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The self-concept is not restricted to the present. It includes past selves and
future selves. Future selves or "possible selves" represent individuals' ideas
of what they might become, what they would like to become, and what they
are afraid of becoming. They correspond to hopes, fears, standards, goals,
and threats. Possible selves may function as incentives for future behavior
and they also provide an evaluative and interpretive context for the current
view of self.
In stating that the goal for Gestalt therapy work is self support, we put the
unblocking of a positive sense of self at the heart of the maturation process. In an
earlier paper (Korb, 1984) I described one of the reasons for the slowness of the
maturation process: the necessary change of the "core" self concept from the (to
some extent) negative and shameful (Yontef, 1993) sense of self that is learned in
childhood and reinforced by personal experiences throughout life. The mature
"core" self is basically acceptable; the sense of personal identity is positive.
Negative beliefs about the self are built up in early years of life (perhaps
before age 6) as a reaction to the input from significant others. Often this
self-concept, or sense of personal identity, is a response to the lack of
validation or the negativity and criticism (as experienced by the child) that
are addressed to him/her. Although there may be praise also, these
criticisms are built into a set of beliefs about the self that is based on the
perceived truth of the criticisms. The person will behave then in a way that
reinforces the negative concept. If I have been convinced that I am stupid, I
will behave in stupid ways—although in fact I may be quite intelligent. If I
believe that I will never amount to anything, I will sabotage any way in which
I might be successful.
Self-esteem
In psychology, self-esteem reflects a person's overall evaluation or
appraisal of her or his own worth.
Self monitoring
Self-monitoring t is a contribution to the psychology of personality,
proposed by Mark Snyder in 1974. The theory refers to the process through
which people regulate their own behavior in order to "look good" so that they
will be perceived by others in a favorable manner. It distinguishes between
high self-monitors, who monitor their behaviour to fit different situations, and
low self-monitors, who are more cross-situationally consistent. Snyder
designed a questionnaire to assess self-monitoring called the Self-Monitoring
Scale, based on the assumption that high self-monitoring could be defined as
consisting of:
1. High concern with the social appropriateness of one's actions;
5. Trait variability