Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 15

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 15

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88999-4-0

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Cheerfulness gives us power. 2) We can make our life more beautiful if we plan our action very well. 3) We can make our life more beautiful if we are always careful. 4) We can make our life more beautiful if we are disciplined. 5) We can make our life beautiful if we are fair. 6) We can make our life beautiful if we are enthusiastic. 7) Failures must never immobilize us. 8) If you are disorderly you will have many failures. 9) If we are distracted we will have many failures in life. 10) If we are undisciplined we will have many failures in life.
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11) If we are unfair we will have many failures in life. 12) Some people call crazy all those who have ideas that they do not accept. 13) It is normal if you do not understand the actions of a man, not to call him crazy, but to refrain. 14) The more easily we can produce more useful ideas, the more quickly we can achieve our personal goals. 15) The more we expand the capacity to produce more useful ideas, the better chances we have to meet favorable occasions. 16) Sociable individuals have much greater opportunities to achieve lasting co operations. 17) Those who are alone can get rid of loneliness by applying the principle of cooperation. 18) Buoyancy helps in maintaining a
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mature love. 19) Our confidence in our forces makes us be enthusiastic in implementing what we proposed. 20) Constructive ideas can help us achieve success. 21) Those who are documented have much greater opportunities to have more successes. 22) In all that we do we need to be documented the best we can to prevent accidents. 23) Experience helps us become more productive. 24) Experience helps us more easily achieve our personal goals. 25) Luxury leads very often to incontinence. 26) Luxury ruined many empires. 27) Many in pursuit of riches are destroying true love.
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28) Illegal actions lead us to prison. Warning. You can easily go to prison. Read the Criminal Code. 29) Negative actions always harm us and others more or less. 30) Life is too beautiful to spend part of its freedom in prison to satisfy the desire of luxury. 31) If we are well documented we can prevent many possible unpleasant surprises. 32) Thinking long term helps and contributes greatly to achieve our goals. 33) Young people are eager for action because they are very optimistic. 34) Patience with oneself helps us achieve true friendships. 35) Patience with the other helps and contributes greatly to maintaining a friendship true. 36) Patience with the other helps and
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contributes greatly to achieving many successes. 37) Principles help us achieve more success. 38) Positive principles help us and contribute greatly to maintaining an effective cooperation. 39) Positive principles help us and contribute greatly to being liked. 40) Superstitions sometimes hinder our achievement of personal goals. 41) Sometimes some superstitions are taken from other people without any judgment. 42) The foolish man is extremely dangerous. 43) The evil man through his meanness also harms himself a lot. 44) Artfulness is a very dangerous flaw. 45) In any case we need to have the personal goal of preventing any flaw.
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46) Family violence harms the very happy marriage. 47) Arguments contribute more to the complication of matters rather than solving them. 48) Quarrels between friends harm true friendship very much. 49) The harmony between spouses is good for the children. 50) The harmony between family members makes life more beautiful. 51) The consumption of alcohol over the normal limit in all individuals is harmful in one way or another. 52) The excessive consumption of alcohol can be prevented by most people. 53) The support of a family member, by other members of his family, in order to prevent any act of aggression on the other family members is required to become a personal goal continuously, day by day,
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for as long as we live. 54) Any act of aggression of one member by another family member is inadmissible and can not be justified. 55) How we love differs from person to person. 56) A more realistic and more intimate self- knowledge helps and contributes greatly to the maintenance of mature love. 57) A more realistic and more intimate self- knowledge helps and contributes greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 58) Mature love creates certain interdependencies between the two lovers but also gives them a lot of independence in many situations. 59) Increasing the ability to focus attention helps us and contributes to achieving independence. 60) Each of us needs to discover all his qualities and to grow as much as possible
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in order to increase our chances of achieving more and greater successes. 61) Managing more effectively our time, continuously, day by day, for as long as we live needs to be a personal goal. 62) Those who are superficial in what they do will be the first on the list of dismissals. 63) Individual qualities help and contribute greatly to achieving successes. 64) Without dedication we can not achieve great successes. 65) The actions of prevention help prevent many arguments. 66) Without dedication we can not achieve more effective actions. 67) Self- control helps us achieve a happy marriage. 68) Positive ideas help us achieve personal goals. 69) Pride must not be found among
