg others to protect us. Many at the conference salem, including the Haram al-Sharif, in word and practice.
British Mandatory Palestine, encompassing present-day could not help thinking about the plight of the Kurds today. No mention of the Temple Mount, in essence erasing any Jew-
Israel, Jordan, and the Gaza Strip. Second, it offers the blessing of Israel as a refuge. Israel is ish connection, for the only indigenous nation of the area. The
The Balfour Declarations one-sentence statement was the the answer for Jews around the world who are in danger. vote passed 151 to 6, with 9 abstentions.
first official recognition of Jewish national rights by a signifi- Third, sovereignty restores Israels voice among the Like Frank Galvin, we must acknowledge that if we do not
cant world power. That was something for which Theodor nations. Israel can and will have its say but, the ambas- raise our voices, justice will not be done. Without world recog-
Herzl had labored since the first Zionist Congress in 1897, sador reminded us, along with the right to speak comes the nition of our ancient historical claim to Jerusalem as the eter-
which declared, Zionism seeks to establish a home for the responsibility to speak when necessary. He talked about nal capital of the Jewish people, Israel cannot be complete.
Jewish people in Palestine secured under public law. Prime Minister Netanyahus speech to Congress about the We know the right thing to do, the only course of action, is
Herzl was secular, but he became committed to the re- JCPOA, aka the Iran deal. Though there were those people to move the American embassy to Jerusalem. If we dont do
establishment of Israel after he covered the Dreyfus trial in who painted the speech to Congress and the American peo- it now, 151 nations out of a total of 193 will continue working
France. He saw that Captain Dreyfus was prosecuted not ple as a partisan move, the ambassador made the point that hard to erase Jerusalem, the heart of the Jewish people, from
based on evidence, but because he was a Jew. If this could hap- especially in times of existential threat, it is incumbent upon the land of Israel.
pen in France, Herzl thought, it could happen anywhere. And any sovereign state to raise its voice. And that is what it did The Jewish land cannot survive without its heart. As Frank
so political Zionism the Jewish peoples right to self-determi- and will continue to do whenever the future of Israel or Jews Galvin said in his closing argument, We need only to believe
nation was born. Herzl understood that only the sovereign around the world are in danger. in ourselves and act in justice.
powers of the day could grant the Jews the right of sovereign Dermer referenced the delegates from 32 countries who
power. Zionism demands a publicly recognized and legally met at the Evian Conference in 1938 to discuss the urgent Martha Cohen is an award-winning producer and creative
secured homeland in Palestine for the Jewish people, he said. plight of the Jews in Nazi Germany and Austria. The Nazis said executive. She lives in Fort Lee with her husband and son.

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arashat Vayeshev brings a series brothers house and name. the house and ends up in jealousy can lead to murder, torture, and
of controversial stories. First, Judah didnt want to give her jail were he learns the value the violation of human rights.
Jacob, the father, shows favor- his third son, fearing that she of humility and the danger On the other hand , Tamars righteous-
itism for one of his children, is a black widow or bad of arrogance. ness and love for justice initiated the fam-
Joseph. Jacob does this in front of the luck. Tamar takes a risk for After this brief introduc- ily that later (and thanks to another great
others! And as a result, the brothers hate the Law to be fulfilled and tion to the stories of our woman, Ruth) became King Davids dynasty,
Joseph, instead of confronting Jacob for his dresses like a harlot and gets Torah portion, I can only say: bringing the Mashiach to the world.
unjust behavior. Judah (who saw her in the What a family! Are these my And Judah, accepting the responsibil-
Joseph, disregarding the humiliation middle of the road and didnt ancestors? And is there any- ity of his actions and praising Tamar for
he was causing to his brothers, tells his recognize she was his daugh- Rabbi thing positive to learn from her bravery, becomes the father of one
dreams about how they will one day pros- ter-in-law) to impregnate her. Alberto this parasha? of the tribes that will pass his name to
trate in front of him. Judah left some items with (Baruch) The Torah is not a book the entire Hebrew nation: Jews ( JUDos
Josephs brothers sell him as a slave and her as security for payment. Zeilicovich of history. It is a book about in Spanish). Its no wonder that the Jews
he ends up in Egypt. His brothers deceive When Tamar is discovered Temple Beth life according to a set of val- were and will be the first ones to support
Sholom, Fair Lawn,
Jacob by soaking in blood the colorful to be pregnant, Judah orders ues and regulations, with the every cause that fights for human rights
Conservative
dress his father gave him. They let Jacob that she be killed by fire. She intention of building a just around the world.
grieve for Josephs death knowing he was shows him the items he left and moral society. The sto- When we understand that the Torah
still alive! with her as security and he acknowledges ries in our parasha teach us the good and doesnt have saints and that our ancestors
In the meantime, two sons of Judah his wrongdoings while praising her for the bad: how to behave justly and how to were human beings, with their flaws and
were killed by God. Er, his firstborn for her rightness. avoid behavior that is wrong. grandeur, we can enjoy the stories that
misconduct; the second, Onan, for refus- Joseph, now at the house of a high- Jacobs favoritism for Joseph initiated a shape us, and through us the culture of the
ing to procreate with his brothers child- ranked officer of the kingdom, is accused chain of events ending with the Israelites Western World in the pursuit to build a just
less widow, Tamar, to build his deceaseds of sexual misconduct towards the lady of enslaved in Egypt. We learn that hate and and better society every day.

