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Jwojalapa,
WNO would like to commend United Newah USA for its successful launch of
cultural activities for the Newah-Nepalese community in the greater
Dallas/Forth Worth metropolitan area. Your activities significantly contribute to
promoting Newah culture. Celebrating popular Newah festivals like Yenya Punhi
and Mha Puja and organizing special ceremonies such as Ihi and Kayeta Puja
not only support family and community connection to our culture but also help
bring greater awareness to the rich heritage of the Newahs and the importance of
our history and rituals. Newah people around the globe can feel proud of United
Newah USA for its ongoing efforts in Texas.
It is critical that Newah people around the globe unite to build awareness of
Newah culture and promote and preserve our Newah identity as we actively
strive to achieve equal rights for our language and culture. WNO is confident
that the United Newah USA will continue to contribute to this cause and sponsor
excellent activities designed to showcase and strengthen Newah culture and
Nepal bhasa. We look forward to working closely with the United Newah USA
team to achieve our common goals. Subhaye.
Warm regards,
Season Shrestha
President
World Newah Organization
WNO P.O. Box 5469 Baltimore, MD 21285 USA Tel: 410-404-5388 Fax: 410-372-0596
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at Kalimpong and were at the Himalayan Hotel above
Thinking Local the stores by the same name,then a social hub people
coming to collect the newspaper. Seeing me in the
Connec ng the Dots balcony, Nirmal Mama asked both of us - me and my
cousin Shyam Sunder of Rhenock - to come along and
The Newars Next Door stay with him. We were overwhelmed by his kindness
and hospitality Jyo Maiju* extended to us sharing
Fragrance Nearer Home wonderful moments with their school-going kids
Sunil*, Madhu, Meena, Anil* and Suzie recollec ng
the days with my parents and li le brother Deepak*.
Muma Karuna Devi* had planted lapsi, mango and
other fruit trees there. O en I found myself here
travelling to and fro Darjeeling for next several years
comple ng my M.Sc. in 1969. Once on the way back
home from Nepal, he advised me why not go back
to my Sanu Mama (Mohan Pratap Pradhan, the first
from the Nepalese community to reach the high post
of the Chief Secretary) and make your career with good
qualifica ons you have instead of running hither and
Rajiva Shanker Shresta thither frustrated annoyed with the authority over not
Sikkim, India
securing a Medical seat in spite of the Government of
What a wonderful way to usher in the New India Scholarship given. It was an eye-opener advice
Year to be with the Newars next door in the that saw me what was in des ny later to become and
same neighbouring Kalimpong in the year the re re as the Adviser to the State Planning Commission
World Newar Organiza on was observing the in 2007.
Third World Newah Day organizing first ever What a wonderful way to usher in the New Year to be
Global Conference on March 30 and 31 at with the Newars next door in the same neighbouring
Kathmandu, Nepal! Kalimpong in the year the World Newar Organiza on
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ut aif{sf] :dfl/sfdf æd[To' ;+:sf/ / a}1flgs cfwf/Æ ckgfpFb} cfPsf 5g\ . d[To' ;+:sf/ lalw eGg' g} d[To'
gfdsf] n]v k|sflzt u/]sf] lyP w]/} kf7s a[Gbx?n] dg kl5 klg cfTdfsf] cl:tTj afFsL /xG5 eGg] dfGotfnfO{
k/fO{lbg' eof] . To;sf] nflu cfef/L 5' . cfwf/ dfg]/ g} cfTdfnfO{ ;b\utL lbgsf] nflu ul/g] lalw
slt ;+:s[lt ;+:sf/x?sf] xfdLn] cy{ ga'em] /} klg nf]sfrf/sf] h;nfO{ d[To' ;+:sf/df bfx ;+:sf/ Funeral rites elgG5 .
nflu dfq ePklg dfGb} cfO/x]sf 5f}+ . cfh xfdL lab]zL cfWoflTds hLjg bz{g cg';f/ xfdL k|f0fLsf] hLjg k+r
e"lddf 5f}+ . oxfF nf]sfrf/sf] k|Zg cfpFbg} . oxfF klxrfgsf] tTj (Five universal element) n] ag]sf] x'G5 . Tof]
s'/f dfq cfpF5 . cGt/fli6«o ax'eflifs÷ax';+:s[ltn] k+rtTjsf] u'0f klg xfd|f] z/L/df laBdfg x'G5 .
el/Psf] of] ;+o'Qm /fHo cd]l/sfdf g]kfnLx? dWo] klg != k[YjL tTj – of] tTjsf] u'0f eg]sf] xfd|f] z/L/df
g]jf/x?n] 5'§} klxrfg agfP/ g]kfnnfO{ lrgfpFb} cfPsf xf8, df;', /f}+ OToflb 7f]; kbfy{ x'g cfpF5 .
