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Nothing kills productivity like waking up at 10am to start your day, or waking up with just enough time to sloppily get dressed and race to work, arriving frantically and foggybrained. You try to get through your To-Do List but before you know it, it is time for dinner, and then Isha prayer, and you are feeling quite unaccomplished. The problem is that you had a good 2-5 hours during which you could have achieved maximized productivity, but you slept through it! What time am I talking about? The time right after Fajr prayers. It is a blessed time that Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him) made dua for, He said: O Allah, bless my Ummah in its early hours. Here are 7 ways to help you stay up after Fajr to become a beneficiary of blessings and success inshaAllah:
c. Pray Then after you have prayed, do not allow yourself to get back into bed. Perhaps splashing your face with cold water, having a bite to eat, or drinking some water or fruit juice will help brush off any drowsiness.
5. Recite/reflect/memorize Quran
After Fajr prayer is an amazing time to be alone with the Quran. Before the days distractions set you off course, use this time to recite, reflect and memorize The Quran. If you are like me, if I do not read my daily dose of the Quran in the morning, I find it incredibly difficult to sit after work or at the end of the day to try to get some quality time
with the Quran. Believe me, you will feel the benefit when you start your day remembering Allah. Establish prayer at the decline of the sun [from its meridian] until the darkness of the night and [also] the Quran of dawn. Indeed, the recitation of dawn is ever witnessed. (17:78)
6. Exercise
An early morning walk or stretches will get your blood moving and you will find that you have the energy to stay up and make the most of your day inshaAllah.
Its Jumuah! The most blessed day of the week! So how do we make the most of it?
Depending whether Friday is a day off for you or not, weve covered below some key activities to make most of your Jumuah which you can judge how best to fit in your life inshaAllah. The important thing to remember is that this day is truly special and you should give it due consideration.
Remember that day you had that big event and you spent hours in the bathroom cleaning every part of your body and putting every sort of perfume on? Thats exactly how you should prepare for Jumuah! Take a good clean shower, make sure you perform the Sunan Al-Fitra from cutting nails, removing hair from armpits and removing pubic hair, putting loads of perfume, etc. Make sure your Jumuah thobe or clothes are neat, clean and pressed and not something you wore 2 days ago and is stained or crumpled! Also, take special care of oral hygiene: spend the recommended 4 minutes brushing your teeth, use alcohol-free mouthwash, miswak/siwak basically, get squeaky clean! Narrated Abu Said Al-Khudr: I testify that Allahs Messenger (Peace and blessings be upon him) said, The taking of bath on Friday is compulsary for every Muslim who has attained the age of puberty and also cleaning of teeth with Siwak and using perfume, if available. [Translation of Sahih Bukhari] 2. Go to the masjid early No, I dont mean 10 minutes before the Khateeb enters the masjid, but really early like a couple of hours and try to go there walking instead if the masjid isnt too far. Try to be the first one there and remember this hadeeth: Narrated Abu Hurairah: Allahs Messenger (Peace and blessings be upon him) said,When it is Jumuah, the Angels stand at the gate of the masjid and keep on writing the names of the persons coming to the masjid in succession according to their arrivals. The example of the one who enters the masjid in the earliest hour is that of one offering a camel (in sacrifice); the one coming next is like one offering a cow; and then a ram; and then a chicken; and then an egg respectively. When the Imam comes out (for Jumuah sermon) they (i.e. Angels) fold their papers and listen to the sermon. [Translation of Sahih Al-Bukhari] The above two points about being clean and going early are combined beautifully in this hadeeth: Narrated Salman Al-Farisi: Allahs Messenger (Peace and blessings be upon him) said,Anyone who takes a bath and cleanses himself as much as he can and puts oil or scents himself; and then proceeds for the Salat and does not separate two persons sitting together in Mosque for the Salaat-ul-Jumuah and offer salat as much as is written for him and remains quite when the Imam delivers the Khutba, all his sins in-between the present and the last Friday will be forgiven. [Translation of Sahih Al-Bukhari] 3. Dont forget your prayer and rememberance Fill up your time at the masjid with prayer and abundance of remembrance, especially sending salutations upon the Prophet (Peace and blessings be upon him).
Narrated Aus bin Aus: The Messenger of Allah (Peace and blessings be upon him) said,Among the best of your days is Friday; so supplicate Allah more often for me in it, for your supplications will be displayed to me. He was asked: O Messenger of Allah! How will our blessings be displayed to you when your decayed body will have mixed with the earth? He (Peace and blessings be upon him) replied, Allah has prohibited the earth from consuming the bodies of the Prophets. [Abu Dawud]
hour in which prayers will be answered, and your dua will be answered!(Here is a link to an authentic explanation to this) I hope Ive covered everything that you can do to make the most of your Friday. As I said in the beginning, Jumuah needs preparation and planning so you can make the most of it. So whether you have a day off on Jumuah, half a day, or it will be a normal working day for you, make extra preparation for Jumuah to make the most of it inshaAllah.
live without them! Although some latest scientific research has thrown immense light on the marvellous benefits that different types of foods provide to our body, did you know that these properties were discovered hundreds of years ago by the Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) and his Companions? Even with enormous advancement in technology, we are battling a larger number of diseases than what our grandparents had to deal with. So, where exactly are we going wrong? Let us turn back the pages in history and rewind 1,400 years to discover the amazing health secrets Prophet Muhammad (S) and his civilisation were applying in their lives through the types of foods they had incorporated in their daily diet. Listed below are five super foods you will find may affect your productivity levels:
Honey:
Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: Healing is in three things: A gulp of honey, cupping, and branding with fire. But I forbid my followers to use (cauterization) branding with fire. (Sahih Bukhari) The Quran testifies to the healing nature of honey, when Allah says: And your Lord revealed to the bee saying: Make hives in the mountains and in the trees and in what they build: Then eat of all the fruits and walk in the ways of your Lord submissively. There comes forth from within it a beverage of many colors, in which there is healing for men; most surely there is a sign in this for a people who reflect. (Surah An-Nahl, Verses 68-69) Did you know that honey could be used for treating stress, anemia, burns, insomnia, osteoporosis, and abdominal pain? It can also kick off fatigue, digestion related problems; relieve symptoms of sore throat and nasal congestion. So instead of pumping your body with artificial supplements to boost your immune system, utilize this supplement to cure your physical and psychological ailments.
