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G-Spot Activation Formula
Transcript of Audio Segment 5
Letting It All Go Recap
We have actually covered a lot of stuff and by now you have a lot of tools so that
you’re well on your way to being an extraordinary lover for her, and I just want to
recap some of the things that we discussed in our previous lesson. We talked
about awakening sensa@on in her G-‐Spot and the various different feelings that
might come up for her, as well as G-‐Spot healing, which is really important in how
to hold space and create more in@macy through that.
We talked about the most sensi@ve areas of the G-‐Spot and using G-‐Spot toys, and
the u-‐spot, as well as the come hither mo@on and doing the dance between the
front of the sponge and behind the G-‐Spot. And slow the feeling of needing to pee
and what that is and how she can just let that go and move into that feeling to the
point where she might even ejaculate.
I would like to talk about some different ways to s@mulate her G-‐Spot, and we’ve
already gone over a few. And I would like to just discuss manually through G-‐Spot
toys and using dildos and using your penis and some great oral techniques and
even anally if you want to incorporate that as well.
There’s Nothing Like Two Fingers
We have manual s@mula@on, which we’ve talked extensively about and doing the
come hither mo@on, going from side to side using circular mo@ons and varia@ons
of pressure and speed, and this is the most direct to s@mulate her G-‐Spot and in
some ways one of the most effec@ve.
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Toys are also very effec@ve, but there’s nothing like two fingers, especially two fin-‐
gers can feel really good and they can very precisely ac@vate those highly sensi@ve
parts of the G-‐Spot. With the G-‐Spot toys, toys are a great way to try something
different and have a fresh sensa@on for her G-‐Spot. And a toy will feel different
than manual s@mula@on for her and they’ll also give her the pleasurable sensa@on
of being filled up and if it’s a combina@on of G-‐Spot/clit toy, such as a vibrator,
well then she will be in for a treat, lets put it that way. If you were s@mula@ng her
it could be a toy that has clitoral vibra@on as well as G-‐Spot s@mula@on, or you
have a separate vibrator and then you’re also using a G-‐Spot toy. Oh my goodness,
she will feel so good.
Some G-‐Spot toys are weighted and they can ac@vate the pelvic floor muscles to
strengthen then, and we’ll go over the pelvic floor muscles and how important
they are in just a bit. Some of the toys include vibra@on with the clit, along with
the G-‐Spot hook, so you can get toys that have both. Many of the G-‐Spot toys are
made out of glass, steel, pyrex, and G-‐Spot toys are very specific to s@mula@ng the
G-‐Spot because they angle up towards the G-‐Spot and get that special yummy
part behind the sponge.
Normal penetra@on oMen misses the G-‐Spot and it actually slides right on past it.
That is why it’s important to be aware of trying to get the best angle during sex or
using a good G-‐Spot toy to directly hit her hotspots. If you’re using a dildo, try a
hard and firm dildo, and those are recommend for the G-‐Spot. And bigger is not
always beNer when it comes to the G-‐Spot and neither is length, because the G-‐
Spot is near the opening of the vagina and the most sensi@ve part is a couple of
inches inside, you don’t need a long G-‐Spot toy or penis for her to feel adequately
s@mulated.
Just remember that since a dildo is not angled up with the hook like the G-‐Spot
toy, you have to angle it up towards her G-‐Spot. Just try different posi@ons and
angles with a dildo once you know where the sensi@ve parts of her G-‐Spot are.
Remember the ero@c map that I was talking about. By now aMer all this explora-‐
@on with her – with her clit and her outer labia, her inner labia and the urethral
sponge, the front of it and behind it – you probably at this point have a good idea
of her ero@c map and the types of pressure that she likes and the speed and are
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Penis Pleasure
Penises are great when used manually to s@mulate her G-‐Spot. For more direct G-‐
Spot s@mula@on you can literally take your penis in your hands and angle it up and
do some of the tricks men@oned before with the head of your penis to drive her
absolutely wild. Remember oMen@mes during intercourse the penis will slide right
on past the G-‐Spot ‘cause penis’s are not angled up. You have to try the different
posi@ons as well as manually holding it in your hand and guiding it towards the G-‐
Spot. I’ve already men@oned some great posi@ons too, which helps s@mulate her
G-‐Spot and special tricks that you can do with your penis also to get her squiring.
