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sumably because he did not need them any more. On the surface
all thesefacts were not seen; they came out in the analysis of the
father.
I recall a mother who identified (unconsciously) her youngest
son with her younger brother; all her hostility against him and
against all men for that matter was thus centered on her youngest
child. The results were as deplorable as those in the case of the
boy cited above. It is quite interesting to note in this connection
that other, even more obscure and potent forces are a t work a t
times. I knew a mother who had never overcome her own Oedipus
attachment to her father; she married an older man, and her
child was to her a living testimony to her unconscious incestuous
attitude towards her father. Such a mother, no matter how lofty
and impeccably honest her conscious desire to cooperate with
those whom she entrusted with the guidance of her neurotic girl,
was yet unable to accomplish her conscious task, because uncon-
sciously she wished to destroy the living sign of incest, she there-
fore wanted nothing but evil for the child. This mother ended by
developing a severe psychoneurotic depression the chief uncon-
scious trend of which was to do away with the child. T h e girl later
suffered from a number of behavior difficulties; their root lay in
the fertile soil of her mother’s unconscious murder impulses. One
mother proceeded to put a number of sharp instruments in the
hands of her youngsters, because “they will have to learn to use
these things some day anyhow.” I n other words one can go on and
enumerate a multitude of difficulties which operate imperceptibly
within the psyche of the father and mother and which are di-
rected against the child. T h e traditional view that parental love
is an immutable instinct thus seems to need substantial qualifica-
tion, for this instinct not infrequently presents but a very small
proportion of the sum total of a parent’s feeling for his or her off-
spring. A curious but by no means rare source of one’s hostility
against one’s own children can be found in the father’s identifica-
tion with his wife; in the case of such feminine (maternal) identi-
fication the child is quite frequently treated with a great deal of
unconscious animosity which is almost reminiscent of that of a
sterile woman watching the offspring of a happy mother.
For purposes of greater clarity one might add that these and
many other determinants of parental hostility against their chil-
dren are not necessarily of a neurotic nature in the clinical sense;
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