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How to Celebrate Valentine's Day in NYC
By Elaine Furst
Submitted by Magda Lawrence
Information and Referral
Stay at The Essex House Hotel. It's one of the most elegant way to romance your sweetie. Feinstein’s at the Regency
romantic hotels in the city, located right across the street from Hotel is located at 61st Street and Park Avenue. 212-339-4095.
Central Park, one of the most romantic places in the world.
The hotel is located on 59th Street and Central Park South. Take a champagne limo ride around Manhattan. On
Though it is a bit pricey to stay here (one night will cost you Valentine's Day, what can be more romantic than sitting in the
about $329) the romantic mood that the hotel's ambiance will back seat of a stretch limo with your sweetie, sharing a bottle of
put you and your sweetie in will definitely be worth the price! champagne and taking in the view of NYC! Many NYC limo
For more information call the Essex House hotel at companies offer several different tour packages that can take
(212) 247-0300 ask for reservations. you around different parts of the city (some even offer free
champagne!). Since there are so many limo companies in NYC,
Take an evening carriage ride through Central Park. your best bet is to do some research a couple weeks before
What could possibly be more romantic on Valentine's Day Valentine's Day and decide which limo service offers the best
than an evening carriage ride through Central Park? To make deal for you.
the ride even more cozy, bring your own hot chocolate and
ask the driver for a blanket. Now that's romance! The Take a dinner cruise around Manhattan. What could be
estimated cost for a carriage ride around Central Park (not more romantic on Valentine's Day than being out on the water
including tip) is:$34 for the first 1/2 hour and $10 for each with your honey, sharing a candlelight dinner, listening to live
additional 1/4 hour. Call Manhattan Carriages of NYC at entertainment and taking in Manhattan's spectacular skyline
347-298-7927 for more information. view. Well, that will be your experience when you take a
romantic dinner cruise around New York Harbor. One of the
Buy a ring at Tiffany's. If you're in NYC and you want to most popular ones is offered by Spirit Cruise Lines. They offer a
pop THE question on the most romantic day of the year, then ―Valentines Dinner Cruise" package for about $129.90 For more
you must bring your sweetie to Tiffany's. With diamonds of information call, Spirit Cruise Lines at (866) 483-3866.
every shape and facet, you're bound to find something that
will make your Valentine's eyes sparkle! You may request Take an evening ride on the Staten Island Ferry. It's the
champagne service. Tiffany's is located on 57th Street and cheapest ride in NYC (it's FREE!) and it has the best, most
Fifth Avenue. romantic, view! For a 25-minute ride you'll get to see the NYC
skyline in all its lit up, romantic glory. Now isn't that the best
Have drinks at the River Cafe. Located right under the way to spend Valentine's Day? For more information about the
Brooklyn Bridge, The River Cafe with its views of Lower Staten Island Ferry, check out their website.
Manhattan has one of the most romantic views in all of NYC.
It's a perfect spot to share drinks with the one you love and See NYC from the top of the Empire State Building. It's
think romantic thoughts. The River Cafe is located at 1 Water been done in some of the most romantic movies in Hollywood
Street in Brooklyn. 718-522-5200. (Sleepless in Seattle and "An Affair To Remember just to name
two) and if you want to give your sweetie a piece of NYC, well
Romantic nightclub Feinstein's at the Regency Hotel. If then the top of the Empire State Building is a great place to be.
you're the old fashioned type who longs for a romantic With an entrance fee of $26 per person and all of NYC in front
evening spent at an old fashioned nightclub, then Feinstein's of you, what could be a more romantic way to spend Valentines
at the Regency Hotel on Valentine's Day is for you. With its Day? For more information about the Empire State Building
intimate setting and top of the line performers singing old Observation Deck, please checkout their website.
time standards, Feinstein's on Valentine’s Day is the
Director’s Corner
Enclosed you will find our FY 11 ACS Needs
Assessment Survey. Please take a moment to
let us know how we are doing. Thank you.
Carmen E. Borrero,
ACS Director
The Military OneSource Tax Program will begin on Mon., January 17, 2011. The program will provide
free access to a customized version of the basic H&R Block at Home® electronic tax filing product. This
customized product allows for free federal filing and free state filing (up to three states). In addition, free
telephonic tax consultations are available to help with tax related issues. Please visit Military OneSource
website to learn more about the program and filing your 2010 taxes. *An Important Note: Please do not create a
user account on the public H&R Block Web site. You will incur a fee if you file using the public H&R Block Web
site/product. If you create an account on the public H&R Block Web site, regardless of how you access the account in the
future, the H&R Block system will view you as a public user (the system tags the account when it is created, according to
the version of the product being used at that time).
Please wait until Monday, January 17th, when the customized MOS version is made available via a link on the Military
OneSource Web site to create your account.
