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is strong. He’ll beat this,” and offer
back rubs when she had trouble It’s not unusual for parents to stay with
catching a nap in the reclining chair sick children round the clock. But the
in his room. floor nurses noticed something spe-
Kathy’s appreciation of them grew cial about Kathy. She was always smil-
when she began to understand what ing and positive, even on days when
their jobs entailed. One of the first Michael was very ill or received bad
times Kathy gave Michael his daily news about blood counts. “It was never
shot of blood thinner, she missed and about Kathy or the sacrifices she was
hit her own hand. It bled for hours be- making,” says Debra Dearstyne, one
cause the anticlotting drug had seeped of Michael’s nurses. “She never let
into her system. She kept track of all Michael see how hard this was on her.”
of Michael’s shots and his 50 daily pills One day, Michael told one of the
in a notebook she’d placed in the din- nurses, Felice Kloss-Hefferan, that he
ing room, next to his old dorm fridge. was so impressed by what she and the
It now contained IV bags of magne- other nurses did, he planned to enroll
sium and potassium, to replenish his in the nursing program when he was
electrolytes, and amphotericin, an an- healthy enough to go back to college.
tibiotic for the fungal pneumonia he’d Michael always believed he would
caught because of his weakened im- conquer the disease. He’d done so
mune system. with other hurdles in his life. Born a
“I always thought nurses just gave preemie on January 1, 1981, he over-
you the pills and walked out of the came a learning disability and was
room,” Kathy says. “Now I had a whole mainstreamed into a regular class-
new understanding of how they man- room by the third grade. Despite good
age their time and energy. And they grades, he did poorly on his SATs. He
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The doctor pulled them
out of Michael’s earshot and said,
“THE CHEMO DIDN’T WORK.”
gave up a trip to take a window while Dr. Luger
summer prep program and Matthew walked
at Widener University, into an exam room. Dr.
south of Philadelphia, Luger explained it could
C O U R T E S Y K AT H Y S TA U B
T
No more pain, just let it go.” And tered nurse.
Michael closed his eyes for the last
time. The fall before she was due to gradu-
ate, Kathy attended a nursing career
Weeks after Michael’s funeral, Kathy fair. She walked directly up to Beverly
was still struggling to make it through Emonds, a recruiter at the UPenn table.
each day. One night, she had a “Hi, I’m Kathleen Staub, and I want
dream—though she believes it was to work at your hospital,” she said.
more like a message. She saw Michael “But it has to be on Rhoads 7, bone
dressed and looking as healthy and marrow transplant.” In early Novem-
handsome as ever. “Mike, are you ber, Emonds called Kathy to tell her
okay?” she asked, getting a whiff of his there would be an opening. But it was
trademark Perry Ellis cologne. far from a done deal. Kathy had to
“Mom, I’m fine,” he said. “But you convince the floor’s nurse manager
have to stop crying now. You have to that Michael’s history wouldn’t inter-
remember your promise.” fere with her performance on the job.
The dream spurred her to action. Finally, Emonds called to offer her
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the position. ing but intense. Though memories
A few days after starting, Kathy stood lurk everywhere, she loves working
in one of the patient rooms holding a alongside many of the same nurses
syringe full of Neupogen—the same who cared for her son.
drug she used to give Michael. The Kathy doesn’t often share Michael’s
young leukemia sufferer, her very first story with the families of patients, be-
patient, was about Michael’s age, and cause she doesn’t want to dash their
he hated shots just as much. As Kathy hopes. But sometimes word gets out
began the procedure and felt the fa- and they ask her about him. One of
miliar moistness on her brow, she Kathy’s first patients, a young woman
couldn’t help thinking of her son. But with leukemia, had developed a
suddenly a guiding confidence came complication from a bone marrow
over her. She jabbed the shot quickly transplant. She was dying. Kathy
and precisely, like a pro. That wasn’t flashed back as she saw the girl’s
so bad, she thought. mother crying at the foot of her daugh-
Each day as Kathy walks into the ter’s bed. The woman turned to Kathy:
UPenn hospital elevator and pushes “How do you get through it?”
the button to the seventh floor, she Kathy walked her into the hall, and
takes Michael’s angel medallion from the woman collapsed in tears. “You
her pocket, holds it in her palm and never forget, but you will get through
says, “Michael, get me through the it.” She fingered the angel medallion
day.” The 12-hour shifts are reward- in the pocket of her uniform. “You’ll
M OVE OVE R , B R I T N E Y
It’s not just misbehaving celebs who find their
way into the tabloids. We asked readers of RD’s
humor newsletter to come up with newspaper
headlines using corporate mascots. Here’s what
they sent back:
Aflac Duck Gets Facial Enhancement,
Insurance Refuses to Pay for Big Bill
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