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friends. 70) In any action we act, we expand our effectiveness if we have effective co operations. 71) Each of us needs to pay the attention and time needed to develop preventive thinking. 72) Each parent needs and must form and develop in his children, since they are small, positive thinking. 73) Humanist thinking contributes greatly to the humanization of society. 74) Determination is a quality that helps us and contributes greatly to achieving a happy marriage. 75) Sincerity is a quality that contributes greatly to maintaining mature love. 76) Sincerity contributes greatly to achieving true friendships. 77) It is permanently a necessary that
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we have only positive effective actions. Warning. Good luck. 78) Success is obtained only with positive effective actions. 79) Positive effective actions are those that carry out personal objectives. 80) Positive effective actions maintain a happy marriage. 81) It is necessary for children to learn continuously, day by day, only positive effective actions. 82) There are still too many parents who do not give the attention and time needed to educate and raise their children. 83) Each of the parents should be positive and effective models for their children. 84) Effective co operations and developments are due to very positive effective actions. 85) We can achieve a happy life only
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through positive effective actions. 86) Only effective positive actions should be promoted. 87) Superficiality in action prevents us to achieve positive effective actions. 88) Bad faith breaks many true friendships. 89) Bad faith leads to the ending of many effective co operations. 90) Bad faith makes those who give evidence of bad faith be rejected by others. 91) Bad faith between spouses ultimately leads to divorce. 92) Bad faith is not appreciated by anyone. 93) Laziness of one of the spouses is likely to lead to divorce. 94) Laziness has never led to anything. 95) Laziness makes people who are lazy be put on the lists of dismissals.
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96) Laziness has never led to the achievement of any success. 97) In reality there are many more incredible facts than people think can happen. 98) People want be respected but in many behaviors, unfortunately, they are thick-skinned. 99) Senselessness is a much unappreciated behavior. 100) Each of us must reject rude behaviors. 101) Illiterate people as well as literate ones sometimes have behaviors that lack common sense. 102) Lack of common sense is an unacceptable defect of any man. 103) Lack of good sense is also very harmful to those who have it. 104) Many of us reject those who do not have the good sense to make us friends.
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105) Those who are thick-skinned often have no shame for their lack of common sense. 106) They have shame only those persons who have common sense. 107) Shame is a reaction that shows that a man has good sense. 108) He who has no shame has no common sense. 109) Senselessness in the relationship between spouses, if repeated, often leads to the destruction of the happy marriage. 110) Mature love gives us additional powers. 111) Effective positive actions contribute greatly to a happy marriage. 112) We sympathize those who have positive effective actions. 113) It is an absurdity. Those who are more thick-skinned ask and pretend to be respected unconditionally.
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114) It is an absurdity. Those who are unfair towards others ask others to be fair with them. 115) Lack of common sense revolts many people. 116) Common sense is a fundamental quality which is necessary and required for each of us to have in any situation. 117) Some who believe they are cool and who demand unconditional respect do not have at least common some sense in many situations. 118) There still are, unfortunately, in the XXI st century dignitaries in many countries which do not have any common sense, having the boldness to hold their position that they can not cope with. 119) Those who have common sense succeed to master it when people who have no common sense have behaviors that lack common sense.
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120) There still are, unfortunately, in 2007, so many people without common sense. 121) He who is bold has no common sense. 122) He who is cunning has common sense to succeed in his cunningness. 123) Sometimes life offers us incredible situations. Some employees are very hardworking, they risk their health and even their life at work for a business to be effective and to succeed and all these employees sometimes steal from the company where they work, harming themselves a lot. 124) Unfortunately in 2007 still in many countries the abnormal takes the place of the normal and many people do not do anything to turn around the reality so that the normal takes the place of abnormalities more and more.
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125) Although abnormalities enormously harm many people, there are still people in many countries who are very passive, inactive to replace the abnormalities with normality. 126) Abnormalities in our society greatly hinder our chances of achieving personal goals. 127) We feel true happiness when we have a happy marriage. 128) A happy marriage is a shield against lifes troubles. 129) A happy marriage helps us to more effectively develop a harmonious personality. 130) In a happy marriage as opposed to in an unhappy marriage it is much more likely to raise and educate children better and more efficiently. 131) Insults can not be found in human relations.
