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Chapter 3: Is my child bullying others?
Why do young people bully? 28
What to look for. 29
Physical signs. 29
Emotional and psychological signs. 29
Signs related to school. 30
What I can do. 30
Teaching your teenager to manage their anger 31
What to do when there is a complaint from the school. 31
Working with the school. 32
What can I expect from the school? 32
Suggested reading 47
Useful contacts 48
References 49
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Acknowledgements
We wish to thank the following North Eastern Health Board personnel
for supporting The Cool School Programme:
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Introduction
As parents of school going adolescents development of materials, a web site and
you may be concerned not only with their group therapy for those victimized by
academic performance but also with how bullying and individual intervention for
they are managing socially. You may be those who use bullying behaviour. There is
worried about the possibility of your also a research component to the Cool
teenager being bullied while at school and School Programme which has resulted in a
wonder what you can do to prevent it or number of publications. All aspects of the
how to deal with it if it occurs. Indeed programme are being evaluated. The focus
you might already be in the process of of ongoing research is on curriculum, girl
grappling with the effects of bullying and bullying, teacher/pupil bullying and the
have personal experience of just how impact of bullying on the whole school
difficult it is to address this problem. community.
While it is very unlikely that bullying will
ever be completely eradicated, there is The Cool School Programme aims to
much you can do as parents to prevent it provide a support service for schools to
happening and to manage it where it has facilitate implementation of the Irish
already occurred. Department of Education and Science
Guidelines on Countering Bullying in Primary
This book, “Bullying in Secondary School: and Post-Primary Schools (1993).
What Parents Need to Know" is written
with just those concerns in mind. It offers Bullying in schools has become the focus
advice on how to prevent and manage for international research in recent
bullying, whether your child is a target of decades and it is clear that the bullying
bullying, or has a tendency to engage in problem is widespread (Smith et al 1999).
bullying behaviour. It is the third in a Recent studies in Ireland indicate that
series produced by the Cool School about 15% of secondary school students
Programme, an Anti-Bullying initiative for are bullied while at school (James et al
Irish post-primary schools developed 2002, O'Moore et al 1997). Many
within the North Eastern Health Board's initiatives to deal with the problem have
Child Psychiatric Services. The first two been undertaken internationally by
booklets “Responding to Bullying" and governments, education authorities and by
“Investigating and Resolving Bullying in individual schools. In Scandinavia, an
School" were written for teachers. important conclusion has been drawn
from research into bullying which
The Cool School Programme includes a suggests that the attitudes and behaviour
whole school approach to policy of teachers are of major significance for
development, teacher training, the extent of bullying problems in schools
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(Olweus, 1993). Adult help is almost
always needed to solve bullying problems.
Parents and teachers are ideally placed to
influence attitudes and change behaviour
and the best way forward is for close
cooperation between schools and parents.
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most occasions it is not intentional but is situations that are not appropriate.
often perceived as such by other students ● Inability to be organised.
and teachers. The behaviour of people
with ADHD may be very annoying to
others and they can best be described as
Effects Of Bullying
provocative victims. It is important to
remember that these behaviours are not Being subjected to bullying has been
deliberate. These children with ADHD shown to have long-term and wide-
require patient reminders and prompting ranging effects on young people who may
in order to address the repetitive nature of experience some of the following:
their difficult behaviours.
● Stress
The following is a list of some of the ● Anger
signs or behaviours to look out for if you ● Fear
are concerned your child may have ADHD. ● Anxiety
These behaviours occur in all children ● Powerlessness
sometimes, but if most of them occur on ● Loneliness
an almost constant basis, it is possible ● Depression
that your child has ADHD. You may need ● Low achievement
to request a psychological assessment ● Loss of confidence
through the school or discuss with your ● Ideas of suicide and self-harm
GP the need for a referral to the Child
Psychiatry Services . Many victims feel depressed and anxious.
A study of adolescent victims of school
The signs of ADHD: bullying indicated that one in five victims
● Difficulty in playing or engaging in
reported feeling very suicidal as a result of
leisure activities quietly. bullying (James et al 2002). Those who
● Not being able to sit still.
experienced psychological bullying and
● Talking excessively.
social exclusion were the most destressed.