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Circle of life stuff

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i. I am sitting at my com- the player, not Aaron Somebody Else who
puter trying to come up used to be a playerI am a girl, give me a
with a column that will blow break.) In my house, we also talk about
your mind. That will make the Yeshiva League sports, which are pri-
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the world around you. Well, the world students who go to Yeshiva.
around us has a great deal going on. That Son #1 is the assistant coach for Moriah
whole gosh-darn circle of life. middle school hockey, which is only
I went to visit my aunt tonight I ironic, because when he was goalie for
havent seen her since shiva his middle school, which
was over. I mean I have spo- was Yeshivat Noam in
ken to her at least two times Paramus, his big gest
a week since my uncle died, win was against Moriah.
but being in the apartment But now that he coaches
for the first time in three Moriah, we hope that they
months was weird and sad, win and not Noam. That is
and it must be even weirder the lesson you learn from
and sadder for my aunt. sports you cheer for the
And then, to make matters team that you are person-
more depressing, one of Banji ally invested in.
my good friends is sitting Ganchrow Back to my speech.
shiva for his mother. Like One of the topics that I
my uncles sickness, it went spoke about was the Judy
really fast. Too fast. Everyone thought Blume classic, Are You There God, Its
that they might get better, but they Me, Margaret. If you are a girl who was
didnt. And though you think there are born in the 1970s you probably read this
those moments of clarity, when every- book, mainly because it taught you all
thing would be okay, those havent come of the joys of womanhood. Margaret,
Across Down
yet, and it is sad and daunting. when we first meet her, is an 11-year-old
1. Buona ___ (Layla tov) 1. Expedition where one might see unique
Cant anyone admit that it is just really girl who has just moved to the suburbs
5. Judges (to be) kosher animals
depressing? People are born and people from Manhattan. Fortunately for her, 10. Chutzpah 2. Removed, as chalk
die and the one constant is that they she makes a whole bunch of new friends 14. Mars, to the Greeks 3. Alleviation, to one on shpilkes
leave behind people who love them. And and they enjoy the trials and tribula- 15. (Knesset) topic 4. Syrian leader
then hopefully, all will move on, and all tions of womanhood together. Of course 16. Cookie once labeled OU-DE 5. Disrespect verbally, in slang
17. Begin minyan with only nine? 6. UWS time zone
will find some kind of happiness again.. there is drama, because there is always
19. One finished with Hebrew U. 7. Carlebachs ___ Einai
But really this is getting too depress- drama when you are dealing with girls. 20. Chinese and Thai, e.g. 8. Bill of Groundhog Day
ing, and I wanted to write about some- Even when those girls grow up, there is 21. Like one hurrying to make it to shul 9. Shidduch arrangement
thing else. So here we go. Last week, I a drama. 23. Lou and Willis 10. Vincent van ___
spoke to a very large crowd of woman at In my speech I talked about the 24. Went into the air 11. 52-Across, essentially
26. End of yom tov? 12. Most skinny (like a cow in Pharaohs
my parents shul. It was their sisterhood where is she now about Margaret. Did
27. Maybe the most important letters in dream)
event and they were kind enough to ask they stick their beloved grandmother in Israel 13. Skiers cottages
me to be a part of the celebration. I was a nursing home? Did her parents move 28. Like venison, some say 18. Naval rank: Abbr.
very excited because I was speaking to Florida? Is Margaret happily married? 29. Make like Joseph with Egypts grain 22. Fuller House actor John
only to woman, not to men, and I could But my question is does she still ask 31. Grape liquid some use for kiddush 24. Shoestring
33. Refine, as metal 25. Rises to prominence
choose any topic. It seemed appropriate God questions about life ? And when are
34. They create new Jews 28. ___ tzedakah
that I pick a topic that was appropriate things finally going to happen to her? 36. These puzzles always have one 30. Synagogue section
only for women. So much so, that the It seems that all we want to do is grow 37. Jewish wedding fragments 31. One of the Ramones
title of the topic was Mammograms, up when we are younger, and then, 38. Rebbetzin ___ Mushka Schneerson 32. Expose, as a superhero
Menopause and Other Unmentionables when we finally grow up and realize 39. Paper purchase 33. Where Anna met a king, in a musical
40. Dough machine? 34. ___ teams (34-Across, essentially)
Things You Dont Talk About When what life is really like, we wish we were
43. Unlikely locale for Jewish remains 35. Grand hit for Ian Kinsler
You Only Have Boys. It was brilliant! an 11-year-old girl again! Yup, back to 44. Involuntary wink, for example 36. ___ in Manila (Ali/Frazier bout)
Do you know how many topics you can the circle of life. So if you are a young 46. (Jason) Schwartzmans mom Talia 38. Coffee measure
never talk about when you only have reader, and all you want to do is grow up 48. Outer layer of notable tref 39. Didnt have enough (oil for the
boys? Well, I do, because, as you know, I and drive and do adult things put on 50. Those born in Israel Menorah)
51. Go upside down, like Aly Raisman 40. Windpipe, e.g.
only have boys. the brakes, kiddo! Take time to smell the
52. Ben-Gurion landings 41. Prophetic state, perhaps
Boys only like to talk about sports, well, roses and appreciate where you are in 55. Tefillin area bone 42. Neatniks banes
mine do anyway. And not just real sports, life. Trust me! 56. Angelic glows 45. Israeli breads
like why the manager of the Giants was 57. Defensive spray 46. Like the tragic story of Chana and her
fired (or why it took so long for him to be Banji Ganchrow of Teaneck doesnt want 58. Is far behind during services seven sons
59. Its ___ Rock and Roll to Me (Billy 47. Mushroom cloud former, for short
fired.) Like who the new Yankee manager to be 11 years old again. She would rather
Joel) 49. Some Dead Sea resorts
is. (And why I thought it was Aaron Judge be 16. That was a good year for her. 60. Shaloms 50. The Giving Tree author Silverstein
53. Mind Medicine author Geller
54. Baseball legend Ripken

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what life is really like, we wish we


were an 11-year-old girl again!
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Arts & Culture
PHOTOS BY GIORA BEJACH/COURTESY OF SONY PICTURES CLASSICS

Elkabetz, he had starred in such films as Walk on Water,

Foxtrot Footnote, and last years Norman with Richard Gere.


His acting is absolutely mesmerizing. Joining him
in a standout performance is Sarah Adler as Dafna,
who after waking up from her drug-induced sleep,
ERIC A. GOLDMAN also must contend with the harrowing news.