Dates:
These were an indispensable part of the Prophetic diet. Packed with high quality sugars like sucrose and fructose, dates act as instant energy boosters. They are easy to digest and have a plethora of water-soluble vitamins along with crucial minerals like calcium and iron. Dates have been mentioned more than twenty times in the Quran under various situations, highlighting the immense importance these wonder foods possess. It is narrated that the Prophet (peace and blessing be upon him) said: If somebody takes pressed dates every morning, he will not be effected by poison or magic on that day till night. (Sahih Bukhari 7:663)
Milk:
If you were thinking milk was purely meant for children, think again! As a drink, it was the custom of our Prophet (S) to have a combination of dates and milk to get the best out of both. Apart from being rich in calcium, did you know that milk provides several vitamins and minerals in the right proportions, helping your stomach digest and utilize them to the maximum? They are extremely rich in proteins too. These build up your immune system, helping you fight off microorganisms.
Whole grains:
After the hullaballoo of fast foods, people have gone back to traditional methods of including whole grains in their diet. Brown bread has become the latest fad with every diet conscious person swearing about the numerous health benefits. Whole grains are packed with nutrients, vitamins, minerals, complex carbohydrates and fiber.
What does this mean for you? Well, by including whole grains, you are giving your body a perfect concoction of super beneficial nutrients. In other words, you are keeping obesity, nutritional deficiencies, diabetes, digestive problems and cancer at bay inshaAllah. Whenever a person of the family of Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) fell sick then it was ordered that the barley gruel should be prepared for him. Then he used to state: It removes the grief of the patients heart, removes its weakness as any of you removes the dirt from your face after washing it. (Ibn Majah). Barley, oats, brown bread and whole wheat are some options you can consider.
Olive oil:
Scientists vouch for it, nutritionists cannot get enough of it and it holds an enviable place in the family of cooking oils. Allah also mentions it in the Quran. (See Chapter 24, Verse 35) Olive oil is power packed with antioxidants that can prevent cancer and premature aging. It is extremely rich in unsaturated fats, preventing the possibility of you developing cardiovascular diseases and cholesterol related problems. One of the Companions, Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates that the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) stated: Eat the olive oil and apply it (locally), since there is cure for seventy diseases in it, one of them is leprosy. (Abu Naim) In the above article on Blog Action Day I hope to have inspired you to revive your intake of some of these super energy foods with multiple benefits. Its evident that the Islamic civilisation and history offer practical ways forward in consumption of food. What scientific discoveries are revealing today was understood and exploited hundreds of years ago! With the verse of Allah which means: Oh mankind! Eat of that which is lawful and good on the earth (Chapter 2, Verse 168) it is not surprising to learn that the Prophet and Muslims have been using several foods for curing mild to severe forms of sickness. I hope the aforementioned foods will be a part of your daily diet and youll share tips below on other super energy foods you love!
During the three months of summer, many of us abandoned or at least neglected a routine. We basked in the summer laxness. As the school year begins, it is most definitely time to get back on track! Whether you are homeschooling or your children are attending school outside of the home, routines have to be established for our children to be productive and successful students! After-School Routines pave the way for success. What are your children doing after school when they come home? Do you have some order set at home? There are several ways we can get our children in the habit of following a routine and making the most of after school time.
2) Homework/Studying/Review
This is where some parents slip up some children are allowed to lounge for long periods of time and then hurriedly do their homework just before bedtime. The sooner they do their homework, the better. We are teaching to our children now that it is not okay to procrastinate, and that once we handle our responsibilities, then we can afford the luxury of other activities. While the school lessons are fresh in mind, take time to work with your child on their homework; if your child did not understand the days lesson, take the time you spend working on the homework together as time to also help them understand the lesson. This is a time that requires patience and positive affirmation. It is difficult for you or the child to understand the lesson/homework if its being rushed, so it is advisable to do this in the earlier part of the routine.
4) Family time
Make dinner a time to have that quality bonding time and memorable moments. Growing up I have many memorable moments at the dinner table. Also take this time to explain to your children what will be happening next that after dinner you will do x, y, and z (the night time routine, whether that includes story, bath, brushing teeth, etc.). This way, everyone will know what to expect and it will become a habit and what we strive to teach as aspects of being future successful adults: routines, preparations, time management. Homeschooling moms such as myself should alter this list to their homeschooling schedule and also teach the importance of keeping a routine. While this is not included above, activities should be scheduled around the prayer times so that you teach the importance and establish the practice of praying punctually inshaAllah. Also pray as a family, the hearts are joined together when we pray together. As well, it is beneficial to schedule some time even if it is just 15 minutes or half an hour to have deen time here are some ideas: you can teach them Arabic/tajweed (how to read The Quran), read a Prophetic story, discuss an Islamic character trait/virtue, explain the basics of Islam, memorize a short surah with them, listen to an Islamic video. Treat this as an exciting activity to similarly inspire enthusiasm among your children, and ensure that this time is particularly enjoyable and engaging
(discussions, questions, quizzes). You can incorporate Islamic learning during After School Routines, reciting duaas at the dinner table and ending the day by reciting Ayatul Kursi before sleeping, and making duaas for the ummah/family/friends. Its easy to add acts of ibadah all throughout the day, and turn are actions into ibadah. Establishing good habits starts from an early age. My four year old has his schedule on the wall that was made by Creative Motivations and so he is able to check off for himself the things he did that day. His schedule includes home-school, breakfast, potty time, bath, etc and this helps him to learn the same important steps that will help him in the future. Raising productive successful children is part of our mission; lets do that in the best way! Implementing these simple steps is a good start on our road to productivity inshaAllah! About the Author Ameera Rahim is part of the parenting team known as Habeebee Homeschooling (http://habeebeehomeschooling.wordpress.com) and is seen often providing support, resources, and sharing her familys homeschooling journey on facebookwww.facebook.com/habeebeehomeschooling. She resides with her loving husband Ameer Idris in New York where they homeschool their three boys and love sharing their hands-on learning experience. Ameera advocates early learning, family bonding, and early literacy in the homes.