● Blurting out answers.
Is It Bullying?
If you are unsure that your teenager is
being bullied, considering the following
may help you decide.
● Is verbal, psychological or physical
if appropriate.
The following are general guidelines for What action will be taken to protect your
parents who need to make a complaint child from retaliation?
about bullying. How will the situation be monitored, for
The school's anti-bullying policy should how long and by whom?
state clearly who your first point of Ask to be kept informed about progress.
contact should be. Possible helpful Set a date for this.
contacts in the school could be: the Establish who you should contact and
principal, deputy principal, year-head, when.
tutor, counsellor or an anti-bullying co- Keep a written record of the details and
ordinator if one exists. outcome.
Points to consider:
● Talk to them and listen to their fears.
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Chapter 2: Nipping Bullying in the Bud
How to Build Confidence
Parents should seek medical advice if
There is a great deal that you as parents there are health or emotional problems.
can do to lessen the likelihood of your
teenager being bullied in school. Appropriate social behaviour should be
taught, e.g. good table manners and
Confident young people are more likely to personal hygiene.
stand up for themselves if they are Self-image and physical appearance are
bullied. Confidence grows when a child is very important in adolescence. Teenagers
praised regularly. Remember an ounce of often don't want to appear different from
praise is worth a ton of criticism. It is the group and generally want to have the
important to be patient with your children 'in look' which is popular at the time. This
and praise them generously for may mean that you come under
achievements in different areas of their unreasonable pressure to buy expensive
lives. Building confidence will help your brand name clothes and shoes. Without
children feel good about themselves and succumbing to this pressure, it may still
can promote the development of skills for be possible to allow your child a choice
deal with difficult situations. within the budget you can afford.
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Let them know that it is good to have Encourage your child to develop a sense
friends in more than one area of their of humour. The best way to do so is to
lives, for instance in their neighbourhood, have a good sense of humour yourself.
and in hobby or sports groups, so that if Humour is a useful tool for dealing with
things go wrong in one area, they will verbal bullying and can reduce tensions
have other friends. Hobbies or interest between people.
groups, music lessons, dance classes,
swimming clubs, self-defence or other Tell your teenager that looking happy,
one-to-one activities, can pave the way smiling, joining in, having a laugh, not
for involvement in wider group activities taking things too seriously, and being
such as team sports, parties or discos. For open to what is happening at the
quieter children, fan club membership or moment, will encourage others to accept
having a pen-pal, provides an opportunity them into the group. In general a friendly
for one-to-one communication. attitude will go a long way.
The best advice to give in case of physical threatening looks are sometimes used to
attack is to tell the young person to get bully others. You can suggest breaking off
away if possible and get help. If eye contact slowly and avoiding looking
surrounded by a gang they should try to directly at that person afterwards. If it
stay on their feet for as long as possible. continues, it should be reported as
They can protect themselves by turning bullying to a teacher.
sideways to the attacker, raising their leg
and arm to deflect blows. If pulled to the Relaxation - How It Helps
ground they can protect the head and Relaxation is a skill that you as a parent
vulnerable parts of the body by rolling can learn and teach your children. It will
into a ball. help them to cope with feelings of anxiety
and worry in their lives and also teach
Encourage your child to protect their them how to cope with their own
personal space by: reactions in anxious situations.
● Staying with the same group of friendly
these techniques are not working for their behaviour has been. If a positive
them, they should seek additional help reaction does not emerge, continue with:
from a parent or teacher. “I want the name-calling to stop. If it
happens again,
I will report it."
Learning to Use the Assertive “I"
Response
Using brief “I" statements is an effective
way to challenge bullying, provided it is
used convincingly and with good eye
contact. Examples are: “I don't like your
attitude"; “I don't have to put up with
you doing this"; “I want you to stop
hassling me"; “I don't interfere with you
so please leave me alone".
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Force Field
Using imagination in times of difficulty is
an excellent tool for self-protection. You
can easily teach teenagers to use this
technique in cases where name-calling is
difficult to stop, or some other form of
bullying is annoying them. You can
suggest that they imagine a force-field
around them like a protective circle
keeping negativity out.
