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We are always responsible for everything we think, say do, or feel. We alone hav
e the power to choose what happens to us. Often, we shortchange ourselves becaus
e we believe we are less than we actually are. We are the enemy.
It is important to have faith in our abilities, to believe in ourselves. Now, I
am not suggesting conceit that rare disease affecting everyone but the person wh
o has it. Rather, I want to build a reasonable confidence in your own power to r
each your goals. How can you do this? Success begins when we learn what it takes
to build a stronger self-concept.
We don t perform according to our actual abilities. We perform according to our pe
rception of our abilities. Dr. Joyce Brothers, a noted psychologist, in a Parade
magazine article says, An individual s self- concept is the core of their personal
ity. It affects every aspect of human behavior the ability to learn, the capacit
y to grow and change, the choice of mates, friends, and career. It s no exaggerati
on to say that a strong, positive self-image is the best possible preparation fo
r success in life .
We have a blueprint of our abilities. We have our own perceived set of plans, ou
r own life-building code. Rarely do we question its validity. We follow the plan
and allow that blueprint to control every talent we have.
We must learn to control the way we think.
Our thoughts program our subconscious mind, the storehouse of all impressions. T
he subconscious concept without question, all thoughts received and stores them
for future use. By repeating thoughts often enough, we assemble the blueprint of
our belief system. Soon, right or wrong, our thoughts build our reality and bec
ome a major influence on the construction of our self-concept.
By properly controlling our thinking, we can eventually correct falsely develope
d deficiencies and turn our thinking around. By mastering our thoughts, we begin
to master our life. The end result of this process is a blueprint that we can u
se to build a strong house. All the huffing and puffing by the big bad wolf you
r wrong beliefs will never blow your house down.
Don t add difficulties to your life by fabricating a poor self-concept of your abi
lities. Be a master architect working from correctly drawn plans. That is the on
ly way to complete your house of success.
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