Jan. 28, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET Mar. 11, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET
Feb. 04, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET Mar. 25, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET
Feb. 11, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET Apr. 08, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET
Feb. 25, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET Apr. 22, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET
May 20, 2011, 2-6 a.m. ET
Financial Counseling Services
Did you know that Military OneSource offers free Financial Counseling Services? This is a great time to
talk to one of our Accredited Financial Counselors about the best ways to use your tax return and address
any issues you might have with debt, money management, or budgeting.
Articles:
Find out about the Military Spouses Residency Relief Act.
Filing Taxes When a Service Member is Deployed
Quick Tips for Using Your Tax Refund
(you may access above links at www.militaryonesource.com)
Financial Readiness Financial Readiness
First Term Soldiers PCS Financial Class
February 22, 2011 February 23, 2011
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Education Center Building 218A ACS Conference Room
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Military Saves Campaign Week
February 20-27, 2011
Submitted by Miguel Morales
Financial Readiness Program Manager
All over America people just like you are proving that you don’t have to be rich
to build wealth. As members of Military Saves, they are paying off their debts,
and saving to reach their financial goals. We can help with tips and tools to help
you set goals, develop strategies to reach those goals, and to start saving. So
what are you waiting for? Enroll in Military Saves and start making your dreams a
reality.
The Army Family Action Plan (AFAP) Conference was held on 4 November
2010 to develop and prioritize issues from the Fort Hamilton Community. There
were 23 issues prioritized from over 55 submitted issues. These 23 issues will be
reviewed by the Garrison Commander and the AFAP Steering Committee
quarterly. On 16 Dec 2010 the AFAP Steering Committee met and agreed to close
2 issues from the 2009 Conference and 1 issue from 2010 Conference.
FH-09-060: No Veterinary Service on Post. Status: CLOSED/ Currently there
are no locations on Post to provide these services. Once the Armed Forces
Reserve Center is manned and operational we will then look at our options. In the
mean time a list of available providers in the area were added to the Resource
List maintained in the ACS office and added to the monthly ACS Newsletter.
Issue FH-10-034: Commissary and PX privileges for Survivors and issue FH-
10-046: ID Cards for Gold Star Parents, are duplicate issues being looked at by
the Army’s General Office Steering Committee.
Issue FH-10-050: SOS Support for Casualty Assistance Officer Family Visits
will be elevated to the next level of Command in Washington DC.
Any one interested in being a delegate or volunteering for the AFAP Program,
please contact: John Mapes @ (718) 630-4498 or e-mail me @
john.mapes1@us.army .mil
Building Army Strong Families
Submitted by John Mapes,
AFTB Program Manager
These classes are open to all ID card holders and DoD Civilians. Army Community Services
Center holds classes every 3rd Wednesday at 11:00 am to 12:00 pm in Bldg 137 C Poly Place,
1st floor (near the Post Exchange).
If you’re interested in taking any of the over 30 AFTB classes or becoming a volunteer for the
AFTB Program contact: John Mapes @718 630-4498 or e-mail John.mapes1@us.army.mil
LOCAL
BROOKLYN VETERINARIES
Children going through deployment may experience weapons that you might be working with while away.
many of the same effects as children of divorce. They Let Your Child Help You Pack: Letting your child
worry about what will happen to them. They worry that the help you pack will allow him or her to be more involved in
non-deployed parent will leave, too. Who will take care of the process and also allow them to "care" for you. If
them? This is particularly true if the family has trouble possible, let them decorate the inside of your footlocker.
with mail deliveries or pay allotments which is sometimes Not only will they have great fun but you will enjoy their
the case in early days of separation. artwork for days and months to come.
Preparing a child emotionally prior to departure will Signs of Distress: Even with the best laid plans and a
help the child cope as the Service Member leaves for cheerful demeanor, parents cannot always prevent their
training or for deployment. Make sure children know they children from experiencing stress when the Service
are loved. Whenever there is distress in a family, children Member is called to duty. They may not fully understand
assume responsibility for it. They may feel responsible that why Dad or Mom is gone and they may worry about their
a parent is going away or feel that the parent does not love safety. They will also be very perceptive to what the parent
them any more. Providing consistent, loving assurance will at home is feeling. These fears may consciously or
help alleviate this. subconsciously trouble children.
Be Truthful: Children are very perceptive! As soon as Positive Aspects of Separation
the Service Member starts planning and preparing for a Many parents worry about the negative impact of
drill or deployment, the child will catch on that something deployments on children. However, deployments offer
is up. Do not lie to your child in an attempt to shield him or many positive growth opportunities. Several psychological
her from the truth or they may assume something worse. studies show that despite the distress during separation
Talk to your child openly and honestly. significant developmental gains are made by many
Share Feelings: Children often lack the vocabulary to children. Some positive aspects of separation include:
share their feelings. It will help if parents talk about their Fosters Maturity: Military children encounter more
own feelings which will help children communicate their situations and have broader and more varied experiences
feelings. Let your child know that even negative thoughts than children from non-military families. Induces growth.
and feelings are OK and normal. Military children learn more about the world and how to
Explore Destination: Using a map or globe, show your function within a community at an earlier age. Taking on
child where you are going and chart your route. Using additional responsibilities in a parent's absence provides a
books or encyclopedias, explore weather conditions, chance to develop new skills and develop hidden interests
cultural norms, or products produced in that region. and abilities.