Imagine all that is negative and unwanted
bouncing back off the circle...
● Cruelty to animals.
● Lack of genuine friendships, i.e., their
friendships are often based on fear.
What I Can Do
It is unrealistic to expect a young person
to manage their anger if they are
frequently witnessing adults lose control.
This means that if a young person
experiences violence from adults, they are
more likely to use it themselves. Challenge
any aggressive behaviour and insist that it
is unacceptable. Explain what is
acceptable behaviour and reward it with
Signs relating to school: praise when you notice it. For example,
● Being involved in disruptive behaviour at you can discuss how to co-operate with
school. others, ways of asking for things instead
● Being placed on detention, or suspended of taking them, and turn-taking in
for fighting on a regular basis. activities and conversation.
● Complaints from teachers about a
change in behaviour. You can establish a basic code of conduct
● Requests from other pupils to be moved by setting a few important rules at home,
away from your child in class. e.g. “treat others with respect", and “do
● Complaints from other parents. nothing to hurt yourself, others, or
● Lacking verbal or social skills to deal damage property." Know where your child
with conflict resulting in aggression or is at all times, who they are with and
impulsive behaviour. what they are doing. Spend time with
your son or daughter and talk to them
about what is happening in their lives.
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Teaching Your Teenager to
Manage Their Anger
Here are some tips for explaining this to
your teenager.
1.Learn what triggers your anger. For
instance think what was the feeling you
had before you felt angry?
What to Do When There Is a
2.Become aware of where in your body Complaint From the School
you feel those feelings. These will be The first signal that your teenager is
warning signs for you to start involved in bullying may be a telephone
controlling your anger. call from the school requesting a meeting.
3.Have a plan of action. As soon as the Your initial reaction may be one of shock,
angry feeling comes, here are some ideas disbelief, disappointment or anger. Now is
to help you calm down: the time for a cup of tea to give yourself
● Talk inwardly to yourself, e.g. “I can time to think. It is very important to
handle this without getting mad" or remain calm and control your feelings. Do
“I am staying calm and in control". nothing for at least an hour. Tell yourself
● Count slowly to ten. “I can handle this". Talk with your partner
● Take several deep breaths. or a supportive person before approaching
● Leave the situation and go for a walk your child. Remind yourself that this is
until you feel calm. not a topic a teenager is likely to
● Go to a place where you can let off welcome. You may encounter fear and
steam in safety without harming defensiveness. Approach the issue in a
anyone, e,g. thump a hard cushion or gentle but firm manner without making
hit a punch bag. accusations, and ask for their side of the
● Try not to slam doors, shout at or story. The following is an example of how
argue with others. to open up discussion.
● Decide to wait a while until you feel
calm to deal with the difficulty. “I had a phone call from the school this
4.Reward yourself in some way when you morning about something to do with
have succeeded. Learning to control yourself and Tony. Could you tell me the
anger takes time and effort. Change will story from your point of view before I go
not happen suddenly. However when to meet the teacher."
you have managed a situation without
losing your temper, give yourself a treat. Don't get sidetracked by questions
about who telephoned, when etc.
It may be difficult for a young
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A suggested approach might be: “John is the proceedings. If you are still unhappy
upset and unhappy in class because he with the outcome, you may write to the
feels........ Is there any way we can sort this Divisional Inspector of the area. You will
out together? I would like to hear about it find out the name of this official by
from your point of view" Allow the telephoning the Department of Education
teacher to explain. Listen carefully & Science.
without interruption. If the teacher has a
reasonable explanation, it is usually Is My Child Bullying a
possible to solve the problem on the spot.
Teacher?