And again, remember what I said about using your penis manually to s@mulate
her u-‐spot.
Be Her Backdoor Man
I also want to talk about anally. For some women s@mula@ng the G-‐Spot through
the anus feels best. It’s a liNle bit less direct s@mula@on and that can really be
good for some women and you won’t know unless you try. Now if anal is not her
thing, it might be because she had a partner in the past who didn’t use enough
lube or didn’t go slow enough. There could be several different reasons. It just
might not feel that great to her.
For other women it’s just absolutely amazing. They love anal sex and they love
anal s@mula@on. If she’s had some painful anal experiences then she might not
associate anal play with pleasure, and because you are star@ng to build an in@-‐
mate repertoire with her and she’s feeling more trus@ng with you and more safe,
she might be more opened to try this, whereas before she might not have been.
Always get her permission first before you try anything anal because it is a sensi-‐
@ve thing for some women.
Make sure she’s turned on and remember you want to go very slow and use lots
of lube and you might want to just try a finger first and then build up to a penis or
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a toy. There are many women too that anal penetra@on is the best way that they
can get G-‐Spot s@mula@on, as well as ejaculate, and some@mes that indirect
s@mula@on of the G-‐Spot through the anus, because there’s this very thin wall
separa@ng the vaginal canal through the anus, it works really well for some
women, so hopefully you can give it a try.
Female Ejaculation or Squirting
I’ve been talking a liNle bit about female ejacula@on, and I didn’t want it to be the
focus of this because it IS a whole program in and of itself. I have authored two
female ejacula@on programs. The first, for women, is called Squirt Your Heart Out.
The second, for men, is called Female Liquid Orgasm. If you want to get deep into
the exquisite release of ejaculatory orgasms, try those programs.
I wanted to share a story about what I was talking about in terms of using your
penis to help get a woman to use that on the u-‐spot to help get her to ejaculate
and to feel some more heightened sensa@on with her G-‐Spot and to be more or-‐
gasmic.
Here is what one woman wrote into me: “My beloved would do this amazing thing
with his dick where he would angle it up towards my G-‐Spot and rub fairly vigor-‐
ously while taking himself inside and out while I rubbed my clit. Some@mes when
he took his dick out he would rub it on my clitoris and put it back in again and an-‐
gle it towards my G-‐Spot and take it out with firm pressure. This really got me su-‐
per juicy and to the point where I would squirt when he took it out. It was almost
like the act of taking it out helped me to release the ejaculate. Some@mes if I was
on top he would let me hold his dick and rub it on my clit and angle it towards my
G-‐Spot. He loved the sensa@on of my ejaculate dripping down his balls and down
his sides. I would get really, really wet and we were both so amazed at how much
liquid there was.” That was a juicy story and something that you can try too as
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Beautiful Blended Orgasms
I wanted to con@nue on and talk to you about the blended orgasm a liNle bit
more. I wanted to just do a quick recap too about some of the things that you
have learned thus far and basically you know some great clitoral s@mula@on tech-‐
niques – with your fingers, with a vibrator, with the head of your penis, using the
flat of your hand, using direct and indirect s@mula@on – and you also know now a
lot about the G-‐Spot. And you’re star@ng to learn how to put both the clitoris and
the clitoral s@mula@on together with the G-‐Spot s@mula@on, and combining them
together is a great recipe for mul@ple orgasms.
This is something that when she has her first blended orgasm she might be just
amazed at how good it feels and it will be a different type of orgasm than just the
clitoral orgasm alone. Because of that, she’ll be more invi@ng most likely, of having
more and more orgasms and actually might not even necessarily be prompted by
you to be encouraged to have more orgasms.
She might just say, “Oh my god, I want to try this again” or “Lets do some more.”
The best thing that you can really do is just invite the possibility of mul@ple or-‐
gasms into the bedroom by simply having that kind of energy. Lets say that you’re
working with her G-‐Spot and her clit, perhaps she’s rubbing her clit simultane-‐
ously and she has her first blended orgasm with you. You can even say things such
as, “Wow, you want to try this again” or you can just keep going, and what I rec-‐
ommend is aMer that first orgasm you’re going to want to give her a liNle bit of
down@me and then ease gently into s@mula@ng her again and ge]ng her worked
up again.
