TITLE

OUMH1303
Parenting
Tips
ENGLISH FOR ORAL COMMUNICATION
WHAT
DOES
IT TAKE
MAY
2014
SEMESTER
Name
: Nooraida
Binti Ali
TO
BE
A
GOOD
PARENT
Matrix No. : 650815015276001

INTRODUCTI
Good parenting helps foster empathy,
ON
honesty, self-reliance, self-control,
kindness, cooperation, and cheerfulness.
Promotes intellectual curiosity,
motivation, and desire to achieve.
Helps to protect children from
developing
anxiety, depression, eating disorders,
anti-social behaviour, and alcohol and
drug abuse.
A parent's relationship with his or her
child will be reflected in the child's

INTRODUCTI
Child Developments Facts
ON

Healthy Development
-Children of all abilities, including those with
special health care needs, are able to grow up
where their social, emotional and educational
needs are met.
Developmental Milestones
-Skills such as taking a first step, smiling for the
first time, and waving bye-bye.
-Children reach milestones in how they play, learn,
speak, behave, and move for example, crawling
and walking.
Developmental Monitoring And Screening
-Developmental screening is a short test to tell if
children are learning basic skills when they should,
or if they might have delays.

CONTE
NoteBe
Your
Kids:Role
Catch
ThemWhat
Being
Goo
A Good
Model:
You
NT Do Matters
The more
approach
is to
Young
kidseffective
learn a lot
about how
to
catch
kids
doing something
right.
act by
watching
their parents.
Statements
of compliment
will do
Model
the traits
you wish to cultivate
more
to kids;
encourage
good
behaviour
in your
respect,
friendliness,
over
the long
run than
repeated
honesty,
kindness,
tolerance.
Be aware thatscolding.
you're constantly being
Be generous
withby
rewards;
your love,
observed
your kids.
hugs, and compliments can work
wonders and are often reward enough.

CONTE
ture
e Time
Your
ForChilds
Your Kids:
Self-Esteem:
Be Involved
Sense
In The
Of
NT
Words
actions
parent affect
Manyand
parents
findas
it arewarding
to
their developing
self-esteemmore
schedule
together time
with their kids;
than
anything
spend
quality
time else.
together.
Praising accomplishments will make

Kids who aren't getting the attention

them
feel proud;
letting
kids do
things
they want
from their
parents
often
act
independently
make they're
them feel
out
or misbehavewill
because
sure
and that
strong.
tocapable
be noticed
way.
Belittling comments or comparing a

Being an involved parent takes time

childisunfavourably
with
another
will
and
hard work, and
it often
means
make kids
worthless.
rethinking
andfeel
rearranging
your
Choose yourpriorities.
words carefully and be

CONTE
et Limits And
Consistent
Show
That YourWith
LoveYour
Is Disc
NT Unconditional:
Foster Your Childs Independence
Setting
limits
helps
your child
develop
a
sense of selfHow
you
express
your
corrective
Yet
Cannot
Be
Too
Loving
control.
makes all
the
difference
in
guidance
Encouraging independence
helps
them
develop a sense
Establish
And
Rules
of self-direction.
how Set
a child
receives it.
The rules your child has learned from you are going to
Strive
nurture
and encourage,
shape
the rules to
he applies
to himself.
Establishing house rules helps kids understand your
even when disciplining your kids.
expectations and develop self-control.
Make sure they know your love is
Be Consistent
there no matter what.
If your rules vary from day to day in an unpredictable
The
fashion,
or ifproduct
you enforce of
them
only intermittently,
spoiling
a childyour
is
child's misbehaviour is your fault, not his.
never
the result
ofwhat
showing
a child too
Being consistent
teaches
you expect.
much love.

CONTE
Be
Make
Flexible
Communication
And Willing
AToPriority:
Adjust:
Avoid
Harsh
Discipline
NTYour
Adapt
Explain
Your
Parenting
Rules And
Style
Decisions
To Fit

Parents should never hit a child,

Your
Child
under
any
circumstances.
Parents
Kids'
environments
have
impact
who
reason
with an
their
kids

Athem
lotbehaviour,
ofto
evidence
spanking
on
their
so that
you and
may
be able
allow
understand
learn
in
causes
in children,
which
to
modify
that behaviour
by changing
aaggression
nonjudgmental
way.
canlead
tothe
relationship
problems
Make
your
environment.
expectations
clear;with
other
Lookexpress
for ways
your
to kids.
restructure
feelings. your
Many
to discipline
Be
surroundings
open other
to your
soways
that
child's
fewer
suggestions
things aare
child, which work
better and do not
off-limits.
as well.
involve
aggression.
Kids
As
who
your
participate
child
changes,
in decisions
you'll are
more
gradually
motivated
havetotocarry
change
them
your
out.
parenting style.

CONCLUSI
ON

Important characteristics of a good

parent are the crucial substances in
making both parent and child
harmonious.

Treat Your Child With Respect

The best way to get respectful

treatment from your child is to treat
him respectfully.
Your relationship with your child is the
foundation for her relationships with
others.
Children respond very well to
structure. Parents should consider the

CONCLUSI
Know Your Own Needs And
ON
Limitations As A Parent

You have strengths and weaknesses

as a family leader.
Recognize your abilities; vow to work
on your weaknesses.
Have realistic expectations and make
parenting a manageable job.
Take time out from parenting to do
things that will make you happy;
focusing on your needs does not make
you selfish.
Care about your own well-being,