If you are unhappy with the teacher's
explanation, you may wish to seek an Examples of bullying behaviour towards
appointment with the principal. If you feel teachers are name-calling, throwing
under stress, it can be helpful to bring objects in class, showing contempt,
written notes as a memory aid. At all ignoring instructions, lack of cooperation
stages, remain calm and polite but and undermining of teachers.
assertive and keep in mind your child's More serious examples include physical
best interests. Explain what steps you have assault; sexual harassment; intimidation
taken, making clear what is unresolved for of new or less assertive staff; interfering
you about the situation. The principal with or stealing property; vandalising cars;
may wish to bring all parties together as a nuisance or threatening phone calls.
way of resolving the situation Be clear
about what you are seeking, e.g. an
apology and/or a guarantee that the
behaviour does not recur.
Sexual bullying presents itself in physical, All of these behaviours can have the effect
verbal and psychological forms. Physically of undermining a person's sense of his or
it can take the form of deliberately her own sexuality. Because adolescence is
brushing up against another, touching the stage when every young person is
breasts or genitals or circulating explicit grappling with the development of a
images from magazines or obscene sexual identity, bullying of a sexual nature
drawings. On a verbal level, it frequently can be particularly destructive and
takes the form of name-calling, text distressing. Young people who may be
messages, graffiti or unwelcome confused about their sexual orientation
comments about sexuality, general are particularly vulnerable to being bullied
appearance or attractiveness. by name-calling and exclusion.
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It is equally important for you as parents make life for them much more difficult.
to be vigilant about the possibility that Many teenagers go through a phase of
your adolescent may be perpetrating being confused about their sexual
sexual bullying on others. Your sons and orientation. Don't be afraid to bring the
daughters must be made aware of what is subject up with your teenager if they are
appropriate and inappropriate sexual having problems. While they may not open
behaviour, and that no one should ever be up immediately, letting them know that you
sexually abusive towards others. are there to support them when they are
ready will help them come to terms with
Dealing With Homosexuality their sexual orientation. There are support
services and literature available for parents
and Homophobia on the subject (See Useful Contacts).
Accessing them and raising your own
The subject of homosexuality in teenagers awareness about the issue will break down
is a sensitive topic and is often avoided. barriers and can only lead to tolerance of
Young people discovering that they are or difference.
could be gay or lesbian are doing so at
the most difficult emotional period of If you become aware that your child is
their lives. Young people in this position being harassed in this area it is imperative
are vulnerable to being bullied in school. that you approach the school as soon as
Many derogatory words and phrases are possible to prevent the bullying from
commonly used in schools to refer to gay escalating.
and lesbian people. These insults are used
whether the person targeted is gay or not.
This can be particularly distressing at the
Racist Bullying
teenage stage when they are struggling to
become comfortable with their sexual Racist bullying refers to any hostile or
identity and sexual orientation. offensive behaviours against others because
of their skin colour, cultural or religious
Young people need to be supported and background or ethnic origin. Traditionally,
accepted particularly by their families, and Irish schools have been mono-cultural in
have their questions answered without outlook and practice. The issue of including
prejudice. While sex education is crucially students from diverse ethnic or racial
important, it is only part of the answer. It backgrounds did not arise with the
is a myth that speaking openly to young exception of the travelling community. The
people about homosexuality will recent past has seen a significant change
encourage it. Refusing to talk about it will and schools are now integrating children
not stop people being gay; it will merely from a variety of different countries. This
situation tests the prejudices of Irish people.
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Parents have a major role to play in your child has been exposed to racist
educating their children that differences bullying, you should approach the school
are to be celebrated as something that and make them aware of the problem. Ask
can enrich the lives of their young people. if there are specific procedures in the
Parents need to be vigilant for any early school's anti-bullying policy for dealing
signs of intolerance or negativity towards with racism. If your child has been
people of a different race, colour, religion exposed to racist bullying or is
or culture. perpetrating this behaviour, the strategies
required to deal with it are similar to the
Racism can include any of the bullying steps involved in other types of bullying.
behaviours mentioned earlier. However These strategies are covered elsewhere in
racist name-calling differs from other this book.
forms in that there is often reference not
only to the child, but also by extension to
their family and their ethnic community
Relational Bullying: What Is
as a whole. It can also include insulting or It?
degrading comments, gestures, taunts or
‘jokes', making fun of the customs, music, Recent research has identified a type of
accent or dress of anyone from a different aggressive behaviour called relational
culture or refusal to co-operate with bullying. It is most common among
students from ethnic minorities. This is an adolescent girls though not exclusively so.
