BEING AND UNCONDITIONAL HEALING

Unconditional Health attests but to its Self.

Only the Presence of unconditional Being,
Which is Healed, Heals.
If you wish for real Healing, you must
choose to free your unhealed self and
thus allow Self, Which is but Health.

What does it mean to unconditionally heal?

Real healing is synonymous with the words whole, holy (wholly), healthy, sound,
well, hearty, hale, and the like. One’s small self is irreversibly unhealed, since it is
constituted by and sustained through our believing in the idea that we are separated from
the Whole (just Healed). What is unhealed is denying and concealing our unconditional
health. True psychological healing is a process of seeking and finding one’s
wholesomeness, having seemingly lost it. Only when one is restored to unconditional
Health (Self) is s/he truly healed.

Why do we need unconditional healing?

We need unconditional healing because we do not understand our Self; that is, we
do not realize and identify with Who We truly Are, Which is already Healed. Instead, we
mistakingly think that Who We actually Are is synonomous with who we think we are.
Each one thinks that he has a problem different from the rest. Yet all problems stem from
one singular problem; self-development (becoming this or that) and then identification
with that which we have artificially made. Fear is a natural outcome of the belief in this
fabricated idea of separation from the Unconditional Mind. Its resultant outcome is
believing, in turn, that we are different and differing, separate and separating. This is due
to that fact that we truly believe that we can break from the Whole (Health) and make a
self with an independent will, an independent mind, housed in an independent body. This
thinking is the genesis of our internal and external terrorist.
The common Solution to this Self-made self-problem is Being-Identification, or
recognition and acceptance of our singular Self, Which is simply Being. The problem
(Self-made self; not being, rather pretending to be; ego) is in the very same place at the
very same time as the Solution (Self; Being; egolessness). We have the power of decision
to select the unconditional state of mind (awakening to Our mutual Self and Health)
rather than choosing to identify with the conditional one (remaining asleep in our self and
its unhealthiness/imaginary, cultivated healthfulness). Awakening is a journey without a
distance in the Unconditional Mind that we have never really left.

What is dis-ease?
Dis-ease means “lack of ease.” All psychological dis-ease is the result of some
form of external search; either external-external (the body and world) or external-
internal (the conditional mind and its thinking). This interminable external seeking
and thus not finding real Peace (Ease) results in living one’s life in quiet, and sometimes
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not so quiet, despair. Ease is essentially what You Are, Which is not you. Health is
internal-internal Peace (the unconditional state of mind reflecting the Unconditional
Mind). We have to stop external searching, and go deeply internal, to find everlasting
Peace.

Surprisingly, You are already Healed. What does this mean?

You have the healing you are striving for because You already Are, Which is
Healed. Wholly Being is our natural endowment from the Unconditional Mind, and is the
reflection and Identification of the unconditional and unconditioned mind in the
conditional mind’s dream reality. Only the unconditional mind, reflecting our real Self, is
healed. The conditional mind (self), being unhealed (not Whole), seeks healing. The
conditional is an illusion. An illusion is an erroneous perception of reality. The self’s
perception of reality is erroneous through the act of imaginarily separating from Reality
and then making and identifying with its own brand of conditional and conditioned
reality. This “reality” is the external-internal conditional mind’s projected and then
perceived creation. The ego’s imaginary cultivated and projected reality is upheld by its
diverse forms of fear; e.g., belief in conflict, differences, separation, opposition,
limitation, expectation, et cetera.
Being, Who You actually Are, is Love. This is frequently confused with the false
self’s imaginary cultivated counterbalancing conditioned love: i love you when. . . ; i love
you if . . . ; i love you because . . . . This “love” is the product of not being, which
pretends to be, and is the opposite of Love, and is fear-based. Although fear-based love
seems to work, in truth it never works, since it is based on predetermined customary
circumstances and requires deliberate limitations. This simply maintains and sustains
fear. Only unconditioned and unconditional Love works. Conditional fear is the lack of
unconditional Love. The only remedy for the lack of true Love is Love Itself.
If you are afraid of unconditional healing, or think that your current ego way of
thinking or doing is healing, then real healing cannot come through you. The only thing
that is required for instant healing is lack of fear. The fearful are not unconditionally
healed, and likewise cannot truly heal. However, if only for an unconditional instant you
stop personal and partial judging, Love is unveiled. You then simply Are, Which is
Healed. This fundamental Being naturally-spontaneously extends its Self to share and
join with the others in their common unconditional Unity. Such has always been, is now,
and forever will be, Healed.

Is their anyone for whom unconditional healing is not appropriate?

