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Objectives
Aim
• To develop confidence, and the practical skills, to communicate in
a more assertive way in the work place.
Course Objectives
By the end of the course, delegates will be able to:
• Recognise the verbal and non-verbal aspects of non-assertive
and aggressive behaviour and, demonstrate appropriate use of
assertive behaviour.
• Project more confidence and demonstrate techniques on how to
be assertive with difficult people and difficult situations.
• Demonstrate ways of making difficult requests and saying “No”
without feeling guilty.
Exercise
• With the people in your group make notes of the body
language and verbal aspects of
• 1 Aggressive
• 2 Indirect aggressive
• 3 Non assertive or Passive
• 4 Assertive
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Control your inner voice
Exercise:
• Visual 55%
• Vocal 38%
• Verbal 7%
100%
I respect:
• The thoughts of others
• The feelings of others
• The behaviour of others
(K&K Back)
Saying “No” without feeling
Guilty:
• Have you recently been in a situation where you
have had you say “No” to a request?
• How did you say it ?
• What made it so difficult?
• How did you feel afterwards?
Saying “No” without feeling
Guilty:
Tips:
• Examine your beliefs;
• Keep the reply short , use the word “No”
• Give the real reason for refusing;
• Avoid “I can’t” phrases and don’t apologise profusely;
• Acknowledge the requester;
• Identify yourself with the decision - not rules, precedents;
• If you need it - ask for clarification or more time to think;
• Think about your non-verbal communication.
(K&K Back)
Saying “No” without feeling
Guilty:
If the requester becomes persistent:
• Repeat your refusal;
• Don’t search for ‘better’ reasons - stick to the
original reason.
• Or, use the Broken-Record Technique
Dealing with Put downs
Objectives
Aim
• To develop confidence, and the practical skills, to communicate in
a more assertive way in the work place.
Course Objectives
By the end of the course, delegates will be able to:
• Recognise the verbal and non-verbal aspects of non-assertive
and aggressive behaviour and, demonstrate appropriate use of
assertive behaviour.
• Project more confidence and demonstrate techniques on how to
be assertive with difficult people and difficult situations.
• Demonstrate ways of making difficult requests and saying “No”
without feeling guilty.