T
But this film is not just about the encounter in
he worst possible thing that can happen to the apartment. There are two more acts in this
the parents of a child in the army is to see classically crafted film. In Act Two, in flashback,
a cadre of army officers, about to knock we get to learn about Jonathan, their soldier son,
on their door or ring their doorbell. and his tour of duty. We get a sense of what it is like
Shmuel Maozs brilliant Israeli film, Foxtrot, for a soldier on a remote Israeli border to have to
begins in this way, as we arrive, on the backs of these check passing cars, an act that could bring about
carriers of dreadful news, at an Israeli couples apartment. disorder. With this tumultuous history, who can face the his imminent death. Act Three is far more complex, as we
Most Americans can relate to this only from a handful of worst of all life horrors, the loss of a child? are forced to confront a situation where issues that possi-
films or television shows that show such scenarios, but I had an opportunity to talk to Shmuel Maoz at the bly should be out in the open are repressed and kept from
for Israelis, tragically, it not such a farfetched reality. Over Toronto International Film Festival in September. The being discussed and debated. In many ways, this is Maozs
the years, it has been all too common. Most Israelis know 55-year-old director had served in I.D.F.s Tank Corps allegory, his call-out for a more open society.
firsthand someone who died during a terrorist attack or during the First Lebanon War. Shortly after the hostili- Foxtrot is an exceptional work of art that transcends
military service. ties began, his commander ordered him to fire on a sus- politics and psychology. Though laced with humor, not
In Foxtrot, Michael and Dafna open the door to their picious vehicle. The enemy in that war did not wear a everyone will feel good watching a film that can be seen as
home. Immediately, without a word uttered, they under- uniform; it was never quite clear whether the man Maoz challenging aspects of Israeli society. Miri Regev, Israels
stand why these people are there. Dafna faints and the killed in the car was a bad guy. He has struggled with Minister of Culture and Sport, took direct aim at the movie,
media immediately drugs her and takes her away to her that ever since. which was supported in part with Israeli tax dollars. With-
room. Over the next several minutes, in what seems an Then, years later, as a parent, one morning he told his out even seeing it, she claimed it to be offensive and
infinite amount of time, we watch Michael struggling with eldest daughter that he no longer would pay for her to take denounced it as contributing to the anti-Israel narrative.
his grief. Writer-director Maoz does not spare us for one a taxi to school when she overslept, and he sent her off to Foxtrot is a film made by an Israeli, in a society
moment, as Michael, in extreme close-up and presented take Bus #5. Half an hour later, he learned that the bus that not only allows for but actively encourages artistic
from a multitude of camera angles, tries to make sense of had been a terrorist target and that dozens of riders had expression. Foxtrot, the winner of the Grand Jury prize
the loss of a child. been killed. With the citys cellular circuits overloaded, he at the Venice Film Festival and Israels submission for the
Maoz wants us to delve into the psyche of this wounded waited for more than an hour for news. Then his daugh- Oscar for best foreign language film, is passionate and
parent, a child of Holocaust survivors, who has grown up ter walked in the door, telling her dad that she had just insightful and should be a must for anyone who loves
in the pressure cooker we know as Israel. In his childhood, missed catching that very bus. How do I deal with such Israel. The film opens today for a brief one-week theatri-
Michael learned early on that he could not complain, that moments? he told me. That hour was the impetus for cal run in New York City. It should reach neighborhood
he had to repress his emotions, because his parents life this film. theaters in late winter.
had been hell and he had it so much better. Compounding It seems that with each new film, the acting of Lior
this intergenerational transmission of suffering and anx- Ashkenazi, who plays Michael, only gets better. Begin- Eric Goldman teaches at Yeshiva University and is host of
iety, he had fought in wars, experienced the horrors of ning with his breakout role as a young Georgian bachelor the new film interview program, Jewish Cinematheque,
those encounters, and had his own post-traumatic stress in the 2001 film Late Marriage, opposite the late Ronit televised on the Jewish Broadcasting Service.

60 JEWISH STANDARD DECEMBER 8, 2017


Calendar who has lived in Prague
Friday since 2001, will talk about
the Conservative and
december 8 Reform communities
in the Czech Republic.
1666 Windsor Road.
(201) 833-1322 or www.
emeth.org.

Saturday
december 9

Rabbi Shammai
Englemayer
Chanukah in Cliffside
Park: Rabbi Shammai
Englemayer of
Congregation Beth
Israel of the Palisades
lights the menorah at
Borough Hall at 5 p.m.; Assemblyman
at Edgewater Memorial
Tim Eustace
Park on River Road and
Route 5 at 5:30; and at Shabbat in Ridgewood:
Sunrise Assisted Living Temple Israel & JCC
facility in Edgewater, in Ridgewood holds DEC. Karikatura! plays the Hot Night of Sizzling Salsa and World
315 River Road, at 6. its annual National Music at the Glen Rock Jewish Center, Saturday, December 16,
16
(201) 945-7310 or shul@ Gun Violence
cbiotp.org. Prevention Shabbat,
8:30 p.m. The groups sound combines Latin, Afro-Cuban, indie
Shabbat in Wayne:
in commemoration of rock, and klezmer for a worldwide musical joy ride. Some of the
Temple Beth Tikvah
the fifth anniversary of band members are Jewish; its founder and lead guitarist, Dima Kay, was born
the Newtown shooting.
offers a service, 6 p.m.,
During 9 a.m. services, in the Ukraine. 682 Harristown Road. Ticket information, (201) 652-6624 or
followed by a community www.grjc.org.
Assemblyman Tim
Chanukah dinner. Crafts
Eustace will talk about
table for children.
How New Jersey Can
950 Preakness Ave.
Lead the Nation in Gun teams and complete a
Bring a nonperishable Chanukah in Westwood:
food item for the
Safety. Discussion
continues during kiddush
different cookie recipe
that the JCC will supply.
Sunday To celebrate the holiday,
Wayne Food Pantry.
at 12:15. 475 Grove St. At the end, all the teams DECEMBER 10 the JCC of Northern
Dinner reservations, NJ (formerly the YJCC)
(201) 444-9320 or www. will swap cookies so
(973) 595-6565 or www. Bazaar in Teaneck: hosts a party for families
synagogue.org. each child can take
templebethtikvahnj.org. Temple Emeth holds its with children 6 months
home cookies plus all
Chanukah at Home the recipes to bake annual bazaar and food to 5 years-old, at the
Depot: Chabad of everything again at court, 9:30 a.m.-3:30 p.m. Westwood Community
Paramus and Friendship home. Dinner included. Early birds welcome at Center, 10 a.m. 55
Circle partner with Home Reservations, Leron, 9 with a $10 donation; Jefferson Ave. (201) 666-
Depot in Paramus for (201) 408-1467 or www. free after that. Tricky 6610 or RuthB@JCCNNJ.
a Chanukah menorah jccotp.org. tray auction, hot dog Dr. Ira Spar org.
workshop, 6:30 p.m. cart, and bake sale. A
Build a wooden menorah, Chanukah for young new Facebook page Ancient Israel in
get a workers apron, professionals in lets you preview some Ridgewood: Dr. Ira Spar,
and Chanukah treats. Hoboken: JNFuture of the available items. professor of history
Recommended for North/Central NJ Young 1666 Windsor Road. and ancient studies
those 5 and older. The Professionals group (201) 833-1322 or www. at Ramapo College,
Home Depot, 520 Route meet for Light Up the emeth.org. discusses Biblical
Rabbi Ron Hoffberg 17 North, Paramus. Night Chanukah, a Archaeology: From
Reservations, Zeesy@ party with a DJ, open School open house Camels to Kings at
Barbara Balkin
BCFriendship.com. bar, and refreshment, at in Livingston: Joseph Temple Israel & Jewish
Shabbat in Teaneck: Birch Bar, 8-11 p.m. For Kushner Hebrew Community Center, A cappella in Wayne:
Rabbi Ron Hoffberg Childrens cookie swap: professionals in their Academy holds an open 10:30 a.m. The lecture The premier a cappella
discusses Czech Files: The Kaplen JCC on the 20s and 30s who share house, 10 a.m. 110 South concludes his three-part singing group the
Inspirational Stories Palisades in Tenafly a passion for Israel. 93 Orange Ave. Allison series, Revealing the Maccabeats, originally
of Jews Returning to hosts the Cookie Swap River St., Hoboken. Anna, Lyons, (862) 437-8050, Past: Archaeology & the formed in 2007 as
Judaism at Temple for second to sixth (973) 593-0095, ext. 826, alyons@jkha.org, Bible. 475 Grove St. Yeshiva Universitys
Emeth, 8 p.m. Rabbi graders, 7:30-9:30 p.m. or arichlin@jnf.org. or www.jkha.org/ (201) 444-9320 or www. student vocal group,
Hoffberg, an American Children will break into JKHAopenhouse. synagogue.org. performs in the Rosen

