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P
arents
and
other
family
members
often
do
not
know
what
to
do
if
they
find
out
that
someone
is
sexually
abusing
children
in
their
families.
This
fact
sheet
is
an
overview.
For
detailed
information
go
to
the
CornerHouse
website
at
http://www.cornerhousemn.org/resources.html
The
following
describes
what
to
do.
Contact
Police
or
Child
Protection
Immediately
• Call
911
if
there
is
immediate
danger
to
children;
the
911
dispatcher
can
give
you
other
valuable
information.
• Call
the
police
if
the
suspected
perpetrator
is
not
a
family
member.
• Call
child
protection
if
the
suspected
perpetrator
is
a
family
member.
If
you
can’t
find
the
phone
number,
call
the
National
Child
Abuse
Hotline
at
1
800
422-‐4453.
You
can
also
go
to
http://www.childwelfare.gov/pubs/reslist/rl_dsp.cfm?rs_id=5&rate_chno=11-‐
11172.
This
website
gives
the
numbers
of
the
reporting
agencies
in
every
state
in
the
US.
• Call
211
or
1-‐800-‐543-‐7709
for
any
other
questions
you
might
have.
This
is
a
24/7
service
of
the
United
Way.
If
non-‐offending
spouses
do
not
report
the
suspected
abuse
right
away,
they
can
be
charged
with
failure
to
protect,
and
the
children
may
go
into
foster
care.
Make
Sure
Children
are
Safe
• The
suspected
perpetrator
has
to
leave
any
residence
where
the
child
is
or
where
any
children
are.
• If
the
suspected
perpetrator
does
not
leave,
then
the
mother
or
other
non-‐offending
parent
must
leave
the
residence
with
all
of
the
children.
If
you
want
to
go
to
a
women’s
shelter,
there
is
a
shelter
locator
at
http://mentalwellnessadvice.com/addiction-‐treatment/locator.html
• If
the
suspected
perpetrator
is
a
child,
find
a
relative
who
will
take
the
child
and
who
does
not
have
other
children.
If
you
have
no
one
to
take
a
child
who
may
have
sexually
abused
children
in
your
family,
ask
child
protection
immediately
to
find
another
place
for
this
child
to
live.
Failure
to
keep
children
safe
is
a
crime.
Non-‐offending
family
members
may
face
criminal
charges
if
they
fail
to
protect
children.
The
children
may
go
into
foster
care.
Contact
Supportive
Persons
• clergy,
especially
if
non-‐offending
family
members
think
they
can
trust
them;
• family
and
friends
who
are
trust-‐worthy.
Get
Legal
Advice
• Get
as
much
information
on
what
to
expect
regarding
the
legal
issues;
if
you
can’t
afford
an
attorney,
put
“legal
services”
in
a
search
engine
for
the
region
in
which
you
live.
• Find
out
about
what
kinds
of
legal
requirements
there
are
for
children.
An
example
is
whether
the
children
will
be
interviewed
by
experts
in
court
testimony.
Another
is
whether
children
must
have
a
medical
exam.
• Ask
an
attorney
to
help
you
to
get
an
order
of
protection.
Get
an
Order
of
Protection
• An
order
of
protection
stops
suspected
perpetrators
from
having
any
contact
with
non-‐offending
family
members
and
with
children.
• Follow
the
order
of
protection;
do
not
allow
the
suspected
perpetrator
to
have
any
contact
with
children.
Non-‐offending
parents
can
be
charged
with
a
crime
if
they
allow
suspected
perpetrators
to
have
contact
with
children.
The
children
may
go
into
foster
care.
Get
Professional
Help
• Local
sexual
assault
centers
have
lists
of
knowledgeable
professionals.
• Call
211
for
information
about
services
for
survivors
of
child
sexual
abuse
and
their
families.
Know
Professionals
Must
Report
The
law
requires
that
professionals
report
child
abuse
and
neglect
if
they
have
reason
to
believe
that
children
are
being
harmed.
If
you
contact
clergy,
counselors,
therapists,
teachers,
social
workers,
and
medical
professionals,
they
must
report
the
abuse.
Do
Not
Handle
Sexual
Abuse
by
Yourself
Many
people
do
not
report
child
sexual
abuse
or
other
kinds
of
abuse
because
they
are
afraid
of
what
will
happen.
Failure
to
report
can
result
in
criminal
charges.
Children
may
go
into
foster
care.
Further
information
Child
Welfare
Information
Gateway
Website
at
http://www.childwelfare.gov/
CornerHouse
Website
at
http://www.cornerhousemn.org/resources.html
National
Child
Abuse
Hotline
http://www.childhelp.org/pages/hotline
About
the
Authors
Jane
F.
Gilgun,
Ph.D.,
LICSW,
is
a
professor,
and
Gwendolyn
Anderson,
MSW,
is
a
PhD
student,
School
of
Social
Work,
University
of
Minnesota,
Twin
Cities,
USA.
See
Professor
Gilgun’s
other
articles,
books,
and
children’s
stories
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Kindle,
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