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A disagreement or clash between ideas,
principles or people
Merriam Webster
Competitive or opposing action of Incompatibles
TRUE OR FALSE
10. Conflicts help you understand what you are like as a person
Conflicting Perceptions
Individuals disagree because they perceive events
differently
Differing ideas
Individuals have ideas that clash (e.g. women ordination)
Conflicting Values
Individuals embrace different set of values that influence
their perceptions and judgment (e.g. competency,
spirituality)
Aggressive Behavior
Individuals assert their rights while knowingly or
unknowingly deny others theirs
Personality Clashes
Personality traits of people create friction
Communication Problems
Semantic, noise, lack of clarification
Structural Problems
Line authority, specialization
Human Factors
Personality, self-esteem, budgets, we-they dichotomy
Two Responses to Conflict:
Fight or Flight
1. Fear of disruption
2. Group norms
3. Tradition
(Handout)
CONFLICT IN THE CHRUCH ?
NO WAY!
Only the innocent and nave would assume
that as Christians working in the church,
they would never get into a conflictive
setting Regardless of how hard you try
to avoid it, conflict will be your companion
in church work.
Disappointment
Blame
Sadness
Guilt
4 SUGGESTIONS
1. Avoidance
2. Competition
3. Adaptation
4. cooperation
AVOIDANCE
Some people do whatever they can to stay
away from conflicts. They believe its
easier to withdraw than to face conflict.
They believe it is hopeless to try to resolve
conflict, and easier to step back from a
conflict situation. The avoidance style
leads to a lose-lose approach.
(Handout)
Evaluating Your Conflict
Resolution Skills
(Handout)
Biblical Conflict
(Handout)
Case Studies
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