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Anal sex can be painful if you don't prepare yourself 111
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for it or don't use the lubricate that is available 12 23
in any sex shop on the web or in the stores. You can find lubricate
in a scented or unscented form. Vanilla is one of my favorite. Don't
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For one thing, you have to make sure you don't have to like Good
defecate (shit) before having anal sex. Make sure you clean
yourself completely out. You can do this by douching before What do you think?
sex or just defecate before sex. Make sure you wipe yourself
completely clean inside and out of you love hole. You can
also finish off by using wipes that is sold in the toilet Good Vote
tissue section. This will clean you out so don't feel
like defecating while having anal sex. You'd be able
to relax (which is the important part of anal sex) and enjoy
the feeling of having a cock inside of you and not being tense
because you're afraid that you might defecate while
your lover is stick' en it to you. You want to make sure
your lover's cock is lube completely to the base of
his cock and your anal rim is lube also. When you lover brings
his cock head to your love hole entrance, try to relax your
love hole rim muscle. Have your lover press his cock head
forward to help you spread your love hole opening over his
cock head. Once his cock head is in you, he can pop his cock
ocsap2, head in and out of you so you can get use to the feeling of having
2 Articles, Score 0.0 his cock in you. Once you are relax and beginning to like
the feeling of his cock head inside of you, your lover can
slowly inch his way deeper inside of you as he pump you slowly.
Make sure he doesn't thrust his cock completely inside
of you right away because this can make you tense up and make
it painful for you, but if you are comfortable with having
half of his cock inside of you and your feel confident that
you can accept the rest of his cock, go right ahead. Grab
hold of his ass cheeks and push his cock deep inside of you.
Giving an anal to your lover is also a great experience.
I never thought it could be better than having sex with a
women. Anal seem to be more firm and tight than a female vagina.
When you are comfortable with anal sex, touching and kissing
while having anal sex will make it an experience that you'll
never forget. It will fulfill all the wonders that you had
about having sex with a man.

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What a great post!!! I have tried to accept anal in the past

but the pain made it impossible. I have tried fingers and 69
small dildoes, but I can only take a mild (4") penetration.
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Your welcome suggestions make me confident I will soon
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the preparations you provide. The enema/voiding seems
natural; the 'relaxing' mode; the generous lubrication
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of all the working parts; and, I presume, a good amount of
Ask me for a foreplay (I think being rimmed would be nice) should combine
photo to do the trick.
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The only problem I can foresee is psychological. I have
topped anally many times--with both men and women, so I
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think of myself as a top. I'm not a subservient person
[quote] by nature, so I alwsay wondered whether that trait contributed
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to my avoidance and/or pain. I do remember getting a prostate
massage (finger wave) from a physician q long time ago.
I actuall felt the sesantion of an orgasm (he wanted to analyze
sample of my ejaculate and that's how he got it. Since
then I've always been anally curious.
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Strangely enough the bottoms I have topped (at least twenty)
didn't need any of the preparations you mentioned
(two needed a small amount of lube and one was fudgy). I guess

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they were all experienced and eager.

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Your article was very informative and helpful. From someone

who is contemplating having oral sex. Thank you. 37
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I have been gay since i was 12 years old, I am now 26 years old
and no matter what I do its still uncomfortable for me. Please 20
email me with some more information. Please put anal suggestions
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photo my man gets tired of when we have sex because he is a total
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to stop after like 5 minutes of anal. And i want him to stay
with me and be togeter the rest of our lives.
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the guy I had before him was very small, and when we had anal
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it barely penetrated my hole. so i am not used to big dick
men and i need help on this one.
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how come some men are afraid to do this because they said
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Anal sex is great. After lubing up with 2 or 3 fingers and

more lub I insert a plastic peroxide bottle, move it in and 18
out seneral times, then I'm ready for cock Farout. 9
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I was wondering about cleaning up and now you have given

me good information. I will be using those tips and hope 33
to finally have a nice time on the bottom.
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Your description was to the "T". Unlike in the

past when I was being penetrated, I felt an urge to go to the 26
bathroom and killed my pleasure. I did feel great most of
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photo to douche myself before anal sex. One time I didn't
know why I got a loose bowel even I had douched myself with Disagree Neutral Agree
5 bottles of plain water before I engaged in anal sex. I didn't
have any kind of upset stomach symptoms. Please remember
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this, the top must be patience. Otherwise, the phrase "Pain
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[quote] in the ass" really hit home. LOL.
PS, I am seeking to meet up with someone in the NY area. PPS,
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for some reason, I can't add anyone to my hotlist from

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the lovedog email. Can anyone tell me how to fix that?