Whether you live in a Muslim society with a masjid around every corner, or in a non-Muslim country where the masjid is the lifeline of the community, you should appreciate your masjid and support it. Here are some top tips on how to be a productive member of your masjid:
1. Be Aware:
Find out whats happening at your masjid, and how you can support the projects already in place. You can simply e-mail, call or visit the masjid and say you would like to volunteer and offer your help if they need it. Dont consider any task too small, for Allah is Ash-Shakur (The Most Appreciative) and we will need every good deed we can get on the Day of Judgment. If your masjid is not a very vibrant one, think of how your masjid can go beyond serving the spiritual needs of your community and support its educational and social demands too. Perhaps your community needs a series of classes on seerah (biography of the Prophet, Peace and blessings be upon him), or Muslim youth activities; identify what your community needs and send this suggestion to the Management/Board of the masjid and volunteer yourself for the project.
Holding halaqas are a great way to encourage members to participate and get more involved in the masjid.
3. Donate Regularly:
Another essential way to be active in the masjid is by donating regularly. The masjid is the place where so many Muslims belonging to different backgrounds meet and worship Allah in congregation. It is your duty to ensure the upkeep and maintenance of the masjid. Therefore, donate to the masjid, and keep the spirit of sadaqah in your life all year round.
8. Utilize vacations
Why not initiate a summer program for the kids? During the school vacations, the masjid can be of great benefit and service by gathering the young (and old) and making them memorize The Noble Quran, or teaching Islamic manners and character. At the end of the summer vacation, you can distribute desserts or prizes to encourage and reward the children.
7 Productive Steps To Balance Your Study Schedule How can an individual balance his/her time to engage in community service, develop extra-curricular activities, complete school assignments on time, prepare for exams, increase in worship, focus during prayers, spend quality time with friends and family, and work on a part-time basis?
Obligatory prayers and fasts (during Ramadan) Obligatory charity and community service Studies (both secular and Islamic) Extra-curricular activities (ECAs) Part-time job
A student usually divides the day into time slots (specific number of hours), and apportions a couple of hours to each activity. However, what if you do not have enough hours for one activity, and/or a conflict of interest arises? This is when you should prioritize. If you have two activities at hand obligatory prayers and studies then, needless to say, you must offer your prayers first. Similarly, you need to put studies above ECAs and jobs, because better opportunities for ECAs and jobs usually come and go, but you will not get a second chance to sit for your exams. Also, studies are important if you want to get a good job to earn a living, to give in charity, to influence others positively, to initiate social development projects, or even to visit the House of Allah. Reduce activities which are not priorities, such as chatting endlessly on Skype/Facebook. Surprisingly, these not-so-important activities take up most of our time. Why? Because we lose focus, and do not prioritize. Before taking up any project/activity, ask yourself: a. Is it important/obligatory? b. Can this be done later? Prepare your list of priorities based on the answers of the above two questions.
3. Do Not Procrastinate
Do not wait for the last minute. A time clash usually occurs when you let your work pile up. If you have exams next week, start preparing now, so that if you have an exciting competition/project taking place at the same time as your exams, you can easily participate without fretting over your exam preparation.
Similarly, if you plan to develop a particular hobby, do it during your vacation way before the exam pressure kicks in. If you are eager to participate in a competition an essay writing competition for instance then write as many essays as possible, or at least create some basic plots for your essay, during your vacation. That way, if there is a competition taking place when you are already reeling with exam preparation, you can easily participate by turning in an essay which you have already written (if it suits the criteria of the competition).
5. Understand Yourself
Understand your capacity! Do not think you can take up 24 projects because you have 24 hours. Many projects require, for example, 8 hours of work. Therefore, decide wisely, and remember to leave sufficient time for all other activities. Remember, stretching yourself very thin may impact the quality of the services/volunteer work you offer. Choose your participation wisely and commit yourself completely when you do offer your time and energy.
avoid missing deadlines and appointments take up only as many projects as possible according to your capacity and time avoid a time clash (too many assignments / more than one appointment at the same time) prepare early for an excellent outcome
7. Make Duaa
Did you prepare a list of duaa to make during Ramadan? Well, incorporate this list during the rest of the months of the year! Include prayers for time management, too. Ask Allah to grant you the skills of time management, and to bless your time and effort. About the Author Khadeejah Islam is a philanthropic Muslimah and is currently enrolled in a secular degree program in Business Administration and in various Islamic programs. She is a contributing writer at Habibi Halaqas (www.habibihalaqas.org), Productive Muslim (www.productivemuslim.com), and now at Working Muslim (www.workingmuslim.com). Apart from the Quran, Sunnah, and Islamic literature, she learns from personal experiences and social interactions. She loves reading, writing, working, and engaging in beneficial causes. She believes that each one of us has the potential to bring about a positive change to this world, which will be beneficial in the Hereafter.
become better.