Yes.
If the person you think you are, or a person you are with, uses dis-ease as a way of
life, unconditional healing must wait, for she wishes to protect herself through fear. At
such time, both ironically and tragically for her, the dis-ease is believed to be “healing.”
She would feel uneasy about unconditional healing. Even persons choosing to move
toward true healing at first, and possibly for awhile, feel uneasy about the loss of their
ego and will turn away from venturing forward toward demonstrating and therewith
realizing their real Self.
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 However, everyone will ultimately receive unqualified healing, or be completely
restored to full Identification with our mutual Being, since this is our natural inheritance
and Who We only Are. None of us is able to judge for another when her truly protecting
and healing Gift, or the Love That is her Self, is to be accepted by her in place of her
imagined safety through self-building and fear. Love (Self) will be accepted by her when
it is recognized as a blessing and not a curse.

What is the relationship between teaching/learning and unconditional

healing?
No learning is acquired by anyone unless he wants to learn and he believes in
some way that he needs to learn. Lack implies that we would be better off in a state
different somehow from the current one. Fundamentally, we do think we lack, for such
ideas must come with our generic belief in the idea of separation from the Whole, for
now we lack everything and must fill the emptiness (nothingness) with our own
something. We also always tacitly, and sometimes explicitly, feel threatened by a return
to our fundamental nothingness and thereby believe in that with which we fill our minds;
nevertheless, we would like to know and Identify with Who We truly Are (Self).
Even if we come to accept that we are not currently Identifying with Who We
really Are, but instead are identified with who we think we are, nonetheless, each one of
us is a part of a common conundrum in wanting to teach/learn (demonstrate/realize) his
true Identity (I Am What I Am, therefore We Are mutually One). Since we must learn
what we teach, and we only give to ourself – in truth, giving/receiving are only one, as
teaching/learning are the very same, like cause/effect are but one – we have to choose to
empty ourself of our old teaching, even as we newly learn something fresh and original
regarding the Self’s unconditional and unconditioned true Nature. This means that the
aboriginal (having existed since our very beginning) decision-making Self has to willing
choose to stop identifying with its past beliefs, for these beliefs originate, uphold and
sustain our now common small self (the Self’s creation and therefore communal
identification). In doing so, there will be a natural confusion or contradiction between the
old teaching/learning and what you’ll accept in order to understand the new
teaching/learning. As the false underpinnings are given up (identification with your small
self is released), your psychological equilibrium is temporarily experienced as unstable.
From this one could logically infer that she had better stay where she is and not change.
Returning to the familiar, conditional state of mind and its thinking by continuing
to identify with its thoughts is actually a mistake, but an exceedingly common, reflexive
one. These conventional “words of wisdom” reflect the kind of thinking that leads to and
reinforces one’s continuously choosing the mistake: “a bird in hand is worth two in the
bush;” “if it works, don’t fix it;” “misery loves company;” “better stick with the evils i
know, than to switch to the evils i don’t know;” “ignorance is bliss;” “what i don’t know
won’t hurt me;” and so forth. The conditional mind intrinsically thinks that it works. It
doesn’t. But there is a vast assortment of reinforcers for supporting its notion that it does.
Just the fact that the conditional mind and its typical thinking are intrinsically entrenched
allover the world is enough to bolster, sustain and maintain its efficacy as our reality.

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 It helps to remember that fear never works; only unconditional Love works. Fear
is the lack of real Love. The only remedy for lack of Love is Love itself. Simply
recognizing the need for the remedy is not enough. However, the instant you accept and
extend the true remedy, fear has been abolished. Through continuous extension of one’s
perfect Love, she comes to realize that She (Self) is the Love that she has been seeking. It
is neither out there (external – external), nor in here (external – internal), but What You
actually Are (internal – internal).

What , if anything, is the necessity of a unconditional healer or guide?

In truth, We already Are, and never cannot Be, Which is Whole (Healed). But in
our conditional mind we neither recognize this is so, nor do we necessarily believe it. An
unconditional guide is someone who demonstrates this is so, if only momentarily.
Anyone at any time can quite purposely or unwittingly demonstrate and thereby extend
unconditional help.
A person in his unconditional state of mind is both teaching/learning correct and
corrective loving perceptions, which benefit both the giver and receiver. In fact, the
unconditioned giver immediately profits from such giving, whether or not the person to
whom the gift is extended accepts it, for we instantly receive from ourselves what we
have just given.

What is true empathy?