Communicate with Teachers: If your child is school- Encourages Independence: Military children tend to be
age, let the teacher know what is going on at home. The more resourceful and self-starters. Prepares for separations.
teacher may use maps and chart your travels with the class. In a life-style filled with greetings and farewells from
Design an Activity to Pass Time: With your child, deployments and relocations, helps for future farewells and
design or create an activity to help mark time. For younger building new friendships.
children, make a paper chain with a link for each day you Strengthens Family Bonds: Military families make
will be gone that the child can use to measure time (the emotional adjustments during a separation which often
child will break a link each day). For an older child, choose lead them to discover new sources of strength and support
a book that you both would enjoy and each read a among themselves. A major function of family readiness is
preselected passage everyday. assuring that the family is aware of all support services
Show Your Workspace: If possible, set aside time to available to them and how to access these services. It is
show your child the ship and where you will be eating, imperative that the Service Member family realize that they
sleeping, and working. Or, take your child to the armory are not alone and, chances are, whatever problem or
prior to departure and show him or her the artillery guns or situation they encounter has been addressed before.
Family Advocacy Program
“There’s No Excuse for Domestic Violence.”
The Family Advocacy Program works with individuals and Families to strengthen Family relationships using
education and prevention tactics. The program is dedicated to enhancing individual coping skills and
alleviating the underlying causes of stress associated with Family violence. FAP provides prevention
education services which restore and maintain a healthy environment, while respecting customer identity.
The mission of Family Advocacy Program is to support the foundations of Family well-being in order to
strengthen Soldiers and Families, promote child safety, and prevent spouse and child abuse and neglect.
For more information please contact Vincent DiMaira, FAP Program Manager at 718-630-4460
SOS PURPOSE:
Demonstrates the Army’s commitment to
families of the fallen. The mission of SOS is
Services are available to Service Members and to provide enhanced services to these
their Families. If you would like more families through a holistic and multi-agency
information or schedule an appointment, approach. We provide services at the
please contact Vincent DiMaira at 718-630-4460 garrison and communities closest to where
families live. SOS will allow the Army to
To report Child or Spouse Abuse, please contact
better identify the needs of those touched
Department of Emergency Service (DES) at
by the loss of a soldier.
718-630-4456
For Confidential Reporting of Domestic Abuse
For more information please contact:
or to report Sexual Assault, please contact the Carson Schefstad, Program Manager
USAG Victim Advocacy Hotline at 347-452-4302 718-630-4467
The Army Victim Advocacy Program
If you are a victim of domestic abuse, please know that
Army Community Service has a Domestic Abuse Victim
Advocate who can be reached at 347-452-4302 24 hours/7
days a week.
Other services that the Victim Advocate offers are referrals to services, accompanying victims to
meetings with lawyers, police, and or command, and provision of information regarding the
Transitional Compensation Program. For more information, please contact:
Vincent DiMaira, FAPM at 718-630-4460.
Instructions:
1. Send your lover a dozen long-stemmed red roses, the symbol of romance and passion.
2. Recite a love poem onto your mate's voice mail at work while he or she is at lunch.
3. Write a love letter or romantic valentine (see "How to Write a Romantic Valentine," at eHow
website).
5. Begin the evening with a Champagne toast to your love for each other.
6. Go for a walk or drive along a favorite vista to take in the evening sights.
7. Reserve dinner at a favorite restaurant or one you've both wanted to try. Or, take your valentine
to the place where you first had dinner together. Re-enact that date for memory's sake.
8. Plan an after-dinner adventure: a carriage ride through the park, ice skating, ballroom dancing,
or sharing an after-dinner drink at a bar or nightclub with a view of the city lights.
9. Tell your sweetie all the reasons why you love him or her. Give detailed examples and
descriptions of these reasons where appropriate.
10. Place rose petals in your valentine's bath or on his or her sheets.
11. Kiss your valentine passionately throughout the evening. Linger on the kisses like you did
when you and your lover were first falling head-over-heels in love.
Waiting Families Information & Referral
Have a Deployed Service Member?
Offered at the Army Community Service Building 137C, 1st Floor, at 3:30 on the
following dates:
February 2, 16 March 2,16
April 6, 20 May 4, 18
June 1, 15 July 6, 20
August 3, 17 September 7, 21
October 5, 19 November 2, 16
December 7, 21
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Computer Lab Computer Lab Computer Lab Computer Lab 1100-1200
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Happy SNAP Meeting AFTB Classes ACS HOURS ACS HOURS
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Valentine’s ACS Conf Rm. ACS Conf. Rm. Computer Lab Computer Lab
Day!! 0800-1600 0800-1600
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ACS HOURS Financial Financial Newcomer’s ACS HOURS
0800-1630 Readiness 1st Readiness PCS Orientation 0800-1630
Computer Lab Term Soldiers 1400-1500 830-1400 Computer Lab
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Ed. Center
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