For instance, remembering how we may have spent time during Ramadan unproductively last year may motivate us to utilize time fruitfully this Ramadan. Many associate aging with memory loss, but it doesnt have to be that way as demonstrated by +80 grandparents who complete memorization of The Quran! The following are some tips to strengthen your memory:
Use it or Lose it
Treat you brain as a muscle if you want to keep it fit and agile, you have to use it. Reading books, memorizing Quran, memorizing beneficial knowledge, and prayer are all the best way for Muslims to exercise their mind. The sense of being closer to Allah (The Exalted) will also protect us from depression which has negative effects on the mind. If you like, you could also try other academic exercises or mental challenges for fun.
Brain Food
A well-balanced diet is beneficial to keep your memory at its best. A recent study conducted in France has found that use of olive oil improves visual memory and verbal fluency. The virtue of the olive is also mentioned in The Quran, and Allah (The AllWise) takes an oath by this special food (95:1). Foods that contain high omega-3 content, such as salmon, are also important for the memory and brain function. Furthermore, your memory needs adequate sugar and vitamins that most of that will naturally be in your diet (if its not, try honey, dates, blueberries, and almonds).
Rest
Taking a nap improves memory and mood, promotes physical well-being, and sharpen senses. Napping has many benefits so taking a 15-30 minute before or after Zhuhr should significantly affect your intellectual performance, energy level, and plus its sunnah!
Recent German research lab finds that sleep helps memory shaping. Sleep is needed to clear the brains short-term memory storage and create space for new information. Sleep and nighttime is yet another mercy and blessing from Allah, The Most Generous: It is out of His Mercy that He has put for you night and day, that you may rest therein (i.e. during the night) and that you may seek of His Bounty (i.e. during the day), and in order that you may be grateful. [28: 73]
Ask for it
If you want a good memory, ask Al-Mujib (The Answerer of Prayers). Ask Allah (Subhanahu wa Taala) for what you need beneficial knowledge, understanding, good memory. Our memory is indeed a true blessing of Allah, and we should be grateful for it. To show our appreciation, let us keep it healthy and use it for beneficial purposes that lead us to get closer to Allah, The Most Merciful. References : 1. Rauchs, G. et al. 2011. Sleep contributes to the strengthening of some memories over others, depending on hippocampal activity at learning. J. Neuroscience. 31 (7): 2563-2568. 2. The Memory Cure How to Protect Your Brain Against Memory Loss & Alzheimers Disease by Majid Fotuhi, M. D., PH. D. McGraw- Hill, 2003. 3. Keep Your Brain Young by Guy McKhann, M.D & Marilyn Albert, Ph.D. John Wiley & Sons, Inc, 2002. About the author Rushda Abraham is a French Muslim Woman Magazine journalist.
Ask yourself, what is the alternative that you are focused on right now? Is it something important, like helping your parents, or is it something leisurely, like watching TV or surfing the Internet? If it is a matter of fulfilling a responsibility to your parents or another commitment, then perhaps it makes sense to see this not as an excuse, but as a valid reason. While limited leisurely activities are fine, it is important not to make them the focus of your day. More importantly, do not forgo good deeds for them. The solution to this would be to be very conscious and very wary of such whispers from the Shaytaan and the nafs. When the thought of opening the Quran is immediately followed by this whisper, your mind should stand upright. Seek refuge in Allah, The Exalted, and just dive in. Ill do it, just not right now. Ill do it later. This is closely connected to the excuse of having other things to do, but it should be listed separately because it is perhaps an even more deceptive excuse. By using this reasoning, one is putting a task to an indefinite unwarranted future. The best way to break this excuse would be to focus on the fact that one has the most control over the present. Realizing the importance of making the most of the present also involves reflecting on the fact that we could be taken from this dunya at any time. Some of the early scholars of Islam used to say, If the remembrance of death leaves our hearts for an hour, our hearts will become rotten. [Dham Qaswat al-Qulub Ibn Rajab) If we want to strive to be intelligent Muslims, we must reflect on death, and as we do that we realize how important it is to not put off until later what we have the ability to do right now. I dont have the resources. Ill start learning about fiqh when I can make hijrah and study with scholars. I need my own room to concentrate and study, and until that happens I cant study the Quran. My laptop is dying, and until I get that fixed I wont be able to do the research I was supposed to do. To break your excuses, remind yourself that where there is a will, there is a way. Are there too many distractions at home? Go to the library. Waiting on a book or any other resource? While you are waiting, look elsewhere to start learning about the topic before you receive it. By making excuses due to your circumstances, you are putting yourself in a state of mind that is not ready to accept knowledge, iman, or self-improvement. If you find that you are lacking something you need to be a better person, pray earnestly to Allah (The
Exalted), and at the same time refuse to be dissuaded and actively seek alternative means. I dont have the energy. Physically speaking, low energy is often caused by not getting enough sleep or exercise, or by having a diet that is too rich in carbohydrates. To gain physical energy, you owe it to Allah to be in a good state of physical fitness. You also need to tap into the resource of spiritual energy so that one is charged and fired up and ready to do a good act, regardless of ones level of physical energy. I find that the most efficient way of breaking the low energy excuse to think of those who are in an incredibly high state of iman. Such people do not get drained by worship and good deeds; they are energized by it. Just like you shouldnt think that giving zakat or sadaqah reduces your wealth, you shouldnt think that engaging in good acts and improving yourself as a person will sap your strength. So you can try and emulate such people and make dua that Allah make good deeds a source of nourishment for you. InshaAllah the more effort it takes for you to complete an act, the greater the reward you will receive for it. I dont have enough time Have you ever noticed how some people manage to do so many things? How do you think they do it? Its because they have made the most of the barakah in each given day. If you follow the general steps to being a more productive Muslim,you will find that time is something that can be in great abundance and barakah.
