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i m sorry if i have mistaken sme dates or events...and my comments or words shd nt be taken personally.. MOM DAD and ME....

my parents have 3 sons and 2 daughters 2010 only they are left with me the youngest son... 2000 Total persons in family Nani najmul hussain talath sultana nishat mazhar naheed akhtar nazia lashkari shahed akbar taher abbas =8 members one home ,few rooms... all eating food on time together..fighting on t.v remote.. big b cming late home sis helping him out.dad shouting.m sleeping with mom and s hahed.big b wod make shahed move and bring me aside..and we both wod sleep like nethng.den morning i went to school days passed on as dey alwz do..wo ramzan.woh eid.woh programs.woh shakitiman.woh ismail ka cable..aur woh light jaana..m happy i have a family and we are togeth er dis was in 2000. den i cod hear big b is planning to go to USA.v were excited.and specially USA i t was a dream 4 me my big b in USA.WOW!!!! in 2001: bhai was in USA..struggling and v here praying... and finally he settled in Texas,USA. members left=7. in 2002:i cod hear abt naddu's marriage...mom dad happy and excited for their daughters marriage and der son-in-law..she cod settle down in USA in f uture..days passed on clock sweeps her hand.. and da day of marriage came.. in 2003:naddu got married...but unfortunately our nani(phopho) passed away after long illness.. mixed emotions... members left=5... in 2004:big b came to india..4 his marriage..one of the best moments of my life. ..he got married...nd i cod have my first bhabi-sameera bhabi.. my parents first BAHU-sounds indian..watever!!!.. more importantingly naddu too came with big b from USA.. the home was RE-UNITED..and with a special member-sameera bhabi. days gone big b and naddu left... with bhabi at home... members left=5+1...

den my parents had da biggest surprise they were gettin da news of becoming pare nts to grand parents... at this time of my life my health was seriously gone down..and the way my next s is Nazia supported me...i can never repay her..she understands every aspect of m y life.my needs.my laugh.my cry.. in 2005:i became CHACHA...Bhabi was nw MOM.and My mom was grand mother of MOHAMM ED FARHAN... and in da same year bhaiya and bhabhi efforts made bhabi go to USA...all were ha ppy..and so were my parents..but departing from grandchild was very difficult... in 2006:my health was a bit improved but not upto da mark... but my worry of losing nazia baji increased..as she to was about to get married. ..my strentgh was declining bt somehow i had to accept it..she was jus like my s econd mother.. and she to had to look 4 her career and her life..she got married. and by her hard work and dedication she too went to USA... members left=4... now let me mention about my next brother shahed akbar... i was not al that free with him but i heard from my friends ..k yar tera bhai ba hoot handsome.smart hai..i used to wonder k main bhi itna smart hoon ya nahi.. 2005:shahed finishd his engineering..and da same year i joined da college.. my health improved considerably.. now bhai looked out 4 his career and life...so he joined some courses and he moved to bangalore... hold on..well my dad was also doing his duty to his optimum level and so was my mom.. members left=3... now it became routine for us to see each other faces..now mom didnt had that mu ch excitment to cook food 4 me and dad... but the days passed on... year by year day by day... happy new!!!=dad was prompoted from DSP to SP of excise department.. but slowly his retirment was on the corner.. he had his wishes to get shahed married as well as me..but i was very young nd i n my dream world... in 2008:dad got his retirement...i cod see his eyes the wetness in his eyes cod show all the facts that i can bearly express..i ws fortunate enough to be part of that... in 2008: shahed got married and now i had my second bhabi-farha bhabi... mom dad me al happy.... big b came from USA but unfortunately both sis codnt.. it was a suucesful marriage and again big b left 4 USA and so did shahed 2 his job.. memebers left=3+1.. and back in USA v had our next bhatiji--Faiza fatima..v codnt be der nor did she

here..v missed da moments but saw da pics..happy as by now we had the habit of compromising... and year later shahed too became A father father of MOHAMMED FARAZ--our superman ... we had da closest moment with bhabi and bhaiya and faraz. as they were infront of our eyes.. my uncle used to say "JO NAZAR SE DUR HOJATA HAI,WOH DIL SE DOOR HOJATA. but again days passed and Bhabi too left for hyderabad with bhaiya.. members left=3... Now During This 10 years from 2000-2010.. i had seen a lot of ups and downs in m y life.joy.happy.laugh.cry.emotional as i always be... m about to finsish up enginnering and dont know wat to do next... shall i too move to so called "USA",or do a job in metro city.if i do that.. members left=2.... the same members who came to this house alone..and made this house a home..a hom e of dreams.. Talath sultana and Najmul Hussain..they vl b alone again... but i bet they dont have that energy as they had in 1970... dad's tooth ache is always incresing and his health declining.. mom has BP problems and her sugar problems.. but mom dad me happy...as we had da habit of compromising...... i have decided to be with my parents till my last breath inshallah...i have gave all my dreams i used to have to study abroad.enjoy lifestyle.work in MNC.my car .my blazers.. but alas..My parents wont leave gulbarga.and dis is quite good for dem.. and i 2 want to stay in gulbarga..and have started my company by dis mission..ma ny say ..Taher bhai quite lucky yar all in USA u can easily move.. now wen i write dis in feb 2010... life is al same here one home,few rooms,but only few people..the rooms are looki ng al tat large.. whenever i enter studyroom i wish i cod see naheed and nazia studin..but no!!its a fact.and its da truth..dey re nt here.. nor is big b nor is shaddu... now we cod hear in morning about amina bi's talk,ghousia,rubina,reshma... till today the amount of food cooked is the same as it was in 2000. but the eating members r different... now with my friends special friends Basith nd Omer.and specially understanding y ounger brother Adil... we have a new family now... but i jus fear one deadly night when dad wod shout from his room...k he is havin g severe chest ache... wat to do i cant getup coz i wod have had my tab... call call call call nishat?-no naheed?-no nazia ?-no shahed?-no

coz da above 3 are lakhs of kilometeres away from home.no matter they are close

to heart.. and wat abt shahed-he to is 220kms away or 5 hours drive from here. but yet mom dad me are happy...as we had da habit of compromising...

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