5g\ . cfk"mn] ug'{kg]{ k|d'v ;+:sf/ ;+:s[ltx?nfO{ c+lusf/ @= hn tTj – of] tTjsf] u'0f eGgfn] /ut, kfgL,
ub}{ cfPsf 5g\ . cfh d}n] snd rnfpg nfu]sf] laifo cf+z', /h, jLo{, l;+ufg, d'q OToflb xf] .
xf] d[To' kl5 ul/g] dxTjk"0f{ ;+:sf/ æbfx ;+:sf/ lalw / #= t]h tTj – o;sf] u'0fn] ubf{ g} xfd|f] z/L/ tftf]
o;sf] clek|fo .Æ eO/xg] xf] .
ca hGd lnPkl5 t d[To' cjZoefjL 5 . of] t k|fs[lts $= cfsfz tTj – z/L/ leq hlt vfnL 7fpFx? 5g\
lgod g} xf] . a}lbs d"No dfGotfg';f/ d[To' eg]sf] :y"n Tof] cfsfz tTjdf kb{5 .
z/L/ (Gross physical body of soul) æhLjÆ / z"Id %= jfo' tTj – jfo' tTjn] ubf{ g} xfdLn] cleGt ?kdf
z/L/ (Subtle physical body of soul) sf] aLrsf] ;f; k]mg{ ;Sb5f} . xfd|f] z/L/df bz lsl;dsf jfo'x?
aGwg (bridge) nfO{ cfˆgf] OR5fn] geO{ k|fs[lts ?k 5g\ . tL dWo] dxTjk"0f{ æk|f0f jfo'Æ xf] . k|f0f jfo'
d} lgod cg';f/ k[YjL, hn, t]h, cfsfz, jfo' -kf~r ;+u ;+u} c? cf7 j6f jfo'n] klg z/L/ 5f]85g\ . t/
ef}lts z/L/_ Elemental body af6 tf]8]/ r]TGo jfo' æwg~hoÆ gfdsf] jfo' eg] d[To' kZrft klg z/L/
h;nfO[ k|f0f jfo' Conscious element or soul nfO{ leq} /xg] u5{ .
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oL k+rtTj ;+u;+u} k+r 1fg]lGb|o -cfFvf, sfg, gfs, lha|f] Funeral Home df ul/g] bfx ;+:sf/ lalw ldn] ;Dd
/ 5fnf_ 5g\ eg] k+r sd]lGb|o -xft, v'§f, d'v, dnåf/, d[ts z/L/nfO{ zL/ pQ/ / v'§f blIf0f kmsf{P/ /fVg] lqmof
kfrg k|lqmof_ x? 5g\ . k'qn] hf} ltn kfgL xftdf lnP/ d[tssf] z/L/sf] cuf8L
k|f0f jfo'df r]tgf, a'l4, cx+sf/ / dg ldl;Psf] x'G5 h'g a;]/ æ cfˆgf] gfd ===== / d[tssf] gfd ==== lnP/ k|]t
;fwf/0f jfo' eGbf km/s xf] . d[t :yfg zj gfd lk08f] dofbLot tjf] klti7t'Æ eg]/
u?8 k'/f0fdf o:tf] n]lvPsf] 5 . hf}, ltn, kfgL e'O{df 5f]8\g] . d[ts z/L/nfO{ hn:gfg
c+u'i7dfqM k'?iff] xf xf s'j{g\ sn]j/ft\ . u/fO{ rGbg, l;Gb"/ k"mn, k"mndfnf, blIf0ff r9fpg], ;]tf],
tb}j u[xot] b"t}of{Do}M kZrg\ :js+ u[xd\ .. kx]nf] sk8fn] 5f]Kg], s'08nL eP lgwf/df /fVg], t'n;L
o;sf] cy{ o:tf] x'g cfpF5 – a'9L cf}+nf hqf] ;fOhsf]
kq d[tssf] d'vdf /fVg] sk"/ klg d[tssf] d'vdf /fVg] .