Have you shouldered more than you can handle, or doing any extra activity that will not benefit you in the long run? When the above steps dont work, you might need to examine your activities and make a decision about which one you will have to let go. It is not until the ummah understands these excuses, and the power to overcome them, we can truly start benefiting from Allahs immense mercy and bounty. To end, I would like to remind us of Surat-ul-Asr: By time, Indeed, mankind is in loss, Except for those who have believed and done righteous deeds and advised each other to truth and advised each other to patience. (103:1-3) Have you recently stopped making excuses and started getting things done? Share with us how you did it in the comments section below. About the author Sarah Farrukh is an Information Studies graduate student at the University of Toronto. Her interests include books, publishing and the digital age. She blogs at A Muslimah Writes. amuslimahwrites.wordpress.com
have your dinner and take it to your wife. So the man put the pot next to the entrance of the tent, Umm Kulthum took it and began feeding the woman who had just delivered. Before they left, Umar Ibn al-Khattab told him: Tomorrow morning you come to me and Ill give you the pension (or the payment) for your newborn child. SubhanAllah, an amazing story and lesson from our past this was a night in the life of Umar Ibn al-Khattab (May Allah be pleased with him). He was indeed a super productive Muslim. He made use of every moment of his day and night to serve others, to truly lead this Ummah. He understood productivity, and therefore it is key to walk through the pages of history and look at the lives of these people.
Practical Tips:
To help you take action on the above, here are some practical tips: 1. Reflect on The Quran. Ponder on the verses, and try to implement its lesson in your life. It took Umar (may Allah be pleased with him) several years to memorize Surah Baqarah because he would work to enact each verse that he memorized he strove to carry the Quran in his heart and mind, speech and actions. 2. Learn from the pious predecessors
They arent just people or stories we hear about and say wow, mash Allah, and then go on with our lives as usual. We should take inspiration and lessons from the lives of the Sahaba (May Allah be pleased with them). 3. Look out for opportunities to do good deeds We should not overlook small kindness or underestimate its value. On the Day of Judgment, we will need every good deed we can get. So whether its giving up your seat on the bus, donating some spare change, or greeting your brothers/sisters with a smile, we should look out for opportunities to do good deeds and race to them. 4. Care about the well-being of your neighbours and community Get involved in your community, whether its online, at the masjid, or at a seniors home. Indeed, you will find barakah in your time and increased productivity when you engage yourself in acts that bring good deeds inshaAllah. Therefore, know your past, know those illustrious examples, whom you may even be named after, and imitate those lives which will guarantee an exponential growth in your productivity. About the author Azim Kidwai is an aspiring ProductiveMuslim and General Manager of Mercy Mission.
Fasting during Ramadan does not only consist of refraining from food and drink, rather we must also protect ourselves from using bad language, backbiting, lying, and anger.
Unfortunately, for many of us, refraining from food also means an increase in anger and irritability, causing us to say some things we probably do not mean to. Here are some tips on how we can control our tongues (applicable outside of ramadan) and increase in patience both in our communication with others and within ourselves:
1. Think
The phrases think before you speak and if you dont have something nice to say, dont say anything at all seem clichd, but hold a lot of weight in the life of Muslims. It has sadly become common to be irritable when we are fasting, so we tend to snap quicker and say things we dont really mean. In order to combat this, think about what you are about to say before you open your mouth. It sounds simple, but we have become so accustomed to speaking without thinking that words just seem to fly out of our mouths before we know it. Tip: Try to take a couple moments before you speak to evaluate whether what you are about to say is beneficial or necessary. Use your hunger, weakness, tiredness (whatever it is that youre feeling) to prevent you from opening your mouth unnecessarily!). Spend more time doing dhikr, or thinking, or contemplating than wasting time on unnecessary speech, which is not beneficial and potentially harmful.
2. Apologize
Hard as it may be, if we do happen to say something that is hurtful to someone, just simply apologize. Whether it was what you said or how you said it, remind yourself to apologize for your misbehavior if you feel like you stepped out of line (regardless of whether or not the other person shows that they feel hurt or upset). This can have nothing but positive effects. Many of us have trouble apologizing to people and accepting our mistakes so it will both humble us and also ensure that we are more careful next time, because it can be pretty uncomfortable to accept your mistake and verbalize it. Secondly, it can help better your relationship with the other person, because you are showing that you are aware of their feelings and that you care about them.
3. Environment
If you are going to be with people, surround yourself with good company. It takes two to gossip. Most people who engage in backbiting and slandering will not do it all the time and with all people, in fact they may have a select group of friends who share this habit. If you find that certain people make it easier for you to engage in this, steer clear of this crowd! If you tend to be the person who begins it, find new friends or keep to yourself. Ramadan is the time to resolve these issues and improve control of your tongue, not just from eating!
4. Remind
Backbiting and lying are big sins, and forbidden in the Quran and as mentioned in various ahadith. Research and learn the punishment for backbiting one of the punishments is in the grave, so you can keep away from this sin by trying to visualise and sense how that would feel. If its swearing or cursing you want to leave behind, it is helpful to remind ourselves of the angels who write down all that we utter. Do we really want to make the angels record profanity? Do we want such vile words to be our last if the angel of death were to take our soul in that moment?