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132) Repeated insults between friends are likely to destroy the real friendship. 133) Repeated insults between spouses have very high chances to destroy a happy marriage. 134) Insulting is a primitive behavior. 135) Insulting does not create anything positive. 136) Insulting gives evidence of lack of common sense. 137) Insulting is making a big mistake. 138) Insulting harms the one who does so sometimes very badly. 139) Cunningness of two friends destroys their friendship. 140) In addition to being a bastard a bastard man hasnt at least any common sense many times. 141) Unscrupulousness removes the others from the unscrupulous one. 142) Unscrupulousness is very
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repugnant. 143) Fear to act in a certain field is created sometimes by having no experience in that field. 144) Those who have achieved a happy marriage are necessary to have as a personal objective the protection of the happy marriage every day. 145) Life sometimes seems very simple, sometimes very complicated. 146) A balanced life helps us very much to keep our marriage happy. 147) A balanced life helps us get a lot more success. 148) Hopes make our life more beautiful. 149) Hopes create our happiness 150) Hopes contribute to a situation where we feel good. 151) Hopes are creators of optimism. 152) Hopes contribute to creating enthusiasm.
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153) Those who have the same hopes are united by those hopes. 154) Activism is the creator of success. 155) Activism maintains our health. 156) Activism makes our life more beautiful. 157) Activism helps us and contributes very much to have more opportunities to meet more favorable circumstances. 158) Activism helps us very much, and increases our chances of achieving personal goals. 159) Moral qualities help us keep our happy marriage. 160) The hopes of both spouses contribute greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 161) Hopes create our personal goals. 162) Hopes make us form our long-term thinking. 163) Hopes make us be more dynamic.
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164) Hopes help us and make us not give up. 165) Hopes maintain us consistently optimistic. 166) Hopes are very constructive. 167) Hopes create our energy. 168) Hopes are the creators of happiness. 169) One hope can be a creator of another hope or of other hopes. 170) Life without hope is a life left to chance. 171) Those who are arrogant are rejected many times in many actions by those who are not arrogant. 172) Arrogance is a brake, is an obstacle to achieving many friendships. 173) Brutality removes us from others. 174) Brutality is a primitive behavior. 175) Brutality is an inefficiency of education. 176) Aberrations reduce the credibility of
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the one who tells aberrations. 177) Aberrations disqualify the one who tells aberrations. 178) Aberrations unfortunately sometimes cause so much harm. 179) Unfortunately, sometimes some aberrations are not considered aberrations although they are aberrations. 180) Sometimes we can destroy our credibility only by a single negative deed. 181) Credibility is also created by positive facts. 182) Credibility is very important although many people do not take it as a great value. 183) It is very hard to build credibility, but you can lose it very easily. 184) Very often it is better not to give our opinion than to talk only for the sake of talking. 185) Promptness is a very effective
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behavior. 186) Promptness made people rich. 187) Promptness is an essential human business quality. 188) Promptness in relations with others shows that we respect that person. 189) Promptness helps us and contributes greatly to the achievement of our personal goals. 190) Promptness is also a quality of an efficient man. 191) Promptness is appreciated by all of us. 192) Promptness helps and contributes to increasing our credibility. 193) Sometimes prejudices harm those who have them a lot. 194) It is required to discover all prejudices and no longer use them. 195) Prejudices are often the causes of many failures.
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196) A balanced life helps us keep our spiritual equilibrium. 197) Hopes slow our aging. 198) Hopes help us contribute to having more opportunities to meet more favorable circumstances. 199) Immorality makes the immoral ones be rejected by others. 200) Immorality undermines the very immoral one. 201) Immorality is a factor of many failures. 202) Immorality is a question of many misfortunes. 203) He who is immoral is not credible in many situations. 204) Sometimes hopes are verminous. 205) Our future is very much influenced by our hopes. 206) The quality of our objectives determines the quality of our future.
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207) The Internet can help us enormously to achieve a happier future. 208) The moral beauty of a woman complements her natural beauty and makes her more attractive. 209) There are men who appreciate more the moral beauty than the physical beauty of a woman. 210) The actions of our past help us very much to expand the effectiveness of our present and future. 211) Very unfortunately many people talk for the sake of talking, or for other reasons and do not think about what they are saying. 212) Those who speak without thinking what they are talking harm themselves. 213) Our time is too valuable to lose it with small things. 214) The more able we are to use our time more effectively the more quickly we
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are able to achieve our objectives. 215) The work of journalists is particularly important for society and people, only when you contribute positively to the good of society. 216) Every journalist has a great responsibility towards himself, towards others, towards society because of the possible impact of what he does, which may be a positive or negative case. 217) Unfortunately there are still journalists in the world who have forgotten the great responsibility they have because of the work they do. 218) The work of journalists is very risky, which shows that those journalists demonstrate concrete, practical responsibility. 219) The work of correct journalists must be supported by all of us, appreciated and rewarded at its just value, according to the
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case. 220) The work of journalists is more important than it is supported by the state. 221) The work of journalists should be more supported by the society, the state and the people, because of its special importance to the good of the people. 222) States must provide journalists with more protection than before to threats and risks of their activities, some of which are very big. 223) It is necessary and required to assist the work of journalists with everything that is necessary. 224) Trade unions should have only a constructive role in everything they do. 225) Trade unions must participate constructively, work with the management to streamline employment, to solve problems for working people and companies in order to prevent bankruptcy,
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unemployment. 226) Trade unions should be more concerned about finding jobs for those who have reduced employment for objective reasons. 227) People who have hopes always have employment. 228) Inner beauty can compensate for physical beauty. 229) Natural beauty is worth much less without inner beauty. 230) If the environment is not positive it should not influence us. 231) Each of us must work to be better, not expect to be better. 232) We will certainly be better if we act effectively to be better in addition to other factors that make us better. 233) People should know that by their actions for a better society each can contribute more or less to a better world.