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Performing Arts Center Vale Community Center, YJCC Foundation and Beth Or offers Lots when he was 21. There
at the YMCA of Wayne, Chanukah in Wyckoff: 6 p.m. A childrens show Schmidt Endowment. of Light Chanukah he created a new family
2 p.m. The Metro YMCAs The Chabad Jewish by Caser the Magician Entertainment and Shabbat, beginning with the London Gay
of the Oranges is a Center of NW Bergen will follow. 628 Rivervale kosher lunch. 56 with a community latke Mens Chorus and
partner of the YM-YWHA County hosts a menorah Road. (201) 476-0157 or Ridgewood Road. (201) dinner, 6:30 p.m. Bring after 19 years, reached
of North Jersey. 1 Pike lighting and celebration www.valleychabad.org/ 666-6610 or RuthB@ menorah and candles to out for reconciliation.
Drive. (973) 595-0100 or at Wyckoff Town Hall, chanukah. JCCNNJ.org. light; services at 7:30. Viewpoints, a shul
www.metroYMCAS.org/ 4:30 p.m., featuring the 56 Ridgewood Road. committee that was
RosenPac. participation of the mayor Chanukah in Chanukah in Woodcliff (201) 664-7422 or www. formed to celebrate the
and local officials, Judah Englewood: The Lake: Valley Chabad templebethornj.org . diversity of the Jewish
Maccabee & the Dreidel Englewood Chamber of community, includes
holds a menorah lighting
Man, live music, hot Commerce and Friends Shabbat in Closter: programs that highlight
featuring the mayor and
Chanukah refreshments, of Lubavitch of Bergen Temple Beth El invites the interfaith, interracial,
local officials, music, hot
a dreidel-fidget building County host the 13th the community to 101 and LGBT communities.
Chanukah refreshments,
set, sand-art crafts, menorah lighting in front Menorahs, a family- 1666 Windsor Road.
crafts, glow giveaways,
glow giveaways, a of City Hall, with latkes friendly Shabbat/ (201) 833-1322 or www.
and a grand raffle in
dreidel bounce house, from Hummus Elite, Chanukah service led emeth.org.
front of the Gap store
and a grand raffle. donuts, and dreidels, by Rabbis David Widzer
at Tices Mall, 5 p.m.
(201) 848-0449 or www. and music by a childrens and Beth Kramer-Mazer Chanukah in Glen
423 Chestnut Ridge
chabadplace.org/wyckoff. choir from the Kaplen and student cantor Rock: The Glen Rock
Road. (201) 476-0157 or
JCC on the Palisades. www.valleychabad.org/ Julie Staple, 6:45 p.m. Jewish Center hosts a
Chanukah in Westwood: 6 p.m. To encourage Bring a menorah and community menorah
Dr. Shalom Fisch Valley Chabad holds chanukah.
shopping in downtown seven candles. Latkes lighting, with fire baton
a menorah lighting
TV and comic books Englewood, parking is Chanukah in Paramus: after the service. 221 twirling by Rabbi
featuring the mayor and
for kids: Dr. Shalom free through December Chabad of Paramus Schraalenburgh Road. Jennifer Schlosberg,
local officials, music, hot 30. 2-10 N Van Brunt St. (201) 768-5112 or www. hot cocoa, donuts,
Fisch discusses Big lights a menorah and
Chanukah refreshments, (201) 567-2381. tbenv.org. dreidels, chocolate
Bird, Batman, and Bnai offers donuts and gelt,
crafts, glow giveaways, gelt, arts and crafts for
Torah: Using TV and and Yeshivat Noams
and a grand raffle, at Shabbat in Jersey City:
Comic Books to Educate
and Inspire Children at
the Westwood Train Wednesday choir will sing, inside the
Bergen Town Center near Congregation Bnai
children, 5:30-7 p.m.
682 Harristown Road.
Station, Broadway and DECEMBER 13 Jacob has a Chanukah (201) 652-6624 or
Congregation Beth Aaron the Whole Foods Court,
Westwood Avenue, Shabbat, 7 p.m. 176 West office@grjc.org.
in Teaneck, 7:30 p.m. 6 p.m. (201) 262-7172 or
5 p.m. (201) 476-0157 or Side Ave. (201) 435-5725
950 Queen Anne Road. Book club in Tenafly: zeesy@bcfriendship.com.
www.valleychabad.org/ or info@bnaijacobjc.org. Chanukah in
(201) 836-6210 or www. The Kaplen JCC on the
chanukah. Chanukah in Allendale: Ridgewood: Temple
bethaaron.org. Palisades continues a
monthly book club with Valley Chabad holds Shabbat in Woodcliff Israel & JCC invites
Chanukah in Lake: Temple Emanuel the community to
a menorah lighting
Tuesday Ridgewood: The Ben Nelson, professor
emeritus of English and featuring the mayor and of the Pascack Valley bring a menorah and
Jewish community of offers Chanukah family
DECEMBER 12 Ridgewood, Temple Israel comparative literature local officials, music, hot candles to a community
at Fairleigh Dickinson Chanukah refreshments, services and a concert, celebration, 6: 30 p.m.
& JCC, and the Jewish 8 p.m. 87 Overlook Drive. Evening includes a dance
University, 1:30 p.m. crafts, glow giveaways,
Federation of Northern (201) 391-0801 or www. party by Arthur Murray
Season concludes with and a grand raffle in
New Jersey hold the tepv.org. dance instructors, latke
Nutshell by Ian front of the Allendale
fifth annual Chanukah bar, salads, childrens
McEwan. 411 E. Clinton Library, 6 p.m. 500
menorah lighting
West Crescent Ave.
Shabbat in Teaneck: movie, and activities.
party with music and Ave. (201) 408-1496 or Temple Emeth hosts
jccotp.org. (201) 476-0157 or www. Bring unopened
traditional refreshments a Chanukah Shabbat cleaning supplies or
valleychabad.org/
at Memorial Park in Van dinner at 6 p.m., followed
Chanukah in Woodcliff chanukah. toiletries to be donated
Neste Square, 5:30 p.m. by the annual community
Lake: Valley Chabad to Ridgewood Social
The public menorah Chanukah in Glen Rock: family Chanukah Services. 475 Grove