area where role-modelling by parents is of Relational bullying is any behaviour that
particular importance. It is crucial that sets out to deliberately damage another
students hear parents speak respectfully person's friendships or feelings of
about other cultures and witness positive inclusion in a friendship group. Examples
behaviour towards them. All coments of a are deliberately withdrawing friendship or
racist nature should be discouraged and group acceptance, ostracising, spreading
corrected. rumours, gossiping etc. This type of
bullying is distinguished from the more
The Equal Status Act (2000) prohibits overt types of school bullying such as
discrimination on several grounds direct physical or verbal bullying.
including grounds of race, religion and Relational bullying is more subtle than
belonging to the traveller community. other types of bullying and is harder to
While legislation offers some protection, it detect. However research shows that
requires the co-operation of teachers, relational bullying often develops into
parents and the whole community to a more blatantly physical type of
educate young people in empathy, aggression.
openness and respect for difference. If
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disapproval, girls who bully in this way or simply telling her friend that she feels
appear nice to teachers and other adults, she is being left out and would like to
while beneath the surface they may be talk about the problem.
passing covert looks and notes, turning
their backs and whispering. The sugar and As her parent you may need to be patient
spice image is used to fog the radar of about listening to her recount incidents
otherwise vigilant adults. over and over. Even though this can be
extremely repetitive for you, it will help
It is not only the victims of relational her come to terms with the loss of her
bullying who are damaged. Girls who use friends. This is not meant to be a
this type of bullying behaviour are likely substitute for taking appropriate action
to be at risk for serious adjustment but long after the crisis has passed your
difficulties. They often experience higher daughter will remember the refuge of
levels of loneliness, depression and home and family as perhaps being the
isolation themselves (Crick and Grotpeter, one thing that helped her to survive.
1995) Giving her unconditional love and support
and enlisting the help of the rest of the
What Can I Do If My Daughter Is family will make life easier for her.
Targeted?
As a parent you may not be aware that
your child has a problem until she shows
signs of severe distress or depression. As
in other forms of bullying young people
are reluctant to confide because it is
deeply humiliating to acknowledge their
difficulty in sustaining a friendship despite
all efforts. It is important to remain
supportive, listen attentively and let her
know you accept her perception of events.
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It is important for parents of adolescent 1. Admit to yourself that you feel jealous,
girls to be constantly vigilant about how e.g. “I feel jealous of Mary because...
they treat their friends. Often relational 2. Tell yourself that you are not the first
bullying starts with a girl gossiping or the only person in the world to feel
maliciously about another. If the rest of jealous. It is a normal human emotion
the group does not challenge this, it can experienced by everyone at some stage.
spread and fuel feelings of resentment 3. Admit to yourself and perhaps a
and jealousy that lead to the group sympathetic other person how it
excluding or isolating a member and feels to be jealous, e.g. “It
making life miserable for her. If you hear makes me feel awful...."or "I feel
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all eaten up inside and I want to hurt that girls who bully relationally in
her..."or “I feel smaller and less adolescence often go on to bully in the
important than Mary and it makes me workplace and in adult relationships and
feel awful..." this will have implications for their future.
4. Tell yourself “I have talents and gifts Of course it is of crucial importance in
that are different from Mary's but just this regard that you give your daughter
as important. I am now going to list good example by not engaging in
them." malicious gossip yourself.
5. “Humour will help me to deal with
jealousy. I will try to laugh at myself..."
6. Most importantly, “I don't have to act
out of jealousy. In fact, I will not act to
hurt Mary or anyone else when I am
jealous"
7. “Feelings of jealousy can and will go
away”
Appendix
Parents and School Policy on Bullying. parents/guardians.
3. To ensure comprehensive supervision and
The Department of Education and Science monitoring measures through which all
document Guidelines on Countering Bullying areas of school activity are kept under
Behaviour in Primary and Post-Primary observation.
schools (1993) is available on the 4. To develop procedures for noting and
Department's website (www@educ.ie). The reporting incidents of bullying behaviour.