5. Reinforce
Lastly, a means of keeping ourselves on track is the old jar trick used by parents in past generations. The idea is essentially to keep a jar in the house in which you are required to drop a certain amount of money per failure to control your tongue, for example every time you swear or gossip. The amount of money should be significant enough to make you feel bad and regret your speech it costs more in the Hereafter! At the end of ramadan you can donate the money to charity, but the real purpose is to give you a physical representation of how serious it is and how much you need to improve. It helps to ask someone to hold you to your promise and remind you if you slip up.
Often we do not realize how many negative things we say in a day, but this blessed month is an opportunity to improve our character which can extend into the rest of our lives. About the Author
Asma Malek is a university student who attempts to follow her own advice in managing her time and keeping her level of imaan high.
Ask yourself:
a) When was the last time we cried making dua or reading Quran? b) When was the last time we really enjoyed our salah with full concentration? c) When was the last time we made Dua for those suffering around the world, or for our own families? We know we should pick up the Quran and just recite it, understand it, memorise it, but we dont make the time, because we allow ourselves to become so busy in our endeavours. However, even though weve been helping for such a long time, how have we helped ourselves to excel on a personal level? Your Akhirah matters, so you need focus on two elements the services you provide others and the things you have to do for your own tarbiyyah (spiritual wellbeing, growth). You need a balance between both of them, and not neglect either!
Say Bismillah to another day and show Allah how much you love Him! About the Author Alima Ashfaq is a young aspiring author, coach, entrepreneur, and speaker. She is the founder of i am Alima and currently the Ameerah of Qabeelat Fawz, a student body of AlMaghrib Institute. She is the author of Love Unveiled and Duas of a Superstar. Her mission is to assist sisters to attain superstar status in the life and the hereafter, neglecting neither! Visit iamAlima at www.iamAlima.com Or check her out on Facebook at https://www.facebook.com/IamAlimaOfficialPage
without a second thought. While the blessed month of Ramadan comes to an end, we can continue to engage in the beautiful ibadah (act of worship) of fasting. Allah (the Exalted) said: Every act of the son of Adam is for him except fasting. It is done for My sake, and I will give a reward for it (Sahih Muslim).
When to Fast
Abu Huraira (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: Deeds are shown (to Allah) on Mondays and Thursdays, and I like my deeds to be shown when I am fasting. (alTirmidhi). In another hadith, Abu Dharr (may Allah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said to me: If you fast any part of the month, then fast the thirteenth, fourteenth and fifteenth. (al-Tirmidhi). Note: there are some days which it is forbidden and disliked to fast on, so please ask an imam or scholar if you are unsure. So let us follow the Sunnah of our Prophet and fast on Mondays and Thursdays of every week and/or on the 13, 14 and 15th of every month. By the way, once you do this for a while, performing voluntary fasts will become a beautiful habit and routine in your life.
Make the intention now that you want to sincerely fast for the Pleasure of Allah, and seeking His reward. Until you get used to this, set up a weekly/monthly reminder in your phone, day planner, laptop, or just on a sticky note to remind you what days you will be fasting.
While you want your fast to be private and sincerely for Allah alone ( not for show or praise), you can get extra reward by encouraging others to join you in this sunnah act. You can encourage and motivate one another, and race for good deeds. Perhaps you wont feel like fasting one Monday, but if you remember your friend you will be fasting, you wont want to miss out on the reward and will want to also earn Allahs Pleasure, Reward, and Forgiveness, inshaAllah.
3. Involve your Family Members:
If you do not find a fasting buddy or if you live in a non-Muslim area, simply involve your family members. Educate them about the countless virtues of fasting, and you can volunteer to buy dates or cook iftar. InshaAllah by encouraging your family to do this extra good deed, more blessings and mercy will enter your household.
4. Build Family Ties:
Ramadan is a time when all the family members get to sit and eat together, sharing what they learnt or experienced, and feeling like a family. After Ramadan, we slip back into our normal routine rushing off to complete tasks, attend meetings, so on and so forth we might neglect the essence of spending quality time with each other. Lack of communication between parents and children or between spouses is also blamed on not finding sufficient time together. What better way to rekindle the love and affection between family members by fasting at least twice a week (Mondays and Thursdays) or thrice a month (13, 14 and 15th days of the Islamic calendar). You will feel love for the sake of Allah, and feel connect by the rope of Islam.
5. Make it fun:
Make this fasting routine interesting. To add a bit of fun to the occasion, organize quizzes and give away prizes to encourage fasting amongst youngsters. You can give each family member a chance to discuss about a (simple) Islamic topic or Muslim manners, preferably 30 minutes to an hour before iftaar. This would increase awareness about Islamic principles and character that need to be inculcated in each individual and in the family as a whole. This is a great method to identify what knowledge your family is missing and how to gain it, and to build family ties. Keep in mind that topics should be simple and within your capacity (eg. Most of us are not qualified to interpret and give commentary on hadith); if researching topics would not be an effective option for your family, one can show a lecture by a Shaykh or read a
passage from a book/commentary. The key here is to make time for yourselves rather than complaining about not having time. I would like to conclude with quotes by scholars who bring up points we should keep in mind: Al-Fudayl ibn-Iyaad said: Know that if you cant pray at night and you cant fast during the day, you are prevented and what prevents you is your number of sins, so look into your heart. Solution: Avoid sins, seek forgiveness, make dua, and push against your nafs Ibn Qayyim Al-Jaqziyyah said: The Shaytaan has misled most people by beautifying for them the performance of certain voluntary acts of worship such as voluntary prayers and voluntary fasting while neglecting other obligatory acts of worship such as enjoining the good and eradicating the evil, to the extent that they do not even make the intention of performing them whenever they are able to. Solution: We should strive to not neglect the obligatory acts of worship. Dear brothers and sisters, let us push ourselves to pursue the Hereafter by performing nafl fasts. Make an effort to please your Lord and learn about Islam together. It is a great way to train your mind, body, character and nafs all year round. Doing extra voluntary acts of worship is a means of gaining the Pleasure of Allah (The Exalted), if He Wills so let us take up this noble routine of voluntary fasting. What are some of your tips that help you stay committed to fasting well beyond Ramadan?