holds a menorah lighting
lighting continues Glen Rocks townwide service featuring the St. Reservations,
featuring the mayor
Wednesday and inaugural menorah Temple Emeth Band (201) 444-9320 or www.
Tuvia Zimber and local officials,
Thursday, 4:30, Friday lighting is outside Kilroys at 8. Bring menorahs, synagogue.org.
music, hot Chanukah
at 4, Saturday at 5:30, Wonder Market, 6 p.m. candles, friends, and
Caf Europa in Fair refreshments, crafts,
and Sunday, Monday, Jewish families of Glen a nonperishable food Chanukah in Fort Lee:
Lawn: Caf Europa, glow giveaways, and a
and Tuesday at 4:30. Rock, residents, the item to donate to the Chabad of Fort Lee
a social program grand raffle, at Old Mill
(201) 444-9320 or www. Chabad Jewish Center Center for Food Action. holds its annual menorah
sponsored by Jewish Pond, 6 p.m. 1 Werimus
synagogue.org. of Northwest Bergen 1666 Windsor Road. lighting, with music,
Family & Childrens Road. (201) 476-0157 or
www.valleychabad.org/ County, and the Glen Dinner reservations, donuts, latkes, and gifts
Services of Northern Chanukah in Fort Lee: (201) 833-1322 or www.
New Jersey for Holocaust chanukah. Rock Jewish Center for the children, at the
Chabad of Fort Lee emeth.org. entrance of Horizon Road
survivors, funded in part host a celebration,
celebrates Chanukah with
by the Claims Conference Chanukah in Franklin Rock the Lights with in Fort Lee, 6:30 p.m.
comedy/ventriloquism/
and the Jewish magic by John Pizzi,
Lakes: The Chabad
Jewish Center has a
live music, food, and
childrens activities
Saturday (201) 886-1238.
Federation of Northern grand menorah lighting, DECEMBER 16
New Jersey, meets at the latkes, donuts, dinner,
menorah lighting and
celebration on the front
Privately funded
event. 288 Rock Road.
Sunday
Fair Lawn Jewish Center/ dreidels, chocolate gelt,
CBI for a Chanukah party lawn of Franklin Lakes jewishfamiliesofglenrock@ DECEMBER 17
face painting, and arts
with kosher lunch and Borough Hall, featuring gmail.com, www.
and crafts, 5:30 p.m.
musical performance Mayor Frank Bivona and chabadplace.org or www. Chanukah in Teaneck:
808 Abbott Boulevard.
by Tuvia Zimber, local officials, Judah grjc.org. The Jewish Center of
(201) 886-1238 or
11 a.m.-1 p.m. 10-10 Norma Maccabee, the Dreidel Teaneck hosts a chagigah
Chabadfortlee.com. Chanukah in Scotch
Ave. (201) 837-9090, ext. Man, glow giveaways, for 6- to 12-year-olds,
live music, hot Chanukah Plains: Temple Sholom with a scavenger
237, or sharib@jfcsnnj. Chanukah in Paramus:
refreshments, a dreidel- of Scotch Plains will host hunt and crafts for
org. Chabad of Paramus lights
fidget building set, sand- its annual Chanukah- younger children,
a menorah, the Ben Porat
Lens on America: The art crafts, and a dreidel themed version of Lego 9:30-11 a.m. 70 Sterling
Yosef Choir will sing, and
CSI Scholar Fund of bounce house. 5:30 p.m. Night, 6-7:30 p.m. Along Place. (201) 833-0515.
there will be donuts and
the JCC of Fort Lee/ (201) 848-0449 or www. with building creations,
chocolate gelt inside
Congregation Gesher chabadplace.org. there will be dreidel Chanukah in Woodcliff
Paramus Borough Hall,
Shalom presents Dr. Eric games, music and songs, Lake: Temple Emanuel of
6 p.m. 1 West Jockish
donuts, latkes, chocolate the Pascack Valley offers
Goldman of Ergo Media
concluding a series,
Square. (201) 262-7172 or Thursday gelt, and drawings for
Shabbat in Teaneck: Chanukah Alive With
zeesy@bcfriendship.com. Temple Emeth s
The American Jewish DECEMBER 14 Lego menorahs. 1925
Viewpoints group
Music, a celebration
Experience through Chanukah in River Lake Ave. (917) 710-8444 featuring Sheldon Low,
screens Barak and Tomer 10:45 a.m. 87 Overlook
Cinema. Refreshments Vale: Valley Chabad Chanukah in or www.sholomnj.org.
Heymanns Israeli/ Ave. Reservations,
at 12:30 p.m.; lecture, holds a menorah lighting Washington Township: English documentary
Coming of Age:
Jews Have Found an
featuring the mayor
and local officials,
To celebrate the holiday,
the JCC of Northern NJs
Friday Whos Gonna Love Me
(201) 391-0801 or
Margie@tepv.org
DECEMBER 15 Now, 3 p.m. The film
Unprecedented Comfort music, hot Chanukah Active Adult program follows the life of Saar,
meets at Temple Beth Chanukah science in
Level in America, at 1. refreshments, crafts, who was expelled from
Or, noon. Sponsored Shabbat in Washington Tenafly: The Kaplen
1449 Anderson Ave., Fort glow giveaways, and a his religious kibbutz
by the Bergen County Township: Temple JCC on the Palisades in
Lee. (201) 947 1735. grand raffle at the River and fled to Great Britain
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Tenafly celebrates the the Holocaust joins
holiday of miracles with the National Yiddish
science experiments Theatre Folksbiene
led by Liberty Science and Workmens Circle
Center scientists, 11 a.m.- for the family-oriented
noon. Reservations, Latkapalooza!
Leron, (201) 408-1467 or including food, music,
www.jccotp.org. and hands-on activities.
Recommended for
Chanukah in Franklin children from 3 to
Lakes: Temple Emanuel 10. 36 Battery Place.
of North Jersey screens (646) 437-4202 or www.
a video of the Folksbiene mjhnyc.org/events/
Yiddish Theatre latkapalooza/.
Chanukah magic
performing old and
in Closter: Temple
new Chanukah songs
Emanu-El invites the
in English, Hebrew, and
Ladino, 1 p.m. Ice cream
community to celebrate
Chanukah with its clergy
Singles
and popcorn. Canceled if
and congregants with