k|f0f?kL jfo'nfO{ k|s[ltsf] lgod -odb"t_ n] cfˆgf] 5f]/L a]6Lx? eP d[tssf] n'uf, s'rf] Funeral Home
z/L/nfO{ cjnf]sg u/fpFb} lnP/ hfG5 . h;nfO{ d[To' af6 aflx/ NofO{ Trash ug{] of] lalw æ5\jf;o\ jfo]u'Æ
eGg] ul/G5 . d[To' kl5 ul/g] æbfx–;+:sf/Æ sf] nflu g]kfn lalw h:t} ul/Psf] .
d08ndf ;Lu'yL jf ;gfu'yL eg]/ u'yLof/x? ;a} hgf k]ml/ lqmofk'qn] hf} ltn kfgL lnP/ cfˆgf] uf]q / d[tssf]
ldn]/ cfjZolso ;fdfgx? hf]/hfd ul/ d[ts z/L/nfO{ gfd lnP/ k|]t åf/ :yfg] kfGy gd k|]t lk08f] dofbLot
lalwk"js{ bfx ul/G5 t/ oxfF labzL e"lddf g t u'yL 5g\ tjf] k|lti7t'Æ eg]/ hldgdf 5f8\g] . lqmofk'qn] hnsf]
g t u'yLof/ g t cfjZolso ;fdfg g} pknAw 5g\ . t/ efF8f] lnP/ æzjÆ nfO{ kl/qmdf ug]{ ;jf{l0f kfklg k"/f
klg l;ldt ;fwg ;|ft] af6 cfˆgf] ;+:sf/ cg';f/ d[tsnfO{ s[tflg ;+xTo kfklg lbj+ k|oflGt . k"tflg s[Tjf hnlaGb'
bfuaQL lbg] lalwsf] laifodf rrf{ ub{5' . kft} ef+lu/yL Tj+ z/0f+ k|olGt .. of] dGq kb]/ kl/qmdf
bfx–;+:sf/nfO{ rflxg] ;fdg ug]{ æzjÆ sf] .
!= >L v08
k]ml/ klxn] h:t} hf}, ltn, kfgL xftdf lnP/ cfˆgf] of]u
@= sk"/
/ d[tssf] gfd lnP/ k|]t rTj/ :yfg v]r/ gfd lk08f]
#= cb'jf 6'qmf
dofbLot tjf]klti7t'Æ eg]/ hldgdf 5f]8\g] .
$= l;Gb"/
%= kx]+nf] 6Lsf lqmofk'qn] k"mn, nfjf, rfdn lnP/ k|fy{gf ug]{ dGq æ;'/of
^= ;]tf] sk8f – @ kfpm -ld6/_ Oj b'u{ltl/ lg .. ckg] Ood:t't ldlt ... ck]tf] oGt' k0fo\
&= t'n;L kq OltÆ olt k9]/ æzjÆ nfO{ k"hf ul/ v'§f 9f]Ug] cyjf
*= kx]+nf] sk8f @ kfpm -ld6/_ gd:sf/ ug]{ .
(= k"mn >L v08 5 eg] d[tssf] z/L/df dfyL /fVg] . o;kl5
!)= k"mndfnf d[tssf ;a} cfkmGtx?n] zjsf] d'vdf hn v'jfpg] /
!!= s'08nL -hftM_ pknAw eP
cGTodf lqmofk'qn] hf} ltn kfgL xftdf lnP/ d[tssf]
!@= hf}
d'vdf hn r9fpFbf k9\g] dGq –
!#= ltn
!$= d[tssf] n'uf ufolbgL r tr} wf{gL o] r k'0o lznf]qof ..
