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When Swamiji told us the night before the marriage ceremony that we were to get
dressed up in sarees, with make-up, jewellery, etc. I saw red! All this rebellion
came up for me and yet I could not pinpoint exactly what it was I was reacting to.
This was not sannyasa, getting all dressed up, frilly and pretty. No, our
Satyananda style was more austere, straight.
As the time grew closer my feeling intensified. I became quieter. When the ceremony
between Sita and Rama began, I looked into my Beloved's face also, I walked the
circles with Sita and the chanting by the pandits reined in the threads of gold,
creating a cosmic web shimmering in the light as the sun was setting. I had a sense
of the exquisiteness of God.
I don't profess to have had actual union with the Divine, but this opportunity
showed me another side of myself, my femininity, my softness. It was interesting to
feel pretty at the age of forty-four. The flowing of the saree as I walked, each
step rippling out to the layers of cloth was so feminine. Acknowledging and
honouring my femininity was good for me.
Sannyasi Karmayogini
Paramahamsaji encouraged us to give and gave perfect examples, such as when one of
his neighbours came to express her appreciation for the sewing machine given to her
by Sivananda Math. When she presented Paramahamsaji with three beautiful dolls, the
first things she had made, he let us admire the dolls, then gave them to three
delighted children, and also quietly gave the young woman some money.
Paramahamsaji spoke to us about the power and beauty of women and gave us examples
such as Sannyasi Tripura playing the tabla, the tantric yoginis expressing the
power of Shakti in the fire ceremony, Reverend Antoinette Schoenmaker conducting
mass, local village women being presented with hoes, and Swami Kankeshwarananda, a
modern day Meerabai, holding me spellbound with her narrations from Ramayana, even
though I didn't understand a word she said.