the weather is bad. 558
High Mountain Road.
a catered dinner by Sunday
Northern Valley Affairs DECEMBER 10 Paul Katz
(201) 560-0200 or www. Courtesy JCCOTP
and extreme magic
tenjfl.org.
by Eric Wilzig, 5 p.m.
Chanukah in Wayne: 180 Piermont Road.
(201) 750-9997 or
Chanukah in Clifton:
The North Jersey Thurnauer hosting
Architect/Lego guru
Stephen Schwartz guides templeemanu-el.com.
Jewish Singles at the
CJC Meetup group, renowned cellist and teacher
participants in creating 50s-60s, at the Clifton The JCC Thurnauer School of Music at members of the Thurnauer cello faculty.
the largest and tallest Jewish Center, meets for
menorah made from
Legos followed by dinner
In New York lunch and a tricky tray,
12:15 p.m. Participants
the JCC on the Palisades will host world-
renowned cellist Paul Katz, a professor
The class is open to the public; admis-
sion is free.
at Temple Beth Tikvah, can bring a gender- of cello at the New England Conserva- As cellist for the legendary Cleveland
4 p.m. 950 Preakness Sunday neutral wrapped gift tory and founding member of the Cleve- Quartet for 26 years, Mr. Katz made
Ave. Reservations, DECEMBER 10 ($10 value) to participate
(973) 595-6565 or www. in the grab bag land Quartet, in a three-day residency. more than 70 recordings, received
templebethtikvahnj.org. Chanukah in NYC: game. 18 Delaware St. The program, from December 10 to 12, is many distinctions including Best of the
The Museum of (973) 772-3131 or www. on the Art of Teaching and Performing Year awards from Time Magazine and
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Living Memorial to name).
class, and a round-table discussion. nations, and two Grammy Awards. The
Talent Has Hunger will be screened master class is presented as part of the
on Sunday, December 10, at 7 p.m. The Thurnauer School of Musics Sylvia and
film features Mr. Katz and several of his Jacob Handler Master Class series, and
Maccabi basketball tryouts this weekend Conservatory students. On Monday,
December 11, at 4 p.m., Mr. Katz will
will be the 73rd master class offered at
the Thurnauer school since 1996. Each
In preparation for the annual JCC Mac- and 12-year-olds, with over 700 athletes teach a master class of pre-college stu- has featured renowned artists, including
cabi games at the JCC of Greater Baltimore from 15 JCCs competing. The tournaments dents, selected by audition. The class is violinist Itzhak Perlman and cellist Ste-
on Sunday, May 6, the Kaplen JCC on the help prepare young athletes for the annual open to the public; admission is free. ven Isserlis. The series is funded by Drs.
Palisades will hold basketball tryouts for Maccabi games when they turn 13. On Tuesday, December 12 at 10 a.m., Joan and Alan Handler. For information,
Junior and Mini Maccabi games for Team Minis must be Jewish boys and girls, ages a round-table discussion on the Art call (201) 408-1465.
Palisades on Sunday, Dec 10, from 5 to 7 9 to 10 by May 1, 2018; juniors need to be 11 of Teaching will feature Mr. Katz and
p.m. Girls will try out from 5 to 6; boys to 12 by that date.
from 6 to 7. The 2018 basketball team will Once the team is assembled, partici-
be led by CMEK, a basketball program that pants will begin a weekly practice in
offers specialized training and skills clinics March and compete in two or three week-
to children at the JCC. end tournaments leading up to the games. New Hungarian film
Mini Maccabi is a one-day tournament
for Jewish athletes, 9 and 10-years-old,
There will also be an optional Maccabi
skills clinic.
debuting in Rockland
with more than 400 athletes from eight For information, call Keri Thoren, JCC Distributor Neil Friedmans new film, 1945,
Mid-Atlantic JCCs competing. Junior Mac- youth director, at (201) 408-1476 or go to by Menemsha Films opened for a three-
cabi, also a one-day tournament, is for 11 www.jccotp.org. week run December 1 in New City, N.Y., at
the Bow Tie Theater. Directed by Ferenc
Trk, the film is in Hungarian and has Eng-
lish subtitles.
The film is set in 1945, when an Orthodox
Latke eating Drop off toys for man and his grown son return to a village
in Hungary as the villagers prepare for the
contest Sunday Marine collection wedding of the town clerks son. The towns-
Maadan hosts the annual latke eat- Many Cedar Lane merchants are collect- people suspicious, remorseful, and fearful
ing contest sponsored by Cedar Lane ing toys through December 20 for the U.S. expect the worst and behave accordingly.
Management on Sunday, December 10, Marine Corps Toys for Tots program. The The town clerk fears the men may be heirs of
at 10 a.m., in Cedar Lanes Pedestrian Marines will be on hand to accept dona- the villages deported Jews and expects them
Plaza. Age groups are 12 to 15, 16 to 17, tions on December 15, from 1 to 4 p.m., in to demand their illegally acquired property
and 18 and older. There will be prizes. Cedar Lanes Pedestrian Plaza. Everyone is back.
For information, call Maadan at welcome to drop off new, unwrapped toys, Friedman will be featuring 10 of his fea-
(201) 692-0192 or go to www.cedar- which will be distributed to local, under- ture and documentary films in the JCC Rock-
lane.net. privileged children. For information go to lands upcoming 15th annual International
www.cedarlane.net. Jewish Film Festival, set for April 3 to 30.
For show times and information, call (845) 634-5100. The theater is at 202 South
Main St. in New City.

