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© 2007 Dr. Tony Alessandra, All Rights Reserved in All Media
through an inductive approach. In my Nightingale-
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months, started typing at 3 years old, learned Greek at something other than a genius. That was when you de-
A January 2003 story in The New York Times described I’d like to spend a moment looking at this distinc-
a typical day in the life of a rather atypical college tion—because it’s basic to how many people see
student. She was a senior studying physics, biology, themselves and evaluate their capabilities. But just
and mathematics—and she got straight A’s in all her for a moment, let’s assume that giftedness and genius
courses. This is impressive, of course, but it’s a de- really are the same thing. In that case, a person who
scription that could apply to a lot of bright, motivated jumps very quickly through the hoops of elementary
students across the country. The difference is that this school should continue jumping for all the years to
college senior was 13 years old. She started reading come. But very often this isn’t what happens.
when she was 8 months old. She read Charlotte’s Web
as a toddler, and by age 5, she had finished the entire You see, our perception of giftedness and genius has
reading curriculum at her school. In second grade, she often depended to some extent on the age of the per-
was taking eighth-grade math. By fourth grade, her son we’re considering. Sooner means smarter, in other
teachers felt they could no longer accommodate her words. The sooner a child learns to read, or learns to
special needs. Her parents couldn’t find a university play the piano, or learns to do long division, the more
that would accept such a young student, so she took a genius-like that child is perceived to be.
year off, which she spent reading and earning a black
belt in karate. The next year, at age 10, she began col- There are a couple of things wrong with that percep-
lege. She read at a rate between 70 and 100 pages an tion. First, as you’ll discover in some of the other eRe-
hour, depending on the material. She also played the ports in the Genius Series, a number of the world’s
clarinet at the level of a professional musician. all-time great geniuses were at first thought to be any-
thing but gifted.
Does this sound like you at the age of 13? Do you
find it easy to identify with this young woman? May- Secondly, it’s by no means the rule that prodigious
be not—but I think you’d agree that she’s definitely a children turn out to be genius adults. To some ex-
prodigy and perhaps a genius. That’s certainly a word tent, this may be because of the extra stresses that are
that’s already been applied to her many times over. placed on obvious prodigies. A lot is expected of them
and burnout is a frequent consequence. But it’s also
Although you may not see yourself in the same league possible that many seemingly gifted children aren’t
as the students I’ve just described, you probably re- really gifted—or, rather, they’re no more gifted than
member kids from your school years who were much the boys and girls around them. The fact is, childhood
more advanced than average. For this eReport, those is simply a time when there’s a lot of emphasis on
are very important memories because when those measurement—and it’s also a time when things are
memories were created, you began to see yourself as pretty easy to measure. Standardized tests are a staple
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of American education, as they have been for almost throughout the journey of their lives. Every individual
Which is a pity, since I can almost guarantee that So these are two obstacles. I would describe the first
that’s exactly what you are. I can virtually assure you one as rooted in a kind of child-like fear, and the sec-
that you’re a latent genius—and once you understand ond as an aspect of the cynicism that often develops
what genius really means, I’m certain that you’ll come over the course of our lives, and that eventually be-
to agree with me. comes a very self-limiting belief system.
The word genius happens to have a very rich heritage. To help you address these two obstacles, let’s look
Today, we talk about people being geniuses, but in at some ideas about the meaning of the word genius.
the past people had genius. Instead of something that Then we’ll see how the most comprehensive defini-
you were, genius was something that you possessed tion of genius includes you—regardless of how un-
or that possessed you. For the Romans, the word ge- likely that may seem to you now.
nius referred to a guardian spirit that protected people
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Unearth your philosophical I think you can see how each of these three categories
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get,” “be born,” or “come into being.” It’s also related you hear the word genius, what names occur to you
As you start revealing the genius within yourself, be- I’m not sure why this was true but, on the first go-
gin by putting aside the limited view of genius that’s round, virtually all the names were male and almost
become so common. Instead, adopt an idea of genius all were of European or American heritage. When I
based on inclusiveness—an inclusiveness that in- specifically inquired about women of genius or peo-
cludes you. ple outside the Western tradition, here are some of the
names that came up: Emily Dickinson, Golda Meier,
An open mind is the one essential quality you need Helen Keller, Confucius, Eleanor Roosevelt, Duke
to reach your genius. Release all the assumptions that Ellington, Colin Powell, Martin Luther King, Mother
you’ve built up about yourself. Just as important, let Theresa, Mahatma Gandhi and Nelson Mandela.