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pls give some names of lubricants

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I've been both a top and a bottom. Before my first bottom

experience, he gave me a massage, sucked on me a little, 31
rimmed me and then took me doggy style. It didn't hurt
at all. Other times it has hurt, so it's all up to the 0 7
top and your mood. Lube is essential.
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My first time having anal was scary at first, I was thinking

it was going to hurt like hell and my lover knew this, how 40
scared I was, anyhow he would talk to me all the time he was
preparing me to take his cock, he gently carressed my balls 1 5
and strocked my cock, he would kiss me and tell how gentle
he was going to be, then he lubed my ass real well and says Disagree Neutral Agree
to me dont be nervous Im not going to enter you with my cock
yet, he lubed up his whole shaft real well and started to
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suck on me so wonderfully, then he slipped a finger in my
ass and was strocking my prostate, man this was soooo great,
he knew from my reactions I was starting to loosen up for
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lack of better words, then he slips twon fingers in me and
massages my prostate some more, he always talked with me
to help comfort me for what was going to happen, after he
fingered me for about ten minutes he then layed on me with
such a hard cock touching my ass pussy, I knew he wanted in
me, he just slowly put the head in and talked all the time
to me to make sure I was okay so far, he took very good care
of the situation, then he slide just a little more at a time
spicy_bottom, 51 M
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[quote] cause brief discomfort and he asked how i was doing I said
10/17/2006 fine so far, and he says good you have all of me now, we just
layed there for a minute kissing and the next thing you knew
it was feeling very very good, I could feel him pulseing
inside me so we both just started to move a little and then
I have to say that when I felt him cum was worth twice the pain
I felt, bottom line you need a very good top for your first
time, lots of lube and take your time and it will be soooo
enjoyable for you.
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Wow ive never had amal sex but cant wait .Ive been told i have
a very sexy ass & would love for a hot lubricated cock 25
to slowly break me in
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great artiles and answers and the lub a nd cleaning are realing
important there nothing like having a nice lubed cock up 27
your ass and rexlax you have to to enoy it.Pooch
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10/18/2006
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Thanks for the infor.This has always been a problem for

me--you sound like a pro--now all I have to do is find a partner. 10 10
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I have only had a cock up my ass once and he was sort off small,
about 4". He started my rimming my ass, and it felt 13
great. I beg him to put his cock in my ass. He put plenty of 9
Ask me for a lube both on his shaft as well as my ass pussy. I will try your 1
photo method with a friend of mine. He is very well endowed, I would
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feels.
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mmmm... i'm hot just reading about it... i want a big

hard cock in me now!! 28
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this was good info, thanks

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It IS really important to get cleaned out first before anal

sex. I like to take an enema about a half hour before I know 22
that I'm going to have sex. That gives me plenty of time
to be adequately cleaned out. You have to watch out becaue 1 4
you might think you are thru then it will start coming out
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The warm water of an enema rushing inside you can be quite
a turnon in itself. It will massage your prostate and feel
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ThickandEasy, 52 M really good if you take time to enjoy it. I like to use KY Jelly
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[quote] easily in any pharmacy or the pharmacy dept of Walmart or
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Kmart. It also has a sweet taste (like sugar). Your lover
can take part in getting you cleaned out which will make
it even more sensual. Include some foreplay with this and
you will have a really great time!
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the first time i got "corn holed" i was 13. so
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was my friend. he was 13 and hung very well. one hot summer
night, he stayed inside me, after his orgasim. softened
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sure felt good. never forgot that. he fucked me every chance

we got, for the next 5 years.
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paul3652, 59 M at age 18 he went into the nave and i went off to college. met I'm neutral Vote
Score 0.0 someone else and we carried on for the next 18 years. i love
[quote] anal sex, but i think if i were hung, i might be a top, emotionally.
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making sure you are clean does help one relax and enjoy.
there are, however, men out there that love to "pound
fudge". that was kind of hot too.
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I'm a confirmed bottom and found the article well written

and am in complete agreement with his advice. I have several 12
large dildos that I use, one is the side of a fist and am looking 7
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photo of our friends. cagie4u
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i LIKE IT SO MUCH
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Hmm..What is enema? Not to sound like a complete and utter
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singlesean24, 25 M douching thing since im not a female, but i would imagine

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[quote] Other then that the rest makes sense, I guess.
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great information for all, will make my first time easier.

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Great information!!! It will make it easier for my first

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Luv anal sex..deep long ones hurt me..I feel in my stomach..luv

thick 6 inches..luv loose balls..I always clean my rectum 13
before ..use dildoes to be ready.n well lube prefer KY..luv
also to be shaved if they rimmed I am lost..because I want 5
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Ask me for a more..luv to be double penetrated but I never done it..buttplugs
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Bang is to satisfy many partners..but mainly is the act..because
once you have two cocks in your ass..the others just fill
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your hungry asshole..anal sex is always enjoyable..even
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[quote] have used many dildoes..help me to relax..also while walking
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10/20/2006 made me ready for a possible visitor..who was to entertaint
me...
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i enjoy anal sex. i use ky jelly. its very good. but in anal
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