!%= s'rf] s'/If]q+ r u+uf r od'gf r ;l/Ab/f .. eb|j;f u97sL r
!^= kfgL ;/o" td;f tyf .. sf}lzsL rGbfdf r ;j{ kfk k|jflzgL
!&= w"k a}0fj~r j/fxtLy{ lk08f/s tyf .. k[lyJof+ kfgL ltyf{gL
!*= aQL cyjf Candle rTjf/M ;fu/ :tyf ... ;tfgL dd\ WofTjf ;j{ ltyL
!(= blIf0ff Gofjfxo]t .. -cfˆgf uf]q_ ==== -d[tssf] gfd_ – k|]t c;f}
@)= rfdn :juL{o nf]sfo\ :jfxf .. k]ml/ hf} ltn kfgL xftdf lnP/
@!= nfjf lqmofk'qn] uf]q / d[tssf] gfd lnP/ gfd k|]t lrlt :yfg]
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;fws gfd lk08f] dofbLot] tjf]klti7t'Æ eg]/ z/L/df jf:tjdf d[To'sf] laifodf snd rnfpg cfk}mdf g} r'gf}tL
5f]8\g] . cfuGt's ;a}n] >4f~hnL ck{g ug]{ . k"0f{ laifo xf] . of] laifo s7Lg klg 5 . o:tf] sl7g
lqmofk'qLn] w"k afNg], aQL afNg], k"mn, nfjf, rfdn xftdf laifonfO{ ;/n efiffdf n]Vg] k|of; ub}{5' .
lnP/ k|fy{gf ug]{ – d[To' slxn] / s;/L cfpF5 s;}nfO{ yfxf 5}g . t/ cfpF5
Tj+ e"t s[Hhukf]g] Tj+ nf]s+ kl/kfns ... of] g} ;To xf] . jf:tadf laleGg a]b / tGqx?nfO{ cfwf/
pT;+xf/s/:t\ :dfb]g+ :ju{ gof d[td\ .. dfGg] xf] eg] d[To'sf] If0f cToGt} cfgGbbfos x'G5 eGg]
s[Tj/ ;'b'is/+ sd{ hftf] jfKo\ hfgtf ... d[To'sfnjz+ pNn]v ul/Psf] 5 . t/ klg dg'io\ d[To';+u 8/fpF5g\ lsg
k|fKtf] g/M k~rTjdfutM ... wdf{ wd{ ;df o'Stf] nf]edf]x xf]nf t < o;sf] d'Vo / sf/0fx? xg ;S5g\ .
;dfj[tM ... by]x+ ;j{ufoqf0fL lbAofg\ nf]sfg ;uR5t' ... != cfTdfnfO{ klxn]sf] d[To'sf] lk8fsf] cg'e"lt afFsL
olt k9]/ d[t z/L/dfly k"hf ul/ Funeral Home df /xg] eP/ ToxL ;+:sf/n] 8/ k}bf u5{ .
bfx ;+:sf/ ug]{ 7fpFm sf] :jLr cg ug]{ .
@= h'g z/L/df nfdf] ;dosf] af;, 3/, kl/jf/
olt ;s]kl5 Funeral Home af6 aflx/ cfO{ lqmofk'qL k|ltsf] dfof, lhDd]af/Lsf] af]wsf] sf/0fn] k|an df]x
nufot ;a} cfkmGtx?n] cb'jfsf] 6'qmf xftdf lnP/ xftdf / cfsif{0f csf]{ d'Vo sf/0f xf] .
df8\g] / ;'+3]/ e'O+{df xfnL kfgL n] xft wf]O{ cfFvf klg
d[To' gof hLjgsf] z'?jf6 xf] . t/ olx ga'em] / g} dflg;x?
lehfpg] / 3/ kmls{g] . h'g a]nf æc:t'Æ -v/fgL_ lng
cfˆgf] d[To'nfO{ cfk}mn] si6s/ agfO/x]sf x'G5 .
af]nfpF5 Funeral Home af6 Tof] lbg uO{ Tof] æc:t'Æ
3/df Nofpg' ldNb}g t/ s'g} glbdf uP/ ;]nfO{ lbg] . jf:tjdf cfTdfsf] d[To' x'g] xf]Og p;sf] z/L/dfq gfz
of] ;a} lalw ug's { f] k5fl8 d[tfTdfn] ;'v zflGt kfcf];\ eGg] x'g] xf] cfTdf t cd/ x'G5 . cfˆgf] d[To'nfO{ cfgGbbfos,
g} xf] . xfd|f] dl:tis leq To:tf] Pp6f /x:odo\ v08 x'G5 ;'vdo / d+undo agfpg] sfd xfdL cfk}mn] ug{ ;Sb5f}+ .