go of the idea that you’re not smart enough or gifted
enough to qualify as a genius. And even more impor- Compiling this list of names was an all-important step
tantly, let go of the idea that you’re too smart or too in creating the Genius eReport Series, but it was only
sophisticated for the premise of being a genius. Try the first step. Next, I used the names as the basis for
to embrace the idea that by learning about the great identifying various categories of genius.
geniuses, you can reveal the powers of those men Here are the various genius categories that I came
and women in yourself. Just think in terms of mak- up with. Which areas are indicative of your areas
ing incremental positive changes based on what you of genius?
learn—not going the extra mile, but going the extra
inch, and going the extra inch every day. Try it and • Visionary genius, exemplified by Al-
see for yourself how it will take you where you want bert Einstein—someone who sees things that other
to go. people don’t see; the person who looks around and
recognizes possibilities that are invisible to everybody
* * * else.
Earlier in this eReport, I referred to the list of genius-
es that I compiled through conversations with great To improve your visionary genius, take a vacation
people I genuinely respect. My question was, “When from the details and literally step back to broaden
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your point of view. Think about the big picture. Ask and technologies are now available for creative work.
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generally don’t think about changing anything. It’s
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are the spiritual goals you can set for your own life? condemnation to hell. Instead, we’re simply shown the
Here are two ideas that you can begin applying im-
mediately: First, stop shrugging off compliments that
others pay to you. There’s a high likelihood that they
are recognizing gifts, talents, attributes, and genius
that they are seeing within you! Secondly, surround
yourself with people who possess genius in areas that
are different from your strengths. Learn to admire their
gifts, appreciate your differences and let them educate
you. It’s too easy to seek out friends that are similar to
us in terms of interests, but the growth comes from ap-
preciating our differences while broadening our areas
of enlightenment.
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© 2007 Dr. Tony Alessandra, All Rights Reserved in All Media
Tony Alessandra, PhD, CSP, CPAE Dr. Alessandra is a widely published author with 14 books
Building Customers, Relationships, and the Bo�om Line translated into 17 foreign languages, including Charisma
(Warner Books, 1998); The Platinum Rule (Warner Books,
Dr. Tony Alessandra helps companies build customers, 1996); Collaborative Selling (John Wiley & Sons, 1993);
relationships, and the bo�om line. Companies learn how and Communicating at Work (Fireside/Simon & Schuster,
to achieve market dominance through specific strategies 1993). He is featured in over 50 audio/video programs and
designed to out market, outsell, and out service the compe- films, including Relationship Strategies (American Me-
tition. dia); The Dynamics of Effective Listening (Nightingale-
Conant); and Non-Manipulative Selling (Walt Disney).
Dr. Alessandra has a street-wise, college-smart perspective He is also the originator of the internationally-recognized
on business, having fought his way out of NYC to eventu- behavioral style assessment tool The Platinum Rule™
ally realize success as a graduate professor of marketing, an (www.PlatinumRule.com).
entrepreneur, a business author, and a keynote speaker. He
earned his MBA from the University of Connecticut and his Recognized by Meetings & Conventions Magazine as “one of
PhD in marketing from Georgia State University. America’s most electrifying speakers,” Dr. Alessandra was
inducted into the Speakers Hall of Fame in 1985. He is also
Dr. Alessandra is president of Online Assessments (www. a member of the Speakers Roundtable, a group of 20 of the
OnlineAC.com), a company that offers online assessments world’s top professional speakers. Tony’s polished style,
and tests; co-founder of MentorU.com, an online e-Learn- powerful message, and proven ability as a consummate
ing company; and Chairman of the Board of BrainX, a business strategist consistently earns rave reviews.
company that offers online digital accelerated learning
programs. To learn more about Dr. Alessandra and his services, visit
www.Alessandra.com.
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