When we are truly empathic, we do not want anything that we value to come of a
relationship. Instead, we step gently aside and let healing that We already Are and truly
value be done through us. This is a major step and means of unconditional healing.
Precisely, how does unconditional empathy work?
Being, which is unconditional, naturally-spontaneously extends to share and join
with its Self as Being in the other Being. Why? Such is the Law of Being: Being, Which
is perfect Freedom, carries on perfectly freely and thus naturally-spontaneously extends
its Self to increase and complete its Self in the Ground of Being, from whence It comes.
Metaphorically, it is like the natural-spontaneous action of displaced water (the
unconditional), when a ship (the conditional) has passed through it, to once again fill in
the vacant space left by the hull of the passing ship and thus complete itself by
straightening itself out. For example, the unconditional Self never has to get “love” (the
conditional self’s requirement in the getting-and-giving of its conditioned love) for It is
Love and receives the Love It gives even as It shares It. Like the displaced water, even
though it is displaced, It at once replaces its Self (Love) with its Self (Love), thus
extending and keeping its Self Complete.
Unconditional empathy uses fear-based, conditional psychological illusions, but
through their unconditional acceptance, understanding, and subsequent acknowledgment
their basis in fear is not reinforced. Such unconditional Presence (Love) quietly and
unobtrusively invites the other persons to consent to their own unconditionality, which is
the Same (Being) in all of us. This tacit, unconditional movement is very subtle and
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conditional will of another, but by the natural-spontaneous union of unconditional Being
with its Self

Why is unconditional healing a collaborative venture?

We are only Healed through our mutual Identification with Being, in which We
Are already Joined; for to Be is to be but unconditionally Related. Therefore, true Joining
really means to accept and allow the greater, unconditional Union that in this very Now
exists in any relationship. Healing, then, reflects our unconditional Will reuniting with its
Self.
This is obvious when you consider what healing is for. It is the way in which the
ego’s belief in the “idea of separation from the Unconditional Mind (Whole)” is ended.
Separation is overcome by Union. It cannot be overcome by the belief in conditionally
separating then, in turn, artificially be conditionally reunited in the conditional mind.
Such joining is only temporary, as its continuance is predicated on the satisfaction of
preestablished and current conditions of one’s conditional mind. This is not real Joining.
The decision to Unite is unequivocal; otherwise, the mind itself remains divided
and is not Whole. That is why if one states he wants to change with regard to something,
but at the very same time something else in him does not want to change, there will be no
true healing, for the conflict will necessarily continue. Remaining in one’s ego always
produces, consciously or unconsciously, separation and conflict, for its primary premise
(belief in the idea of separation from the Whole) is the source of it and all conflict.

How does unconditional healing work?

All unconditional healing is essentially release from fear, letting go of the past,
and stopping the external search (see Dis-ease, p.1) for the answer. This means that “i,”
which interferes with Wholeness (Self-Love) by eclipsing and concealing it – Love exists
in the very same place at the very same time as our fabricated, fragmented small self –
must disappear. When ‘i’ am not, that is, no past, therefore no personal and partial
judgment, no fear, no separate and separating self-identification, and such, the Other (just
Being) is.
To study the current specific perceptual error itself does not lead to correction; yet
this is part of our means. Only actual stopping, thus truly forgiving, the error leads to
correction. The error is simply the existence of our small self (central figure in the
conditional mind’s dream). Thus the Self Itself (original and continuous Decision-Maker;
the Dreamer of the dream, who typically identifies with Its Self-made small self) must
willingly decided to stop choosing to identify with and thereby conceal Itself in the dream
as the dream-figure (small self). In doing so, It forgives (lets go of) Its very self-building
and ultimately its very existence as a small self. In such moments, we are demonstrating,
realizing and reflecting Our one true Self and Its only Loving attributes in this world.
Unconditional forgiveness, which is manifested through the unconditional
presence of any purposeful or unwitting unconditional listener, is the very means of true
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healing our perception of separation. For with his/her help we see that what we are doing
is, ironically, but undoing (no longer authorizing; stop breathing life into; not
empowering) our conditional self and its belief (thinking) system. We are at first only
dimly teaching/learning, and then with more dedication more strongly teaching/learning,
that each one of us has an unconditional state of mind which provides unqualified help
with all of its attributes like perfect peace, no personal and partial judgment, infinite
patience, absolutely no fear, unequivocal tolerance, and such, that we all have been truly
seeking.
One commonly misunderstood feature regarding true forgiveness is that it is only
after we let go (forgive: do not choose to believe in) our small self, and not before, that
extension of the unconditional forgiving attitude to the other(s) occurs. To not first let go
of our conditional self means that the small self’s conditional version of forgiveness is
then occurring. This action will uphold, maintain, and sustain the conditional mind and its
projected/perceived thought system as real and does not make the only real change to the
unconditional state of mind and its thought system that eventually leads to fully
awakening in Our sole Self.
Persons, when they are exclusively residing in their unconditional states of mind,
demonstrate and realize that psychological conditions can have no psychological effects
on them by their naturally-spontaneously maintaining their purely being Presence
(Equanimity). This demonstrates to both themselves and others that conditions have no
psychological effects on them. In other words, not being (the conditional mind and its
conditions) does not in any way effect or change Being. However, in contrast, it goes
without question that conditional minds think illusions can and do have effects on them,
for illusions are purposely treated as having significant meaning (being real) by illusions.
For instance, conditional minds react to them in some way or other (sympathy, fear,
pleasure, anger, sadness, and so on) and thereby prove that illusionary effects are
effecting them and are thus real (cause). This is the workings of a self-fulfilling prophecy.
In fact, anyone who is not effected in some manner by illusions would be subject to
suspicion, possibly ridiculed, and even condemned to death.