Some women have more of a refractory @me between orgasms than others. Some
women need more @me. Some women will immediately want you to just keep go-‐
ing again and again, and they’ll just find out that they can keep coming and com-‐
ing and coming, and the first orgasm that she has probably will take the longest
and require the most effort and s@mula@on.
AMer her energy, her sexual energy’s already up and she’s already aroused and
juiced up and turned on, then her next and subsequent orgasms will take a lot less
@me and energy to happen. If the first one was somewhat exhaus@ng for you in
terms of the work that you’re doing – lets say you were having intercourse or you
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were s@mula@ng her and you say, “Wow, that took a lot” – stay excited and en-‐
couraging and cheer her on.
You’re going to be her biggest cheerleader and encourage her. And I promise you
that the more encouragement she gets from you, the more excitement, the more
aroused you are, the more her body will rise up to greet that excitement and that
encouragement. If she’s had her first orgasm and you say, “Wow, that was so
beau@ful. It was amazing watching you come and feeling you come” or “feeling
you come all over my penis” or “come in my hands” or “It was amazing when you
ejaculated. That was just so hot. Do you think you could do it again” or “Lets keep
going babe. I’m so into this. Do you think you can keep going”, and most likely
she’ll say yes. And if she doesn’t want to keep going that’s fine.
You can switch to other things and you can give her a massage or you can just
start having intercourse. You can try all sorts of things before you decide to inte-‐
grate and give her more orgasms. She might need a break, she might want a glass
of water, you might need to switch something up in terms of the s@mula@on, and
you might want to invite her and encourage her to go for more orgasms. You’re
just trying to find something that will switch up the energy a liNle bit if she’s
overwhelmed by the s@mula@on or just needs a liNle bit of a break, but stay close
at hand and keep encouraging her to go for more.
Blended Orgasm Exercise

Here is a blended orgasm exercise, that’s another hands on exercise that u@lizes
the blended orgasm, which is one of the most successful ways to get her to have
orgasms and mul@ple, as well as being profoundly pleasurable for her. Remember
that the blended orgasm is the one in which she’s experiencing a clitoral and G-‐
Spot orgasm simultaneously or it could also feel like she’s having one orgasm
which combines pleasure from both the G-‐Spot and the clitoris. Have a vibrator
and G-‐Spot toy handy.
You might also have a two-‐in-‐one two which has vibra@on for the clit and the at-‐
tached curved G-‐Spot s@mulator. These toys are op@onal. Hands also work great
and they’re a great place to start. I recommend trying this exercise first with your

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hands and then add toys later if you feel inspired to do so. Put down a rubber
sheet, a couple of towels or a blanket.
Remind her to empty her bladder first so she won’t have to worry that she has to
pee and she can trust that she might need to ejaculate instead. Set the mood and
space with her as you did before. Have her lay back, relax and get into that yummy
space with each other free of outside distrac@ons. Take some deep breaths like
before and start at home base with one hand on her heart and the other on her
yoni. Do your check in to see if there’s anything her pussy has to communicate
with you. Take it in and nurture whatever she might need. Start touching her
whole body from head to toe, including her neck, ears, insides of her thighs, ass
and underarms.
No@ce any heat in her body that she’s star@ng to generate and keep her energy
moving while con@nuing to breathe. Encourage her to rock or gyrate her hips to
generate energy in her pussy and throughout her body. Start stroking her clit in
whatever way feels best for her – back and forth, up and down, vibra@on, slow
and yummy, fast and rigorous – let her set the pace. Have her visualize her orgas-‐
mic energy building. Compliment her, encourage her and send loving energy
through your touch.
When she’s close to orgasm, slowly and lovingly insert a lubricated finger upwards
and apply pressure towards her G-‐Spot in the come hither mo@on. Add a second
finger or G-‐Spot toy when she gets nice and juicy down there. S@mulate her G-‐
Spot in experimental ways for a while without clit s@mula@on. For example, press
firmly behind the sponge, come hither, back and forth, circles, back and forth over
her urethra or the u-‐spot and the front of the sponge, fast rhythmic movements
or slow firm pressure, etcetera.