what if what I say is true? The Messenger of Allah said: If what you say about him is true, you are backbiting him, but if it is not true then you have slandered him. Why do people gossip? When someone loves to gossip, it is usually for one or more of the following reasons:
Ignorance Low Self-Confidence Envy Boredom/Wasting time Trying to impress you Low faith
What to do when people gossip? Sometimes we feel we have been dragged into it and really want to avoid situations where gossip takes place, and though we really want to do it, we dont know how toget out of the conversation let alone put a stop to it. Here are some tips to help you out inshaAllah: 1. Praise the person being talked about Witness your imaan increase up as you defend them as the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: whoever defends his brothers honour, Allah will protect his face from the Fire of the Day of Resurrection. (Tirmidhi) There may be that moment just before speaking up in which you hesitate, but muster up some courage: once you get the first few words out, you will feel good about doing the right thing and people will realize that they are engaging in wasteful talk. 2. Invite truth from each other Though it might be quite an outrageous act at first, you could ask the one who is gossiping to actually come with you and check the truth about what they are saying in the presence of the one they talked about! You dont really need to go and verify but this is an action which is really part of the Sunnah, for we should prevent lying about one another and tarnishing peoples reputation especially if it is based on rumours. 3. Explain its none of your concern: This is probably the hardest part we stumble upon when a group of friends slip into gossip, however we should imply that its none of the gossipers business to discuss other people affairs unless it is in a permissible manner. If you can encourage someone to not speak about others badly, then you can also tell them that it does not interest you or is irrelevant to you instead find a mutual topic of interest to discuss other than people!
Al Hasan Al Basri said: A sign that Allah has turned away from a servant is that He makes him busy with matters that are of no concern to him. 4. Put yourself in their shoes Asking the person gossiping( or even ourselves for that matter) the question: How would I feel if this vicious rumour was said about me? should make one regain some sense of integrity and put himself in the position of the one he just spoke against, hopefully repelling him/her from talking about another. 5. Change the topic If youve tried the steps above and still find someone engaging in gossip about useless matters, find something else to talk about; take the lead in bringing up a subject you know they are interested in, or ask them to tell you about themselves. 6. Leave If all else fails and youve tried to pull out all of the above tips simply excuse yourself and leave the gathering. For Allah has advised us in the Quran: When you see men engaged in vain discourse about Our Signs, turn away from them unless they turn to a different theme. If Satan ever makes you forget, then after recollection, do not sit in the company of those who do wrong. [Al-Anam 6:68] How to stop yourself from gossiping? What about if its you whos responsible for the vain talk? Hold your breath and recall these tips before saying a word. 1. Remember backbiting is a major sin in Islam and is one of the causes for entering the Hellfire. 2. Ask yourself: Would the person I am about to speak of like what Im going to say? Would I say it if the person was present? Will I feel good about myself after saying it? You can save yourself some guilt ridden apologies later by simply asking these questions to yourself. In addition, you can try to think about how you felt the last time you found out that people were speaking badly or falsely about you. 3. Is it useful for anyone to know? Allah Most High has said: Successful are the believers, who are humble in their prayers, and who turn away from pointless talk [23:1-3] And Those who do not bear witness to what is false, but when they pass by pointless talk, pass by with dignity [25:72], When they hear pointless talk, they turn away from it [28:55]
These verses describe the characteristics we should embody in speech. A top tip to help you is to cut short telephone conversations and keeping chat to essential things. 4. Is it necessary for anyone to know? Even if it is, does it require your intervention? Often it is the trick of shaytan when we indulge in backbiting, as we seem to feel better about ourselves if we downgrade others. Instead ask yourself how we can improve our own character and lives. 5. Imagine that the person you are talking about can hear everything you are saying. However, know that Allah Taala is The All-Seeing, All-Hearing, and All-Knowing. We should not forget about Day on which we will be held accountable for our deeds. Remember backbiting is a bad reflection on your own character. 6. Be mindful of the company you keep Keep away from people who usually turn to gossip. Recall the times in which you usually find yourself gossiping and keep yourself busy during that time with other tasks or even better invite friends to learn about the grave consequences of gossiping! 7. Are you 100% sure about it? Spreading false information is slander as it is creating discord and problems between Muslims. As we are told in the Quran: Why, when you heard it, did not the believing men and believing women think good of themselves [i.e. one another] and say: This is an obvious falsehood? [24:12] 8. Rejoice at the time and reward youll gain by stopping this nasty habit not to mention the good deeds you will accumulate to efface the bad ones. Youll be surprised about the time, energy, and faith boost you will gain in this life, and the reward that awaits you in the akhirah inshaAllah. 9. Look for positive qualities in people. If you really have to talk about someone whos not there, talk about how great, hardworking, funny, humble they are instead of deficiencies; as I often say we are always quick to find imperfections in others but not ourselves. 10. If you feel you have to say it to someone and that you cant keep the news for yourself, write it in your diary or on a private piece of a paper. Reread it after a couple of days and evaluate if you still want to let the world know you are not trustworthy enough to keep a confidential fact to yourself! Discard of the paper, and of the thought in your mind disciplining your thoughts to be good of others should be instilled instead. 11. Repent and make the intention to stop, you could keep the verses and ahadith about the punishment of this sin on your wallpaper or screen to remind you at work (where people politics can enter!). Lastly make duaa to Allah (Subhanahu Wa Taala)to help you and while it takes effort, dont give up:
