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JPK
19 Jun 2007
HJ MOHD UMBAIK HJ
ISMAIL
Masters in Counselling Psychology, UKM
Bac. Ed.( Guidance & Counselling, UPM
Diploma In Education Counselling, UPSI
What Is Self-Esteem?
Acceptance of ourselves, by ourselves, for who
and what we are any time in our life.
It is associated with the belief that we are
worthwhile, capable and useful no matter what
happened in our life, what is happening or
what may happen
Self-Esteem is identified by the way we act and
behave, by attitudes and beliefs we hold about
ourselves and the way we feel about ourselves
and the emotion we experience
Self-Esteem is Also
The ability to look at what we can do and
What we have done
Build on this during our lives rather than
looking at what we havent done and what
we cannot do.. And filling ourselves up
with blame and self-doubt
How Do I know If
I Have It?
Will talk and act in a confident manner
And certainly put their point of view
forward if they feel it is required or
necessary
Can deal with failure and admit when they
are wrong
Can tell ourselves that we are hopeless
and useless The reality is we are not
hopeless or useless BUT our behavior
and actions may have been at that time
PARENTS
PEERS AND FRIENDS
ACHIEVEMENTS
ENVIRONMENT
YOURSELF
Imagination &
Recall
ASSESMENT &
VALUATION
So What else
DEPRESSION
LACK OF
ACHIEVEMENT
THE POOR ME
TRAP
LIFE WASTAGE
Valuing yourself
Challenges and chances
Humor
Responsibility
Assertive
Efficiency
Sense of Belonging