When you feel orgasmic yummy energy star@ng to build within her G-‐Spot you can
add clitoral s@mula@on with your other hand or a vibrator. You can also start with
clitoral s@mula@on first before you work with her G-‐Spot. See how they both feel
together and how well both sensa@ons compliment one another. Experiment with
s@mula@ng the clit and then stopping while you s@mulate the G-‐Spot. See how it
feels for her to rotate back and forth, dancing with the sensa@on of them simulta-‐
neously, as well as separate. Really milk her G-‐Spot and apply firmer pressure
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Listen for any sloshing sounds of the ejaculate building up. We will then next dis-‐
cuss how to help her release the ejaculate if you hear that sound. If she is over-‐
come with the sudden urge to pee encourage her to trust her body and simply let
go. Give her permission and tell her she doesn’t have to hold back. Tell her to take
a chance with surrendering to this new sensa@on. Confirm that this new sensa@on
is not pee, but ejaculate.
If she’s s@ll skep@cal apply pressure to her bladder and see if it feels full. If it feels
full she should use the bathroom, but if it’s not full encourage her to let go and
trust her body. Most likely this will lead to an orgasmic rush aMer the pressure that
has been building is released. Even if she pees accidentally that is okay too be-‐
cause you put down plenty of towels so she doesn’t have to worry about making a
mess. This is fairly unlikely but might happen in the beginning. Just don’t get hung
up about it if that is the case and she won’t shut down as a result. Have a light-‐
hearted laugh about it and move on.
Congratulate her for le]ng go; that’s the important part. The point of this exercise
is not for her to ejaculate though; it is about s@mula@ng both her clit and the G-‐
Spot simultaneously and allowing orgasmic energy to build in each. This is also so
you can find out how to dance with both and how she feels when you s@mulate
them both together. You might get a mind blowing reac@on is she’s never s@mu-‐
lated both before together. You might just completely rock her world with this
one. Build her towards climax while s@mula@ng both the clit and the G-‐Spot. I in-‐
vite you to see this as an extended dance between two different forms of s@mula-‐
@on and orgasmic sensa@on.
Allow her body to guide you as she builds towards climax but not over the edge…
yet. Savor this dance as long as possible, whether it’s 20 minutes or a couple of
hours, whatever feels right for this session. This is about listening to her body. Ob-‐
serve her skin – is it flushed? Observe her noise – is she star@ng to get louder?
Observe her body language – is she arching her back or gyra@ng her hips? Observe
her pussy – is it engorged? Do you hear sloshing sounds? Is she wet? Is her clit
hard? Observe her eyes – is she gazing at you or are her eyes rolled to the back of
her head? Aside from verbal queues, her non-‐verbal queues can be even more re-‐
vealing.
Always pay close aNen@on to what she’s saying, as well as what you intuit and ob-‐
serve with her body language. When you allow her to feel pleasure and sensa@on
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from both her clit and G-‐Spot for an extended period of @me, allowing her a tri-‐
umphant and well awaited climax. The climax is great but this is not the goal of
this par@cular exercise. It is to enjoy and savor the complimentary sensa@ons and
pleasure of both the G-‐Spot and clit. If you know that she’s very clit centric, then
opening both the neural pathways, as well as the physical, to G-‐Spot pleasure will
give both of you a whole new dimension to your sexual experience.
Riding Her Orgasmic Sensation

I would love to share with you another experience where you can also incorporate
that into this exercise, which is about riding her orgasmic energy to the point
where she doesn’t even necessarily have one orgasm but it’s like one con@nuous
long amazing orgasmic experience.
So what you’re doing is by s@mula@ng clit energy spot and ge]ng her super
aroused and juiced up, what you’re going to do is take her super close to the point
of no return, and she might actually have to be telling her when that point is or
you might be able to sense that and understand that through observing her if you
really know her body well. And what you’re doing is ge]ng really, really close to
the point of no return but you’re easing off. You’re not actually allowing her to
have a full-‐on orgasm, but instead you’re going to be taking her really close to that
orgasmic edge and then laying off a liNle bit by doing less s@mula@on.
You don’t want to completely stop by any means, but you’re just going to go
slower or you’re going to just relax a liNle bit and use less pressure during that
@me, just for a liNle bit, and then you’re going to start to build that energy up
again and you’re going to let it go, and then you’re going to build it up and let it go
and build it up, and you can literally ride this wave with her for hours assuming
you have the strength and energy to do that.