Whosoever believes in Allaah and the Last Day, then let him speak good or remain silent. [Al-Bukhari] And the Prophet (Peace and blessings be upon him) was asked: O Messenger of Allah, which of the Muslims is best? He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: He whose tongue and hand the Muslims are safe from. [Al Bukhari and Muslim] What about if someone is gossiping about you? Send them a gift. They are providing you with rewards! Someone was told: So-and-so has gossiped about you so he sent him a dish of dates, with the message: I heard that you had given me your rewards as a gift, and I want to return the favour; please excuse me for not being able to pay back in full! Whilst this is amusing, it bears great dignity for one to befriend the one who has backbitten him To conclude, make the intention to purify your heart today by applying these practical tips to stop wasting your life on a grave act. Share other tips you have here below! About the Author Sister Jihan Anwar is a university student and a journalist working at the National Yemen Newspaper
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Remember Me and I will remember you and be grateful to Me and do not be ungrateful to Me. (Quran, Chapter# 2, Verse#152) Lets go back to the seerah for a moment the first verse revealed to our beloved Prophet (sal Allahu alayhi wa sallam) was Read, in the Name of your Lord (96:1). This verse clearly shows the immense importance of not only the word bismillah but the entire principle in itself. The verse makes us understand why Allah Subhanahu wa Taala chose the words ..in the Name of your Lord before revealing the subsequent verses of The Noble Quran. This directly corroborates the basic and fundamental Islamic etiquette that every (good) action, thought and intention is made in His name and begins with His name. The above Quranic verses should weigh heavily on our minds at all times. Success can only be achieved through the Will and Grace of Allah Subhanahu wa Taala. However, there has to be a constant effort on your part to reach that level of success. By saying Bismillah Ar-Rahman Ar-Rahim, we are invoking Allah and if Allah wills, He will impart barakah in that thing. Begin with bismillah, remember your Lord and strive to achieve excellence. Ward off laziness and procrastination (both being byproducts of the Satan). Achieve success with the perfect frame of mind. Thank Allah Subhanahu wa Taala much to obtain His mercy and Blessings in everything you wish to perform. You will soon come to realize that invoking Allahs Subhanahu wa Taala name will become more of a habit, helping you in remembering and glorifying Allah Subhanahu wa Taala at all times. Start your day with a positive frame of mind and remember Allah Subhanahu wa Taala to achieve super productivity in everything you want to achieve in life. In fact, the mere remembrance of Allah Subhanahu wa Taala will put a sense of awe and discipline in your hearts. Dhikr will automatically make you humble, placing self-discipline in our lives. For more on The Basmalah and its Blessings About the Author: Nasmeera Firdous is enthusiastic about eating healthy for a happy living and likes to write articles that would help people understand how they can lead a productive life by eating the right type of foods. She has undertaken postgraduate studies in Nutrition and Health.
hours each night for a long healthy life, whilst those on the other side believe that sleep is a waste of time and we should sleep the bare minimum to keep us going. Recently Ive started thinking about sleep in a different way which helped me resolve this dilemma; the answer seems to be the intention of sleep; if youre sleeping for dunya (that is to be completely relaxed at work, home, family and to have a long healthy life), then sleeping would be very important to you and you would ensure that you sleep a minimum of 6-8 hours each night. Sleep will become sacred and the overruling factor in most of your decisions, e.g. Should I wake up for tahajjud or sleep? Sleep! Should I wake up early to work on this important piece of work or sleep? Sleep! However, if youre sleeping for akhirah, or sleeping for the sake of Allah (Subhanahu Wa Taala), youll be sleeping just enough to give your due right to your body whilst not neglecting the fact that youre here in this world for a temporary period and youll soon return to your Lord. You would try to minimize your sleep so that it doesnt affect your worship i.e. if youre asking yourself whether you should sleep or wake up for tahajjud, you would choose to sleep less, you would choose the akhirah, where you would enjoy eternal rest. And this is the description that Allah (Subhanahu Wa Taala) gives about His slaves: They used to sleep but little by night [invoking their Lord (Allah) and praying, with fear and hope]. (Adh-Dhariyat, Chapter #51, Verse #17) Their sides forsake their beds, to invoke their Lord in fear and hope, and they spend (in charity in Allahs Cause) out of what We have bestowed on them. (AsSajdah, Chapter #32, Verse #16) Having said that, I would like to emphasize that giving due right to your body is partof the concept of sleeping for akhirah. This is evident in the hadeeth of Prophet Muhammad (Peace be upon him): (39) Narrated Abdullah bin Amr bin Al-As: Allahs Apostle said, O Abdullah! Have I not been informed that you fast all the day and stand in prayer all night? I said, Yes, O Allahs Apostle! He said, Do not do that! Observe the fast sometimes and also leave them (the fast) at other times; stand up for the prayer at night and also sleep at night. Your body has a right over you, your eyes have a right over you and your wife has a right over you. (Sahih Bukhari, Book #62, Hadith #127) Subhan Allah, how balanced and practical is a true Muslims way of life! So you should listen to your body; some days you may feel energetic and happy to sleep 3-4 hours, and youll be fine. However, some days your body will want you to sleep for 6-8 hours whilst not neglecting your obligatory duties such as salah or tending to your parents and familys needs and thats fine. Here are some practical tips regarding sleep: 1. Always prepare for sleep, check out ProductiveMuslims sleep routine.
2. If you can, have a nap before or after Zhuhr prayer to reduce the amount of sleep you need at night. 3. Record your sleep time over a course of a week to understand your sleep pattern and how to optimize it. Hope this helps! Have you been thinking about this issue? How did you resolve? Whats your sleep pattern like? And how can you make your sleep for akhira?