h;nfO{ cGt/ r]tgf (Unconscious Mind) sf] s]Gb| olb dflg;n] s'g} a:t', k|f0fL jf kl/jf/ k|lt clws df]x
elgG5 . h;sf] sf/0fn] d[To' kl5 klg cGt/ r]tgf afFsL x'g' g} cfk}mnfO{ b'lvt t'Nofpg' xf] . t/ o;sf] cy{ cfˆgf]
/xG5 . Tof] Unconscious Mind sf] Center h;nfO{ sd{ cyjf lhDd]af/L k"/f gug'{ eGg] cy{ nfUb}g . clws
Cortex -a|Dxf08_ elgG5 Tof] Part klg d[tssf] z/L/ df]x dfq x'g' x'Gg . d[To'sf] ;dodf cfTdfsf] z/L/af6
;+u} gi6 x'g' h?/L x'G5 . cGoyf Tof] Unconscious alxu{dg x'g] dfq xf] . k|f0fjfo' lg:sg' cuf8L Ps Ps
Mind aflx/ cfof] eg] To;sf] ;xf/fn] Soul n] dfgl;s ul/ c? kfFrj6f jfo'x? z/L/af6 klxn] g} lg:s]/ ;"Id
z/L/ (Body of the mind vital energies) lgdf{0f z/L/sf] /rgf ub{5 . of] z/L/ k"0f{ x'g] lalQs} z/L/ leq
u/L k|]t z/L/ (Evil Ghost) agfpg ;S5 . h;af6 /x]sf] wg~ho jfo'sf] dfWodaf6 a8f] a]un] cfTdf aflx/
l5§} d'lQm (Liberation) x'g] ;Defjgf w]/} sd x'G5 . lg:sG5 / ;"Id z/L/df k|j]z ub{5 . k|f0fjfo' lg:sbf
rfx] k|fs[lts ?kdf d[To' xf];\ of rfx] ck|fs[lts ?kdf wdf{Tdfsf] eP gfs, sfg, cfFvf, d'v af6 lg:sG5 .
h'g;'s} cj:yfdf klg cfTdfsf] tTsflng cj:yf ;'vL of]uLhgsf] eP a|DxGw -tfn'_ af6 lg:sG5 . hf] clt
x'Gg . lsgls p;n] ;a} 36gfsf] cg'e"lt ul//x]sf] x'G5 . kfkL x'G5 p;sf] k|f0fjfo' dnd"q;+u lg:sG5 eg]/ u?8
s;n] p k|lt s] ;f]lr/x]sf] 5 < s:tf] ;f]lr/x]sf] 5 < k'/f0fdf pNn]v ul/Psf] 5 .
sf] dfG5]n] dfof u/]sf] 5 < sf] b'MvL 5 < cfbL s'/fx?sf] != h;sf] d[To'k"j{ g} z"Id z/L/sf] /rgf eO;s]sf]
cg'e"lt x'G5 t/ afXo r]tfgf (Conscious Mind) sf] x'G5 To:tf] k|sf/sf] cfTdfn] k|]t z/L/ wf/0f ug'{
cefjn] ubf{ Tof] cfTdfn] AoQm ug{ c;dy{ x'G5 . Tof] kg]{ x'Fb}g . z"Id z/L?sf] /rgf To:tf] cfTdfsf] x'G5
laaztf g} cfTdfsf] nflu si6sf/0f x'g hfG5 . To;sf/n] h;n] hLjgdf df]xdfofaf6 dfly p7]sf] d'Qm of]uLsf]
o:tf] cj:yf gcfcf]; eGgsf nflu z/L/nfO{ ;Dk"0f{ ?kdf hLjgofkg u/]sf] x'G5 . cfk"mnfO{ cfWofTd bz{gdf
clUgbfx ul/ v/fgL agfpg h?/L x'g cfpF5 . kl/0ft u/]sf x'G5g\ .
