Professional Documents
Culture Documents
Goals
To develop an understanding of different guidance philosophies To understand effective discipline techniques and to develop appropriate measures to use with children To gain an understanding of what factors affect childrens behaviors
A Definition of Discipline
Discipline is a positive approach to teach a child self-control and confidence. As opposed to punishment, discipline techniques focus on what we want the child to learn and what he/she is capable of learning. It is a process, not a single act.
A Definition of Punishment
Punishment focuses on the misbehavior and may do little or nothing to help a child behave better in the future. Punishing rather than disciplining teaches the child that the adult, rather than the child, is responsible for the way the child behaves
What do we expect?
Tasks of Social Development
Recognize self as separate Become responsive to others Learn right from wrong Make decisions Develop self control Learn from consequences and take responsibility for choices
Philosophies
Dreikurs Four goals of Misbehavior In order to address the misbehavior, the adult needs to understand the goal of the misbehavior
Attention Power Revenge Inadequacy
Behavior Management
The childs behavior is under the control of the environment and can be changed by the adult through some kind of environmental manipulation
Think for a moment. Is your child really capable of doing what you expect here?
If you are not being fair, re-evaluate your expectations If your expectations are clear and are developmentally appropriate
Did the child know at the time that she was doing something wrong?
If not, help her understand what you expect and why, and how she can do that. Offer your help. If the child knew that it was wrong, and she deliberately disregarded a reasonable expectation, your child misbehaved
excessive noise and stimulation, developmentally inappropriate activities and environment, NO, lack of clearly stated or enforced rules fatigue, illness, pain, allergies, inappropriate developmental guidelines
Redesigning
Stubborn Explosive.. Picky, touchy. Demanding Rebellious ---------Extreme-----------Argumentative----- Persistent Dramatic Sensitive Holds high standards Independent Tenderhearted Committed to ones goals
Discipline Techniques
The type of discipline used influences the type of person a child becomesWhat type of discipline do you use? What type of person do you want the child to become?
Specific techniques
Reinforcement: techniques used to strengthen a behavior by focusing on what is taking place Redirection: focusing on what a child is doing that is inappropriate and helping the child figure out what they CAN do
Fix-up-when children cause trouble or hurt another child, expect them to fix it up-or at least try to help. Ignore-the best way to deal with misbehavior aimed at getting your attention is to simply ignore it. But be sure to give attention to your children when they behave. Children need attention for good behavior-not just when they misbehave
Be firm: clearly and firmly state, or even demand, that the child do what needs to be done. Speak in a tone that lets the child know you mean what you say and that you expect the child to do as he is told.
Stay in control: act before the situation gets out control---before you get angry and overly frustrated and before the childs behavior becomes unreasonable
Praise and encouragement: Give more attention for good behavior and less for not-so-good behavior. Dont make punishment a reward. Catch them being good with genuine respect and praise.
Logical consequences-consequences that are arranged. Should be related to the undesirable behavior. What are logical consequences to the following situations?
Your preschool child is teasing the dog Your child borrows your tools and then leaves them out in the rain
A torn jacket is soon mendedbut harsh words wound the heart of the child. Longfellow