Is unconditional healing certain?

Unconditional healing is always certain, for You already Are, Which is Healed.
However, you don’t know it, therefore it doesn’t count until the decision is made to select
the unconditional state of mind and its healing instead of continuing to choose the
conditional mind (unhealed) and its version of healing. Unconditional healing will always
be concealed when it is experienced as a threat by the ego. At such time, the ego will
simply act threatened, and by that very reaction, Being (Health) will be eclipsed and
thereby concealed by the small self’s now apparent existence.
As has been pointed out, unconditional healing is in the very same place at the
very same time as the ego’s “healing;” thus, only one can be experienced at a time.
Whoever looks on one cannot perceive the other. However, the instant that Well-Being is
once again welcomed, It is immediately there.
In truth, real healing only occurs when one changes from the conditional mind to
the unconditional state of mind. It is the Being (Spirit) in the unconditional Person’s
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Mind (Universal Person) Who extends the Gift (Love) to the person who is currently in
his particular conditional mind. True healing only commences when each particular
person releases his cultivated conditional fear (external-internal mind and thinking) to
permit his own internal unconditional acceptance (internal-internal mind and thinking) in
order to unconditionally understand and therewith undo his illusions. This process results
in the greater and eternal Union of the unconditional mutual Will with its Self.

bob lee
revised edition: January, 2010

Being and Unconditional Healing – 2 hours

The relationship between being and unconditional healing is a subtle and
exquisite one. This subject matter is presented through the means of eleven sections. In
some instances of this abstract, an excerpt of the section is provided.
What does it mean to unconditionally heal?
Why do we need unconditional healing?
We need unconditional healing because we do not understand our real self; that is,
we do not realize and identify with who we truly are, which is already healed. Instead, we
mistakingly think that who we actually are is synonomous with who we think we are.
Each one thinks that he has a problem different from the rest. Yet all problems stem from
one singular problem; self-development (becoming this or that) and then identification
with that which we have artificially made.
What is dis-ease?
Dis-ease means “lack of ease.” All psychological dis-ease is the result of some
form of external search; either external-external (the body and world) or external-internal
(the conditional mind and its thinking). This interminable external seeking and thus not
finding real Peace (Ease) results in living one’s life in quiet, and sometimes not so quiet,
despair.
You are already healed. What does this mean?
Is there anyone for whom unconditional healing is not appropriate?
Yes. If the person you think you are, or a person you are with, uses dis-ease as a
way of life, unconditional healing must wait, for she wishes to protect herself through
fear. At such time, both ironically and tragically for her, the dis-ease is believed to be
“healing.” She would then feel uneasy about unconditional healing.
What is the relationship between teaching/learning and unconditional healing?
What, if anything, is the necessity of an unconditional healer or guide?
In truth, we already are, and never cannot be, which is truly whole. But in our
conditional mind we neither recognize this is so, nor do we necessarily believe it. An
unconditional guide is someone who demonstrates this is so, if only momentarily.
Anyone at any time can quite purposely or unwittingly demonstrate and thereby extend
unconditional help.
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 What is true empathy?
When we are truly empathic, we do not want anything that we value to come of a
relationship. Instead, we step gently aside and let healing that we already are and truly
value be done through us. This is a major step and means of unconditional healing.
Why is unconditional healing a collaborative venture?
How does unconditional healing work?
All unconditional healing is essentially release from fear, letting go of the past,
and stopping the external search (see dis-ease above) for the answer. This means that the
small self must disappear. When the conditioned self ceases, that is, no past, therefore no
personal and partial judgment, no fear, no separate and separating self-identification, and
such, the unconditioned other (simply being) is.
Is unconditional healing certain?