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@= hf] df]x dfofdf 8'a]sf 5g\ t/ a'l4dfg, 1fg ul/ si6do ;do Aoltt ug'{kg]{ x'G5 . To;}n] o:tf]
lj1fgsf 1ftf x'G5g\ . p;sf] ;"Id z/L/ !) lbgdf cj:yf gcfjf];\ elg tGq zf:q cg';f/, a}lbs lalw,
lgdf{0f x'G5 . To;sf/0f lqmofk'qLn] !) lbg ;Dd ah|ofg, dxfofg\ cg';f/ lkt[ k"hf, lkt[ tk{0f cflb
lqmofa;]/ >f4 ul/ d[tfTdfsf nflu z"Id z/L/sf] ug]{ lalw xfd|f k"vf{x?n] /rgf ul/ uPsf 5g\ .
/rgf ug{ cfjZolso tTjx? ck{0f ub{5g\ . / !) xfdL ;+u ePsf cyjf x/fP/ uPsf ;+:s[lt÷;+:sf/x?sf]
lbg kZrft z"Id z/L/df af; ul/ csf]{ hLjgsf] cGj]if0f÷cWoog x'g' h?/L 5 . clxn]sf] ef}lts la1fgn]
nflu tof/L u5{g\ . ck|ToIf ?kd} eP klg cfWofTdjfbnfO{ :jLsf/]sf] kfO{G5 .
#= o;/L klxn] z"Id z/L/sf] lgdf{0f ug]x{ ? of]uLhgx? xfdLn] dfGb} cfPsf laleGg ;+:sf/x? leq bz{g 5 ,
g} eP . h;sf] !) lbg ;Dd lqmofa;L lqmofk'qLn] la1fg 5 . To;nfO{ lrGtg dgg ug{ h?/L 5 . gq of]
z"Id z/L/ lgdf{0f ug{ cfjZolso lalwåf/f cfTdfnfO{ ;a} cGw laZjf;sf syfx?df dfq l;dLt x'g hfG5 .
z"Id z/L/ k|j]z ug{ dfu{ k|z:t ul/ lbG5g\ . t/ h;df bz{g 5}g, la1fg 5}g . Tof] nfdf] ;do bLuf] /xg
sf]lx cfTdfsf] nflu z"Id z/L/ agfpg ! jif{;Dd klg ;Sb}g . æc:t'Æ
nfUg] ub{5 . To;} sf/0f klg lqmofk'qLn] ! jif{;Dd ;|f]tM laifo ;Gbe{ k':tsx?
a/vL af/]/ d[tfTdfnfO{ z"Id z/L/ lgdf{0f ug{ ;Sg] != u?8 k'/f0f
lalwåf/f >f4 ul/ ;'vfg'e"lt -df]If_ dfu{df k7fpg @= bfx ;+:sf/ lalw
>f4åf/f >f4 ul/ ;'vfg'e"lt -df]If_ dfu{df k7fpg #= oh'/ a]b
>f4 elQmsf ;fy lkt[sf] cg'i7fg ug]{ u/]sf x'G5g\ . $= dxfkl/ lgjf{0f tGq
$= h;n] ! jif{df klg z"Id z/L/ k|fKt ug{ ;s]g %= tTj lrGtfd0fL
eg] Tof] d[tfTdfn] w]/} w]/} aif{;Dd klg k|t] z/L/ wf/0f ^=s'nf0f{j\ tGq
T he words Nepali or Nepalese get stuck in my difference between Raastra and Raastriya is none. It
mind all the mes. When I introduce myself on is just a ma er of how you use it; the meaning simply
a ques on ‘who are you’? I intend to answer refers to na onal language, a twis ng of Nepali
as Nepalese-American. But the person understands tongue for richness of vocabulary.
