WEEK 49 : BOUNDARY-LOVING

RESOLVING CONFLICT WITH A BOUNDARY-LOVING SPOUSE

1. Are you a boundary lover? Explain.

2. Read Proverbs 15:32. How do you react when you are being blamed? Share an example.

Proverbs 15:32 New Living Translation (NLT)

32 If you reject discipline, you only harm yourself;

but if you listen to correction, you grow in understanding.

3. How do you react when someone shares feedback with you? Share an example.

4. Review the traits on p. 196. Which ones are strengths for you?

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5. Which traits are weaknesses?

6. How have you viewed conflict in the past?

7. How do you now view conflict differently?

8. Through observation, is there a problem or conflict that has gone unnoticed?

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9. Is there a problem that you have been afraid or hesitant to bring up and discuss with your mate?
Read Ephesians 4:25
New Living Translation (NLT)
25 So stop telling lies. Let us tell our neighbours the truth, for we are all parts of the same body.

10. Is there a hurt that you feel or have caused that you need to own and work through?

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