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234) The participation of each man in the world through positive, concrete and effective actions for the implementation of a better world creates a huge force that will have enormously incredible positive effects. 235) The states institutions need to manage the public money more carefully, more efficiently, more responsibility because now this leaves much to be desired. 236) The states need and must build a sufficient number of kindergartens to ensure children's harmonious growth and education corresponding to their personality. 237) There are many situations in which women have greater efficiency than men. 238) Sometimes there are certain situations in which women do what men can do.
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239) Men need to respect women for their outstanding positive facts. 240) Women should not feel that men are complexing them. 241) The respect of the family can be achieved through respect for the other. 242) It is unbelievable, but it is a reality. Some want to be respected but they do not respect the others. 243) Respect requires respect. 244) He who has no common sense has no respect for others. 245) States have as a main objective, in addition to others, to ensure a quality of life appropriate for people. 246) States unfortunately do too little to ensure a proper quality of human life. 247) States are not sufficiently concerned with the creation of work places. 248) States are not sufficiently concerned, in a necessary and effective
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way, with the prevention of the lack of compliance with the laws. 249) Self-knowledge helps us form the qualities that we do not have but that we need. 250) A more profound self- knowledge increases more and more our chances to come across more favorable circumstances. 251) Some journalists risk their work, freedom, health, life for us to offer society and people as much as they can but we do not unfortunately know and do not appreciate them, reward them enough for what they do for us. 252) The work of journalists is very risky, full of many risks and in many cases they are persecuted or beaten unjustly and they do not have ensured, unfortunately, a necessary and legal protection. 253) They deserve to be appreciated,
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honored, respected and rewarded, all those journalists who do not act by order to unjustly hit some people, or groups of people. 254) A journalist who knowingly, for some reward, misinforms private citizens has no moral right to be a journalist, but also because legally his facts are crimes. 255) Pettiness is a very big flaw that harms greatly also the petty one. 256) Children are suffering very high mental trauma when parents divorce. Dear parents, if you have children, before the divorce, look to find solutions to prevent the divorce and to achieve a happy marriage for both you and your children. To be sure you have the qualities required and can perform a real, happy marriage, if both of you cooperate sincerely, if you are both more tolerant with each other, if you make all the compromises necessary, if
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you do not worry about all kinds of complexes, if you want to understand the other, if you lose pride to nonsense, if you do what is necessary for both spouses and children to be happy and there is no need to do something the other does not desire, but what the situation requires to have a happy marriage. Trust in yourselves, you do not play with your marriage, your children, with your happiness because you have the qualities necessary to have a happy marriage and happy children and to surpass all the difficulties that appear. 257) The qualities of the wife make the husband happy. 258) The qualities of parents make children happy. 259) Men without women can not be fully happy again. 260) Women ensure true marital happiness.
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261) What parents can provide children nobody can give them, never. Warning. So, do not get a divorce. 262) Parental love and warmth can not be given to children by anyone. Warning. Do not get a divorce. 263) The joys that are given to children by their mother are unique and nobody can replace them. So, do not get a divorce. 264) The joys that are also given to children by their father are unique and nobody can replace them. So, do not get a divorce. 265) Moral values help us a lot to maintain a happy marriage. 266) Constructive thinking makes us believable. 267) The desire to succeed in life must be appreciated. 268) Positive actions must be rewarded. 269) The strong desire to succeed in life
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increases our chances to do so. 270) The desire to succeed in life helps us a lot to achieve more successes. 271) The desire to succeed in life must be supported. 272) Happy long-lasting marriages have many positive effects.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88999-4-0

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