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Jewish World

Recognizing Jerusalem as Israels capital


is naked aggression, Islamic nations warn Trump
RON KAMPEAS Trumps deadline for issuing the waiver, stability and the peace process.
which according to the law must be issued Palestinian officials have said that moving
WASHINGTON Recognizing Jerusa- every six months, was Friday. On Monday the embassy would scuttle attempts to revive
lem as Israels capital would be an act of evening, the White House said it would be Israeli-Palestinian peace talks led by Jared
naked aggression that would cause the delayed. Kushner, Trumps son-in-law. Kushner, in a
United States to lose its mediating role No action will be taken on the waiver rare public appearance last weekend, said he
in the Middle East, the Organization of today, an official said. We will share a deci- was optimistic about restarting the talks.
Islamic Cooperation said. sion on the waiver in the coming days. Significantly, on Monday Saudi Arabia
The statement by the group, represent- Trump, who campaigned on a prom- also warned against recognizing Jerusalem
ing 57 countries, came as President Don- ise of moving the embassy, walked it back as Israels capital. Kushner has become
ald Trump delayed a waiver on moving the after assuming the presidency. Recent close to the Saudi crown prince, Muham-
U.S. embassy to Jerusalem from Tel Aviv. reports say that he was unhappy with his mad bin Sultan, and has sought his help in
Presidents have issued that waiver rou- first waiver issued in June and wants to go advancing the peace process.
tinely since 1995, when Congress passed a ahead and recognize Jerusalem as Israels Any U.S. announcement on the status
law mandating the move. capital as early as Wednesday. There have of Jerusalem prior to a final settlement
The resolution, issued on Monday after been conflicting details of what such a rec- would have a detrimental impact on the
an emergency meeting at the OIC headquar- ognition would encompass, and whether it peace process and would heighten tensions
ters in Jeddah, Saudi Arabia, warns against would involve moving the embassy. in the region, Saudi Ambassador Prince President Donald Trump speaks at the
recognizing Al-Quds as the capital of Israel, On Tuesday, a day before a rumored Khalid bin Salman, Mohammeds brother, rotunda of the Utah State Capitol in
the occupying power, or establishing or announcement of a change in U.S. policy on was quoted by Reuters as saying. The Salt Lake City on Dec. 4, 2017.
transferring any diplomatic mission to Al- the status of Jerusalem, Trump scheduled kingdoms policy has been and remains  GEORGE FREY/GETTY IMAGES

Quds, given that this is considered a naked calls with the leaders of Israel, Jordan, and in support of the Palestinian people, and
aggression not only on the Arab and Islamic the Palestinian territories. this has been communicated to the U.S. recognizing Jerusalem as Israels capital
Ummah, but also on the rights of Muslims The President has calls scheduled this administration. would erode American credibility as an
and Christians alike, and on the Palestinian morning with Prime Minister [Benjamin] French President Emmanuel Macron unbiased mediator, alienate us from our
peoples national rights, including their right Netanyahu, King Abdullah of Jordan and also warned Trump against the move in international partners such as Jordan
to self-determination. Palestinian Authority President [Mahmoud] a phone call. and undermine any remaining hope for a
Al Quds is the Arabic name for Jerusalem. Abbas, the White House said in a state- Mr. Emmanuel Macron reaffirmed that two-state solution.
The Islamic Ummah refers to the worldwide ment. We will have a readout on these calls the question of Jerusalems status had to Jordans King Abdullah persuaded
Muslim community. later today. be dealt with in the framework of peace Trump to walk back from his campaign
Recognizing Jerusalem as Israels capital Abbas office said Trump told the Pal- negotiations between Israelis and Palestin- promise soon after Trump assumed office.
would cause the United States to lose the estinian leader he intended to move the ians, with the aim in particular to establish Under an arrangement, Jordan maintains
legal and moral ground and its mediating embassy to Jerusalem. There was no two countries, Israel and Palestine, living some control of the Muslim holy sites in
role, and turning it into a biased party to the report as to when, but Abbas told Trump in peace and security side by side with Israels Old City.
conflict, the resolution said. that such a move would threaten regional Jerusalem as capital, Reuters quoted the Israel has made clear it would welcome
French presidents office as saying after the move. Ron Dermer, the Israeli ambas-
the call on Monday. sador to Washington, told Politico on Mon-
The White Houses readout of the call said day that recognizing Jerusalem as Israels
only that Macron and Trump discussed the capital would convey to Palestinians a
path to peace in the Middle East. message of Hey, wake up. Understand
Chevra Kadisha Taharath Jacob Isaac President Recep Tayyip Erdogan of Tur- that Jerusalem is Israels capital. You have
key said that U.S. recognition of Jerusalem to deal with that reality.
Serving the needs of the Jewish community for 35 years as Israels capital was a red line for Mus- Jerusalems mayor, Nir Barkat, meeting
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Obituaries

Marsha Blecher Louis Feldsott Predeceased by his wife, Milly, he is sur- and was an aunt. Arrangements were by
Marsha Sondra Blecher, 73, of Paramus, Louis Feldsott, 102, of Woodcliff Lake, for- vived by a son, Jason ( Jessica) of Nashville; a Louis Suburban Chapel, Fair Lawn.
died November 30. merly of Scarsdale, N.Y., died November 28. sister, Barbara Shannon (David) of Los Ange-
She graduated Bronx High School of Up until his death, he served as president les; and two grandchildren. Dr. William Reider
Science, Syracuse University, Bergen of the Folsom Corporation, fishing equip- Donations can be made to the American Dr. William Reider, 84, of Boca Raton, Fla.,
Community College, earned a masters at ment distributors. Cancer Society. Arrangements were by formerly of Jersey City, died December 3. He
Columbia University, taught high school, He is survived by his wife of 63 years, Louis Suburban Chapel, Fair Lawn. was a retired podiatrist.
middle school, and community college, Doris; sons, Edward (Eileen) and Robert Predeceased by a son, Bruce, and daugh-
and mentored teachers. (Irene); and four grandchildren. Jeannette Libert ter, Randy, he is survived by his wife, Myra,
She is survived by her husband of Donations can be sent to www.nyp. Jeannette Libert, ne Zweig, 94, of Pater- ne Hollman, and a son, Robert of Glen
50 years, Stanley; sons, Howard of San org/giving. Arrangements were by Robert son, formerly of Clifton, died December 1. Head, N.Y.
Francisco, and Neil (Suzanne) and their Schoems Menorah Chapel, Paramus. Before retiring, she was a bookkeeper/ Arrangements were by Eden Memorial
children, Nathan and Sloane, of Hobo- supervisor for Manhattan Industries, Chapel, Fort Lee.
ken; and a brother-in-law, Barry Blecher Gary Gichner Inc., and a member of the Kaufman-Har-
of Park Ridge. Gary Gichner, 70, of Fair Lawn, died ris Post #36 Jewish War Veterans ladies
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Cancer Society, or JCC of Paramus/Con- He was an Army Vietnam War veteran, Lodge #210 Sons of Israel, YM-YWHA information provided by funeral
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ments were by Robert Schoems Menorah Center, coach for Fair Lawn All Sports, and Paterson. responsibility
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Jewish World

Is Auschwitz ready for a peace center?