And she can really stay at this level of high, high, high arousal almost going over
the edge but not totally. Now this doesn’t necessarily fall under the category of
mul@ple orgasms, but it does fall under the category of extended orgasm, where
she can be in this extended space where she’s just so aroused and turned on and
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this amazing high ero@c space and she’ll probably be in this ero@c trance as a re-‐
sult.
And at the very end of this exercise you might want to go all the way with it or she
might just want to have her ero@c energy really high and keep it at that, or you
might want to start having intercourse and making love at that point; so it’s up to
you where you want to take that energy.
You don’t want to be teasing her to the point where she gets frustrated, but you
basically want to tell her in advance that this is what you’re trying with her and
you’re going to tell her, “I want to take you close to the point of no return but
we’re just going to keep riding this wave, wave aMer wave and you’re not going to
go all the way over the edge with it, so that we’re just going to sustain this for as
long as we possibly can”, and I have a feeling that she’ll say, “Wow, lets try that.”
And then at the very end you can have her go over the edge and she’ll probably
have a very explosive orgasm and want to maybe even keep going and having
more or she might just feel so energized and great and just ready to have sex and
super juiced up and wan@ng to pleasure you at that point, so that’s a great exer-‐
cise addi@onally to work with.
Note: My colleague, Dr. Pa] Taylor has authored a 12-‐Day Program for Partners,
called Expand Her Orgasm Tonight. Pa] teaches this expanded orgasm prac@ce
beau@fully. I recommend this highly.
Muscle Test
I want to talk about the PC muscles. These are the Pubcoccygeus, otherwise
known as the PC muscles, and these are the muscles that is a huge network of
musculature that runs through the vagina all the way up into the cervix and the
first @er of the muscles start and stop the flow of urine. The second @er is around
her G-‐Spot area, and then the third @er is up towards her cervix, and then there’s
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Now why is it important for her to have strong and in shape PC muscles? Well
number one, it’s great for ejacula@ng, and number two, it’s great for pumping and
moving orgasmic energy through her body. She can really get in touch with those
muscles and really be pumping the energy up through her body with those pelvic
floor muscles.
She can have more powerful orgasms and more of them. This also enhances
pleasure for you, and this enhances sensa@on for you both during intercourse.
You’re going to feel a snugger fit on your penis because if she’s squeezing them
with her muscles, if she’s squeezing it with her pelvic floor muscles you’re going to
feel that and it’s going to feel really good.
She can prac@ce doing things like pulsa@ng and pushing and pulling out, so there’s
a whole bunch that you can do with that. It’s also really great for genera@ng blood
flow and great for her vaginal health, and it also enhances the s@mula@on of her
clit, G-‐Spot and cervix because all those muscles are interconnected with these
parts of her anatomy that are highly erogenous and have a lot of nerve endings. If
she’s squeezing them she’s ac@va@ng them internally.
While you’re s@mula@ng her clit she can also be pumping her PC muscles inter-‐
nally and actually some women can have orgasms just by pumping and working
with their PC muscles alone. It’s easy to tone her muscles and you can introduce
some exercises and some of them can be really simple, where she’s just simply
ge]ng in touch with those muscles and squeezing and holding and then releasing,
and squeezing and holding and releasing, and she can do that a hundred @mes a
day, and in a very short amount of @me she can actually go from very weak PC
muscles to very strong PC muscles.
There’s a chance that she might also have a very tense PC muscle where she’s
clenching all the @me and actually that can lead to a lot of health problems and
pelvic tension and pain during intercourse. Also if you take your finger and put it
inside of her and have her squeeze your finger near the opening, then back to-‐
wards her G-‐Spot, and then squeeze back even further and just see what the
strength of those muscles are, you’re going to preNy much know by the way that
your finger feels. If you can barely feel her squeezing that might mean that her
muscles are somewhat weak, but not to be discouraged because everyone can do
exercises and tone those muscles. Once she’s more familiar with using those mus-‐
cles then she can have much more orgasmic experiences, so that’s something that
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you can teach her and tell her about without making her feel inadequate in any
way.