Guidelines are designed to help schools 5. To develop procedures for investigating
develop and implement an anti-bullying and dealing with incidents of bullying
policy. behaviour.
6. To develop a programme of support for
The role of parents is discussed and it is those affected by bullying behaviour and
suggested that “If staff, pupils and for those involved in bullying behaviour.
parents/guardians are involved in the 7. To work with and through the various
development of the policy, they are more local agencies in countering all forms of
likely to actively support it" (Guidelines, bullying and anti-social behaviour.
1993, p.11). One of the considerations in 8. To evaluate the effectiveness of school
outlining a positive school policy is that policy on anti-bullying behaviour.
“the school recognises the need to co-
operate with, and keep parents informed When discussing procedures in schools for
on procedures to improve relationships noting and reporting an incident of
within the school community" (Guidelines, bullying behaviour (No. 4 above), the
1993, p.17). Guidelines go on to suggest that:
The Guidelines also recommend that the “Parents or guardians of victims and bullies
policy should be “promoted by the school should be informed by the principal or
Managerial Authorities within the school to deputy-principal earlier rather than later of
all pupils, parents, and staff on a repeated incidents so that they are given the
basis with particular attention being given opportunity of discussing the matter. They
to incoming pupils and their parents" are then in a position to help and support
(Guidelines, 1993, p.9). their children before a crisis occurs”
(Guidelines, p.11).
The Guidelines state that schools should and
develop policies with the following aims: “Parents/guardians must be informed of the
1. To create a school ethos which appropriate person to whom they can make
encourages children to disclose and their enquiries regarding incidents of
discuss incidents of bullying behaviour. bullying behaviour which they might
2. To raise awareness of bullying as a form suspect or that have come to their
of unacceptable behaviour with school attention through their children or other
46 management, teachers, pupils, and parents/guardians” (Guidelines, p. 11).
Suggested Reading
Alexander, Jenny (1998). Your Child, Bullying: Practical and easy to follow advice.
Shaftesbury: Element Books.
Byrne, B. (1994). Young people and bullying. Dublin: Irish Youth Work Press.
Fitzgerald, D. (1998) Parents and the Bullying Problem. Dublin: Blackhall Publishing.
Lawson, S. (1994). Helping Children Cope with Bullying. U.K.: Sheldon Press.
Mains, B. and Robinson, G. (1991). Stamp Out Bullying. Bristol: Lucky Duck
Publishing.
Murray, M. & Keane, C. (1998). The ABC of Bullying. Dublin: Mercier Press.
Rigby, K. (1997). Bullying in schools and what to do about it. London: Jessica
Kingsley.
Sharp, S. and Smith, P.K. (1994). Tackling Bullying in Your School. London and New
York: Routledge.
Simmons, R. (2002). Odd Girl Out: The hidden culture of aggression in girls. London:
Harcourt.
Train, A. (1995). The Bullying Problem: How to Deal with Difficult Children. U.K.:
Souvenir Press.
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Useful Contacts
Parents who have serious concerns about their children should contact their GP for
advice. Some of the organisations mentioned below have Websites and/or Helplines
which offer advice and guidance. These are referenced in brackets.
Anti-Bullying Centre, Room 3125, Arts Building, Trinity College, Dublin, 2. Phone 01-
6082573. (Advice and guidance). (www.abc.tcd.ie).
Campaign Against Bullying, 72 Lakelands Avenue, Stillorgan, Co. Dublin. Phone: 2887976.
Irish Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children. 20 Molesworth Street, Dublin, 2.
Phone: 01-6794944, (Helpline). (www.ispcc.ie).
Parentline, (Parents Under Stress), Carmichael House, North Brunswick Street, Dublin 7.
Phone: 01-8733500, (Helpline). (www.parentline .ie).
Parents Support (Run by parents of gay and lesbian children). Booklet: If Your Child is
Lesbian or Gay. Phone: 01-8721055 (Helpline).
Victim Support. Haliday House, 32 Aran Quay, Dublin, 2. Phone: 01-8780870. Also
1850-661-771, (Helpline). (www.victimsupport.ie).
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