A Vermont woman thinks so
JON KALISH In an email sent Sunday, Meyerhof wrote
that she was hoping to meet directly with
A Vermont educator whose grandparents Polands president or prime minister this
died in Auschwitz is working to create a week before returning to Vermont.
humanitarian institute next to the infa- Were doing a lot of relationship build-
mous concentration camp, and some Jewish ing, Meyerhof said of the several trips
observers arent happy. she and Kocevar have made to Oswiecim.
Nina Meyerhof, 75, sees what she is calling Part of our design is that financially the
the City of Hope as a counterbalance to the town would benefit from our work, that
grim experience of visiting the Nazi concen- there would be a percentage [of proceeds]
tration camp, which includes one of the most that would go to them, thered be jobs,

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visited museums in Europe. thered be taxes.
You can imagine that walking through The projects website, which does not
that horror show, where youre going contain a single reference to Jews, fea-
through gas chambers, etc., and then com- tures videos of diplomats and celebrities
ing to a place thats really calm and beauti- expressing their support for the City of
ful and a little cafe and being able to sit and Hope; they include the violinist Scarlet
think about your experience, Meyerhof Rivera and the primatologist Jane Goodall.
said. After youve had that experience, you There is no more fitting place for cre-
dont know what to do with it. Well, what ating a center ... where people can be
were saying is you can transform that expe- The main gate of the former Auschwitz extermination camp in Oswiecim, inspired with a vision of a world where we
rience and carry it forward and make a dif- Poland, with the infamous sign reading Work sets you free. live together with respect for each other,
ference in life. Goodall said in a video urging support for
Meyerhof hopes to establish the City of II Birkenau extermination camp be removed. the One Humanity Institute.
Hope in 11 former Nazi barracks that the Pol- Zuroff said that putting the One Humanity Meyerhof is partnering with Robert
SCREENSHOT FROM ONE HUMANITY INSTITUTE

ish military used after World War II. A newly Institute within the Nazi barracks amounted Smith, a former Wall Street trader who
formed nonprofit, the One Humanity Insti- to replacing reality with fantasy. He dis- now runs a network of wealthy families
tute, would provide space there for educa- missed Meyerhof s plans to establish a and institutional investors committed to
tion, research, conferences, NGO offices, a research center dedicated to world peace. social change. Smith and Meyerhof met
museum, a villa, a garden, and a restaurant. That research is already being done all in February at the World Summit of Nobel
According to the institutes website, the over the world, he said. Peace Laureates in Bogota, Colombia.
Auschwitz center will aim to translate, in The 11 buildings planned for the humani- She is one of the most tenacious indi-
formal and non-formal environments, the tarian institute are two- and three-story viduals Ive ever met, Smith said. I could
values of understanding, freedom, equal structures adjacent to the entrance of the see that there was a chance that she could
dignity, justice, equity, harmony, compas- concentration camp. Meyerhof said the Pol- pull this off.
sion and forgiveness into knowledge, skills, ish military still has a claim to the buildings. Smith said he intends to raise $3 million
actions, and projects for communities Nina Meyerhof wants to Meyerhof said shes been to war zones as seed money for the City of Hope from
across the world. counterbalance the grim experience around the globe, but she did not visit Aus- philanthropists affiliated with Investment
Asked if she thought Holocaust scholars of visiting Auschwitz by building the chwitz until 2014. Her grandparents and Community Visibility, his company. The
and Jewish organizations might object to her City of Hope there. nearly 20 other relatives were killed there. total cost of building the City of Hope is
plans, Meyerhof replied, In no way do we I had no intention of getting involved pegged at $250 million.
want to take away from the experience of Auschwitz is the single most sacred anti- there. None whatsoever, said Meyerhof, My goal with this is that there be light
what people learn and viscerally experience sacred site in the world. It is so anti-sacred who ran school programs and a summer that comes into this place of darkness, and
when they go there. that it has become sacred. I have a problem camp in Vermont, and founded Children of then that light is carried out to other peo-
But Efraim Zuroff, director of the Simon using it for anything other than telling the the Earth, an organization that encourages ple, said Smith, who raises funds for the
Wiesenthal Centers Israel office and the story of the crime that was committed there. spirituality and activism. Permanent Secretariat of the World Sum-
organizations point man on Eastern Europe One always has to ask in such a situation, Since then, she said, shes made 10 trips to mit of Nobel Peace Laureates, a nongov-
affairs, called the proposed City of Hope a Is this the most worthy use of so an impor- Oswiecim, the town in Poland on whose out- ernmental organization based in Rome.
terrible idea. Absolutely terrible. tant site? The staff who were part of this skirts the Nazi death camp is located. Meyerhof said the proposal to build
I can appreciate her intentions, but this scheme of massive murder where they Meyerhof, a descendant of German Jews, her City of Hope at Auschwitz could be
is really misconceived, Zuroff said. You were housed probably should be used as part said members of her family were deported approved next year and that programs
dont want to soften the blow of the expe- of the site to tell the story of the men and the from Berlin to Auschwitz. Her mother, who could begin in 2019.
rience of visiting the concentration camp. women who lived in these barracks. told Meyerhof that her grandmother was After visiting the One Humanity Insti-
People should leave Auschwitz very dis- Jewish scholars and activists have fought gassed on the day Nina was born, once tutes newly launched website, Zuroff said
turbed. Auschwitz stands alone, and thats in the past against what they saw as misuses remarked that every person who ever gave the money needed to build the proposed
exactly as it should be. of Auschwitz and its environs, especially her a piece of candy was taken away. City of Hope would be better spent on the
Michael Berenbaum, who served as the attempts to universalize or de-Judaize a Meyerhof lived in Israel for a year and said physical preservation of the existing por-
project director during the creation of the site where, according to the U.S. Holocaust she identifies with Jewish ethnicity more than tion of the former concentration camp,
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project. Now a consultant on the creation of In 1984, a Carmelite convent was estab- both the mayor of Oswiecim and the gover- Manhattan-based radio journalist Jon
museums and memorials around the world, lished on the grounds of Auschwitz; Pope nor of its province. According to Meyerhof Kalish [@kalishjon] has reported for NPR
Berenbaum said the City of Hope is not the John Paul closed it in 1993, after years of pro- and Kocevar, the governor has discussed the since 1980. His newspaper articles, radio
best use of the former SS barracks. tests. Activists also have asked for that Catho- City of Hope project with Polish Prime Minis- docs, podcasts and NPR stories are at
Auschwitz is a paradox, he said. lic church built in the 1980s at the Auschwitz ter Beata Szydlo, an Oswiecim native. kalish.nyc.

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