Giving Birth To Your Orgasm
AMer you’ve checked in and done a PC muscle tes@ng of her, then she can use
weights, she can use toys or certain things out there on the market that she can
use to strengthen her PC muscles or just be si]ng in the car on the phone doing
her, what’s called Kegel’s, her PC muscle exercises. One of the things too that’s
somewhat trick when it comes to sort of a shiM in consciousness with women’s
sexuality is the act of pushing out or bearing down, which I call giving birth to your
orgasm.
This is a phrase that I coined and a lot of it had to do with my research and work
with female ejacula@on. A lot of women are really comfortable with squeezing in
their PC muscles, but what happens when they try to bear down and push out?
Well that actually opens up a whole new level of sensa@on.
If she’s not familiar with doing that when she’s turned on or aroused when you’re
s@mula@ng her G-‐Spot, it might feel strange. But again, it’s this process of trying
something new and prac@cing and knowing that it might not feel amazing at first
but over @me and prac@ce awakening that as a possibility, it might turn from
something strange into something absolutely amazing.
When she pushes out or bears down she might feel like she’s going to pee, and
that’s a natural feeling and you can reassure her that it does, a lot of that fear
does come up. But again, if you put down the towels or rubber sheets or blankets
and really prepare the space and just say “Hey girl, whatever you got to let go, let
go. I want you to just have total permission here to release whatever you need,
whether it’s to ejaculate or make a mess or whatever it needs to be, I want you to
have full permission.
I want you to be juicy and happy and turned on, and whatever it takes I’m there
and I’m solid.” She going to want to hear that and she needs to hear that permis-‐
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sion, and that way when she does push out and bear down she can trust that she
is probably most likely going to ejaculate and that she can let go. And le]ng go
and surrendering is one of the number one ways that women can really dive deep
into their ero@cism and their empowering sexual poten@al. You can have all the
tricks and tools in the world, but if she can’t let go then she’s not going to have
these mul@ orgasmic earth shaNering orgasms.
If she can really feel free to express herself, she feels safe with you, she can be
vulnerable, she knows you really care, that she’s in a safe container, that she
knows she can be emo@onal and express that if she needs to, then you’re just set-‐
@ng in the stage for her to just have these amazing mul@ple earth shaNering or-‐
gasms. And if you combine that with all the tricks and the techniques that you
learned, well you’re already going to be a fabulous extraordinary lover and you
are going to be her ul@mate sex god.
Yoni Power
I want to get back to this concept of giving birth to her orgasm. And I’ve been
coaching women around this for many years and it’s something that has really
opened up a lot of women. There’s a lot of @mes when women have an orgasm
they kind of squeeze up and the orgasm is held inside. But what if she were to
have an orgasm and be literally pushing out and bearing down and releasing that
orgasmic energy out of her yoni and through the process of bearing down and
pushing out and what would that feel like?
You can encourage her to bear down and push out. And that feeling might be un-‐
comfortable for her – she might feel scared that she’s going to pee or just might
feel weird. Or she might love it; she might say, “I can’t believe I’ve never tried this
before.” What you’re going to do is encourage her to just try the act of just push-‐
ing out and bearing down and see if that’s comfortable for her, especially when
she’s aroused, and she if that feels good to her. And when she’s orgasming en-‐
courage her to bear down and push out and try that. Through that act of bearing
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women have their first @me ejacula@on experience is through that bearing down
and pushing out.
It might take some prac@ce, but it’s something that is really empowering and excit-‐
ing and it’s a whole new thing that you can try that she might feel makes her more
orgasmic and makes it so that her ero@c energy is moving in a whole different way
than it has before. And she might not necessarily want to do this every @me she
orgasms, but it’s something addi@onally to try and something to kind of mix it up
and create another orgasmic possibility for her.
Fear of Letting Go
She’s goNen in touch with her PC muscles and their strength and what it’s like for
her to use her muscles to either squeeze in or push out. And you might’ve en-‐
countered some resistance from her when you asked her to push out because she
might’ve felt like she needed to pee. But you also probably assured her that that
feeling of needing to pee is really the need to ejaculate. A lot of women use their
PC muscles not to ejaculate because they’re afraid they’re going to pee, so what if
they use those same PC muscles to actually let go and push out the ejaculate?
