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Once, the two close friends Abu Bakr and Umar had a dispute
with each other. Something that Abu Bakr did had made Umar
angry, and even though Abu Bakr went after him asking for
forgiveness, Umar slammed the door on his face in a huff.
Abu Bakr then came to sit in the company of the Prophet and
his companions including Abud Darda (the narrator), and the
Prophet immediately sensed, probably from Abu Bakr’s body
language and facial expression, that he was disconcerted.
However, Abu Bakr remained silent, until Umar himself arrived
and narrated the story of what had transpired between them to
the Prophet..
First, he called Abu Bakr his friend or companion and asked all
those seated around himself, twice, whether they would “leave”
for him his companion i.e. whether they would desert the one
friend who had always been by his side. This automatically
hints at the way Abu Bakr had proved his loyalty to Allah as a
comrade and helper of the Prophet, especially during
adversities.
Next, the Prophet narrated an example to everyone seated
around him, of Abu Bakr’s sincerity and loyalty to the Truth, by
recalling how, when he had started proclaiming his
Prophethood to mankind, everyone had called him a liar at first,
except Abu Bakr, who had said, “You speak the truth”.
The one who is angry should not remain aloof and diffident for
too long from someone who has proven himself to be fiercely
loyal to Prophet Muhammad.
Anas ibn Malik (May Allah be pleased with him) said: The
Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said:
“Do not desert (stop talking to) one another, do not nurse
hatred towards one another, do not be jealous of one
another, and become as fellow brothers and slaves of Allah.
It is not lawful for a Muslim to stop talking to his brother
(Muslim) for more than three days.” (Al-Bukhari and Muslim)