me as Nepali. I had hard me to digest this kind of As we know we are in process of change in every
reac on because I feel like I was made Nepali by virtue aspect of our life in 21st century. The members of
of being born in Nepal. I prefer to be called Nepalese na onal level Think Tank group whoever they are
in abroad quite similar to people from China, Japan, oppose iden ty based discussion. They think it
Korea, India, and Bhutan, introducing them as brings fragmenta on of na on and hos le situa on
Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Indian, and Bhutanese in Raastriya eaktaa. The ektaa planted by followers
-Americans. This is the strength of being American of cruel king PN Shah when his authority vehemently
although originated from Korea, India and so on, are accept him as the unifier of modern Nepal but it was
the inclusive term represen ng all people of that by suppression from A-Z in all respect, that they do
country, feeling the belongingness represen ng where not want to spell out any cost. My goal here is not
he or she was born as a universal truth to save the to discuss cruelty of PN Shah, but to disclose what
iden ty. But our country’s story is different. A sec on he has le for his decedents. Within the so called
of people want to be recognized as Nepali-American na onal unity all are excluded from protec on except
dissimilar in structure of word forma on compared their own clan the Khas iden ty, even in the recently
to Chinese-American or Japanese-American, African- promulgated Cons tu on of Nepal. Currently, the
American, so common in American tongue. For me Madhes region is on fire due to na onality campaign
the Nepali-American sounded like half iden ty such adopted by so called unifier focuses on Pahade origin
as hanging a western e on top of daura- suruwal, A and they call the Madhesis are Bideshi because they
typical Nepalese out fit for a man, an odd wearing in are not Nepali by heart and soul but made Nepali
a fashion show. pushing to wear daura suruwal on na onal day. This
I would like to emphasize on keep paying a en on to was the dilemma for the previous republic first vice
recognize who would like to see as Nepali-American president. By virtue of his birth he is Nepalese, but
or Nepalese-American. Adding /-ese/ to make absolutely not Indian. This is the crucial difference
adjec ve out of a noun word in English structure is between Nepali and Nepalese. No people from Bharat
quite regular, no need to modify at all, but Nepali is are made known as BharaƟ. They proudly accept as
not English word. So if you see Nepali is adopted as Bharat-iya. Where as in Nepal all are by force made
English word then they do not hesitate to add /-s/ Nepali based on Khas language supremacy, whether
as plural marker so easily eg. Nepalis. Is ‘Nepali’ an or not they like? This is against individual human right.
English noun or adjec ve? It’s your call how you use When we look at the history of Nepali we landed
it. It also represents to the language adopted by the so in immediate past etymology of Gorkhali that has
called Nepal government and proudly calls Raastriya a direct link with Gorkha region. The rise of Gorkha
Bhasa un l 2008. A er that many languages were was praised by many for their bravery in abroad, but
recognized as Raashtriya Bhasa. The Nepali speakers no one talks about their mysterious behavior in own
started calling their language Raastra Bhasa. The homeland that tles them as king of cruelty. The word
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5]+ 5]+ bf]h/ jfo]sf
g]jfMto\t 5]+vf+ 5]+vf+ lkltgf Rjg 8f = afn uf]kfn >]i7
dtna db' nfO8]g, g]b/Nof08
e'vfr+ cTy]+ x] etfe'+u BM j b]ut
nf]x+lxlt uflxlt kmNrf ;tM g]jfMto\ b'Mvo\ Vjla djM g]jfM sljlklg
nF tAofs]u' gfdo\ bf]h/+ Sjfgf Rjg VjofM ug+ g]jfM sljlk+
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In life we do many things just because we are told to do so and many rituals
are observed as it has been running from ages as a part of our culture and
tradi on. My dad took a pause and wanted reasoning not in an a empt to
be an -social or an -cultural but to break the s gma for the comfort and
convenience of the changing mes.
"You don't have to deserve your mother's love. whom I always considered and I still do today that he
You have to deserve your father's". It didn’t make was born ahead of his ti me in Nepal. He loved all the
much sense to me when I read this quote by great traditions and cultures as we diligently followed but
American poet Robert Frost some two decades ago. he made sure that we were not getting vultured by
I was basking in the glory of both of my mother and our own culture by simply following them for granted.
father's abundant love. It was my birth right to be My dad’s level of thinking was genuinely different from
loved by both my parents so I didn’t have to deserve others.