The fear of le]ng go is a big one and requires an element of surrender, which
could result in a trickle, a drip, a gush or a huge cathar@c explosive release and
mul@ple @mes. She has to be willing to trust her body to let go and to trust you
and feel really safe and secure with you. Since I’ve been guiding you about how to
create a safe and comfortable space for her to feel free and uninhibited, as well as
a space for her to feel super juicy and turned on, this is a perfect recipe for her to
start ejacula@ng too, and you’ll both feel the incredible thrill of her sexy juices
gushing everywhere and exploding and there’s really nothing like it.
Giving birth is one of the most powerful experiences a woman can have; whether
she actually gives birth or not she has this amazing poten@al within her. When
she’s using her birthing energy it can be such a profound pleasurable experience
and a powerful one and it’s just ecsta@c.

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I definitely recommend you encouraging her to try this at least. The best @mes for
her to push out is number one, when she’s highly aroused, number two, when you
hear the sloshing noise indica@ng that there might be ejaculate building up in her
G-‐Spot, or if she says that she’s feeling the pressure of the ejaculate building up or
that she needs to pee, that might be a great @me for her to push out. When she’s
just about to orgasm would be a great @me for her to push out, and while she’s
orgasming. These are just some basic ways that you can try to encourage her to
have different orgasmic experiences.
Beyond Clit Twiddling
I wanted to talk a liNle bit about oral s@mula@on as well. Oral s@mula@on is really
exci@ng because a lot of women have really intense orgasms through oral s@mu-‐
la@on and oral pleasure. And a lot of guys, I think maybe when they think of oral
sex they think just kind of s@cking their tongue out and twiddling the clit, which
can feel really good and maybe that works for women in the past and it might
work really work for her too.
I also encourage you to use the flat of your tongue and staying very close. You’re
going to have your mouth all up in her pussy. If you stay really close and have your
mouth really, really, really close to her clit and not just using the @p of your
tongue, you’re going to enhance the places on her yoni that are ge]ng s@mulated
and aroused because she’s going to feel your lips against her, she’s going to feel
the flat of your tongue moving against her clit, and you’re going to be using the
flat of your tongue and even the @p of your tongue too, and you can be doing
more direct s@mula@on right on her clitoris or on the clitoral hood. You can be
moving back and forth.
You can be moving up and down. You can be si]ng astride her on your stomach
and using your mouth on her ver@cally or horizontally. And then another great
thing is that you’re going to put your fingers inside of her while you are s@mulat-‐
ing her clit with your tongue. Another thing that you can do too that’s really great
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Humming adds this level of vibra@on that is just unbelievable, so you can step up
your game ten fold if you just even add some humming into the mix. Encourage
her to be loud too if something’s feeling really good. Just hopefully you’re not in a
situa@on where you have neighbors or a roommate, but if she can be loud en-‐
courage her to do so because that really liberates her sexual energy and helps her
let go even more, if she knows that she can be loud. And you can be loud too. If
you really like something, keep talking to her, encourage her, compliment her,
cheer her on, be her biggest cheerleader.
When you’re working with oral s@mula@on, again, if something feels really good
and it’s clicking for her stay consistent at it. You might want to start out doing
something that feels really good, start by going slow. Really, really, really slow it
down, en@ce her, tease her ero@c energy out of her and really milk her G-‐Spot si-‐
multaneously by doing the come hither mo@on or using a G-‐Spot toy. You’re going
to want to work the G-‐Spot with the clitoral s@mula@on while you’re going down
on her, and really, you might be down there for a while.
The first orgasm might take a while, especially if you’re drawing out and going
slow, but stay with this consistent steady almost hypno@zing movement if you can
do that internally as well as externally. When you have both going at the same
@me you have to kind of make sure that both are working for her so that you get
the internal s@mula@on right, as well as the external, and that can be a liNle over-‐
whelming but just let her guide you. If you’re ever lost just encourage her to speak
up for how she’s feeling.
It might take a liNle prac@ce at first before she gets comfortable with that, but
then aMer a while she might really roll with it and then she’ll feel free to say things
like “Can you go faster with your tongue” or “Can you try the circles again”, “I liked
what you were doing before”, “ That feels interes@ng but what if you try this” or
“Can you just try using your hands instead” or “Maybe can you add a finger”,
“Maybe try one finger again” or “Can you do that swooping mo@on with your fin-‐
ger in my G-‐Spot” or “Can you kind of do more of the come hither” or “Keep your
fingers inside of me and just pulsate. Yeah, that feels really good. Can you hum”,
or she might even be reminding you, “Can you also just s@mulate my G-‐Spot too”
or “Also can you s@mulate my clit.”
It might seem like a lot to juggle and a lot going on, but just have compassion for
yourself and just prac@ce, she’s going to be on this journey with you, and you’re
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going to be on this amazing ero@c adventure together and it’s going to bring you a
lot of joy and in@macy with your rela@onship and it can only just add more. Feel
free to just try different things and there’s no such thing really as making a mis-‐
take. Just all you can do is just switch it up and try something different or take a
break from something and come back to it.
If she’s feeling emo@onal then congratulate yourself actually too because she’s
feeling more open and vulnerable with you, and really just know how to hold
space with her like we talked about before.
What Have You Learned So Far?
You have goNen a lot of informa@on and hopefully by now you’re feeling really
confident about how you can get her to her first orgasm and how you can actually
coax her to have mul@ple orgasms. And you won’t necessarily, if she’s really enjoy-‐
ing herself then when you are able to really ac@vate and sensi@ze her G-‐Spot you
can really more easily get her to just want to have mul@ple orgasms and she might
even be able to have mul@ple just clitoral orgasms with clitoral s@mula@on only.
Again, it’s this energy that it’s possible.
She’s got to believe that it’s possible and combine with your encouragement, your
s@mula@on and egging her on for more, more, more, she’s going to really rise up
to meet that excitement and that passion. As I men@oned earlier, since the penis
is not curved upward with a hook like a G-‐Spot toy is, remember to manhandle
and use your penis as sort of like a G-‐Spot toy and rub it around her clit, rub it
around her vaginal opening, rub it around her u-‐spot, do some shallow thrus@ng
with your penis inside of her, and while she’s on top she can also manhandle it
herself and take it into her own hands and use it as she wishes. Also want to say
too when it comes to posi@ons, every single posi@on can be beneficial in some
way for the G-‐Spot once you know how to angle your penis, either manually or
through her arching or @l@ng her pelvis forward. Remind her to @lt her pelvis for-‐
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Remember to put those pillows underneath her ass so that her pelvis can be for-‐
ward to get more G-‐Spot access. Some women say that being on top really s@mu-‐
lates her G-‐Spots, while other women will say that doggy style really works best.
For some it’s the missionary posi@on, and because of the width, the length and
the shape of you, as well as her, it’s best to just experiment and try all these dif-‐
ferent posi@ons. And again, focus on the teamwork. Teamwork is really important.
Encourage her to s@mulate her clit. Watch her masturbate. Have her get down
with the G-‐Spot toys that you get for her. Really helping her get comfortable and
familiar with her body and encouraging her to masturbate and encouraging her to
just get down and try these things with you as you’re going on this adventure to-‐
gether will really help her open up and find out what works uniquely for her,
‘cause the more that she’s masturba@ng, the more that she’s ge]ng turned on
and trying new things and being excited about the new things, the more that she’s
going to want to jump your bones all the @me. I already explained the come hither
with oral too.
Again, remember when you’re going down on her to incorporate those fingers in
the come hither mo@on, and that way she’s going to be more orgasmic the more
she’s being s@mulated. Also add anal s@mula@on simultaneously if she’s okay with
that. Also try switching up loca@on. You can try having an amazing rendezvous in
the great outdoors, and if she’s worried about making a mess or if she wants to
experiment with ejacula@on or le]ng go, if you’re near a body of water that can
be libera@ng or just being out in nature can just feel really great. So really experi-‐
ment. Having her try lingerie and different toys and going toy shopping with her is
also really exci@ng.
What’s Next?
Now in our next and final segment – I know, how sad – we’re going to talk about
yoni or vaginal massage sessions that you can give her. One great way to really get
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her going and juicy and aroused and to open up her body is through yoni mas-‐
sage, so I’m going to share with you an exercise. And also we’re going to just put it
all together and do even another exercise that incorporates the clit, the G-‐Spot,
female ejacula@on and all sorts of yummy things. Stay tuned and I will speak with
you next week.
Now it’s @me to move on to Segment 6, the Advanced Fingering Sessions.
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