it. I deserve every ounce of uncondi onal love When I reached my first day of puberty, I was
without asking from the people I am so a ached to. immediately confined to my bedroom for twelve days;
I was more a ached to my dad and which is true ll a confinement from natural light and men. I was fine
this day. The D for Dad and D for Daughter chemistry being in the man-made darkness but not seeing my
work awesome in our case. dad bothered me. Addi onal thick curtains were put
Growing up in a tradi onal Newah Family, I must on my already curtained bedroom windows so there
have heard hundreds of "do’s” every day. "Do good won’t even be a slightest ray of light. I really didn’t
things - do be polite - do be humble - do be down understand the science behind the twelve days of
to earth - do be honest - do be respec ul - do the confinement but was very excited about no-school-no-
best – do be be er than the rest" and hundreds homework for twelve days. I also enjoyed the visits of
more of do’s. I was enriched with tradi ons and my aunts and other female rela ves and friends with
cultural values. I had lots of don'ts as well. I was variety of food and sweets. We played, sang, danced
much protected. Protec on is a good thing. It is and had tons of fun. We also did facial everyday with
homemade "KO" (bukuwa) and we all glowed fair and
a privilege and means to be loved at all mes but
lovely.
over protec on most of the mes has disabled
than enabled human kind. I always felt so fragile This significant confinement is called "Bahra
to think of doing something that somebody in my Ceremony". The sacred ritual is performed with the
family had not done before. I was scared that I first sigh ng of Sun in the morning of twel h day is
would be considered a rebellious daughter that will believed to protect girls from the evil eyes of the
bring disgrace to my parents and especially my dad people.
Uam Makaju
Toronto, Canada
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t’s been over 13 years that I have been living in United First thing we would to do was to get a long thick
States. This has been my home away from home. rope and assemble by my house. Then, half of
I do not remember, passing a single day without the gang would grab one end of a rope and stand
thinking about Nepal. All my childhood memories at one side of a narrow road, while the other half
from home are s ll fresh, especially; the rich Newah would grab another end of the rope and stand at our
culture; festivals, culinary delicacies, monuments, opposite side. We would literally block the road with
temples, arts and tradi ons that make us unique in the rope and not let anyone pass. Then we would
this world. I feel pride to have been raised in such a screamed –Jaga! Jaga!! with our lungs out to collect
vibrant culture and values. money. We never asked how much we want, simply
We have numerous festivals for every occasion accepted whatever we were given, and then let the
and time; and different music for every season. people pass through the rope. There were numerous
I participated in every festival, but the most that instances, we got into arguments with people but it
stands out even today is, ‘Maha Shivaratri’, the day did not deter us from doing, what we have always
we celebrate in honor of Shiv; literally means, night been doing. It’s a tradi on of Kathmandu and kids
dedicated to Lord Shiv. Shivaratri is celebrated during would be seen in every block of the road. I honestly
the month of Magh, as per the Hindu Lunar Calendar. have no clue, how this started but it was something
Shiv is also known as ‘Mahadev’, which literally I saw, growing up. And we followed the same foot
translates as ‘Gods of all the Gods’; symbolizes steps to keep this tradi on alive.
‘Destruc on’, a destroyer of the evil, who protects
and transforms the Universe. Hindus around the So that was my first morning ritual of ‘Shiva Ratri’.
world celebrates Shivaratri in their own tradition. A er doing that for few hours, un l we all get hungry
Newah tradi on of celebra on is quite a unique. I like and red. Then we would split the money equally,
to take you back into my good old days; and let me try among all of us, who par cipated. We hardly make
to share how I celebrated this special day and some Rs. 50 each person. But it was super exci ng moment
mischievous things I did as a kid. to get that free money. It is definitely not an ideal
way to make money but we were forgiven on this
Unlike today’s genera ons, I did not grow up being a
day.
couch potato, playing X-Box, PlaySta on, video games,
etc. I’ve always been a very ac ve and outdoor person. Later in the day, we would assemble again in Chowk
I love socializing with friends, neighbors, playing our to plan on ge ng things ready for our main program
ethnic music for fun. I always woke up early on the for the evening - Bonfire and Cooking. That was one
day of Shivaratri and a er my quick breakfast with of the most important parts of celebra ng Shivaratri,
family, I just sneaked out to the Chowk (common for the kids in my neighborhood. It is funny, how
open courtyard in neighborhood) to meet my friends we never paid visit to the temple; and celebrated
and discuss our ac vi es for this special day. Shivaratri.